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 I'm guessing not... but Fab has surprised me before so I could be mistaken lol 
However... the idea of coming across a woman wanking    now that's a different matter | |||
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"openly wanking and braver with places such as a services car park!" you hoping to get nicked mate? | |||
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"In a woods / private place at night with cars going by is one thing, a service station though - you may end up on a sex offenders register if you're not careful. Just a thought, not shooting you down - and if I had kids I wouldn't want them seeing it " | |||
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"Let's hope I'm never with my kids out and about and stummble across that.... Id go beserk Need to be carful what I put as I'll get a forum ban zzzzzzz" What would you do if you and your kids came across a woman in the front seat of her car knocking one out? Is it the same? Just curious  | |||
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"Let's hope I'm never with my kids out and about and stummble across that.... Id go beserk Need to be carful what I put as I'll get a forum ban zzzzzzz What would you do if you and your kids came across a woman in the front seat of her car knocking one out? Is it the same? Just curious "Gender is irrelevant for me, it's still exactly the same offence. | |||
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"Lets have a little logic! Obviously the times I'm doing this, kids would not be about and if they are I'm very careful and aware of who could see. I been shot down for it, but it's no different to dogging." It is for me. I don't take my kids into secluded woods/car parks or country lanes at night. But there's always a chance of families walking past or pulling up next to you while your tugging away and randomly poking your head up like a randy meerkat.. | |||
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" I been shot down for it, but it's no different to dogging." you might be right mate and I'm sure many people have played on car parks etc.. but you will get yourself nicked mate... and do you really want that? | |||
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I think... if the guy is doing this at secluded places in the middle of the night then obviously that's something very different from what you lot are on about and, as he says, really isn't that much different from dogging. However, I just don't see how he can possibly imagine that anyone coming across him would be anything other than horrified. It simply isn't sexy imo 
But, I say again, I think that most men... if they came across a woman having some fun in the front seat of her car at a service station in the middle of the night... I think it would probably be a massive turn on for a bloke.
The kids thing... hmmm I'm just not sure really. Are we too prudish as a culture? Should kids be allowed to witness others having sex? I can't see the harm of them witnessing the act of sex between two adults, as long as they are not drawn into it in any way whatsoever. It's part of life isn't it? | |||
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"Lets have a little logic! Obviously the times I'm doing this, kids would not be about and if they are I'm very careful and aware of who could see. I been shot down for it, but it's no different to dogging." It is exactly like dogging and you can get nicked for that too, public indecency. The main difference is that wanking in a public place is perceived to be more than a little bit sad. Its only a nats bollock away from being a flasher | |||
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"I love this thread. It's got me smiling all over
I think... if the guy is doing this at secluded places in the middle of the night then obviously that's something very different from what you lot are on about and, as he says, really isn't that much different from dogging. However, I just don't see how he can possibly imagine that anyone coming across him would be anything other than horrified. It simply isn't sexy imo
But, I say again, I think that most men... if they came across a woman having some fun in the front seat of her car at a service station in the middle of the night... I think it would probably be a massive turn on for a bloke.
The kids thing... hmmm I'm just not sure really. Are we too prudish as a culture? Should kids be allowed to witness others having sex? I can't see the harm of them witnessing the act of sex between two adults, as long as they are not drawn into it in any way whatsoever. It's part of life isn't it? "Kids especially small kids quite definitely should not be allowed to witness others having sex, and yes there is a lot of harm something like that can stay with a child for the rest of thier lives. | |||
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"Let's hope I'm never with my kids out and about and stummble across that.... Id go beserk Need to be carful what I put as I'll get a forum ban zzzzzzz What would you do if you and your kids came across a woman in the front seat of her car knocking one out? Is it the same? Just curious "Same thing. as a parent it's my duty to protect them. So don't think cause I'm a man and it's a woman knocking one out I'd feel different cause I wouldn't now if I was on my own no kids Id ask her if she wanted some help with that as her invisible quitar has a broken string | |||
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"I love this thread. It's got me smiling all over
I think... if the guy is doing this at secluded places in the middle of the night then obviously that's something very different from what you lot are on about and, as he says, really isn't that much different from dogging. However, I just don't see how he can possibly imagine that anyone coming across him would be anything other than horrified. It simply isn't sexy imo
But, I say again, I think that most men... if they came across a woman having some fun in the front seat of her car at a service station in the middle of the night... I think it would probably be a massive turn on for a bloke.
The kids thing... hmmm I'm just not sure really. Are we too prudish as a culture? Should kids be allowed to witness others having sex? I can't see the harm of them witnessing the act of sex between two adults, as long as they are not drawn into it in any way whatsoever. It's part of life isn't it?
Kids especially small kids quite definitely should not be allowed to witness others having sex, and yes there is a lot of harm something like that can stay with a child for the rest of thier lives. "I guess my question is more philosophical and broader. I'm guessing kids in tribal societies regularly witness adults having sex. Is there any evidence that these tribal kids come out any the worse for having seen that stuff? I don't know the answer to that one.... but it'd be interesting to know if this "don't let kids see sex" thing is a western preoccupation or whether there's actually some wisdom behind it. Being a parent myself, for now I'm happy to try and keep my kid away from seeing sexual acts... but I do wonder whether it's the right thing to do or whether it's just another legacy of a prudish Christian 'body is sin' society | |||
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"I love this thread. It's got me smiling all over
I think... if the guy is doing this at secluded places in the middle of the night then obviously that's something very different from what you lot are on about and, as he says, really isn't that much different from dogging. However, I just don't see how he can possibly imagine that anyone coming across him would be anything other than horrified. It simply isn't sexy imo
But, I say again, I think that most men... if they came across a woman having some fun in the front seat of her car at a service station in the middle of the night... I think it would probably be a massive turn on for a bloke.
The kids thing... hmmm I'm just not sure really. Are we too prudish as a culture? Should kids be allowed to witness others having sex? I can't see the harm of them witnessing the act of sex between two adults, as long as they are not drawn into it in any way whatsoever. It's part of life isn't it?
Kids especially small kids quite definitely should not be allowed to witness others having sex, and yes there is a lot of harm something like that can stay with a child for the rest of thier lives.
I guess my question is more philosophical and broader. I'm guessing kids in tribal societies regularly witness adults having sex. Is there any evidence that these tribal kids come out any the worse for having seen that stuff? I don't know the answer to that one.... but it'd be interesting to know if this "don't let kids see sex" thing is a western preoccupation or whether there's actually some wisdom behind it. Being a parent myself, for now I'm happy to try and keep my kid away from seeing sexual acts... but I do wonder whether it's the right thing to do or whether it's just another legacy of a prudish Christian 'body is sin' society "Zzzzzzzzzz the blokes racking off in public, so save your Christian values for the church zzzzzzz | |||
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"I love this thread. It's got me smiling all over
I think... if the guy is doing this at secluded places in the middle of the night then obviously that's something very different from what you lot are on about and, as he says, really isn't that much different from dogging. However, I just don't see how he can possibly imagine that anyone coming across him would be anything other than horrified. It simply isn't sexy imo
But, I say again, I think that most men... if they came across a woman having some fun in the front seat of her car at a service station in the middle of the night... I think it would probably be a massive turn on for a bloke.
The kids thing... hmmm I'm just not sure really. Are we too prudish as a culture? Should kids be allowed to witness others having sex? I can't see the harm of them witnessing the act of sex between two adults, as long as they are not drawn into it in any way whatsoever. It's part of life isn't it?
Kids especially small kids quite definitely should not be allowed to witness others having sex, and yes there is a lot of harm something like that can stay with a child for the rest of thier lives.
I guess my question is more philosophical and broader. I'm guessing kids in tribal societies regularly witness adults having sex. Is there any evidence that these tribal kids come out any the worse for having seen that stuff? I don't know the answer to that one.... but it'd be interesting to know if this "don't let kids see sex" thing is a western preoccupation or whether there's actually some wisdom behind it. Being a parent myself, for now I'm happy to try and keep my kid away from seeing sexual acts... but I do wonder whether it's the right thing to do or whether it's just another legacy of a prudish Christian 'body is sin' society "Well now your getting into the realms of what's considered a civilised society, a lot of these tribal societies a young lady would be considered old enough for sex as soon as she had boobies | |||
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"Zzzzzzzzzz the blokes racking off in public, so save your Christian values for the church zzzzzzz" Lol I don't have any Christian values... I'm questioning them | |||
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"Well now your getting into the realms of what's considered a civilised society, a lot of these tribal societies a young lady would be considered old enough for sex as soon as she had boobies " Fair point | |||
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"I love this thread. It's got me smiling all over
I think... if the guy is doing this at secluded places in the middle of the night then obviously that's something very different from what you lot are on about and, as he says, really isn't that much different from dogging. However, I just don't see how he can possibly imagine that anyone coming across him would be anything other than horrified. It simply isn't sexy imo
But, I say again, I think that most men... if they came across a woman having some fun in the front seat of her car at a service station in the middle of the night... I think it would probably be a massive turn on for a bloke.
The kids thing... hmmm I'm just not sure really. Are we too prudish as a culture? Should kids be allowed to witness others having sex? I can't see the harm of them witnessing the act of sex between two adults, as long as they are not drawn into it in any way whatsoever. It's part of life isn't it?
Kids especially small kids quite definitely should not be allowed to witness others having sex, and yes there is a lot of harm something like that can stay with a child for the rest of thier lives.
I guess my question is more philosophical and broader. I'm guessing kids in tribal societies regularly witness adults having sex. Is there any evidence that these tribal kids come out any the worse for having seen that stuff? I don't know the answer to that one.... but it'd be interesting to know if this "don't let kids see sex" thing is a western preoccupation or whether there's actually some wisdom behind it. Being a parent myself, for now I'm happy to try and keep my kid away from seeing sexual acts... but I do wonder whether it's the right thing to do or whether it's just another legacy of a prudish Christian 'body is sin' society "I can't say what I think to that remark. I'll get banned. Suffice to say I'm disgusted. | |||
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"I love this thread. It's got me smiling all over
I think... if the guy is doing this at secluded places in the middle of the night then obviously that's something very different from what you lot are on about and, as he says, really isn't that much different from dogging. However, I just don't see how he can possibly imagine that anyone coming across him would be anything other than horrified. It simply isn't sexy imo
But, I say again, I think that most men... if they came across a woman having some fun in the front seat of her car at a service station in the middle of the night... I think it would probably be a massive turn on for a bloke.
The kids thing... hmmm I'm just not sure really. Are we too prudish as a culture? Should kids be allowed to witness others having sex? I can't see the harm of them witnessing the act of sex between two adults, as long as they are not drawn into it in any way whatsoever. It's part of life isn't it?
Kids especially small kids quite definitely should not be allowed to witness others having sex, and yes there is a lot of harm something like that can stay with a child for the rest of thier lives.
I guess my question is more philosophical and broader. I'm guessing kids in tribal societies regularly witness adults having sex. Is there any evidence that these tribal kids come out any the worse for having seen that stuff? I don't know the answer to that one.... but it'd be interesting to know if this "don't let kids see sex" thing is a western preoccupation or whether there's actually some wisdom behind it. Being a parent myself, for now I'm happy to try and keep my kid away from seeing sexual acts... but I do wonder whether it's the right thing to do or whether it's just another legacy of a prudish Christian 'body is sin' society
I can't say what I think to that remark.
I'll get banned.
Suffice to say I'm disgusted.
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"Lets have a little logic! Obviously the times I'm doing this, kids would not be about and if they are I'm very careful and aware of who could see. I been shot down for it, but it's no different to dogging." I'd say doggers generally try keep it out of the way of unsuspecting eyes | |||
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"I love this thread. It's got me smiling all over
I think... if the guy is doing this at secluded places in the middle of the night then obviously that's something very different from what you lot are on about and, as he says, really isn't that much different from dogging. However, I just don't see how he can possibly imagine that anyone coming across him would be anything other than horrified. It simply isn't sexy imo
But, I say again, I think that most men... if they came across a woman having some fun in the front seat of her car at a service station in the middle of the night... I think it would probably be a massive turn on for a bloke.
The kids thing... hmmm I'm just not sure really. Are we too prudish as a culture? Should kids be allowed to witness others having sex? I can't see the harm of them witnessing the act of sex between two adults, as long as they are not drawn into it in any way whatsoever. It's part of life isn't it?
Kids especially small kids quite definitely should not be allowed to witness others having sex, and yes there is a lot of harm something like that can stay with a child for the rest of thier lives.
I guess my question is more philosophical and broader. I'm guessing kids in tribal societies regularly witness adults having sex. Is there any evidence that these tribal kids come out any the worse for having seen that stuff? I don't know the answer to that one.... but it'd be interesting to know if this "don't let kids see sex" thing is a western preoccupation or whether there's actually some wisdom behind it. Being a parent myself, for now I'm happy to try and keep my kid away from seeing sexual acts... but I do wonder whether it's the right thing to do or whether it's just another legacy of a prudish Christian 'body is sin' society "What is the basis of your speculation that tribal kids see sex? | |||
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"If you progress to MacDonalds can you wait until ive eaten n left....... thanks xx " No problem lol, don't think McDonalds is an option anyway, the food is crap to me and contributes largely to our country's obesity problem. | |||
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"If you progress to MacDonalds can you wait until ive eaten n left....... thanks xx No problem lol, don't think McDonalds is an option anyway, the food is crap to me and contributes largely to our country's obesity problem." The salad doesn't. The fruit doesn't The coffee doesn't It's all about choice and balance really 
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"Children aren't sexual in the same way that adults are and witnessing adult sexual behaviour blurs the line that it is necessary to have dividing childhood and adult sexuality. I'm always amazed and a little amused that people who think it's ok to impose their sexual activities on non consenting adults become so outraged when challenged. Even asking people who object to be.logical ." | |||
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"If you progress to MacDonalds can you wait until ive eaten n left....... thanks xx No problem lol, don't think McDonalds is an option anyway, the food is crap to me and contributes largely to our country's obesity problem. The salad doesn't. The fruit doesn't The coffee doesn't It's all about choice and balance really
Don't know what you are worried about anyway you'd be flicking most of it over unsuspecting diners as you thrapped away happily "Chuckle | |||
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"your heading to get locked up, does indecent exposure ring any bells "Does that also get a name added to the sex offenders register, by any chance. | |||
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"Children aren't sexual in the same way that adults are and witnessing adult sexual behaviour blurs the line that it is necessary to have dividing childhood and adult sexuality. I'm always amazed and a little amused that people who think it's ok to impose their sexual activities on non consenting adults become so outraged when challenged. Even asking people who object to be.logical ."I don't have a problem with people objecting, my original post was perceived that I was really that open that I would just let anyone see and kids aswell, which is not the case, I myself would be mortified if kids saw me! Hence asking people to be logical. | |||
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"Children aren't sexual in the same way that adults are and witnessing adult sexual behaviour blurs the line that it is necessary to have dividing childhood and adult sexuality. I'm always amazed and a little amused that people who think it's ok to impose their sexual activities on non consenting adults become so outraged when challenged. Even asking people who object to be.logical .I don't have a problem with people objecting, my original post was perceived that I was really that open that I would just let anyone see and kids aswell, which is not the case, I myself would be mortified if kids saw me! Hence asking people to be logical."But I don't want to see you and I don't want my 80 year old mum or 25 year old daughter to see you. I understand that you would avoid children. | |||
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"If you progress to MacDonalds can you wait until ive eaten n left....... thanks xx No problem lol, don't think McDonalds is an option anyway, the food is crap to me and contributes largely to our country's obesity problem." bit judgemental .. and what evidence do you have that that particular 'food' outlet contributes largely..? | |||
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"2 words for you pal...YOU WANKER! " Agreed! | |||
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"Children aren't sexual in the same way that adults are and witnessing adult sexual behaviour blurs the line that it is necessary to have dividing childhood and adult sexuality. I'm always amazed and a little amused that people who think it's ok to impose their sexual activities on non consenting adults become so outraged when challenged. Even asking people who object to be.logical .I don't have a problem with people objecting, my original post was perceived that I was really that open that I would just let anyone see and kids aswell, which is not the case, I myself would be mortified if kids saw me! Hence asking people to be logical."Take no notice. If people applied some thought to what you said they'd have to apply the same to their reply and some don't like to think on here. Most go straight for the 'outrage' button. | |||
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"Children aren't sexual in the same way that adults are and witnessing adult sexual behaviour blurs the line that it is necessary to have dividing childhood and adult sexuality. I'm always amazed and a little amused that people who think it's ok to impose their sexual activities on non consenting adults become so outraged when challenged. Even asking people who object to be.logical .I don't have a problem with people objecting, my original post was perceived that I was really that open that I would just let anyone see and kids aswell, which is not the case, I myself would be mortified if kids saw me! Hence asking people to be logical.
Take no notice.
If people applied some thought to what you said they'd have to apply the same to their reply and some don't like to think on here. Most go straight for the 'outrage' button. "Well that's me told! | |||
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"If you progress to MacDonalds can you wait until ive eaten n left....... thanks xx No problem lol, don't think McDonalds is an option anyway, the food is crap to me and contributes largely to our country's obesity problem. bit judgemental .. and what evidence do you have that that particular 'food' outlet contributes largely..?" A documentary a few years back on TV. Looking at how it was affecting our society like it has in the states, admitted they have changed since then though like offering Salads and Fruit, but how many people find they have McDonalds, then 2 hours later, hungry again? | |||
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"Children aren't sexual in the same way that adults are and witnessing adult sexual behaviour blurs the line that it is necessary to have dividing childhood and adult sexuality. I'm always amazed and a little amused that people who think it's ok to impose their sexual activities on non consenting adults become so outraged when challenged. Even asking people who object to be.logical .I don't have a problem with people objecting, my original post was perceived that I was really that open that I would just let anyone see and kids aswell, which is not the case, I myself would be mortified if kids saw me! Hence asking people to be logical."The reason you are doing it in public places are because you want to get caught. In the hopes of a sexual encounter with the person that caught you. That's really not on is it, you might be all horny balls full of cum to think about others perception of the situation. But for a woman to be presented with a stranger in an obvious state of sexual arousal in a place that's semi isolated first thing she's going to think is I'm gonna get raped here. An ex of mine experienced a guy doing the same thing in a multi storey car park when she was a young adult. Even as a grown woman in her 40's she experienced anxiety when I a similar situation | |||
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"If you progress to MacDonalds can you wait until ive eaten n left....... thanks xx No problem lol, don't think McDonalds is an option anyway, the food is crap to me and contributes largely to our country's obesity problem. bit judgemental .. and what evidence do you have that that particular 'food' outlet contributes largely..? A documentary a few years back on TV. Looking at how it was affecting our society like it has in the states, admitted they have changed since then though like offering Salads and Fruit, but how many people find they have McDonalds, then 2 hours later, hungry again? " must be true then. don't know about the 2 hour thing I don't eat their stuff.. | |||
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"If you progress to MacDonalds can you wait until ive eaten n left....... thanks xx No problem lol, don't think McDonalds is an option anyway, the food is crap to me and contributes largely to our country's obesity problem. bit judgemental .. and what evidence do you have that that particular 'food' outlet contributes largely..? A documentary a few years back on TV. Looking at how it was affecting our society like it has in the states, admitted they have changed since then though like offering Salads and Fruit, but how many people find they have McDonalds, then 2 hours later, hungry again? must be true then. don't know about the 2 hour thing I don't eat their stuff.." Don't get me wrong, I like their food, used to have breakfast and tea from there around 3-4 times a week as well as other fast food outlets, but was 19 stone with it, stopped it all, now don't touch any of it from 8 months ago and now 14 and half stone! | |||
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"If you progress to MacDonalds can you wait until ive eaten n left....... thanks xx No problem lol, don't think McDonalds is an option anyway, the food is crap to me and contributes largely to our country's obesity problem. bit judgemental .. and what evidence do you have that that particular 'food' outlet contributes largely..? A documentary a few years back on TV. Looking at how it was affecting our society like it has in the states, admitted they have changed since then though like offering Salads and Fruit, but how many people find they have McDonalds, then 2 hours later, hungry again? must be true then. don't know about the 2 hour thing I don't eat their stuff.. Don't get me wrong, I like their food, used to have breakfast and tea from there around 3-4 times a week as well as other fast food outlets, but was 19 stone with it, stopped it all, now don't touch any of it from 8 months ago and now 14 and half stone!" you sure its that or the amount of wanking..? | |||
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"when I was 16 I saw a guy wanking in a three wheeler car. The first thing that goes through a woman's head when a guy she doesn't know is being sexual in front of her unasked for isn't "oooo let me join in". " Not for majority of women, probably not. I just got lucky with the one, but wouldn't say the same for guys! | |||
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"If you progress to MacDonalds can you wait until ive eaten n left....... thanks xx No problem lol, don't think McDonalds is an option anyway, the food is crap to me and contributes largely to our country's obesity problem. bit judgemental .. and what evidence do you have that that particular 'food' outlet contributes largely..? A documentary a few years back on TV. Looking at how it was affecting our society like it has in the states, admitted they have changed since then though like offering Salads and Fruit, but how many people find they have McDonalds, then 2 hours later, hungry again? must be true then. don't know about the 2 hour thing I don't eat their stuff.. Don't get me wrong, I like their food, used to have breakfast and tea from there around 3-4 times a week as well as other fast food outlets, but was 19 stone with it, stopped it all, now don't touch any of it from 8 months ago and now 14 and half stone! you sure its that or the amount of wanking..?" That amount has not changed lol, I can just go faster now! | |||
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"when I was 16 I saw a guy wanking in a three wheeler car. The first thing that goes through a woman's head when a guy she doesn't know is being sexual in front of her unasked for isn't "oooo let me join in". " Especially in a three wheeler ! | |||
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"when I was 16 I saw a guy wanking in a three wheeler car. The first thing that goes through a woman's head when a guy she doesn't know is being sexual in front of her unasked for isn't "oooo let me join in". " Nicecouple you've made some really good points on this thread and I'm also sorry you had to go through this experience but I've gotta admit the whole 'three wheel car' thing almost made me spit out my dinner lol It wasn't Delroy was it? | |||
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"when I was 16 I saw a guy wanking in a three wheeler car. The first thing that goes through a woman's head when a guy she doesn't know is being sexual in front of her unasked for isn't "oooo let me join in". Nicecouple you've made some really good points on this thread and I'm also sorry you had to go through this experience but I've gotta admit the whole 'three wheel car' thing almost made me spit out my dinner lol It wasn't Delroy was it?"Also, was it a bright yellow one? | |||
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"I love this thread. It's got me smiling all over
I think... if the guy is doing this at secluded places in the middle of the night then obviously that's something very different from what you lot are on about and, as he says, really isn't that much different from dogging. However, I just don't see how he can possibly imagine that anyone coming across him would be anything other than horrified. It simply isn't sexy imo
But, I say again, I think that most men... if they came across a woman having some fun in the front seat of her car at a service station in the middle of the night... I think it would probably be a massive turn on for a bloke.
The kids thing... hmmm I'm just not sure really. Are we too prudish as a culture? Should kids be allowed to witness others having sex? I can't see the harm of them witnessing the act of sex between two adults, as long as they are not drawn into it in any way whatsoever. It's part of life isn't it? " | |||
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Don't they? Don't know what services I been to then."Im guessing not a 24 hour one which more and more are now. If it was then you are in a public place with members of the public coming and going and deserve to be arrested. | |||
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Don't they? Don't know what services I been to then.
Im guessing not a 24 hour one which more and more are now. If it was then you are in a public place with members of the public coming and going and deserve to be arrested."It is a 24 hour, car park backs onto a wood and visited by couples and guys and yes if caught we would all be arrested, same as any other dogging site! | |||
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"when I was 16 I saw a guy wanking in a three wheeler car. The first thing that goes through a woman's head when a guy she doesn't know is being sexual in front of her unasked for isn't "oooo let me join in". Not for majority of women, probably not. I just got lucky with the one, but wouldn't say the same for guys! Yes you probably did get lucky. Some women might feel threatened or afraid although I'm sure that isn't your intention. Definitely not my intention and it's not forced on them, some have walked past and not even noticed anyway!" If I was walking past and glanced in your car and reported you to the police I don't think you telling them "it wasn't forced in her" would help. In my opinion you're treading a fine line and using dismissive phrases like "it's not forced on them" implies that you don't think women are that bothered by this. Possibly I'm in a minority and most women aren't. | |||
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Kids are exposed to sexual education at schools now from age 11, in my day, it was 14, in my parents day it was not at all. Reason! Sexual awareness will stop or reduce teenage pregnancy. That's what our governments say anyway!"What point are you making? | |||
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"How many enjoy wanking in public? I know it's risky, but think the risk is part of it, I started by pulling over into a wood or secluded lay by and just getting my cock out and have a wank, as time has gone by I been getting braver by actually removing trousers and boxers and openly wanking and braver with places such as a services car park!" Don't forget to wear a brown Mac
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" Definitely not my intention and it's not forced on them, some have walked past and not even noticed anyway!" matters not a jot what your intention is, that your in a public place and exposed is wrong. How do you think your female relatives whatever their ages would be if they saw someone doing the same..? | |||
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"How many enjoy wanking in public? I know it's risky, but think the risk is part of it, I started by pulling over into a wood or secluded lay by and just getting my cock out and have a wank, as time has gone by I been getting braver by actually removing trousers and boxers and openly wanking and braver with places such as a services car park!" I'm hoping there isn't no children about | |||
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" Definitely not my intention and it's not forced on them, some have walked past and not even noticed anyway! matters not a jot what your intention is, that your in a public place and exposed is wrong. How do you think your female relatives whatever their ages would be if they saw someone doing the same..? " I don't think how the woman feels about this is a consideration. | |||
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n if I seen u wankin in ur car yes I wud report u ,[the fem] | |||
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"Kids are exposed to sexual education at schools now from age 11, in my day, it was 14, in my parents day it was not at all. Reason! Sexual awareness will stop or reduce teenage pregnancy. That's what our governments say anyway!" Lol... now I'm gonna sound like a right u-turner but to me sex education at the age of 11 just seems wrong. I don't like the increasing sexualisation of our children... again it just seems wrong. We should let them be children for as long as they can imo. Scarlet asked earlier why we should be subjected to such acts. I agree. I really don't find what he's doing to be sexy at all. I also worry that what's in his head is completely out of touch with reality. A woman is more likely to be seriously upset about coming across him than anything else. I doubt his story about the one woman who helped him has any grounding in reality... it just seems too much like the typical unreal male fantasy. I suspect, in his head, he thinks that such a sequence of events is possible. It isn't. A woman coming across a man wanking and seeking to engage with her in an unpopulated place late at night is almost certain to be deeply disturbed by the experience imo. He needs to get a new hobby lol | |||
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"Kids are exposed to sexual education at schools now from age 11, in my day, it was 14, in my parents day it was not at all. Reason! Sexual awareness will stop or reduce teenage pregnancy. That's what our governments say anyway! Lol... now I'm gonna sound like a right u-turner but to me sex education at the age of 11 just seems wrong. I don't like the increasing sexualisation of our children... again it just seems wrong. We should let them be children for as long as they can imo. Scarlet asked earlier why we should be subjected to such acts. I agree. I really don't find what he's doing to be sexy at all. I also worry that what's in his head is completely out of touch with reality. A woman is more likely to be seriously upset about coming across him than anything else. I doubt his story about the one woman who helped him has any grounding in reality... it just seems too much like the typical unreal male fantasy. I suspect, in his head, he thinks that such a sequence of events is possible. It isn't. A woman coming across a man wanking and seeking to engage with her in an unpopulated place late at night is almost certain to be deeply disturbed by the experience imo. He needs to get a new hobby lol
Your right about the kids! Plus I never even bought kids into this, people flew off in that direction!
This is a swinging site and unless it all only goes on in clubs or houses and never outdoors, all the outdoors can be arrested for exactly the same. We're just learning that all the people who have commented and never done outdoors!"Wrong, never down outdoor on a motorway service car park because it's far too public and not fair on genuine customers. Find a woodland picnic site or something. Somewhere nobody goes for any reason other than that at midnight. But a place we're non doggers are coming and going is just wrong and inconsiderate! | |||
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Kids are exposed to sexual education at schools now from age 11, in my day, it was 14, in my parents day it was not at all. Reason! Sexual awareness will stop or reduce teenage pregnancy. That's what our governments say anyway!"I had sex education at school at age 7 and I haven't been scarred for life (I don't think l!) 11 is too old to be 'introduced' to sex education in my opinion, by that time children have been exposed to numerous television programmes where people are bed hopping (and other things) all the time. Maybe parents should be responsible for providing the education but how many are embarrassed themselves and worry that they might not do it right | |||
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Your right about the kids! Plus I never even bought kids into this, people flew off in that direction!
This is a swinging site and unless it all only goes on in clubs or houses and never outdoors, all the outdoors can be arrested for exactly the same. We're just learning that all the people who have commented and never done outdoors!
Wrong, never down outdoor on a motorway service car park because it's far too public and not fair on genuine customers. Find a woodland picnic site or something. Somewhere nobody goes for any reason other than that at midnight. But a place we're non doggers are coming and going is just wrong and inconsiderate!"I don't determine where dogging sites are! The people that go do and it just happens to be at a motorway services and is always busy. All outdoor sexual activity you stand a risk of being caught by unsuspecting people or police no matter where it is. | |||
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"I know that my questioning of whether kids should be allowed to witness the sex act has caused some raised eyebrows (to say the least)... but I'm only really asking it as a theoretical question. Obviously, in the wake of Jimmy Saville etc... I'm walking on thin ice. My wife and I made love the other day, whilst our little one was asleep in his cot. When we surfaced from beneath the sheets we realised he was stood up looking at us. Have we scarred him for life? I think there's a difference between going out of your way to expose kids to sex (which is plain wrong... and I think Nicecouple are right here... it's about the fact that they're not sexualised yet) and trying to keep them away from any awareness of it. It seems to me that kids are kept away from both sex and death... for their own good. As a teen I was excluded from my grandfather's death... for my own good. Really. I'd rather have been included, even if it had been uncomfortable and troubling for me... it's a part of life and I'd rather have been involved in witnessing it. I think that, as a parent, if my kid was under a certain age I'd just make light of it and say the people were dancing or something and move the kid swiftly on. If they were over a certain age, however, I'd wonder whether it was more appropriate to use it as a moment to talk about sex and help to educate them a little about it. Just thinking aloud really... I hope that's still legal in the UK
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I had sex education at school at age 7 and I haven't been scarred for life (I don't think l!) 11 is too old to be 'introduced' to sex education in my opinion, by that time children have been exposed to numerous television programmes where people are bed hopping (and other things) all the time. Maybe parents should be responsible for providing the education but how many are embarrassed themselves and worry that they might not do it right "Thanks for that, but now by the way this thread has gone, think you may get shot down as most people in the thread think sexual matters should be kept back to let the children be children. | |||
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"I know that my questioning of whether kids should be allowed to witness the sex act has caused some raised eyebrows (to say the least)... but I'm only really asking it as a theoretical question. Obviously, in the wake of Jimmy Saville etc... I'm walking on thin ice. My wife and I made love the other day, whilst our little one was asleep in his cot. When we surfaced from beneath the sheets we realised he was stood up looking at us. Have we scarred him for life? I think there's a difference between going out of your way to expose kids to sex (which is plain wrong... and I think Nicecouple are right here... it's about the fact that they're not sexualised yet) and trying to keep them away from any awareness of it. It seems to me that kids are kept away from both sex and death... for their own good. As a teen I was excluded from my grandfather's death... for my own good. Really. I'd rather have been included, even if it had been uncomfortable and troubling for me... it's a part of life and I'd rather have been involved in witnessing it. I think that, as a parent, if my kid was under a certain age I'd just make light of it and say the people were dancing or something and move the kid swiftly on. If they were over a certain age, however, I'd wonder whether it was more appropriate to use it as a moment to talk about sex and help to educate them a little about it. Just thinking aloud really... I hope that's still legal in the UK
Kids are exposed to sexual education at schools now from age 11, in my day, it was 14, in my parents day it was not at all. Reason! Sexual awareness will stop or reduce teenage pregnancy. That's what our governments say anyway!
I had sex education at school at age 7 and I haven't been scarred for life (I don't think l!) 11 is too old to be 'introduced' to sex education in my opinion, by that time children have been exposed to numerous television programmes where people are bed hopping (and other things) all the time. Maybe parents should be responsible for providing the education but how many are embarrassed themselves and worry that they might not do it right "Yeah I was about 7 but as somebody else pointed out, theres a big difference between education and an inconsiderate guy in a public place with his cock in his hand... | |||
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"I love this thread. It's got me smiling all over
I think... if the guy is doing this at secluded places in the middle of the night then obviously that's something very different from what you lot are on about and, as he says, really isn't that much different from dogging. However, I just don't see how he can possibly imagine that anyone coming across him would be anything other than horrified. It simply isn't sexy imo
But, I say again, I think that most men... if they came across a woman having some fun in the front seat of her car at a service station in the middle of the night... I think it would probably be a massive turn on for a bloke.
The kids thing... hmmm I'm just not sure really. Are we too prudish as a culture? Should kids be allowed to witness others having sex? I can't see the harm of them witnessing the act of sex between two adults, as long as they are not drawn into it in any way whatsoever. It's part of life isn't it?
Kids especially small kids quite definitely should not be allowed to witness others having sex, and yes there is a lot of harm something like that can stay with a child for the rest of thier lives.
I guess my question is more philosophical and broader. I'm guessing kids in tribal societies regularly witness adults having sex. Is there any evidence that these tribal kids come out any the worse for having seen that stuff? I don't know the answer to that one.... but it'd be interesting to know if this "don't let kids see sex" thing is a western preoccupation or whether there's actually some wisdom behind it. Being a parent myself, for now I'm happy to try and keep my kid away from seeing sexual acts... but I do wonder whether it's the right thing to do or whether it's just another legacy of a prudish Christian 'body is sin' society
I can't say what I think to that remark.
I'll get banned.
Suffice to say I'm disgusted.
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I agree, I never bought kids into this, they got bought in because a dogging site is at a motorway services, that's not my fault and as I said before, I'm careful and would be mortified for if a kid saw."Not your fault others do it there but YOUR FAULT YOU ADD TO THE PROBLEM you could choose to go elsewhere and put fewer people at risk of an unwanted sight so please drop the innocent act its bull every person there is at fault of using an inappropriate place. | |||
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I think... if the guy is doing this at secluded places in the middle of the night then obviously that's something very different from what you lot are on about and, as he says, really isn't that much different from dogging. However, I just don't see how he can possibly imagine that anyone coming across him would be anything other than horrified. It simply isn't sexy imo
But, I say again, I think that most men... if they came across a woman having some fun in the front seat of her car at a service station in the middle of the night... I think it would probably be a massive turn on for a bloke.
The kids thing... hmmm I'm just not sure really. Are we too prudish as a culture? Should kids be allowed to witness others having sex? I can't see the harm of them witnessing the act of sex between two adults, as long as they are not drawn into it in any way whatsoever. It's part of life isn't it?
Kids especially small kids quite definitely should not be allowed to witness others having sex, and yes there is a lot of harm something like that can stay with a child for the rest of thier lives.
I guess my question is more philosophical and broader. I'm guessing kids in tribal societies regularly witness adults having sex. Is there any evidence that these tribal kids come out any the worse for having seen that stuff? I don't know the answer to that one.... but it'd be interesting to know if this "don't let kids see sex" thing is a western preoccupation or whether there's actually some wisdom behind it. Being a parent myself, for now I'm happy to try and keep my kid away from seeing sexual acts... but I do wonder whether it's the right thing to do or whether it's just another legacy of a prudish Christian 'body is sin' society
I can't say what I think to that remark.
I'll get banned.
Suffice to say I'm disgusted.
Disgusted at their remark or me wanking in public or both?
Both!"Ok, I respect that! But I'm not the only person to partake in outdoor sexual activity, for a lot of people like it and a lot don't! | |||
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I agree, I never bought kids into this, they got bought in because a dogging site is at a motorway services, that's not my fault and as I said before, I'm careful and would be mortified for if a kid saw.
REALLY?
What would you do?
Roll down your window and say sorry?
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" Thanks for that, but now by the way this thread has gone, think you may get shot down as most people in the thread think sexual matters should be kept back to let the children be children. Teaching children about sexual matters is totally different than coming across a man wanking in his car
I agree, I never bought kids into this, they got bought in because a dogging site is at a motorway services, that's not my fault and as I said before, I'm careful and would be mortified for if a kid saw.
Not your fault others do it there but YOUR FAULT YOU ADD TO THE PROBLEM you could choose to go elsewhere and put fewer people at risk of an unwanted sight so please drop the innocent act its bull every person there is at fault of using an inappropriate place."I agree! And I do go to other places as well, but people seem to go where the action is obviously, at the end of the day it's the police that have to stop it. | |||
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Riiiight.
Your motto might be different if you had different experiences growing up.
Back to the post...If you feel that strongly about wanking in public then I would consider all of the consequences o.p.
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I think... if the guy is doing this at secluded places in the middle of the night then obviously that's something very different from what you lot are on about and, as he says, really isn't that much different from dogging. However, I just don't see how he can possibly imagine that anyone coming across him would be anything other than horrified. It simply isn't sexy imo
But, I say again, I think that most men... if they came across a woman having some fun in the front seat of her car at a service station in the middle of the night... I think it would probably be a massive turn on for a bloke.
The kids thing... hmmm I'm just not sure really. Are we too prudish as a culture? Should kids be allowed to witness others having sex? I can't see the harm of them witnessing the act of sex between two adults, as long as they are not drawn into it in any way whatsoever. It's part of life isn't it?
Kids especially small kids quite definitely should not be allowed to witness others having sex, and yes there is a lot of harm something like that can stay with a child for the rest of thier lives.
I guess my question is more philosophical and broader. I'm guessing kids in tribal societies regularly witness adults having sex. Is there any evidence that these tribal kids come out any the worse for having seen that stuff? I don't know the answer to that one.... but it'd be interesting to know if this "don't let kids see sex" thing is a western preoccupation or whether there's actually some wisdom behind it. Being a parent myself, for now I'm happy to try and keep my kid away from seeing sexual acts... but I do wonder whether it's the right thing to do or whether it's just another legacy of a prudish Christian 'body is sin' society
I can't say what I think to that remark.
I'll get banned.
Suffice to say I'm disgusted.
Disgusted at their remark or me wanking in public or both?
Both!
Ok, I respect that! But I'm not the only person to partake in outdoor sexual activity, for a lot of people like it and a lot don't!"but you decided to start a thread about it and so you are the person in this instance to take the flack along with the support. | |||
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That's what I was thinking,I have kids and I most certainly wouldn't like them to come across this ......
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I think... if the guy is doing this at secluded places in the middle of the night then obviously that's something very different from what you lot are on about and, as he says, really isn't that much different from dogging. However, I just don't see how he can possibly imagine that anyone coming across him would be anything other than horrified. It simply isn't sexy imo
But, I say again, I think that most men... if they came across a woman having some fun in the front seat of her car at a service station in the middle of the night... I think it would probably be a massive turn on for a bloke.
The kids thing... hmmm I'm just not sure really. Are we too prudish as a culture? Should kids be allowed to witness others having sex? I can't see the harm of them witnessing the act of sex between two adults, as long as they are not drawn into it in any way whatsoever. It's part of life isn't it?
Kids especially small kids quite definitely should not be allowed to witness others having sex, and yes there is a lot of harm something like that can stay with a child for the rest of thier lives.
I guess my question is more philosophical and broader. I'm guessing kids in tribal societies regularly witness adults having sex. Is there any evidence that these tribal kids come out any the worse for having seen that stuff? I don't know the answer to that one.... but it'd be interesting to know if this "don't let kids see sex" thing is a western preoccupation or whether there's actually some wisdom behind it. Being a parent myself, for now I'm happy to try and keep my kid away from seeing sexual acts... but I do wonder whether it's the right thing to do or whether it's just another legacy of a prudish Christian 'body is sin' society
I can't say what I think to that remark.
I'll get banned.
Suffice to say I'm disgusted.
Disgusted at their remark or me wanking in public or both?
Both!
Ok, I respect that! But I'm not the only person to partake in outdoor sexual activity, for a lot of people like it and a lot don't!
but you decided to start a thread about it and so you are the person in this instance to take the flack along with the support.
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That's what I was thinking,I have kids and I most certainly wouldn't like them to come across this ......
I agree, I have a grown up girl myself! It's always after 11pm, the problem is it's at a services, but like I say I don't determine where people do dogging!"you determine where you go dogging though | |||
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That's what I was thinking,I have kids and I most certainly wouldn't like them to come across this ......
I agree, I have a grown up girl myself! It's always after 11pm, the problem is it's at a services, but like I say I don't determine where people do dogging!
you determine where you go dogging though "Yes! And that's normally where the most action is! | |||
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That's what I was thinking,I have kids and I most certainly wouldn't like them to come across this ......
I agree, I have a grown up girl myself! It's always after 11pm, the problem is it's at a services, but like I say I don't determine where people do dogging!
you determine where you go dogging though
Yes! And that's normally where the most action is!"so that makes it ok then. its not even just the kid thing, not all adults want to witness guys wanking off and can be offended by it. if you like outdoor fun why cant it be in a non public place? | |||
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That's what I was thinking,I have kids and I most certainly wouldn't like them to come across this ......
I agree, I have a grown up girl myself! It's always after 11pm, the problem is it's at a services, but like I say I don't determine where people do dogging!
you determine where you go dogging though
Yes! And that's normally where the most action is!"Must say that's a bit rubbish. I'd rather go without my weekly wank or how often you visit this place than risk a criminal record. | |||
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That's what I was thinking,I have kids and I most certainly wouldn't like them to come across this ......
I agree, I have a grown up girl myself! It's always after 11pm, the problem is it's at a services, but like I say I don't determine where people do dogging!
you determine where you go dogging though
Yes! And that's normally where the most action is!
so that makes it ok then. its not even just the kid thing, not all adults want to witness guys wanking off and can be offended by it. if you like outdoor fun why cant it be in a non public place?"I didn't say it makes it ok! I do go to other places that are not so public, but if you go to a place with say 3 cars and the other place has 8 cars, where you going to go? | |||
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"Proper strange cat you lad ha ha Will be very suprised if you get any meets out of this thread bud!! Proper made me laugh my tuts off tho so, fair play and cheers lol
I don't want or need any meets from this thread! And I know I'm not the only one that does this, I just think people are thinking it wrong and that I just do it anywhere lol."No I think you thought this thread would take an entirely different direction with men congratulating you on your daring and women saying they'd love to join you. What you say in your original post is that you have got more daring and go to service areas and sit in your car naked from the waist down masturbating. No mention of dark, dogging etc. You then go on to defend yourself by saying no one is forced to look and that other people do it. When people say that women who come across this type of thing feel threatened and scared you sidestep the issue. Carry on doing what you do, carry on believing it's your right and harmless fun and that any woman who sees you doesn't matter.....just as long as you get your jollies. | |||
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That's what I was thinking,I have kids and I most certainly wouldn't like them to come across this ......
I agree, I have a grown up girl myself! It's always after 11pm, the problem is it's at a services, but like I say I don't determine where people do dogging!
you determine where you go dogging though
Yes! And that's normally where the most action is!
so that makes it ok then. its not even just the kid thing, not all adults want to witness guys wanking off and can be offended by it. if you like outdoor fun why cant it be in a non public place?
I didn't say it makes it ok! I do go to other places that are not so public, but if you go to a place with say 3 cars and the other place has 8 cars, where you going to go? "Home !! Were thinking your either deledid or retarded | |||
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"Lets have a little logic! Obviously the times I'm doing this, kids would not be about and if they are I'm very careful and aware of who could see. I been shot down for it, but it's no different to dogging. I'd say doggers generally try keep it out of the way of unsuspecting eyes Dogging is generally done in woods or secluded places late at night,, as to op what if a family was coming back from holiday and you were sat knocking one off? I would personally knock your head off myself. A time and a place for everything, what happens when your bored of services , start doing on a bus? Park bench? Slippery slope my friend It's always late at night anyway, just happens to be a services so yea place maybe not great, but if it's busy, it's where people will go, up to the police to stop it though." No its not. It's up to people to think with their big head and not their little one and consider if the location really the most suitable one. Clearly this is not happening. | |||
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"Proper strange cat you lad ha ha Will be very suprised if you get any meets out of this thread bud!! Proper made me laugh my tuts off tho so, fair play and cheers lol
I don't want or need any meets from this thread! And I know I'm not the only one that does this, I just think people are thinking it wrong and that I just do it anywhere lol.
No I think you thought this thread would
take an entirely different direction with men congratulating you on your daring and women saying they'd love to join you.
What you say in your original post is that you have got more daring and go to service areas and sit in your car naked from the waist down masturbating. No mention of dark, dogging etc. You then go on to defend yourself by saying no one is forced to look and that other people do it. When people say that women who come across this type of thing feel threatened and scared you sidestep the issue.
Carry on doing what you do, carry on believing it's your right and harmless fun and that any woman who sees you doesn't matter.....just as long as you get your jollies."Not at all, I don't want congratulating or women offering to join. I was merely finding out if others on here, participated in outdoor activity's and really I'm Not going to go to a services in middle of day, naked waist down and play unless I wanted to absolutely guarantee arrest and as for women being threatened and scared, I understand the point, but the women that partake as couples are far from threatened or scared. | |||
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"Lets have a little logic! Obviously the times I'm doing this, kids would not be about and if they are I'm very careful and aware of who could see. I been shot down for it, but it's no different to dogging. I'd say doggers generally try keep it out of the way of unsuspecting eyes Dogging is generally done in woods or secluded places late at night,, as to op what if a family was coming back from holiday and you were sat knocking one off? I would personally knock your head off myself. A time and a place for everything, what happens when your bored of services , start doing on a bus? Park bench? Slippery slope my friend It's always late at night anyway, just happens to be a services so yea place maybe not great, but if it's busy, it's where people will go, up to the police to stop it though."
Do you honestly think it's down to the police to stop you getting your cock out in a public place and tossing yourself off? And not your personal responsibility? That is a dangerous trainof thought.
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That's what I was thinking,I have kids and I most certainly wouldn't like them to come across this ......
I agree, I have a grown up girl myself! It's always after 11pm, the problem is it's at a services, but like I say I don't determine where people do dogging!
you determine where you go dogging though
Yes! And that's normally where the most action is!
Must say that's a bit rubbish.
I'd rather go without my weekly wank or how often you visit this place than risk a criminal record.
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"Lets have a little logic! Obviously the times I'm doing this, kids would not be about and if they are I'm very careful and aware of who could see. I been shot down for it, but it's no different to dogging. I'd say doggers generally try keep it out of the way of unsuspecting eyes Dogging is generally done in woods or secluded places late at night,, as to op what if a family was coming back from holiday and you were sat knocking one off? I would personally knock your head off myself. A time and a place for everything, what happens when your bored of services , start doing on a bus? Park bench? Slippery slope my friend It's always late at night anyway, just happens to be a services so yea place maybe not great, but if it's busy, it's where people will go, up to the police to stop it though. No its not. It's up to people to think with their big head and not their little one and consider if the location really the most suitable one. Clearly this is not happening. " Fair point! | |||
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Do you honestly think it's down to the police to stop you getting your cock out in a public place and tossing yourself off? And not your personal responsibility? That is a dangerous trainof thought.
You refer to yourself as "braver" in your original post I don't think what you do has anything to do with bravery."Maybe bravery is wrong word, more adventurous then. | |||
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" No I think you thought this thread would take an entirely different direction with men congratulating you on your daring and women saying they'd love to join you. What you say in your original post is that you have got more daring and go to service areas and sit in your car naked from the waist down masturbating. No mention of dark, dogging etc. You then go on to defend yourself by saying no one is forced to look and that other people do it. When people say that women who come across this type of thing feel threatened and scared you sidestep the issue. Carry on doing what you do, carry on believing it's your right and harmless fun and that any woman who sees you doesn't matter.....just as long as you get your jollies. Not at all, I don't want congratulating or women offering to join. I was merely finding out if others on here, participated in outdoor activity's and really I'm Not going to go to a services in middle of day, naked waist down and play unless I wanted to absolutely guarantee arrest and as for women being threatened and scared, I understand the point, but the women that partake as couples are far from threatened or scared." So you only go to places where you know that people will be ok with it or you don't give a flying fuck about anyone who isn't? | |||
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I think... if the guy is doing this at secluded places in the middle of the night then obviously that's something very different from what you lot are on about and, as he says, really isn't that much different from dogging. However, I just don't see how he can possibly imagine that anyone coming across him would be anything other than horrified. It simply isn't sexy imo
But, I say again, I think that most men... if they came across a woman having some fun in the front seat of her car at a service station in the middle of the night... I think it would probably be a massive turn on for a bloke.
The kids thing... hmmm I'm just not sure really. Are we too prudish as a culture? Should kids be allowed to witness others having sex? I can't see the harm of them witnessing the act of sex between two adults, as long as they are not drawn into it in any way whatsoever. It's part of life isn't it? "Do you have kids? If you do with an attitude like that they are at risk and if I had your detsils I would not hesitate to ring Childrens Social Care immediately. Not an over reaction you have a very dangerous opinion about children. | |||
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" No I think you thought this thread would take an entirely different direction with men congratulating you on your daring and women saying they'd love to join you. What you say in your original post is that you have got more daring and go to service areas and sit in your car naked from the waist down masturbating. No mention of dark, dogging etc. You then go on to defend yourself by saying no one is forced to look and that other people do it. When people say that women who come across this type of thing feel threatened and scared you sidestep the issue. Carry on doing what you do, carry on believing it's your right and harmless fun and that any woman who sees you doesn't matter.....just as long as you get your jollies. Not at all, I don't want congratulating or women offering to join. I was merely finding out if others on here, participated in outdoor activity's and really I'm Not going to go to a services in middle of day, naked waist down and play unless I wanted to absolutely guarantee arrest and as for women being threatened and scared, I understand the point, but the women that partake as couples are far from threatened or scared. So you only go to places where you know that people will be ok with it or you don't give a flying fuck about anyone who isn't? " I go to places that I think most are ok, I don't just randomly stop anywhere and hope lol. | |||
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I think... if the guy is doing this at secluded places in the middle of the night then obviously that's something very different from what you lot are on about and, as he says, really isn't that much different from dogging. However, I just don't see how he can possibly imagine that anyone coming across him would be anything other than horrified. It simply isn't sexy imo
But, I say again, I think that most men... if they came across a woman having some fun in the front seat of her car at a service station in the middle of the night... I think it would probably be a massive turn on for a bloke.
The kids thing... hmmm I'm just not sure really. Are we too prudish as a culture? Should kids be allowed to witness others having sex? I can't see the harm of them witnessing the act of sex between two adults, as long as they are not drawn into it in any way whatsoever. It's part of life isn't it?
Do you have kids? If you do with an attitude like that they are at risk and if I had your detsils I would not hesitate to ring Childrens Social Care immediately. Not an over reaction you have a very dangerous opinion about children. "I have a 22yr old daughter who I brought up by myself from the age of 8. Please tell me why my opinion about children is dangerous! | |||
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" No I think you thought this thread would take an entirely different direction with men congratulating you on your daring and women saying they'd love to join you. What you say in your original post is that you have got more daring and go to service areas and sit in your car naked from the waist down masturbating. No mention of dark, dogging etc. You then go on to defend yourself by saying no one is forced to look and that other people do it. When people say that women who come across this type of thing feel threatened and scared you sidestep the issue. Carry on doing what you do, carry on believing it's your right and harmless fun and that any woman who sees you doesn't matter.....just as long as you get your jollies." this.. OP, you've added that the 'dogging site' is next to the services and in some way that justifies what you do which if you look back at your own thread fella is about exposing yourself .. You say that more than one woman has seen you and one even joined in so on the balance of probability your either talking in fantasy terms or you've been doing this a while.. its not brave its not adventurous its not about swinging or dogging, its about your little selfish kink.. take a look at yourself, ask yourself would you want your own daughter seeing some other guy doing this..? | |||
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"I love this thread. It's got me smiling all over
I think... if the guy is doing this at secluded places in the middle of the night then obviously that's something very different from what you lot are on about and, as he says, really isn't that much different from dogging. However, I just don't see how he can possibly imagine that anyone coming across him would be anything other than horrified. It simply isn't sexy imo
But, I say again, I think that most men... if they came across a woman having some fun in the front seat of her car at a service station in the middle of the night... I think it would probably be a massive turn on for a bloke.
The kids thing... hmmm I'm just not sure really. Are we too prudish as a culture? Should kids be allowed to witness others having sex? I can't see the harm of them witnessing the act of sex between two adults, as long as they are not drawn into it in any way whatsoever. It's part of life isn't it?
Do you have kids? If you do with an attitude like that they are at risk and if I had your detsils I would not hesitate to ring Childrens Social Care immediately. Not an over reaction you have a very dangerous opinion about children.
I have a 22yr old daughter who I brought up by myself from the age of 8. Please tell me why my opinion a
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" No I think you thought this thread would take an entirely different direction with men congratulating you on your daring and women saying they'd love to join you. What you say in your original post is that you have got more daring and go to service areas and sit in your car naked from the waist down masturbating. No mention of dark, dogging etc. You then go on to defend yourself by saying no one is forced to look and that other people do it. When people say that women who come across this type of thing feel threatened and scared you sidestep the issue. Carry on doing what you do, carry on believing it's your right and harmless fun and that any woman who sees you doesn't matter.....just as long as you get your jollies. this.. OP, you've added that the 'dogging site' is next to the services and in some way that justifies what you do which if you look back at your own thread fella is about exposing yourself .. You say that more than one woman has seen you and one even joined in so on the balance of probability your either talking in fantasy terms or you've been doing this a while.. its not brave its not adventurous its not about swinging or dogging, its about your little selfish kink.. take a look at yourself, ask yourself would you want your own daughter seeing some other guy doing this..? " One, the dogging site is not next to services, it's in it, at rear of massive car park with woodland behind the car park. Two, one single woman that pulled up joined me, others have not seen me, they have pulled up and walked past without even noticing! Three, I've been doing this a while, but I think most people have mis read the thread or I have not put it properly and it is about swinging and dogging, that's how I've joined couples there. Four, if my daughter seen another guy doing this, she would probably ignore it and carry on at a guess. | |||
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"when I was 16 I saw a guy wanking in a three wheeler car. The first thing that goes through a woman's head when a guy she doesn't know is being sexual in front of her unasked for isn't "oooo let me join in". Nicecouple you've made some really good points on this thread and I'm also sorry you had to go through this experience but I've gotta admit the whole 'three wheel car' thing almost made me spit out my dinner lol It wasn't Delroy was it?"Who's delroy, do you know him, is he the infamous 3 wheeler wanker I saw on crime watch ? | |||
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" One, the dogging site is not next to services, it's in it, at rear of massive car park with woodland behind the car park. Two, one single woman that pulled up joined me, others have not seen me, they have pulled up and walked past without even noticing! Three, I've been doing this a while, but I think most people have mis read the thread or I have not put it properly and it is about swinging and dogging, that's how I've joined couples there. Four, if my daughter seen another guy doing this, she would probably ignore it and carry on at a guess." But you weren't talking about wanking at a dogging site, you were talking about wanking in a service station. Where single women and families go, at any time of day or night. Now I know that's what turns you on - the thrill of being caught and watched, but have you considered that you are forcing unwanted sexual contact on the people walking past your car? You are banking on the British sense of reserve preventing them from making a fuss, but one da you'll get into a lot of bother. | |||
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"This is just one lengthy exercise in self justification with little tweaks to the story here and there to enable the op to convince himself that he's not doing anyone any harm and that any frightened or upset woman isn't significant. I think most of us will have heard it all before." All I asked was about outdoor activity, I partake in it, I don't need to self justify or convince myself. I guess that no one else on here partakes in outdoor activity, which is fine, end of. | |||
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"This is just one lengthy exercise in self justification with little tweaks to the story here and there to enable the op to convince himself that he's not doing anyone any harm and that any frightened or upset woman isn't significant. I think most of us will have heard it all before. All I asked was about outdoor activity, I partake in it, I don't need to self justify or convince myself. I guess that no one else on here partakes in outdoor activity, which is fine, end of." All is good then. Carry on. | |||
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" One, the dogging site is not next to services, it's in it, at rear of massive car park with woodland behind the car park. Two, one single woman that pulled up joined me, others have not seen me, they have pulled up and walked past without even noticing! Three, I've been doing this a while, but I think most people have mis read the thread or I have not put it properly and it is about swinging and dogging, that's how I've joined couples there. Four, if my daughter seen another guy doing this, she would probably ignore it and carry on at a guess. But you weren't talking about wanking at a dogging site, you were talking about wanking in a service station. Where single women and families go, at any time of day or night. Now I know that's what turns you on - the thrill of being caught and watched, but have you considered that you are forcing unwanted sexual contact on the people walking past your car? You are banking on the British sense of reserve preventing them from making a fuss, but one da you'll get into a lot of bother." The dogging site is in a service station, late at night. I maybe worded the thread wrong at the start. Wanking at a dogging place is still wanking in public. | |||
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"The dogging site is in a service station, late at night. I maybe worded the thread wrong at the start. Wanking at a dogging place is still wanking in public." A dogging site within a service station?
Well no problem then. Carry on bashing them out in public, because dogging is a widely accepted practice, and not at all a magnet for police and red top attention. | |||
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"I wldnt like to see someone wanking away in his car. Wldnt do anything for me tbh" Which is fine! Your obviously not a fan of dogging. | |||
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"I wldnt like to see someone wanking away in his car. Wldnt do anything for me tbh Which is fine! Your obviously not a fan of dogging." But it's not dogging, dogging is where like-minded people meet for mutual fun.. what you do is perverse and wrong but you obviously can't see that. To keep making excuses shows that. | |||
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"If you progress to MacDonalds can you wait until ive eaten n left....... thanks xx No problem lol, don't think McDonalds is an option anyway, the food is crap to me and contributes largely to our country's obesity problem. The salad doesn't. The fruit doesn't The coffee doesn't It's all about choice and balance really
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"This is just one lengthy exercise in self justification with little tweaks to the story here and there to enable the op to convince himself that he's not doing anyone any harm and that any frightened or upset woman isn't significant. I think most of us will have heard it all before. All I asked was about outdoor activity, I partake in it, I don't need to self justify or convince myself. I guess that no one else on here partakes in outdoor activity, which is fine, end of." your thread was titled public as your threads went on to say, how you have described your activities there is a great chance that someone who is innocent will stumble across you. I was a victim at work of a guy who thought it acceptable to wank in front of me, first day couldn't believe my eyes, second day I didn't hesitate to report him. He was escorted of the premises and then fired and the police where involved. He had worked there for 25 years and was well respected I had only been there three months. The only reason I didn't press charges was because I was pregnant and it was too much stress. | |||
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" I'd imagine the risk of being seen by a passerby at a designated site is very low as opposed to where you frequent. Alas this has all been said. I'm not sure you have listened. Good luck. " I have listened and know what you mean! | |||
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"This is just one lengthy exercise in self justification with little tweaks to the story here and there to enable the op to convince himself that he's not doing anyone any harm and that any frightened or upset woman isn't significant. I think most of us will have heard it all before. All I asked was about outdoor activity, I partake in it, I don't need to self justify or convince myself. I guess that no one else on here partakes in outdoor activity, which is fine, end of.your thread was titled public as your threads went on to say, how you have described your activities there is a great chance that someone who is innocent will stumble across you. I was a victim at work of a guy who thought it acceptable to wank in front of me, first day couldn't believe my eyes, second day I didn't hesitate to report him. He was escorted of the premises and then fired and the police where involved. He had worked there for 25 years and was well respected I had only been there three months. The only reason I didn't press charges was because I was pregnant and it was too much stress. " Yes, there is that chance that someone innocent will stumble across not just me but others to. What happened to you though was direct force and I'm sorry you went through that. | |||
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"I wldnt like to see someone wanking away in his car. Wldnt do anything for me tbh Which is fine! Your obviously not a fan of dogging. But it's not dogging, dogging is where like-minded people meet for mutual fun.. what you do is perverse and wrong but you obviously can't see that. To keep making excuses shows that. " Ok, so driving to a dogging place, removing clothes and wanking is not dogging? Please inform me of what it is then and how it's perverse and wrong, apart from dogging being illegal anyway! | |||
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"This is just one lengthy exercise in self justification with little tweaks to the story here and there to enable the op to convince himself that he's not doing anyone any harm and that any frightened or upset woman isn't significant. I think most of us will have heard it all before. All I asked was about outdoor activity, I partake in it, I don't need to self justify or convince myself. I guess that no one else on here partakes in outdoor activity, which is fine, end of.your thread was titled public as your threads went on to say, how you have described your activities there is a great chance that someone who is innocent will stumble across you. I was a victim at work of a guy who thought it acceptable to wank in front of me, first day couldn't believe my eyes, second day I didn't hesitate to report him. He was escorted of the premises and then fired and the police where involved. He had worked there for 25 years and was well respected I had only been there three months. The only reason I didn't press charges was because I was pregnant and it was too much stress. Yes, there is that chance that someone innocent will stumble across not just me but others to. What happened to you though was direct force and I'm sorry you went through that." I wasn't emotionally upset, I was fucking livid that someone would do that to a pregnant woman had it not been me but someone else it could of scared them for life However, if I was in a secluded dogging area I would expect to see guys with there cocks out. But not when I'm just going about my business | |||
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" Thanks for that, but now by the way this thread has gone, think you may get shot down as most people in the thread think sexual matters should be kept back to let the children be children. Teaching children about sexual matters is totally different than coming across a man wanking in his car
I agree, I never bought kids into this, they got bought in because a dogging site is at a motorway services, that's not my fault and as I said before, I'm careful and would be mortified for if a kid saw.
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Roll down your window and say sorry?
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"I wldnt like to see someone wanking away in his car. Wldnt do anything for me tbh Which is fine! Your obviously not a fan of dogging. But it's not dogging, dogging is where like-minded people meet for mutual fun.. what you do is perverse and wrong but you obviously can't see that. To keep making excuses shows that. Ok, so driving to a dogging place, removing clothes and wanking is not dogging? Please inform me of what it is then and how it's perverse and wrong, apart from dogging being illegal anyway!" You only mentioned dogging when people stated objecting. You do what you want, nothing anybody says is going to change your mind. I hope that nobody sees you who doesn't want to and I hope you never need to use any of the pathetic lines of defence you've used here in court. | |||
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"This is just one lengthy exercise in self justification with little tweaks to the story here and there to enable the op to convince himself that he's not doing anyone any harm and that any frightened or upset woman isn't significant. I think most of us will have heard it all before. All I asked was about outdoor activity, I partake in it, I don't need to self justify or convince myself. I guess that no one else on here partakes in outdoor activity, which is fine, end of.your thread was titled public as your threads went on to say, how you have described your activities there is a great chance that someone who is innocent will stumble across you. I was a victim at work of a guy who thought it acceptable to wank in front of me, first day couldn't believe my eyes, second day I didn't hesitate to report him. He was escorted of the premises and then fired and the police where involved. He had worked there for 25 years and was well respected I had only been there three months. The only reason I didn't press charges was because I was pregnant and it was too much stress. Yes, there is that chance that someone innocent will stumble across not just me but others to. What happened to you though was direct force and I'm sorry you went through that.I wasn't emotionally upset, I was fucking livid that someone would do that to a pregnant woman had it not been me but someone else it could of scared them for life However, if I was in a secluded dogging area I would expect to see guys with there cocks out. But not when I'm just going about my business" Precisely! Hooray, someone that gets it. It's just the dogging area that's caused the upset happens to be in a motorway services. | |||
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"This is just one lengthy exercise in self justification with little tweaks to the story here and there to enable the op to convince himself that he's not doing anyone any harm and that any frightened or upset woman isn't significant. I think most of us will have heard it all before. All I asked was about outdoor activity, I partake in it, I don't need to self justify or convince myself. I guess that no one else on here partakes in outdoor activity, which is fine, end of.your thread was titled public as your threads went on to say, how you have described your activities there is a great chance that someone who is innocent will stumble across you. I was a victim at work of a guy who thought it acceptable to wank in front of me, first day couldn't believe my eyes, second day I didn't hesitate to report him. He was escorted of the premises and then fired and the police where involved. He had worked there for 25 years and was well respected I had only been there three months. The only reason I didn't press charges was because I was pregnant and it was too much stress. Yes, there is that chance that someone innocent will stumble across not just me but others to. What happened to you though was direct force and I'm sorry you went through that.I wasn't emotionally upset, I was fucking livid that someone would do that to a pregnant woman had it not been me but someone else it could of scared them for life However, if I was in a secluded dogging area I would expect to see guys with there cocks out. But not when I'm just going about my business Precisely! Hooray, someone that gets it. It's just the dogging area that's caused the upset happens to be in a motorway services." I wasn't agreeing with you, you never mentioned a dogging area until people started objecting to what you where doing | |||
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"Precisely! Hooray, someone that gets it. It's just the dogging area that's caused the upset happens to be in a motorway services." It only 'magically' turned into a dogging site once you realised people objected to you wanking openly in an area where families frequent often. I serious doubt the veracity of that anyway. No service station would be happy to know that there's a bunch of people shagging in their car park. | |||
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"This is just one lengthy exercise in self justification with little tweaks to the story here and there to enable the op to convince himself that he's not doing anyone any harm and that any frightened or upset woman isn't significant. I think most of us will have heard it all before. All I asked was about outdoor activity, I partake in it, I don't need to self justify or convince myself. I guess that no one else on here partakes in outdoor activity, which is fine, end of.your thread was titled public as your threads went on to say, how you have described your activities there is a great chance that someone who is innocent will stumble across you. I was a victim at work of a guy who thought it acceptable to wank in front of me, first day couldn't believe my eyes, second day I didn't hesitate to report him. He was escorted of the premises and then fired and the police where involved. He had worked there for 25 years and was well respected I had only been there three months. The only reason I didn't press charges was because I was pregnant and it was too much stress. Yes, there is that chance that someone innocent will stumble across not just me but others to. What happened to you though was direct force and I'm sorry you went through that.I wasn't emotionally upset, I was fucking livid that someone would do that to a pregnant woman had it not been me but someone else it could of scared them for life However, if I was in a secluded dogging area I would expect to see guys with there cocks out. But not when I'm just going about my business Precisely! Hooray, someone that gets it. It's just the dogging area that's caused the upset happens to be in a motorway services." I agree with the above, but a service station car park isn't a secluded dogging area is it OP? | |||
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"I wldnt like to see someone wanking away in his car. Wldnt do anything for me tbh Which is fine! Your obviously not a fan of dogging. But it's not dogging, dogging is where like-minded people meet for mutual fun.. what you do is perverse and wrong but you obviously can't see that. To keep making excuses shows that. Ok, so driving to a dogging place, removing clothes and wanking is not dogging? Please inform me of what it is then and how it's perverse and wrong, apart from dogging being illegal anyway! You only mentioned dogging when people stated objecting. You do what you want, nothing anybody says is going to change your mind. I hope that nobody sees you who doesn't want to and I hope you never need to use any of the pathetic lines of defence you've used here in court." I maybe wasn't clear enough from the start! I thought people would have more brains to not think I just pull up anywhere and start wanking because if I did do that, I wouldn't be here writing now. Wanking at a dogging site is still wanking in public, even if one of the sites is a motorway services! | |||
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"This is just one lengthy exercise in self justification with little tweaks to the story here and there to enable the op to convince himself that he's not doing anyone any harm and that any frightened or upset woman isn't significant. I think most of us will have heard it all before. All I asked was about outdoor activity, I partake in it, I don't need to self justify or convince myself. I guess that no one else on here partakes in outdoor activity, which is fine, end of.your thread was titled public as your threads went on to say, how you have described your activities there is a great chance that someone who is innocent will stumble across you. I was a victim at work of a guy who thought it acceptable to wank in front of me, first day couldn't believe my eyes, second day I didn't hesitate to report him. He was escorted of the premises and then fired and the police where involved. He had worked there for 25 years and was well respected I had only been there three months. The only reason I didn't press charges was because I was pregnant and it was too much stress. Yes, there is that chance that someone innocent will stumble across not just me but others to. What happened to you though was direct force and I'm sorry you went through that.I wasn't emotionally upset, I was fucking livid that someone would do that to a pregnant woman had it not been me but someone else it could of scared them for life However, if I was in a secluded dogging area I would expect to see guys with there cocks out. But not when I'm just going about my business Precisely! Hooray, someone that gets it. It's just the dogging area that's caused the upset happens to be in a motorway services. I agree with the above, but a service station car park isn't a secluded dogging area is it OP? " Agreed! | |||
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