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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok here is a question you have a very good dear friend who happens to be a proffessionial domme but wants new video content to sell but is struggling to find slaves so she asks if you would be willing to help out do you or do you decline ?

Option of a mask to hide your face is on offer .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok here is a question you have a very good dear friend who happens to be a proffessionial domme but wants new video content to sell but is struggling to find slaves so she asks if you would be willing to help out do you or do you decline ?

Option of a mask to hide your face is on offer ."

I've spoken out with ethical concerns about the fact that most 'professional' tops who are making videos do not pay the male performers.

Any other porn actor gets paid. Female submissives for porn get paid.

If you *do* want to do it and you're not completely out to everyone about swinging and kink, make sure that you are well hooded and that every identifying mark on your body is covered.

I did Escort magazine about 8 years ago and occasionally someone still recognises me - which is pretty creepy. Make sure your tattoo's etc don't give you away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not worried about payment she is like I said a very good friend she has offered to help with my travel costs .

It was more about what peoples thoughts of having content out there in the public domain of themselves was .

Plus if anyone I know finds it the kinky fuckers must been looking for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not worried about payment she is like I said a very good friend she has offered to help with my travel costs .

It was more about what peoples thoughts of having content out there in the public domain of themselves was .

Plus if anyone I know finds it the kinky fuckers must been looking for it "

People have been fired from their jobs for less. Just make sure you take all precautions for your current *or any future* employer that you might have.

Once it is on the internet you can't take it back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that domme if she can't ask for herself!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not worried about payment she is like I said a very good friend she has offered to help with my travel costs .

It was more about what peoples thoughts of having content out there in the public domain of themselves was .

Plus if anyone I know finds it the kinky fuckers must been looking for it

People have been fired from their jobs for less. Just make sure you take all precautions for your current *or any future* employer that you might have.

Once it is on the internet you can't take it back."

Thanks for advice oh and escort 8 years ago you naughty minx you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Thanks for advice oh and escort 8 years ago you naughty minx you "

Not sure I'd call it 'naughty'. Perhaps 'trashy, depressing and soul-destroying' would be better - that's the reality of doing that kind of work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok here is a question you have a very good dear friend who happens to be a proffessionial domme but wants new video content to sell but is struggling to find slaves so she asks if you would be willing to help out do you or do you decline ?

Option of a mask to hide your face is on offer ."

Ask her for a non-filmed session first to see if you like it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok here is a question you have a very good dear friend who happens to be a proffessionial domme but wants new video content to sell but is struggling to find slaves so she asks if you would be willing to help out do you or do you decline ?

Option of a mask to hide your face is on offer .

Ask her for a non-filmed session first to see if you like it? "

We have known each other 8 years and her hand has been in places no other persons hand has been

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not that domme if she can't ask for herself!"

I'm confused lol she has asked me to do it that's the whole point of the post ??

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"Not that domme if she can't ask for herself!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not that domme if she can't ask for herself!

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Ok still confused she has asked me unless you mean she can't find slaves it is because she wants quick content and hasn't got time to look for slaves at the moment

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Film first for your own experience and ownership and then reflect on people you know seeing it. Show it to other friends and see how you all react and maybe share with someone you work with, if your jobs safe.

Once you've had experience of it being out there you'll make a better decision on going public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that domme if she can't ask for herself!

I'm confused lol she has asked me to do it that's the whole point of the post ?? "

Why can't she ask herself. She's supposed to he domme or is she shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be up for it...I've acted in a sub role to a domme in past situations before.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not that domme if she can't ask for herself!

I'm confused lol she has asked me to do it that's the whole point of the post ??

Why can't she ask herself. She's supposed to he domme or is she shy "

I'm still confused by your point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not that domme if she can't ask for herself!

I'm confused lol she has asked me to do it that's the whole point of the post ??

Why can't she ask herself. She's supposed to he domme or is she shy "

No seriously why can't she ask what herself ?? I am totally confused by your posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decline, not a sub so couldn't do it for pleasure and hate being recognised for anything. Won't even do interviews for radio!

But this is your choice to make so do what you feel like doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that domme if she can't ask for herself!

I'm confused lol she has asked me to do it that's the whole point of the post ??

Why can't she ask herself. She's supposed to he domme or is she shy

No seriously why can't she ask what herself ?? I am totally confused by your posts "

Your OP is a theoretical question asking people what they would do in that situation.

I think some have read it that you are actually asking for volunteers for people to be filmed by her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not that domme if she can't ask for herself!

I'm confused lol she has asked me to do it that's the whole point of the post ??

Why can't she ask herself. She's supposed to he domme or is she shy

No seriously why can't she ask what herself ?? I am totally confused by your posts

Your OP is a theoretical question asking people what they would do in that situation.

I think some have read it that you are actually asking for volunteers for people to be filmed by her. "

Ahhhh but being a simple man I would of just posted up looking for slaves for filming rather than posing a question but ty for spotting it

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Filmimg S&M in the UK is a really hard one as not many platforms like AW will touch it because its taboo under new laws.

Where years ago a slave could use a safe word its all changed now as the master/mistress has a duty of care not to hurt or inflict pain on the other person.

The new rules in porn were done to stamp out excessive S&M, your friend should expect a visit from the police or council if they are making these types of films.

Tell your friend to look at the BBFC or ATVOD guidelines and stick rigidly to them, not many film producers i know would make films on this subject unless they had good buyers overseas e.g. Europe.

With one death and another almost fatal injury S&M as gone too far for its own good, strict rulings were ordered and its almost destroyed the mainstream porn industry as we have been lumped in with this too.

To sell any footage here Europe or the States you will need to provide photo id and sign a model release, releases relating to S&M activities can't word anything about the subject agreeing to what will happen pain wise.

Its a minefield to go into for your mistress unless she as like i said as good overseas buyer, you as a victim in the eyes of the law you would be doing nothing illegal and the duty of care lies in the hands of the mistress / master.

I'm booked into February with people wanting to make films so when its hard to find people you also know its a subject you will struggle with.

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough


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With one death and another almost fatal injury S&M as gone too far for its own good, "

Could you tell me what incidents you are referring to here please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is she requiring the sub to actually do? I might be interested if it sounds up my street.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


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With one death and another almost fatal injury S&M as gone too far for its own good,

Could you tell me what incidents you are referring to here please?"

1 guy was wrapped in cling film and died even though he had straws up his nose and the guy who wrapped him is being done on man slaughter charges, the other was a guys chest was pierced by a stiletto heel...Google UK s&m incidents and you'll get loads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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With one death and another almost fatal injury S&M as gone too far for its own good,

Could you tell me what incidents you are referring to here please?

1 guy was wrapped in cling film and died even though he had straws up his nose and the guy who wrapped him is being done on man slaughter charges, the other was a guys chest was pierced by a stiletto heel...Google UK s&m incidents and you'll get loads."

Do you have any links to these cases being reported in mainstream media? I'm sure that if these things were the cause for a law to change then they would have been well documented and reported on.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1319103/Businessman-Lionel-Webster-chokes-death-S-M-session-pensioner-couples-dungeon.html

This is one but there are loads on Google, type in deaths in UK caused by S&M.

Type in injuries and you'll understand why the government need to implicate new rules/laws.

Look for the David Kooche story about a vet who killed someone though s&m and then carried on having sex with someone else after mutilating his lover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1319103/Businessman-Lionel-Webster-chokes-death-S-M-session-pensioner-couples-dungeon.html

This is one but there are loads on Google, type in deaths in UK caused by S&M.

Type in injuries and you'll understand why the government need to implicate new rules/laws.

Look for the David Kooche story about a vet who killed someone though s&m and then carried on having sex with someone else after mutilating his lover.

"

With respect, I'm not sure that those things were anything to do with the new laws.

I mean, cars and lorries kill more people every day than S&M has probably killed in ten years... but they don't seem to be outlawing cars.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Because this is my livelihood i need to be on top of anything i shoot or others shoot, ever since i started when porn was illegal the law as changed constantly.

Making it hard on genuine producers because of a certain niche is crazy but thats the government we have at the moment.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Contact your local council and say you have a dungeon, they will check it on health and safety and tell you what you can and can't do.

If you don't believe me ring them and find out, you asked for links about documented cases which i supplied one but there are loafs on the net.

Yes people do get killed by cars but if you drive a car directly at a person to cause injury you get done.

No matter how much you pretty the subject up hurting and inflicting pain is illegal, look on Wikipedia or Google.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What is she requiring the sub to actually do? I might be interested if it sounds up my street."
or back alley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is she requiring the sub to actually do? I might be interested if it sounds up my street. or back alley "

I REALLY don't know what you might mean!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What is she requiring the sub to actually do? I might be interested if it sounds up my street. or back alley

I REALLY don't know what you might mean! "
....your cul-de-sac

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No matter how much you pretty the subject up hurting and inflicting pain is illegal, look on Wikipedia or Google."

Well actually, it's not. The Spanner Trust helped on that legal front as did Backlash.

'Wikipedia' and 'Google' aren't sources. Especially not wikipedia, which anyone can edit. Imagemaking is my business too, although not commercial pornography. Campaigning for better rights for kinksters also takes up a large amount of my time.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"

No matter how much you pretty the subject up hurting and inflicting pain is illegal, look on Wikipedia or Google.

Well actually, it's not. The Spanner Trust helped on that legal front as did Backlash.

'Wikipedia' and 'Google' aren't sources. Especially not wikipedia, which anyone can edit. Imagemaking is my business too, although not commercial pornography. Campaigning for better rights for kinksters also takes up a large amount of my time."

However much you thnk you are right hurting & inflicting pan is illegal, the people inflicting the pain now have a moral and legal duty of care over the person being tortured/hurt etc.

The safe word no longer counts in a court of law its the person inflicting pain that as to know when a person is in pain, I make films for a living & stay away from this niche and also campaign for the right of adult workers across the board.

Look up UKAP and Sex and Censorship these are 2 of the main active groups campaigning for everybody, these groups have meetings with the BBFC/ATVOD/Government etc.

S & M is not tying to be fazed out but made safer so it only for the good really.

The OP asked about making S & M films which if made correctly e.g. 3 smacks change scene etc, no tying people down, no brutality then yes there are fine to make as long as they go by the BBFC rulings like the rest of us have to.

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