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Confidence is sexy - so what makes you feel confident?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Confidence seems to be the sexiest atteibute someone can have. Or does anyone disagree?

What makes you personally feel confident?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

being comfortable with whom I am..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age and experience, and the fact that I never take myself too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The company I keep. If I feel out of place, I'll feel uneasy and shy. If the people I'm with seem to genuinely enjoy my company, I'll be confident. I completely feed off of other people's energy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean as a whistle, hair just right,decent clothes and look in the mirror and tell myself feint heart never fucked a fair maiden ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling good brings out the confidence in me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much confidence becomes arrogance. Nothing uglier than arrogance. Enough confidence to hold a fun friendly conversation with somebody new while having enough modesty to know your no better than them is a perfect mix. Sadly I have too much modesty and seriously lack confidence....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my underwear fits, my hair goes right and I'm happy..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Confidence seems to be the sexiest atteibute someone can have. Or does anyone disagree?

What makes you personally feel confident?

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Knowing that I turn women on (sometimes)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget to smile,a miserable looking fucker isnt a confident fucker so PMA +

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Too much confidence becomes arrogance. Nothing uglier than arrogance. Enough confidence to hold a fun friendly conversation with somebody new while having enough modesty to know your no better than them is a perfect mix. Sadly I have too much modesty and seriously lack confidence.... "

I don't think that's confidence any more as you said, that's just arrogance.

And I suspect maybe arrogance can be rooted in a lack of confidence?

Fab has made me more confident. Weirdly.

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By *jeibm2012Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly

I think age, or more specifically experience, is important. The more you live, the more you get to know yourself and what matters to you, and where or what you're willing to compromise.

You get to know the vast scope of people and personalities, and with that you know you should let yourself be confident because all the good people in your life want you to be - and you do those relationships the most justice when you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's to do with the people I'm with if they make me feel comfy and include me I feel more confident ,I'm a shy person and don't really enjoy being round loads of people I don't know I prefer small groups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking back seeing where I was and where I am now and remembering the journey it has given me the confidence to go even further.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Confidence seems to be the sexiest atteibute someone can have. Or does anyone disagree?

What makes you personally feel confident?

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..when im alone..

People sometimes make me doubt my decisions.. .

..thats why i always back-pack alone.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Being a trusted friend and colleague

Having a wonderful partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just being myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wearing makeup, bright colours, when my hair looks nice.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

My long experience in getting away with it.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Knowing from past experience that I am good at something and will be appreciated. Take dancing for instance (my kind of) - I can put my hand out to any dancer in the room with a broad grin knowing he will enjoy the dance, so I can approach anyone, even the best in the world.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


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Good underwear and a sexy dress make me feel confident

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Confidence seems to be the sexiest atteibute someone can have. Or does anyone disagree?

What makes you personally feel confident?

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I used to have a pair of pulling pants. Every time I wore them I pulled, but other pants did not stand up to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not this site that's for sure

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By *mgdaveMan
over a year ago

paisley

When I look in the mirror at a certain angle that I don't look as if I'm going baldy lol

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Confidence seems to be the sexiest atteibute someone can have. Or does anyone disagree?

What makes you personally feel confident?

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My husband telling me how gorgeous I am!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confidence seems to be the sexiest atteibute someone can have. Or does anyone disagree?

What makes you personally feel confident?

"

Comfort in my own skin. Took a while to get there... And almost as a consequence, being able to laugh at myself.

That and the big bulge in my trousers... Oh, I meant my wallet being stuffed with lots of copper coins

... What did you think I meant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always feel confident when someone agrees to meet me. I do feel nervous before but adrenalin kicks in before the door is opened and then confidence kicks in. I guess this is feeling comfortable in a situation

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

When I am dressed as Rachel, I am very confident. Shame I am not always like that in drab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dressing sexy gives me confidence

Paul is just confident full stop nothing phases him

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