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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just got another new sub and was just wondering if many if any on here was into the kinky/bdsm scene at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep been interested for years but this is not really the best site for it

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Its not part of what I use Fab for, but I do have a current dominant lover.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

obviously...was just wondering if anyone here was into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"obviously...was just wondering if anyone here was into it"

I recon less than you would think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhh a fair few of us lol...of course many of us use Fetlife for our kinky kicks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohhhh a fair few of us lol...of course many of us use Fetlife for our kinky kicks lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohhhh a fair few of us lol...of course many of us use Fetlife for our kinky kicks lol "

Fetlife is way better for that

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Have the rules changed? Are we allowed to say the F word now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am . Im a Domme , lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

The problem with the Dom/sub scene is that there are so many variables, that I sometimes don't understand how some people find so many partners!

For me it takes a lot of trust and only practice with someone I have been meeting for over 3 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sub and found my best D/s relationship on the fishy dating site. You never know where you're going to find what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far more interactions on the f site, but the forums aren't as good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not into bdsm, but love a woman who likes me to take control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"obviously...was just wondering if anyone here was into it

I recon less than you would think."

There are lots on here actively involved in the kink scene too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am. I have a part time Mistress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohhhh a fair few of us lol...of course many of us use Fetlife for our kinky kicks lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think i need to take a peek at this other site. I don't know enough about it yet to know whether it's for me or not!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant be arsed with FetLife. Its bloody annoying to find people and the way its set out just gives me a headache but I do get a lot of people message me so still use it.

Can't say Fab is that great for my needs either.

And no way in hell I'm I paying for the other sites.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Been into BDSM for 40 years,but less so these days.

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By *iM4kinkMan
over a year ago

San Antonio

Always ended up in the Dom role, and enjoyed it as well as being a natural. But have had a very intense, long standing fantasy and desire to be the submissive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fetlife

Fetlife

Fetlife

Just wanted to be able to say it without the censorship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant be arsed with FetLife. Its bloody annoying to find people and the way its set out just gives me a headache but I do get a lot of people message me so still use it.

Can't say Fab is that great for my needs either.

And no way in hell I'm I paying for the other sites.

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The layout put me off too. Never bothered with it again. Keep meaning to but

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant be arsed with FetLife. Its bloody annoying to find people and the way its set out just gives me a headache but I do get a lot of people message me so still use it.

Can't say Fab is that great for my needs either.

And no way in hell I'm I paying for the other sites.

The layout put me off too. Never bothered with it again. Keep meaning to but"

I thought it was a difficult site until o started going to clubs and munches and now think it's great it's designed to keep you in touch with people you know, not to find random people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant be arsed with FetLife. Its bloody annoying to find people and the way its set out just gives me a headache but I do get a lot of people message me so still use it.

Can't say Fab is that great for my needs either.

And no way in hell I'm I paying for the other sites.

The layout put me off too. Never bothered with it again. Keep meaning to but

I thought it was a difficult site until o started going to clubs and munches and now think it's great it's designed to keep you in touch with people you know, not to find random people"

No good for me then. Newbie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, I have a lovely sub and we go to clubs and things in the Midlands.

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By *ot4ujoWoman
over a year ago

Eccles

I like the dom side I do go to events but same here can't get into Fetlife site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant be arsed with FetLife. Its bloody annoying to find people and the way its set out just gives me a headache but I do get a lot of people message me so still use it.

Can't say Fab is that great for my needs either.

And no way in hell I'm I paying for the other sites.

The layout put me off too. Never bothered with it again. Keep meaning to but

I thought it was a difficult site until o started going to clubs and munches and now think it's great it's designed to keep you in touch with people you know, not to find random people"

What's wrong with wanting yo find random people?!

So basically its just a Facebook for kinky people. Fuck that. I hate Facebook.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

We have met a fair few kinky people from here some of whom have gone on to be good friends and playmates at clubs and munches as for Fetlife it is what you make of it a good resource for keeping in touch and finding events but not a search engine for peeves which is no bad thing . Shame informed consent folded as that was near perfect think we are lucky in that we have sutch a vibrant and varied scene in the northwest always something going on for young and old of all persuasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant be arsed with FetLife. Its bloody annoying to find people and the way its set out just gives me a headache but I do get a lot of people message me so still use it.

Can't say Fab is that great for my needs either.

And no way in hell I'm I paying for the other sites.

The layout put me off too. Never bothered with it again. Keep meaning to but

I thought it was a difficult site until o started going to clubs and munches and now think it's great it's designed to keep you in touch with people you know, not to find random people

What's wrong with wanting yo find random people?!

So basically its just a Facebook for kinky people. Fuck that. I hate Facebook. "

I never said there was anything wrong with it Just that that site isn't geared towards it.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge


"I cant be arsed with FetLife. Its bloody annoying to find people and the way its set out just gives me a headache but I do get a lot of people message me so still use it.

Can't say Fab is that great for my needs either.

And no way in hell I'm I paying for the other sites.

The layout put me off too. Never bothered with it again. Keep meaning to but

I thought it was a difficult site until o started going to clubs and munches and now think it's great it's designed to keep you in touch with people you know, not to find random people

What's wrong with wanting yo find random people?!

So basically its just a Facebook for kinky people. Fuck that. I hate Facebook. "
it means you don't get constantly bombarded by clueless dimdoms and chancers you have to put a bit of effort in all well and good stops the looking for a quick kinky fuck brigade let them go and play on collar space instead

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I cant be arsed with FetLife. Its bloody annoying to find people and the way its set out just gives me a headache but I do get a lot of people message me so still use it.

Can't say Fab is that great for my needs either.

And no way in hell I'm I paying for the other sites.

The layout put me off too. Never bothered with it again. Keep meaning to but"

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Have the rules changed? Are we allowed to say the F word now? "

That's a yes then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally like fetlife, I've had some good conversations on there, met a dear friend in there, even had the odd nibble of interest on there, I have kept the two sites separate but hey if your on there and you want an extra friend pm me and ill give you my fet details lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love Fetlife, it's the best way to keep up with all the people I know in the kink scene. I don't really want them on my Facebook and I'm pretty sure they don't want me on their Facebook. It's great for seeing who is going to what events and marking yourself as going so that you can chat to people in advance and arrange to play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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