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Are you a positive or a negative?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which are you a positive or a negative advice giver?

I don't mean on here only more in life in general do you go down the tough love stance do or are you a provider of sympathy and optimism? I am not saying either is good or bad just curious on what people think is most helpful in the short and long term.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I try and give whatever advice is appropriate at the time.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm probably more along the lines of 'the tough love' type.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I try and give whatever advice is appropriate at the time.

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I get that it makes sense I would say I am more a 66/34 in favour of positive I was wondering which people thought was most effective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot depends on how well I know someone with a stranger tough love just comes across as being a bit condescending or aggressive or that's how I see it so I will avoid or give some positivity or non at all.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It entirely depends but advice us worthless if it isn't truthful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It entirely depends but advice us worthless if it isn't truthful."

Full agreement on that it has to be truthful but you can deliver the message in both ways usually.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It entirely depends but advice us worthless if it isn't truthful.

Full agreement on that it has to be truthful but you can deliver the message in both ways usually. "

Yes that's true.

I try to be positive in all areas of my life so I try to apply that to advice giving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, when I am doing something I am confident then very positive.

Get me on an off day, negative.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think I am quite balanced

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I like to give a negative sandwich with positive for the bread positive, negative, positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Pragmatic but with great personal warmth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think positive. As you get older you realise that things can seem a lot better with a little time and a warm positive approach. I feel terribly cheesy saying it but all the best things in life are free, so grab them by the armful when things seem glum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be honest and not let my personal feelings colour my advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm supportive, but if someone says should I do x or y I step back.

Their choice.

The only people I don't step back for are my family and closest 2 friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which are you a positive or a negative advice giver?

I don't mean on here only more in life in general do you go down the tough love stance do or are you a provider of sympathy and optimism? I am not saying either is good or bad just curious on what people think is most helpful in the short and long term.

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I'm a realist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm diplomatic. If someone asks my advice and I need to say something negative I try and do it in a nice way that's still honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody says i'm a glass half full kind of person.

What does that mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positive!!! But I find it hard to be positive with myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everybody says i'm a glass half full kind of person.

What does that mean?

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Means it's your round. Get them in Pops

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I can give both, depending what I deem is necessary at the time.

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