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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so during open play, usually at party nites in a club, especially greedy girls parties etc, a guy or number of guys touch u or full on fondle without permission to join in.... now this debate ( I hope) is if it was a woman who without permission did it to a guy is it wrong or inappropriate or offending, is it one rule for guys another for girls??? Cummon I'd love to know how u all feel about this xx xx

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I've never been to a club but it should be one rule for everyone.

If some slack arsed minger started grabbing my junk without permission I'd have her thrown out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so during open play, usually at party nites in a club, especially greedy girls parties etc, a guy or number of guys touch u or full on fondle without permission to join in.... now this debate ( I hope) is if it was a woman who without permission did it to a guy is it wrong or inappropriate or offending, is it one rule for guys another for girls??? Cummon I'd love to know how u all feel about this xx xx "

I would say unwanted attention is unwelcome no matter on the sex ??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

it should be the same rule for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt get touched up last night dont know if id of minded or not

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

grabbing without warning is wrong, whatever the sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never been to a club but it should be one rule for everyone.

If some slack arsed minger started grabbing my junk without permission I'd have her thrown out."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys,good etiquette always applies - always ask before joining in (remember, no means NO!), be respectful, no touching or groping unless you're specifically invited and above all else, show respect to all lovely swingers. Good manners makes for good fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's an awkward one I know.... group are open play, fem gets on the bed and joins in....some would except with joy others may be offended if she wasn't invited to touch or join in.... think this debate may be mixed views dunno????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simply wrong by either sex. I wouldn't let it happen to me so I wouldn't do it to someone else. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didnt get touched up last night dont know if id of minded or not "

Awhhh u shudda come n stealth'ed in like last one hhahaa x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be too happy to be manhandled or even womanhandled without my permission

if it's party play between a bunch of you that are agreed and all in a room together then that's fine; But for some stranger to come up and smash and grab that's a no-no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If consent is not expressly given then it's wrong regardless of gender. It could also (and should) be considered as sexual assault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as the woman whose guy it was who got touched she was definitely out of order as she was told and shown......if it was the other way round she would have been demanding he be removed from the club.....it shows a complete disrespect for guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking as the woman whose guy it was who got touched she was definitely out of order as she was told and shown......if it was the other way round she would have been demanding he be removed from the club.....it shows a complete disrespect for guys"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Speaking as the woman whose guy it was who got touched she was definitely out of order as she was told and shown......if it was the other way round she would have been demanding he be removed from the club.....it shows a complete disrespect for guys

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've never been to a club but if anyone wanted to touch me, I'd expect them to ask. I'm not made of playdough, to be squeezed and tweaked willy-nilly!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Speaking as the woman whose guy it was who got touched she was definitely out of order as she was told and shown......if it was the other way round she would have been demanding he be removed from the club.....it shows a complete disrespect for guys"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's do it like they do in the discovery channel.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Let's do it like they do in the discovery channel. "

Historically?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in the jacuzzi at chams last week and playing with another female and her partner ..Some random guy came behind me and touched me up ..I looked round and gave him a death stare and pushed his hand away ...its totally wrong to touch without asking! !!..I find it very rude and disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's do it like they do in the discovery channel.

Historically? "

Rhetorically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was in the jacuzzi at chams last week and playing with another female and her partner ..Some random guy came behind me and touched me up ..I looked round and gave him a death stare and pushed his hand away ...its totally wrong to touch without asking! !!..I find it very rude and disrespectful "

Your quite right it is, its just a shame that some women don't uphold the same rules to guys as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't expect to be asked verbally, but a questioning non verbal communication can be sufficient. I find it hard to talk with my mouth full.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im guessing theres some PC answers going on here and not being answered truthfully.

Men tend to be less tactful than women and in the main less respectful and i can understand the irritation with men just groping. It is rude.

However being a hot blooded male if I were in a club and felt my manhood being massaged by a lady i dont think id be to upset by it and certainly wouldnt stop her and im assuming nor would the majority of men in reality, i may be wrong but experience in clubs leave me to believe im not far off the mark

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