FabSwingers.com forum: opinions please !!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I travel all over the UK with my work as a contracts manager and obviously I have been thinking that t would be fun to see if I could meet with people possibly during the day or if I am in a hotel for the night then meet for the evening !!!

However it would be at very short notice maybe a day or 2 before or even the same day !! so my question is would you be offended if I contacted you to say some thing like

I am in your area on business today !! and wondered if you might like to meet up ... so bearing in mind it may only be a meet that day or a meet overnight would you be offended.

Would like your considered opinion guys thx

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We get men doing that all the time we just say thanks but no thanks.

Carol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't think anyone would be offended as such, but not everybody can do "spur of the moment" meets, so your requests might not prove fruitfull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get lots of those type of requests. Only get offended when peeps don't take no for an answer. Which is Oh so common

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

For some reason I read the thread title as "onions please "

No, we wouldn't be offended to get a mail like that, but normally the answer is no thanks as we normally get those mails through the week when we don't play with playmates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt be offended at all if i got such a message, my problem is im a single working mum so last min meets arnt always possible for me as i have to work my meets round work and the kids, but if i got such a message and i was free i'd be more than happy to pop along to a local hotel for a drink and maybe some fun if we liked each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

please be advised that depending on the answers here some people may be getting a message in their in box lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems fine to do, if you don't mind being one of twenty emails every day bulk deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I state no hotel meets: ever!! Therefore some randy saleman (my interpretation, NOT saying you are) contacting me because he has nothing to do while in my area and too cheap to visit a prostitute would annoy me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For some reason I read the thread title as "onions please "

No, we wouldn't be offended to get a mail like that, but normally the answer is no thanks as we normally get those mails through the week when we don't play with playmates."

Should have gone to Specsavers, lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I am beginning to think the same thing !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am beginning to think the same thing !!

Although I imagine someting over 8 inches with a couple of onion sized accoutrements wouldn't escape your beady eye

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

You imagine right

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"You imagine right

hello, hello

my name is Rene VIII and i'm selling ze onions next weekend in Derby.

you vill recognise me, i am ze one with the stripey top.

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By *ylde FloozyWoman
over a year ago

preston

"You imagine right

hello, hello

my name is Rene VIII and i'm selling ze onions next weekend in Derby.

you vill recognise me, i am ze one with the stripey top."

Why does that sound so German in my head?

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

wouldnt be offended but would not be interested either.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I get a lot of messages like that and just delete them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

mmm thx for the input everyone it's quite mixed !!!!

loved the bit about the onions !!! made me cry lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i respond to every message as its only polite. i rarely meet anyone for a meet under these circumstances, but have met people for drinks.

social company can be fun too!

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By *ylde FloozyWoman
over a year ago

preston

It wouldn't offend me, I would only get upset if i said I couldn't meet you and you wouldn't take no for an answer...

...I already have plenty of those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have Friends I visit when away on Business whom I've met on the Forums and Site, I think once you get to know someone then it doesn't matter if your visiting the Area or not as you have clicked in some way, remember how many People use the Forums compared to how many People are actually on the Site who dont post in the Forums, your chances are still fair !

There are also the People who much prefer someone from Miles away so they have no chance of bumping into you in the Street, you can't match everyones requirements but you will match some

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"please be advised that depending on the answers here some people may be getting a message in their in box lol

well in that case

hehe

wouldnt be offended and have often had this sort of meet as i can do short notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hypothetically it wouldn't offend us at all but in reality a msg like that would remind me of the double glazing salesmen trawling the streets and knocking on doors saying exactly the same, we're in you are today and thought .......!!!

Now they just get on my tits! They usually look smarmy and tend to make my skin crawl with there 'tango'd' appearance and whiter than white teeth!LOL

It would probably be a no thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doesnt offend me at all ive met some really decent guys in this way who have become firm friends .....but like everything else in this world there are them that do and them that dont we all have our choices to make .....i love to be spontaneous too ....and they are not all travelling salesmen .guy i met recently had his own Ltd company and had an MBA..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha love the replies !!!

can I just point out that I am not a salesman lol

I work for a construction company and I carry out site surveys !!! this also involves me dressing up in hard hat hi vis jacket rigger boots... lol deffo not the village people look before you all start lmao......

Also for the record a meet doesn't have to be for the obvious!!! I am also happy with just meeting for lunch or a coffee and some stimulating conversation on me of course ... well the company.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"doesnt offend me at all ive met some really decent guys in this way who have become firm friends .....but like everything else in this world there are them that do and them that dont we all have our choices to make .....i love to be spontaneous too ....and they are not all travelling salesmen .guy i met recently had his own Ltd company and had an MBA.."

hmmmm chance for me yet, i've got an MGB

better not mention i keep my own limited company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmmmm chance for me yet, i've got an MGB

better not mention i keep my own limited company"

so when u in southampton then ????? the Devere is nice ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i wouldnt be offened but as

1 works ngts it could be a problem xx

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area

hmmmm chance for me yet, i've got an MGB

better not mention i keep my own limited company"

MGB= Mushroom Grow Bag

dont be fooled ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if I already know and play with that person.

If the offer comes from someone out of the blue, I would decline.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

It very much depends how the message is worded... some peeve me off a tad - as previously stated by another - it sometimes sounds more like someone looking for a freebie hooker.

Best bet is start with the 'meet today' folk.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

hmmmm chance for me yet, i've got an MGB

better not mention i keep my own limited company

MGB= Mushroom Grow Bag

dont be fooled ladies

you've named,

i'm shamed,

Ref, REF!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey jimmy....

Thought you was after "onions"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol@peaches....do u go 2 the same fruiter's as rugby lol xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Blimey jimmy....

Thought you was after "onions"

See !! it wasn't just me then !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have no problems with meets, if im free...but would like some messaging first to establish if theres any interest first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol@peaches....do u go 2 the same fruiter's as rugby lol xx"

Lmao

Just dont put me specs on sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not offended but i prefer to meet socially first, so if you fancy a coffee next time you are in gloucester fine but dont push the hotel bit, always makes me feel obligated to have sex with someone, fed up with pushy idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not offended but i prefer to meet socially first, so if you fancy a coffee next time you are in gloucester fine but dont push the hotel bit, always makes me feel obligated to have sex with someone, fed up with pushy idiots

dont ever feel obligated !! you are the one in control......

.ive met people who didnt like me ...thats the way it goes sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont ever feel obligated !! you are the one in control......

.ive met people who didnt like me ...thats the way it goes sometimes "

Their loss, not yours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont ever feel obligated !! you are the one in control......

.ive met people who didnt like me ...thats the way it goes sometimes

Their loss, not yours!

this whole lifestyle is about choice ...i want to look in my wardrobe mirrors and see someone behind me that i want to look at who makes me smile !!! im not here for the obligatory shag ,,,im one fussy lady .im guessing you are too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I state no hotel meets: ever!! Therefore some randy saleman (my interpretation, NOT saying you are) contacting me because he has nothing to do while in my area and too cheap to visit a prostitute would annoy me.

Yep...kinda see it from that prspective myself...not for me at all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this whole lifestyle is about choice ...i want to look in my wardrobe mirrors and see someone behind me that i want to look at who makes me smile !!! im not here for the obligatory shag ,,,im one fussy lady .im guessing you are too ! "

On the rare occassions when I lowered my standards, the results are not favourable or pleasant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

following on from the diverse replies I would just like to say...

I would never ever push the hotel side of things and, like I have already said sometimes I am not in town for very long but it would be nice to meet with people from the area for a cuppa or a sandwich !!! whatever really.

And it's great to meet new people and hopefully make new friends along the way and if something else good comes out of it the thats fantastic..

Once again thank you for you honest replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No onions then ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No onions then ?

well deffo not before a meet lol and they make your fingers smell !!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No onions then ?

well deffo not before a meet lol and they make your fingers smell !!!!!!!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Ha love the replies !!!

can I just point out that I am not a salesman lol

Also for the record a meet doesn't have to be for the obvious!!! I am also happy with just meeting for lunch or a coffee and some stimulating conversation on me of course ... well the company.

bloody hell it sounds like you have my old job or something very simular.

when i was doing the traveling bit all the time i never contacted anyone to meet, however i dont think we would be offended by the contact but on the other hand we dont meet blokes.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ha love the replies !!!

can I just point out that I am not a salesman lol

Also for the record a meet doesn't have to be for the obvious!!! I am also happy with just meeting for lunch or a coffee and some stimulating conversation on me of course ... well the company.

bloody hell it sounds like you have my old job or something very simular.

when i was doing the traveling bit all the time i never contacted anyone to meet, however i dont think we would be offended by the contact but on the other hand we dont meet blokes.

Steve "

well I imagine a few people have similar jobs, and it has only just occured to me that why not try and meet people while I am in their area !!!!

Seems to me a great way to make some great new friends !!! and like I said it is not about getting notches on the bedpost HONEST !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope doesnt appeal to me but im not really into random riders whereas some people are! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we get mail like this all the time, some classics include, will be near you tonight fancy coming to my hotel for a fuck,

we never would meet like this as we prefere to have repeat meets with the same people, also if its a single male, we would think that maybe he is playing away from home.

however im sure many do meet like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travel all over the country with my job and hotels are more like a second home to me. I know where i am going a week before i go so i arrange something then if i can.

I wouldn't say i have people queuing outside the hotel but i have had a few meets which can beat the boredom of watching the television.

I change my area to wherever i am going and put myself on the meets section and take it from there.

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