FabSwingers.com forum: whats britains problem with breastfeeding

By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

????

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't think the whole country has a problem.

Perhaps we should have everyone cover their heads with a napkin when eating? All the babies are doing is eating.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Does Britain have a problem with it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breasts have been sexualised by the media, and by the weather making us cover them up. Plus Nestle make a nice tidy profit from selling fake 'breast' milk.

That's the only explanation i can think of when someone says breastfeeding should be hidden coz it's disgusting...i mean what idiot thinks not publicly feeding a child its natural source of food is good for society?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

there isn't a 'problem'..

in fact I think that there is protection on the statute against discrimination against breast feeding mothers..

if i'm wrong i'll sit in the corner..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"????"

Eh? Nah.

I've breastfed in public and never had an issue.

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By *erseyridersCouple
over a year ago

wallasey

its a prudish country ,,they think babies shud only b fed indoors ,,,,round of applause 4 the ladies that do breastfeed ,,

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

If breasts have been sexualised by the media does that mean that pre printing press no one noticed hooooj hooters ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem with it at all, I do think the lady breastfeeding should cover up due to the perves out there, v but covering should not be thrust upon the poor was a it should be up to her whether she does it or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Britain doesn't have a problem with breastfeeding ...... Britain, and the Daily Mail have a problem with women who want to make a statement and stick it in peoples faces.

For fucks sake breastfeeding is the most natural thing in the world but so is farting and shagging but I wouldn't go slap bang into a public place and wilfully shove it in peoples faces !

It's all about being discrete and not making a song and dance over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does Britain have a problem with it ?"

No, the Daily Mail does though ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If breasts have been sexualised by the media does that mean that pre printing press no one noticed hooooj hooters ?"

Probably not, but no-one was shamed for using them to feed a child.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Britain doesn't have a problem with breastfeeding ...... Britain, and the Daily Mail have a problem with women who want to make a statement and stick it in peoples faces.

For fucks sake breastfeeding is the most natural thing in the world but so is farting and shagging but I wouldn't go slap bang into a public place and wilfully shove it in peoples faces !

It's all about being discrete and not making a song and dance over it."

The voice of good sense.

Completely baffles us why such a scene is made of it. Both of our children were breastfed for 6 months. Not once ever was there an issue. Having said that when they were fed no tts were flipped out overtly in the middle of a restaurant either.

You can breastfeed and 99% of people around you will never notice.

Or..... You can choose to be in-discreet and make a big issue of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about being discrete and not making a song and dance over it.

You can breastfeed and 99% of people around you will never notice.

Or..... You can choose to be in-discreet and make a big issue of it."

exactly. It's the ones that make a big song and dance and a huge massive issue about it that causes the problems. Most women will just get on with it and those around them will not notice a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem here there feeding baby simple !!!! It's media , politicians and narrow minded people that have a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Britain doesn't have a problem with breastfeeding ...... Britain, and the Daily Mail have a problem with women who want to make a statement and stick it in peoples faces.

For fucks sake breastfeeding is the most natural thing in the world but so is farting and shagging but I wouldn't go slap bang into a public place and wilfully shove it in peoples faces !

It's all about being discrete and not making a song and dance over it.

The voice of good sense.

You can breastfeed and 99% of people around you will never notice.

Or..... You can choose to be in-discreet and make a big issue of it."

I was discreet about it, was still asked to sit in the toilet at church to feed my son. No not everyone is ok with discreet, i disagree. Some people are just weird and think that it's not ok to publicly feed a child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no problem, its just the odd 1 or 2 nutters that make a scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Britain doesn't have a problem with breastfeeding ...... Britain, and the Daily Mail have a problem with women who want to make a statement and stick it in peoples faces.

For fucks sake breastfeeding is the most natural thing in the world but so is farting and shagging but I wouldn't go slap bang into a public place and wilfully shove it in peoples faces !

It's all about being discrete and not making a song and dance over it.

The voice of good sense.

You can breastfeed and 99% of people around you will never notice.

Or..... You can choose to be in-discreet and make a big issue of it.

Omg no in the toilet bang out of order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Britain doesn't have a problem with breastfeeding ...... Britain, and the Daily Mail have a problem with women who want to make a statement and stick it in peoples faces.

For fucks sake breastfeeding is the most natural thing in the world but so is farting and shagging but I wouldn't go slap bang into a public place and wilfully shove it in peoples faces !

It's all about being discrete and not making a song and dance over it."

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Britain doesn't have a problem with breastfeeding ...... Britain, and the Daily Mail have a problem with women who want to make a statement and stick it in peoples faces.

For fucks sake breastfeeding is the most natural thing in the world but so is farting and shagging but I wouldn't go slap bang into a public place and wilfully shove it in peoples faces !

It's all about being discrete and not making a song and dance over it.

The voice of good sense.

You can breastfeed and 99% of people around you will never notice.

Or..... You can choose to be in-discreet and make a big issue of it.

Omg no in the toilet bang out of order"

Thanks, one of the church members sat with me so i wouldn't be on my own. I left church not long afterwards because of that and several other things i wasn't happy about. Was fairly young at the time and having a newborn makes you vulnerable and i was easily bullied. Wouldn't put up with that kind of stuff now.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Britain doesn't have a problem with breastfeeding ...... Britain, and the Daily Mail have a problem with women who want to make a statement and stick it in peoples faces.

For fucks sake breastfeeding is the most natural thing in the world but so is farting and shagging but I wouldn't go slap bang into a public place and wilfully shove it in peoples faces !

It's all about being discrete and not making a song and dance over it.

The voice of good sense.

You can breastfeed and 99% of people around you will never notice.

Or..... You can choose to be in-discreet and make a big issue of it.

We never said everyone was ok with discreet. We said 99% wouldn't notice if it was done discreetly.

Can't say I ever tried to breastfeed in a church though. Clearly being asked to breastfeed in a toilet is rediculous. If that had been the case we would have simply left and never returned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Britain doesn't have a problem with breastfeeding ...... Britain, and the Daily Mail have a problem with women who want to make a statement and stick it in peoples faces.

For fucks sake breastfeeding is the most natural thing in the world but so is farting and shagging but I wouldn't go slap bang into a public place and wilfully shove it in peoples faces !

It's all about being discrete and not making a song and dance over it.

The voice of good sense.

You can breastfeed and 99% of people around you will never notice.

Or..... You can choose to be in-discreet and make a big issue of it.

We never said everyone was ok with discreet. We said 99% wouldn't notice if it was done discreetly.

Can't say I ever tried to breastfeed in a church though. Clearly being asked to breastfeed in a toilet is rediculous. If that had been the case we would have simply left and never returned."

I never said you said that, was pointing out that even being discreet can cause a problem and does. I don't think it's as huge of a problem as the media makes out, but if just one person tries to shame someone else into going against what they feel is natural (and is harmless, or more so with breastfeeding is essential) then i think that that one person should be pointed out as wrong and does exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had never thought of it that Britain has a problem. Some narrow-minded individuals & some newspapers may have an issue with it, but in almost all cases, mum will be as discrete as possible. Most natural thing in the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here."

Some pictures more than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babies who bring their own drink into licensed premises should have to pay corkage, just like us adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

Some pictures more than others

Yes indeed, you get all sorts on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here."

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

"Britain doesn't have a problem with breastfeeding ...... Britain, and the Daily Mail have a problem with women who want to make a statement and stick it in peoples faces.

For fucks sake breastfeeding is the most natural thing in the world but so is farting and shagging but I wouldn't go slap bang into a public place and wilfully shove it in peoples faces !

It's all about being discrete and not making a song and dance over it."

I have encountered both people who have praised me when doing it and people who had a go. At all times feeding was completed with discretion.

Of the ones that complained, both were women. I appreciate them not wanting to see my breast, and*shock horror* they didn't see my breast- but the idea they might was too much for them.i guess its their 'right' to feel that way; as it was mine to fed my child on my breast. We live a society where everyone has rights and freedoms, and this just another people like to get controversial over(on both sides of the arguments)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

Yes it does believe it or not.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here."

then don't eat whilst looking at things that may put you off..

or vice versa..

not rocket science is it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

then don't eat whilst looking at things that may put you off..

or vice versa..

not rocket science is it.."

Except if im in a café or pub whatever why the hell should I have to be put off my food because of some selfish inconsiderate tit natzi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

then don't eat whilst looking at things that may put you off..

or vice versa..

not rocket science is it..

Except if im in a café or pub whatever why the hell should I have to be put off my food because of some selfish inconsiderate tit natzi."

Ahh, have a heart. Think of the poor starving baby watching you scoff away. Surely you wouldn't deny it a splash of mum's milk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

then don't eat whilst looking at things that may put you off..

or vice versa..

not rocket science is it..

Except if im in a café or pub whatever why the hell should I have to be put off my food because of some selfish inconsiderate tit natzi."

As someone else said, simply look away.

And selfish? Fucking do me a favour. What makes you think you're more superior than they are? They have every right being there as much as the next person.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

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"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

then don't eat whilst looking at things that may put you off..

or vice versa..

not rocket science is it..

Except if im in a café or pub whatever why the hell should I have to be put off my food because of some selfish inconsiderate tit natzi."

its Nazi, surprised you don't know that..

are you for real that a glimpse of a woman's breast when a child is feeding puts you off your food..?

its the most natural thing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

then don't eat whilst looking at things that may put you off..

or vice versa..

not rocket science is it..

Except if im in a café or pub whatever why the hell should I have to be put off my food because of some selfish inconsiderate tit natzi.

Ahh, have a heart. Think of the poor starving baby watching you scoff away. Surely you wouldn't deny it a splash of mum's milk."

Yes I would, buy a milking machine then use a bottle. or stay at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

then don't eat whilst looking at things that may put you off..

or vice versa..

not rocket science is it..

Except if im in a café or pub whatever why the hell should I have to be put off my food because of some selfish inconsiderate tit natzi.

its Nazi, surprised you don't know that..

are you for real that a glimpse of a woman's breast when a child is feeding puts you off your food..?

its the most natural thing..

Yes its Nazi, and yes lots of others happen to agree with me, I guess it could be because they aren't on swingers sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

then don't eat whilst looking at things that may put you off..

or vice versa..

not rocket science is it..

Except if im in a café or pub whatever why the hell should I have to be put off my food because of some selfish inconsiderate tit natzi.

Ahh, have a heart. Think of the poor starving baby watching you scoff away. Surely you wouldn't deny it a splash of mum's milk.

Yes I would, buy a milking machine then use a bottle. or stay at home."

Most people wouldn't though, and they don't need to because breasts are convenient and designed exactly for feeding a baby whenever it's hungry. They actually change the amount, and type of milk needed for the child(ren) using them. Using a machine, permanently, could mess that up.

What's going on in your head isn't real, it isn't disgusting, its what breasts are for. Maybe study the breasts, anatomically, and you won't be against the idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

then don't eat whilst looking at things that may put you off..

or vice versa..

not rocket science is it..

Except if im in a café or pub whatever why the hell should I have to be put off my food because of some selfish inconsiderate tit natzi.

Ahh, have a heart. Think of the poor starving baby watching you scoff away. Surely you wouldn't deny it a splash of mum's milk.

Yes I would, buy a milking machine then use a bottle. or stay at home.

What's going on in your head isn't real, it isn't disgusting, its what breasts are for. Maybe study the breasts, anatomically, and you won't be against the idea?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

then don't eat whilst looking at things that may put you off..

or vice versa..

not rocket science is it..

Except if im in a café or pub whatever why the hell should I have to be put off my food because of some selfish inconsiderate tit natzi."

If it puts you off you food why not just leave and shut the door on the way out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

then don't eat whilst looking at things that may put you off..

or vice versa..

not rocket science is it..

Except if im in a café or pub whatever why the hell should I have to be put off my food because of some selfish inconsiderate tit natzi.

its Nazi, surprised you don't know that..

are you for real that a glimpse of a woman's breast when a child is feeding puts you off your food..?

its the most natural thing..

Yes its Nazi, and yes lots of others happen to agree with me, I guess it could be because they aren't on swingers sites."

Perhaps the word "Nazi" is out of place here? Breastfeeding mothers do not engage in mass murder.

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By *veready 500Man
over a year ago

st,neots

its the most natural thing in the world, a mother feeding her child,

how can any idiot have a problem with that ? .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trololol"

People always say that when they don't think the same way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its the most natural thing in the world, a mother feeding her child,

how can any idiot have a problem with that ? .

Takes one to know one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't got a problem with it, love to see breastfeeding in public, such a turn on as well. I am a Swedish guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't got a problem with it, love to see breastfeeding in public, such a turn on as well. I am a Swedish guy

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"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here."
Would they be your pictures?...which are you referring too?

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"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

then don't eat whilst looking at things that may put you off..

or vice versa..

not rocket science is it..

Except if im in a café or pub whatever why the hell should I have to be put off my food because of some selfish inconsiderate tit natzi.

its Nazi, surprised you don't know that..

are you for real that a glimpse of a woman's breast when a child is feeding puts you off your food..?

its the most natural thing..

Yes its Nazi, and yes lots of others happen to agree with me, I guess it could be because they aren't on swingers sites.

Perhaps the word "Nazi" is out of place here? Breastfeeding mothers do not engage in mass murder."

Google it on urban dictionary, its a well known phrase.

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We were too late Legs!

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By (user no longer on site)
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"We were too late Legs!

I saw it and deleting was a wise move!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

then don't eat whilst looking at things that may put you off..

or vice versa..

not rocket science is it..

Except if im in a café or pub whatever why the hell should I have to be put off my food because of some selfish inconsiderate tit natzi.

its Nazi, surprised you don't know that..

are you for real that a glimpse of a woman's breast when a child is feeding puts you off your food..?

its the most natural thing..

Yes its Nazi, and yes lots of others happen to agree with me, I guess it could be because they aren't on swingers sites.

Perhaps the word "Nazi" is out of place here? Breastfeeding mothers do not engage in mass murder.

Google it on urban dictionary, its a well known phrase.

Googled it and nothing, doesn't seem to be such a word as Natzi???

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I don't got a problem with it, love to see breastfeeding in public, such a turn on as well. I am a Swedish guy

so one hand you find it puts you off your food yet that it turns a guy on is funny..

try and be consistent at least Hilda

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By (user no longer on site)
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"We were too late Legs!

I saw it and deleting was a wise move!

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"We were too late Legs!

I saw it and deleting was a wise move!

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By *ipsTeaserCouple
over a year ago

here and there, thereabouts

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

then don't eat whilst looking at things that may put you off..

or vice versa..

not rocket science is it..

Except if im in a café or pub whatever why the hell should I have to be put off my food because of some selfish inconsiderate tit natzi."

Id suggest if the sight of a child feeding evokes such a strong reaction in you leave the area any time any women who looks remotely like a tit natzi appears.... Basically, any woman in any vicinity to a pram potentially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

then don't eat whilst looking at things that may put you off..

or vice versa..

not rocket science is it..

Except if im in a café or pub whatever why the hell should I have to be put off my food because of some selfish inconsiderate tit natzi.

its Nazi, surprised you don't know that..

are you for real that a glimpse of a woman's breast when a child is feeding puts you off your food..?

its the most natural thing..

Yes its Nazi, and yes lots of others happen to agree with me, I guess it could be because they aren't on swingers sites.

Perhaps the word "Nazi" is out of place here? Breastfeeding mothers do not engage in mass murder.

Google it on urban dictionary, its a well known phrase.

Googled it and nothing, doesn't seem to be such a word as Natzi???

No, Nazi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't got a problem with it, love to see breastfeeding in public, such a turn on as well. I am a Swedish guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were too late Legs!

I saw it and deleting was a wise move!

Heheh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't got a problem with it, love to see breastfeeding in public, such a turn on as well. I am a Swedish guy

so one hand you find it puts you off your food yet that it turns a guy on is funny..

try and be consistent at least Hilda"

At least he is being honest.

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By *veready 500Man
over a year ago

st,neots

i may be an idiot,

but try telling that to all the mums that are trying to promote breast feeding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't got a problem with it, love to see breastfeeding in public, such a turn on as well. I am a Swedish guy

so one hand you find it puts you off your food yet that it turns a guy on is funny..

try and be consistent at least Hilda

At least he is being honest.

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That's right and good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i may be an idiot,

but try telling that to all the mums that are trying to promote breast feeding."

They don't need to though, every idiot knows about these little things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i may be an idiot,

but try telling that to all the mums that are trying to promote breast feeding."

And possibly the Department of Health, UNICEF, the World Health Organisation and not forgetting the Natzis, sorry, I mean the Nazis of course??.....no, not the Nazis?

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By (user no longer on site)
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"i may be an idiot,

but try telling that to all the mums that are trying to promote breast feeding.

And possibly the Department of Health, UNICEF, the World Health Organisation and not forgetting the Natzis, sorry, I mean the Nazis of course??.....no, not the Nazis?

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By (user no longer on site)
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"i may be an idiot,

but try telling that to all the mums that are trying to promote breast feeding.

And possibly the Department of Health, UNICEF, the World Health Organisation and not forgetting the Natzis, sorry, I mean the Nazis of course??.....no, not the Nazis?

Lots of people make spelling mistakes on here don't they.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

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"I don't got a problem with it, love to see breastfeeding in public, such a turn on as well. I am a Swedish guy

so one hand you find it puts you off your food yet that it turns a guy on is funny..

try and be consistent at least Hilda

At least he is being honest.

That's right and good point

Shag m8, my comment wasn't about you being honest or otherwise its about Hilda being on one of her 'avoid answering and deflect in order to prolong the entertainment' ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't got a problem with it, love to see breastfeeding in public, such a turn on as well. I am a Swedish guy

so one hand you find it puts you off your food yet that it turns a guy on is funny..

try and be consistent at least Hilda

At least he is being honest.

That's right and good point

Shag m8, my comment wasn't about you being honest or otherwise its about Hilda being on one of her 'avoid answering and deflect in order to prolong the entertainment' ..

Really

actualy im just saying what I think, sorry it bothers you so much.

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over a year ago

"I don't got a problem with it, love to see breastfeeding in public, such a turn on as well. I am a Swedish guy

so one hand you find it puts you off your food yet that it turns a guy on is funny..

try and be consistent at least Hilda

At least he is being honest.

That's right and good point

Shag m8, my comment wasn't about you being honest or otherwise its about Hilda being on one of her 'avoid answering and deflect in order to prolong the entertainment' ..

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Ah right I see pal. I don't mind it myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bleep bleep delete bleep

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Mad world aint it! Boobs are actually there for this... And no one worries bout drinking milk that comes from a cows Tit!

Yeap some do have a problem with it... And think its ok ta send ya off to feed ya baby in a loo! Crazy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mad world aint it! Boobs are actually there for this... And no one worries bout drinking milk that comes from a cows Tit!

Yeap some do have a problem with it... And think its ok ta send ya off to feed ya baby in a loo! Crazy!!

Years ago when I had young children I used to teach other mums to support breastfeeding women and one of the greatest retorts to people saying breastfeeding made them heave was this "would you rather feed your child the juice of an animal that stands in a field all day shitting down its legs?" Not very appealing is it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind a baby being breastfed in a restaurant, but any accompanying screaming or vomiting would make us head for the door and letting the waiter know we won't be paying for a spoilt meal. In the interests of equality, the screaming or vomiting clause also applies to adults.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"Mad world aint it! Boobs are actually there for this... And no one worries bout drinking milk that comes from a cows Tit!

Yeap some do have a problem with it... And think its ok ta send ya off to feed ya baby in a loo! Crazy!!

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't mind a baby being breastfed in a restaurant, but any accompanying screaming or vomiting would make us head for the door and letting the waiter know we won't be paying for a spoilt meal. In the interests of equality, the screaming or vomiting clause also applies to adults."

Equality doesn't work like that though.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I don't know if I mentioned it at all, but I've just been in Iceland (the country, not the freezer shop) and I saw a sign outside a pub which said "Breastfeeding mums welcome, we love babies and boobies"...it did make me smile

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

I don't know why anybody has a problem with what is the most natural thing in the world. Just because we're humans doesn't make it any different to dogs, cows, kittens etc etc and I think you'll agree they are all very cute when suckling.

I just love to see a woman breast feeding, not in a kinky way, just pleased that they made the decision to breast feed their child. This is because I know, first hand, how fucking difficult it is to do. It's certainly not an easy option.

It is however, the best thing you can do for your baby and for yourself when you've just given birth.

I breast fed three children for a total of four years. It was messy, painful, a terrible tie but I am so proud to say that none of my children had 1 fl oz of formula. Ever. They have also never had a bottle - straight on the sippy cup at age 6 months.

I have no issue with any woman breast feeding anywhere, as long as it's discrete.

During my time breast feeding I only had one strange event happen. I was having lunch with my sister and left the table to go to the loo, left the baby with her. A woman across the room went over and told my sister that she thought it was disgusting that I was feeding my 4 week old in there. My sister suggested that she should take her coffee and drink it in the lavatories.

It made me more determined than ever to fee in public!

On one occasion, queuing up at Xmas time, I had the baby under my sweatshirt, feeding. A lady pulled my top up to tak a look without asking and was mortified. I wasn't even slightly embarrased! She was though.

It's a personal thing but I do think if more people stuck with it, and did it in public, the younger generation would start to see it as normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cant get fitter than a breast fed nipper

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't get Farage full stop. His rant about woman breastfeeding in public shows his warped mind and set of values.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt feed my daughter (partly because she wouldnt latch on) and was made to feel like some sort of pariah. And seeing it in public makes me uncomfortable BUT each to their own, live and let live

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I have no problem with women breastfeeding their babs in public.

I can count 4 times (I think), the times i've noticed them doing it... but not seen any nip (and about twice I really looked hard!!)

Tje 'flop yer tits out in the middle of a cafe, on someones doorstep or a packed tube' I have never seen. Would I be comfortable with that in Britain? Prolly not. In Germany, Russia or Nigeria - I wouldn't bat an eyelid.

Thats just to give you an indication, I am more led by the whole environment, rather than the natural act of feeding a child.

The people of Britain are campaigning to get page 3 banned cause its degrading.

Of course 'we' are going to be up in arms about the remotest chance of a flash of nip in public when theres no alcohol or us getting our hands on it involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got no issue with breast feeding, but as a previous poster said some things require some discretion. I got asked to leave the church for munching my sarnies and checking the football scores during a service. No not really but I would expect to.

find a discreet spot before feeding is not too much to ask surely? To those who say it has to be done there and then I ask would you do it while driving down a motorway?

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

It's the repressed puritan values of of those who think that sex is dirty and anything to do with it is evil that have a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get Farage full stop. His rant about woman breastfeeding in public shows his warped mind and set of values. "
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You know that woman that ranted on question time about farage.

Sometimes it gets a bit too much, he didn't rant about breastfeeding, the dj asked him about an incident in claridges and he responded with the remark that he didn't have a problem with it personally but there maybe some people out there that do, that the sensible thing would have been if claridges had asked her to move into a quieter spot to do it and not wrap the napkin around her like they did.

Either way he was asked his opinion on something that had happened in real life.... That's not exactly ranting in my book.

People that constantly write... That fucking Nigel farage and them Nazi ukip twats have just.... That's ranting

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"Got no issue with breast feeding, but as a previous poster said some things require some discretion. I got asked to leave the church for munching my sarnies and checking the football scores during a service. No not really but I would expect to.

find a discreet spot before feeding is not too much to ask surely? To those who say it has to be done there and then I ask would you do it while driving down a motorway?"

I completely agree here

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here."

You get put off your food a lot then ?

Really ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Britain doesn't have a problem with breastfeeding ...... Britain, and the Daily Mail have a problem with women who want to make a statement and stick it in peoples faces.

For fucks sake breastfeeding is the most natural thing in the world but so is farting and shagging but I wouldn't go slap bang into a public place and wilfully shove it in peoples faces !

It's all about being discrete and not making a song and dance over it.

The voice of good sense.

You can breastfeed and 99% of people around you will never notice.

Or..... You can choose to be in-discreet and make a big issue of it."

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trololol

People always say that when they don't think the same way."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said , I never had an issue when breast feeding, but I always did it discreetly. Slap bang in the midst of a busy restaurant wouldn't be my choice. I used to pick a quiet table in the corner somewhere. Done well - no one tends to even notice you are doing it. It's one of the most natural and beautiful things in the world plus so beneficial to babies so I'm all for it. I think it should be permitted wherever you are, but can understand that others prefer it done discreetly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who don't like screaming babies in restaurants should be really encouraging all breast feeding mums!

It's bottle fed babies who scream and cry a lot.

Any time mine screamed, breast feeding shut them up instantly. It's more than food for them. It's food, a drink, comfort, and it even helps regulate their temperature, and adapts to the climate (if the weather is hot the breast milk thins out and becomes more watery and in colder weather it becomes more nutrient dense as a baby tends to drink less then).

I breastfed two very wriggly, irritable boys until the age of two and a half.

I stopped feeding out anywhere after they were about a year old.

Anyone who's fed an older than newborn baby knows a cover doesn't usually work because the kid rips it off you and launches it. They like to climb upside down and shove a foot in your face.

And tandem feeding twins was never gonna be discrete. I always tried to feed one after the other when we were out and just prayed like MAD that the non-feeding one wouldn't cry.

Weirdly no one ever complained. My husband was quite disappointed because he was quite looking forward to someone attempting to tell me not to feed my kids. Lol

I grew up around my mums friends who breastfed when I was a kid. I think seeing it as a child normalised it for me.

I think the more people who see it, the less people will find it strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Masterbating is the most natural thing to do,I took the kids too the zoo, there was loads of monkeys just sat around on the grass wanking.

I'm still not sure I'd want someone doing it while I'm eating a Sunday lunch with my family

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"Masterbating is the most natural thing to do,I took the kids too the zoo, there was loads of monkeys just sat around on the grass wanking.

I'm still not sure I'd want someone doing it while I'm eating a Sunday lunch with my family"

Do monkeys actually masturbate

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

"Masterbating is the most natural thing to do,I took the kids too the zoo, there was loads of monkeys just sat around on the grass wanking.

I'm still not sure I'd want someone doing it while I'm eating a Sunday lunch with my family

Do monkeys actually masturbate"

Go look in the chat rooms, a lot of the single male ones do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With breast feeding you often have the baby permanently attached to you as well.

It's not about feeding them once every four hours. Some days they are literally feeding for several hours without a break! Especially during illness or a growth spurt. (Oh how I hated the growth spurts.)

So short of not going outside for six months to a year you are going to have to feed out sometime.

And as for expressing milk - I tried a few times and it effectively meant I was feeding three babies - the twins and expressing to build up milk for the freezer stockpile as well. I became exhausted and the breast pump ended up giving me very painful blocked ducts and mastitis (which is lots of pain and also feels like the flu and can be very dangerous unless treated quickly).

So expressing milk is not an easy or quick fix option for some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Masterbating is the most natural thing to do,I took the kids too the zoo, there was loads of monkeys just sat around on the grass wanking.

I'm still not sure I'd want someone doing it while I'm eating a Sunday lunch with my family

Do monkeys actually masturbate"
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Are you being serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Masterbating is the most natural thing to do,I took the kids too the zoo, there was loads of monkeys just sat around on the grass wanking.

I'm still not sure I'd want someone doing it while I'm eating a Sunday lunch with my family

Do monkeys actually masturbate.

Are you being serious

Are you seriously comparing monkeys wanking to women breastfeeding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get Farage full stop. His rant about woman breastfeeding in public shows his warped mind and set of values. .

You know that woman that ranted on question time about farage.

Either way he was asked his opinion on something that had happened in real life.... That's not exactly ranting in my book.

People that constantly write... That fucking Nigel farage and them Nazi ukip twats have just.... That's ranting

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I don't got a problem with it, love to see breastfeeding in public, such a turn on as well. I am a Swedish guy

This is exactly why some people have a problem with breast feeding in public.

Some including the ones who complain about it only think of breasts in a sexual way instead of realising they are there to provide food for babies.

In truth it says more about the complainers than the women who breastfeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Masterbating is the most natural thing to do,I took the kids too the zoo, there was loads of monkeys just sat around on the grass wanking.

I'm still not sure I'd want someone doing it while I'm eating a Sunday lunch with my family

Do monkeys actually masturbate.

Are you being serious

Are you seriously comparing monkeys wanking to women breastfeeding

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Yes, that's my argument that wanking is as natural as the sunrise and I want the right to wank in parks and pubs

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't mind it all, it wouldn't bother until I thought it was grandstanding and looking for the shockability of it all....

thankfully most will do so in a dignified manner.

good luck to both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem with mother breastfeeding her child in public. It is lovely bond from mother and child together !!! I dont mind guys breastfeeding my tities lol (in fun times lol)

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

monkeys wanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't got a problem with it, love to see breastfeeding in public, such a turn on as well. I am a Swedish guy

This is exactly why some people have a problem with breast feeding in public.

Some including the ones who complain about it only think of breasts in a sexual way instead of realising they are there to provide food for babies.

In truth it says more about the complainers than the women who breastfeed."
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That's probably because human females evolved breasts to attract a mate!.

If men weren't interested in them, they wouldn't have evolved with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"monkeys wanking

Well monkeys masturbating didn't sound quite right to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This really gets my back up. Breastfeeding is the most natural and beautiful thing ever. Why should a mother and baby be made to sit in a corner of a room with a napkin over a babies head. Why should mother and baby be made to sit in a toilet out of sight. Would any of us sit there eating in a public loo or with a napkin over our face, i think not.

I can remember many years ago when out for lunch one day in a well known restaurant the manager came over and asked a woman to feed her baby in a loo. I was gobsmacked and disgusted he asked her. I got my coat and left. But before i did i complained to the manager about the way he treated the nursing mother. I have never stepped foot in that chain of restaurants again. I personally find it discriminating

Sorry fir the rant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Masterbating is the most natural thing to do,I took the kids too the zoo, there was loads of monkeys just sat around on the grass wanking.

I'm still not sure I'd want someone doing it while I'm eating a Sunday lunch with my family

Do monkeys actually masturbate.

Are you being serious

Are you seriously comparing monkeys wanking to women breastfeeding

Yes, that's my argument that wanking is as natural as the sunrise and I want the right to wank in parks and pubs

Yes and if people complain just say its your right to do something that's perfectly natural and if they don't like it they don't have to look.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

If you are going to join in please just discuss posts and not attack the poster.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Britain doesn't have a problem with breastfeeding ...... Britain, and the Daily Mail have a problem with women who want to make a statement and stick it in peoples faces.

For fucks sake breastfeeding is the most natural thing in the world but so is farting and shagging but I wouldn't go slap bang into a public place and wilfully shove it in peoples faces !

It's all about being discrete and not making a song and dance over it."

This for me too.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I don't get Farage full stop. His rant about woman breastfeeding in public shows his warped mind and set of values. .

You know that woman that ranted on question time about farage.

Either way he was asked his opinion on something that had happened in real life.... That's not exactly ranting in my book.

I thought this too...from the clip I saw it wasn't a rant at all, just an answer to a question.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I don't got a problem with it, love to see breastfeeding in public, such a turn on as well. I am a Swedish guy

This is exactly why some people have a problem with breast feeding in public.

Some including the ones who complain about it only think of breasts in a sexual way instead of realising they are there to provide food for babies.

In truth it says more about the complainers than the women who breastfeed..

That's probably because human females evolved breasts to attract a mate!.

If men weren't interested in them, they wouldn't have evolved with them.

Or another theory as no one knows for sure...

the study The Evolution of the Human Beast (2001) proposed that the rounded shape of a woman's breast evolved to prevent the sucking infant offspring from suffocating while feeding at the teat; that is, because of the human infant's small jaw, which did not project from the face to reach the nipple, he or she might block the nostrils against the mother's breast if it were of a flatter form (cf. chimpanzee); theoretically, as the human jaw receded into the face, the woman's body compensated with round breasts

So possibly woman's boobs have evolved to stick out unlike other animals etc to make it easier for babies to get their lunch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't got a problem with it, love to see breastfeeding in public, such a turn on as well. I am a Swedish guy

This is exactly why some people have a problem with breast feeding in public.

Some including the ones who complain about it only think of breasts in a sexual way instead of realising they are there to provide food for babies.

In truth it says more about the complainers than the women who breastfeed..

That's probably because human females evolved breasts to attract a mate!.

If men weren't interested in them, they wouldn't have evolved with them.

Or another theory as no one knows for sure...

So possibly woman's boobs have evolved to stick out unlike other animals etc to make it easier for babies to get their lunch! "
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That was a study on what shape the breast was not why you have them in the first place.

Your right no one knows for sure but the best theory is that they evolved (ie had them all the time and not just while pregnant like most primates)to look like your ass which was the main driver for mate attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

You get put off your food a lot then ?

Really ?

No not just food, my coffee or any other drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

You get put off your food a lot then ?

Really ?

No not just food, my coffee or any other drink."

Milk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

You get put off your food a lot then ?

Really ?

No not just food, my coffee or any other drink."

You crack me up. Merry xmas Hilda. x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I don't have a problem with it. If I were having my lunch, I can hardly object to a baby having his.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.Would they be your pictures?...which are you referring too?

No I like my pictures, I just don't like a lot of other ones on here though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've shown more of my breasts in low cut tops than I ever did breastfeeding. No one asked me to cover up then...

Genuinely don't see what all the fuss is about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've shown more of my breasts in low cut tops than I ever did breastfeeding. No one asked me to cover up then...

Genuinely don't see what all the fuss is about

That's different though. most people aren't going to object to that are they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

Yes it does believe it or not.

Why would it... I have breastfed all my children.. anywhere, any time and have been asked to stop a few Times.. I just refused.

Its not like you can see anything and no different to someone sitting feeding a baby with a bottle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what all the fuss is about and according to Mr farage he doesn't know what all the fuss is about either so what we're actually talking about should be whether someone has the legal right to breastfeed anywhere!.

And that's where I'm with Mr farage I'm afraid even though im pro breastfeeding and pro doing it anywhere, I just don't think it should be law.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem, I'm my opinion, is because boobs have been sexualised a lot see getting them out in public pretty much the same as they would if you got your arse out in public, but boobs are not a sexual object we turned them into that, they are there for feeding children and that's the only reason they evolved, If people remembered that a lot less people would be offended by a perfectly normal and natural action than what are, in many countries breast feeding is seen as everyday life shame our culture can't be the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breastfeeding can be done discreetly. I breastfed mine in public and 99% of the time nobody realised x

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

Yes it does believe it or not.

Why would it... I have breastfed all my children.. anywhere, any time and have been asked to stop a few Times.. I just refused.

Its not like you can see anything and no different to someone sitting feeding a baby with a bottle "

me too, if my child needed feeding I fed her, end of, and if anyone objected I'd just take longer over it to piss them off more, nobodies telling me I can't feed my hungry child, why should people have the rights to tell you where and when you can feed your kids, there isn't always feeding rooms available and many times the only option is where you are or a public toilet, how many on here would eat their dinner in a public toilet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The problem, I'm my opinion, is because boobs have been sexualised a lot see getting them out in public pretty much the same as they would if you got your arse out in public, but boobs are not a sexual object we turned them into that, they are there for feeding children and that's the only reason they evolved, If people remembered that a lot less people would be offended by a perfectly normal and natural action than what are, in many countries breast feeding is seen as everyday life shame our culture can't be the same "

It doesn't really matter if they have been sexualised or not, some people just don't want to have to see it in public places, its the way some mothers think they have a right to do whatever they like and sod everyone else and some do it just to get attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not saying it matters if they have been sexulised I'm saying that's why people are offended by it

in cultures where people don't see boobs as sexual objects no one is offended by breast feeding, people see boobs as sexual objects in this country and that's why they don't want to see them

But at the end of the day boobs are feeding bottles for babies it's what they evolved for its what they are there for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They didn't evolve to feed children, they evolved to attract a mate(or that's the best theory that backed by science) most other primates only develop breasts during pregnancy.

And your attitude is exactly why I don't agree with it being a legal law. Now if you took the law away the two parties would be much more likely to compromise to a position that suited them best and making it law just ends with the party of the breastfeeder being in a staunch position where the other party then does daft things like make them wrap in a towel or under a blanket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

Yes it does believe it or not.

Why would it... I have breastfed all my children.. anywhere, any time and have been asked to stop a few Times.. I just refused.

Its not like you can see anything and no different to someone sitting feeding a baby with a bottle

Totally agree with you on your comment

I wouldnt eat in a public loo so why should a baby

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over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

Yes it does believe it or not.

Why would it... I have breastfed all my children.. anywhere, any time and have been asked to stop a few Times.. I just refused.

Its not like you can see anything and no different to someone sitting feeding a baby with a bottle

Totally agree with you on your comment

I wouldnt eat in a public loo so why should a baby"

Depends how clean the toilets are, at least they wouldn't be offending anyone, if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

" if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home."

Hilda, you do make me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

then don't eat whilst looking at things that may put you off..

or vice versa..

not rocket science is it..

Except if im in a café or pub whatever why the hell should I have to be put off my food because of some selfish inconsiderate tit natzi."

Would you rather babies starved? Cried the place down? As a former selfish inconsiderate tit nazi I would of feed my baby before you even realised it. I was always discreet and you certainly see more things to put you off your lunch out on the town on a sat night.

It says more about you that you are offended at the sight of a woman nuturing and responding to her babies basic needs. If you don't like look away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

Yes it does believe it or not.

Why would it... I have breastfed all my children.. anywhere, any time and have been asked to stop a few Times.. I just refused.

Its not like you can see anything and no different to someone sitting feeding a baby with a bottle

Totally agree with you on your comment

I wouldnt eat in a public loo so why should a baby

Depends how clean the toilets are, at least they wouldn't be offending anyone, if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home."

You don't have a fuckin clue do you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how clean the toilets are, at least they wouldn't be offending anyone, if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home."

I don't think you can possibly mean half the things you say... And think you just say them to get a response..

The fact is breastfeeding should offend anyone and if they get offended I'd say tough and for them to grow up.

Breastfed babies don't always feed To schedule and you feed as and when.. And no way would I go sit in a toilet to feed my child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

Yes it does believe it or not.

Why would it... I have breastfed all my children.. anywhere, any time and have been asked to stop a few Times.. I just refused.

Its not like you can see anything and no different to someone sitting feeding a baby with a bottle

Totally agree with you on your comment

I wouldnt eat in a public loo so why should a baby

Depends how clean the toilets are, at least they wouldn't be offending anyone, if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home.

You don't have a fuckin clue do you?! "

why do women get all aggressive about it when people disagree with them.

how about sma milk in a bottle, never did my son any harm, and hes a big strapping lad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home.

Hilda, you do make me laugh"

comical isn't it, you just couldn't make it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do women get all aggressive about it when people disagree with them.

how about sma milk in a bottle, never did my son any harm, and hes a big strapping lad."

And as someone that has had children why does it offend you if a woman breastfeeds.... Her choice... Just as it was yours not to. By your reasoning you should have never left the house unless you had fed your child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home.

Hilda, you do make me laugh

comical isn't it, you just couldn't make it up

Feminism has a lot to answere for.

its all me me me and my rights, sod everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how about sma milk in a bottle, never did my son any harm, and hes a big strapping lad."

how about freedom of choice

how about realising not everyone is you or what's to do things your way

and here's the real deal breaker

how about just looking the other way if you do ever happen to see someone breast feeding

just a though

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

" if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home.

Hilda, you do make me laugh

comical isn't it, you just couldn't make it up

Feminism has a lot to answere for.

its all me me me and my rights, sod everyone else.

one could say the same about intolerance and small mindedness..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home.

Hilda, you do make me laugh

comical isn't it, you just couldn't make it up

Feminism has a lot to answere for.

its all me me me and my rights, sod everyone else.

What has feminism got to do with this and what rights are being refused.. a baby needs feeding. A mother needs to feed. It's not like women are sitting with their boobs out topless feeding the baby. All you see is the baby cuddled in really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home.

Hilda, you do make me laugh

comical isn't it, you just couldn't make it up

Feminism has a lot to answere for.

its all me me me and my rights, sod everyone else.

one could say the same about intolerance and small mindedness.."

People are not small minded just because they don't agree with you.

why should breastfeeding mums be so intolerant of other peoples feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" why should breastfeeding mums be so intolerant of other peoples feelings."

Why should people be so intolerant of breast feeding mums?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"one could say the same about intolerance and small mindedness..

People are not small minded just because they don't agree with you.

of course they are not however sometimes one's intolerance and small mindedness is clearly exhibited for most to see..

if the cap fits etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" why should breastfeeding mums be so intolerant of other peoples feelings.

Why should people be so intolerant of breast feeding mums?

because what they are doing is offending some people. we don't piss or have sex in front of people do we, time and place and all that, its basic good manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like stephen fry says,

“It's now very common to hear people say, 'I'm rather offended by that.' As if that gives them certain rights. It's actually nothing more... than a whine. 'I find that offensive.' It has no meaning; it has no purpose; it has no reason to be respected as a phrase. 'I am offended by that.' Well, so fucking what."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" why should breastfeeding mums be so intolerant of other peoples feelings.

Why should people be so intolerant of breast feeding mums?

because what they are doing is offending some people. we don't piss or have sex in front of people do we, time and place and all that, its basic good manners."

It's not bad manners to feed a baby. It would be to Have sex or piss in front of people. Feeding a baby can not be put in the same bracket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like stephen fry says,

well if steven fry said it, it must be true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" why should breastfeeding mums be so intolerant of other peoples feelings.

Why should people be so intolerant of breast feeding mums?

because what they are doing is offending some people. we don't piss or have sex in front of people do we, time and place and all that, its basic good manners.

It's not bad manners to feed a baby. It would be to Have sex or piss in front of people. Feeding a baby can not be put in the same bracket "

Only a lot of people think it is, its a natural bodily function, its not dirty is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it puts some of us off our food, like some of the pictures on here.

Yes it does believe it or not.

Why would it... I have breastfed all my children.. anywhere, any time and have been asked to stop a few Times.. I just refused.

Its not like you can see anything and no different to someone sitting feeding a baby with a bottle

Totally agree with you on your comment

I wouldnt eat in a public loo so why should a baby

Depends how clean the toilets are, at least they wouldn't be offending anyone, if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home.

You don't have a fuckin clue do you?!

why do women get all aggressive about it when people disagree with them.

how about sma milk in a bottle, never did my son any harm, and hes a big strapping lad."

Calling women nazis for breastfeeding is just as aggressive, small minded and bigoted.

Choice! A mother's right to decide to do what she feels right for her child.

You chose to feed your son on Sma formula (something I was against as it is based on cows milk) I'm sure you did that as it was appropriate for you and your son. How a breastfeeding mum is a nazi for making a decision based on her needs and beliefs and doing what she feels is right for her child I don't know. But I'm sure you will enlighten us with your wisdom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" why should breastfeeding mums be so intolerant of other peoples feelings.

Why should people be so intolerant of breast feeding mums?

because what they are doing is offending some people. we don't piss or have sex in front of people do we, time and place and all that, its basic good manners.

It's not bad manners to feed a baby. It would be to Have sex or piss in front of people. Feeding a baby can not be put in the same bracket

Only a lot of people think it is, its a natural bodily function, its not dirty is it.

It is legal to do either in public... Breastfeeding a baby isn't...so I fail to see you point and pissing or having sex in a restaurant wouldn't be very respectful or hygienic. Breastfeeding isn't unhygienic or disrespectful

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

That's probably because human females evolved breasts to attract a mate!.

If men weren't interested in them, they wouldn't have evolved with them.

Funny that in cultures where a woman's breasts are exposed all of the time they are not looked on as sexual.

Kinda blasts that theory out of the water

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard and seen it all now, a breastfeeding mother should stay home like a social pariah or stuff fucking SMA into her child!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like stephen fry says,

well if steven fry said it, it must be true.

Pretty much is though. The onus is on oyu to prove your point, scientifically as a fact, that it is wrong to breastfeed in public.

Breasts are designed specifically for breastfeeding. Going for a piss or shit in public is unhygenic, and offensive for that reason because it can make people ill.

Sex in public, not that offensive as anyone who goes to sex clubs will attest, but illegal because i have no idea why? You didn't say why either and it's YOU making these claims, same for anyone else who hasn't backed up their argument with anything more than their opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home.

Hilda, you do make me laugh"

Its called putting the baby first, and being respectful to other peoples feelings. I guess it depends how you were brought up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home.

Hilda, you do make me laugh

Its called putting the baby first, and being respectful to other peoples feelings. I guess it depends how you were brought up."

Which is what mothers are doing when they are feeding their children. None of my children would bat an eyelid at a woman breastfeeding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home.

Hilda, you do make me laugh

Its called putting the baby first, and being respectful to other peoples feelings. I guess it depends how you were brought up."

How do you think I feel when I'm called a nazi? Guess that was just how you were brought up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've heard and seen it all now, a breastfeeding mother should stay home like a social pariah or stuff fucking SMA into her child!

Not such a bad idea though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit like your posts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home.

Hilda, you do make me laugh

Its called putting the baby first, and being respectful to other peoples feelings. I guess it depends how you were brought up.

How do you think I feel when I'm called a nazi? Guess that was just how you were brought up. "

Its what people call women who insist on tit feeding their kids anywhere they like and then complaining about people not liking it, they call them tit Nazis.

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over a year ago

"I've heard and seen it all now, a breastfeeding mother should stay home like a social pariah or stuff fucking SMA into her child!

Not such a bad idea though.

You are saying all that for a reaction aren't you?

I breastfed all three of mine for a year each and my daughter breastfed hers.

My sons see and accept it as being natural and best for baby, sod what anyone else thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home.

Hilda, you do make me laugh

Its called putting the baby first, and being respectful to other peoples feelings. I guess it depends how you were brought up.

How do you think I feel when I'm called a nazi? Guess that was just how you were brought up.

Its what people call women who insist on tit feeding their kids anywhere they like and then complaining about people not liking it, they call them tit Nazis."

I'd never heard the phrase till you used it actually but then I don't have a problem with women BREAST feeding their babies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit like your posts?

well I get plenty attention on here without posting on the forums, and I guess everyone who is on here are looking for attention aren't they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home."

I did exactly that and it worked fine for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've heard and seen it all now, a breastfeeding mother should stay home like a social pariah or stuff fucking SMA into her child!

Not such a bad idea though.

You are saying all that for a reaction aren't you?

I breastfed all three of mine for a year each and my daughter breastfed hers.

My sons see and accept it as being natural and best for baby, sod what anyone else thinks. "

I say what I think, believe it or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home.

I did exactly that and it worked fine for me.

See it can be done, I have heard others say the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit like your posts?

well I get plenty attention on here without posting on the forums, and I guess everyone who is on here are looking for attention aren't they."

By making statements like yours?

Hmmm...All you're doing is winding some people up.

Not fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughter is now a midwife and tries to encourage women who wish to breastfeed, it must be an uphill struggle sometimes if your attitude is anything to go by.

Women not supporting other women to do so makes me weep.

I tried to support any woman's choice of how her baby was fed, bottle or breast and I never knocked them for either.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

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Odds bodkins!

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over a year ago

"My daughter is now a midwife and tries to encourage women who wish to breastfeed, it must be an uphill struggle sometimes if your attitude is anything to go by.

Women not supporting other women to do so makes me weep.

I tried to support any woman's choice of how her baby was fed, bottle or breast and I never knocked them for either.

Why do they all need support, you have a baby then you decide to feed it with a bottle or breast feed it, whats the big deal. just don't feed it in public.

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over a year ago

"My daughter is now a midwife and tries to encourage women who wish to breastfeed, it must be an uphill struggle sometimes if your attitude is anything to go by.

Women not supporting other women to do so makes me weep.

I tried to support any woman's choice of how her baby was fed, bottle or breast and I never knocked them for either.

Our midwives were brilliant, they stayed with me for literally hours. Big thumbs up to midwives.

I had problems and couldn't bf in public for quite a few reasons but I carried on (in private) anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Odds bodkins! "

Yes indeed.

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"Odds bodkins! "

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"My daughter is now a midwife and tries to encourage women who wish to breastfeed, it must be an uphill struggle sometimes if your attitude is anything to go by.

Women not supporting other women to do so makes me weep.

I tried to support any woman's choice of how her baby was fed, bottle or breast and I never knocked them for either.

Why do they all need support, you have a baby then you decide to feed it with a bottle or breast feed it, whats the big deal. just don't feed it in public."

Next you'll be telling me that children should be seen and not heard!

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over a year ago

"...if not why not feed them before they go out or just stay at home.

I did exactly that and it worked fine for me.

See it can be done, I have heard others say the same."

I was an active mum, always out and about. When not working I was out with my children. ... Why should any mother stay at home and whose rights are they ignoring....

Yes you could stay at home but only if it's your choice. There are so many mothers who don't even try as they fear attitudes such as yours and those that want to but Dont get the support... If a woman wants to bottle feed Thats her choice but do should breast feeding mums... and without worrying about narrow minded people tutting

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