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OK..So what do Hugs really do for you?

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Do hugs really make people feel better when they are really sad or ill?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physiologically-yes! They make the body release oxytocin, a calming, bonding hormone.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Physiologically-yes! They make the body release oxytocin, a calming, bonding hormone."
But not everyone wants a hug, some people just prefer to be left alone.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"Do hugs really make people feel better when they are really sad or ill? "

Depends who is hugging but I do believe in the power of human touch and hugs are a part of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to give hugs but not always bothered about receiving them x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Do hugs really make people feel better when they are really sad or ill?

Depends who is hugging but I do believe in the power of human touch and hugs are a part of that."

this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the hug is off the right person it can really help but again sometimes it's nice to just be left alone

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I could easily lose myself in a proper snuggly hug!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"Physiologically-yes! They make the body release oxytocin, a calming, bonding hormone.But not everyone wants a hug, some people just prefer to be left alone. "

Think we all do at times. Respecting a persons wishes is the order of any day. Enforced/unwelcome hugs make people feel worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs are not necessarily good for someone who sobbing in tears as it can stop the natural release of the sadness....care of WitchDoc's Brain Farts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love hugs......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close personal contact better than loansome tears in times of distress...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who's giving them and why. When I'm suffering with a bout of PTSD I just want everyone to bugger off and not speak to me. Trying to hug me is the last thing anyone should do.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Physiologically-yes! They make the body release oxytocin, a calming, bonding hormone.But not everyone wants a hug, some people just prefer to be left alone.

Think we all do at times. Respecting a persons wishes is the order of any day. Enforced/unwelcome hugs make people feel worse. "
Yes I agree cause then the person who doesn't want to hug doesn't want to hurt the feelings of the hug giver then ends up feeling worse than when they started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs are the best especially from the right person

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By *lligator3Man
over a year ago

Dundee


"Physiologically-yes! They make the body release oxytocin, a calming, bonding hormone.But not everyone wants a hug, some people just prefer to be left alone. "

If you or 'people' prefer to be left alone, then done take one...confused by this topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This

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By *lligator3Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Dont*

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I miss hugs,it's pants being single at times...

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Physiologically-yes! They make the body release oxytocin, a calming, bonding hormone.But not everyone wants a hug, some people just prefer to be left alone.

If you or 'people' prefer to be left alone, then done take one...confused by this topic "
Obviously you are easily confused this evening it makes perfect sense to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends....if I'm very emotional a well meaning hug will send me over the edge and I'll dissolve into tears.

If I'm down then a hug is a good pick me up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a hugger but during the worse time in my life I was glued to my husband's lap for months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love hugging. I feel close to people I spend time with and it's good to share your connection by doing more than just sex. And if you do some of what I do then the person you are with will need care and attention

I also just love hugging

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"I could easily lose myself in a proper snuggly hug!! "

This

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By *lligator3Man
over a year ago

Dundee


"Physiologically-yes! They make the body release oxytocin, a calming, bonding hormone.But not everyone wants a hug, some people just prefer to be left alone.

If you or 'people' prefer to be left alone, then done take one...confused by this topic Obviously you are easily confused this evening it makes perfect sense to me. "

My answer not help then? more analysis please fab community....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they definitely can make the hug giver and receiver feel better. Depends on the dynamics between them. Although when I'm ill, I generally prefer to be left alone , but when I'm sad - I like hugs. When someone runs into your arms for a hug, that's the best feeling in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the hug is off the right person it can really help but again sometimes it's nice to just be left alone "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It usually makes me feel good when it's someone I love.

if It's off a dude, I'm conscious of the crotch distance

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Prefer to be on my own when I'm sad but love big squiggy hugs any other time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hug I get from my daughter everyday as she gets in from school is the highlight of my day

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By *lligator3Man
over a year ago

Dundee


"It usually makes me feel good when it's someone I love.

if It's off a dude, I'm conscious of the crotch distance "

Sorry why are you fantasising about his cock? (Fruedian slip if ever I read one )

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Physiologically-yes! They make the body release oxytocin, a calming, bonding hormone."

God yes, I love long luscious hugs that go on and on - from the right fella!! There's nothing conveys emotional warmth like a good hug!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could easily lose myself in a proper snuggly hug!! "
Aww Yer big softy I give good hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do hugs really make people feel better when they are really sad or ill? "

I guess it depends what is causing the person to feel sad ... and also what part of illness they are having to come to terms with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do hugs really make people feel better when they are really sad or ill?

I guess it depends what is causing the person to feel sad ... and also what part of illness they are having to come to terms with "
well Yer can put some clothes on before I hug Yer you saucy minx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm ill, I want everyone to F**k off and leave me alone

If I'm feeling a bit down a cwtch can work wonders

If it's a really sad occasion then I'd rather not have a cwtch as that would bring on the tears...or make them worse

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"I could easily lose myself in a proper snuggly hug!! Aww Yer big softy I give good hugs xx "

Yep you do!!

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


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If it's a really sad occasion then I'd rather not have a cwtch as that would bring on the tears...or make them worse "
I think lots of folk are like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love hugging. I feel close to people I spend time with and it's good to share your connection by doing more than just sex. And if you do some of what I do then the person you are with will need care and attention

I also just love hugging "

This

I love hugging it's such a wonderful thing, it relaxes me and makes me feel more wanted and cared for than just sex alone

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Hugs are not necessarily good for someone who sobbing in tears as it can stop the natural release of the sadness....care of WitchDoc's Brain Farts"

plus, who wants a snotty shoulder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a hug makes me warm inside aww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hugs are not necessarily good for someone who sobbing in tears as it can stop the natural release of the sadness....care of WitchDoc's Brain Farts

plus, who wants a snotty shoulder "

Definitely snot

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

when i'm feeling down, hugging a penis with my vagina cheers me up no end

cant remember the last time I had a proper hug

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Hugs are not necessarily good for someone who sobbing in tears as it can stop the natural release of the sadness....care of WitchDoc's Brain Farts

plus, who wants a snotty shoulder

Definitely snot"
That's snot funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex cuddles and cuddles from children are a different matter

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

How many types of hugs are there?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Depends what you need and who's hugging. Can be calming, so will have a physical and psychological effect. Potentially great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex cuddles and cuddles from children are a different matter "

those cwtches are the best ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a time and a place for a good old bear hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It usually makes me feel good when it's someone I love.

if It's off a dude, I'm conscious of the crotch distance

Sorry why are you fantasising about his cock? (Fruedian slip if ever I read one )"

Where did I say anything about "fantasising"?

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