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By *ristplay14 OP   Man
over a year ago

shire

She says she just doesn't like foreplay and I feel like she just doesn't feel attracted to me how can I sway her to enjoy more non sex based fun .

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

Treat her for spa I am assuming you have kids her job could be 24/7 she would appreciate that and feel relaxed good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She says she just doesn't like foreplay and I feel like she just doesn't feel attracted to me how can I sway her to enjoy more non sex based fun ."

More non sex based fun? Have you tried engaging her in a good game of scrabble or monopoly?

On the other hand, if you wish to engage with her in sex based fun, try seeing if she wants to join fabs. Or delete your profile and pay her some attention.

Surely, you knew that was coming?

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"She says she just doesn't like foreplay and I feel like she just doesn't feel attracted to me how can I sway her to enjoy more non sex based fun .

More non sex based fun? Have you tried engaging her in a good game of scrabble or monopoly?

On the other hand, if you wish to engage with her in sex based fun, try seeing if she wants to join fabs. Or delete your profile and pay her some attention.

Surely, you knew that was coming?"

yup, beat us to it

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She says she just doesn't like foreplay and I feel like she just doesn't feel attracted to me how can I sway her to enjoy more non sex based fun .

More non sex based fun? Have you tried engaging her in a good game of scrabble or monopoly?

On the other hand, if you wish to engage with her in sex based fun, try seeing if she wants to join fabs. Or delete your profile and pay her some attention.

Surely, you knew that was coming?"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

How about some constructive useful suggestions instead of shooting the op down in flames

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth


"How about some constructive useful suggestions instead of shooting the op down in flames"

I would think that deleting his account on here and actually interacting with his wife is a constructive suggestion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about some constructive useful suggestions instead of shooting the op down in flames

I would think that deleting his account on here and actually interacting with his wife is a constructive suggestion"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about some constructive useful suggestions instead of shooting the op down in flames

I would think that deleting his account on here and actually interacting with his wife is a constructive suggestion"

yup - maybe shes sensing youre not totally attending her - laughter is a good start go out and have a good old fashioned fun night somewhere

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Is a dancing class of some sort possible

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"She says she just doesn't like foreplay and I feel like she just doesn't feel attracted to me how can I sway her to enjoy more non sex based fun ."

Without knowing anything about you and even less about your wife its hard to advise. What I would say though is that a relationship needs respect to function at its best and I would suggest by having a profile here and discussing your wife you aren't showing her that.

Spend some time with her, talk, don't even attempt to get sexual and you will make headway. You might find out some things you don't like though and so might she.

Not saying that this situation is entirely down to you, she will need to be open to talking too.

By the way foreplay is sex .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relationships shouldn't always be about sex! If you have children she most probably doesn't feel sexy or even have the energy.

Try just being tender and loving towards her, cuddles,little sneaky kisses on her neck ect. Tell her how wonderful she is as a person, and never pressure her. Hope this helps xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She says she just doesn't like foreplay and I feel like she just doesn't feel attracted to me how can I sway her to enjoy more non sex based fun .

Without knowing anything about you and even less about your wife its hard to advise. What I would say though is that a relationship needs respect to function at its best and I would suggest by having a profile here and discussing your wife you aren't showing her that.

Spend some time with her, talk, don't even attempt to get sexual and you will make headway. You might find out some things you don't like though and so might she.

Not saying that this situation is entirely down to you, she will need to be open to talking too.

By the way foreplay is sex ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make her feel like you are worth wanting again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make her feel like you are worth wanting again "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

op, maybe she has an account on here and after being bombarded with attention she may now feel that you don't pay her enough??

or maybe she has been browsing pics and has her eye on something else?

probably none of the above but surely the time you spend on here could be put to a better use, talk to her, none of us know anything about you and your wife

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By *ristplay14 OP   Man
over a year ago

shire

Thank you all for your input and I accept everybody's views and understand where you are all coming from really appreciate you taking the time to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She says she just doesn't like foreplay and I feel like she just doesn't feel attracted to me "

It could be that you just suck at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make her feel like you are worth wanting again "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your married to the Woman she doesnt have to enjoy it

I'l get me coat

Gimp

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