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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking more for things that my seem draft or silly to others, but feel free to share whatever you wish.

Mine is a man in a T-shirt and no pants, reminds me of kids potty training (I wrote this on another thread and thought it'd be a funny topic).

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By *exine xCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

People's homes where you have to wipe your feet on the way out

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Dirty fingernails ewww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who fancy themselves far more than anyone else could possibly fancy them. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pictures of limp duck's "

Dicks not ducks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People's homes where you have to wipe your feet on the way out "

God yes I totally agree!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pictures of limp duck's

Dicks not ducks "

Lmao I did know but was thinking of a witty come back.... Unfortunately it never happened!! lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"People who fancy themselves far more than anyone else could possibly fancy them. Xx"

I have to in my case, though

Crudity of nature turns me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pictures of limp duck's

Dicks not ducks

Lmao I did know but was thinking of a witty come back.... Unfortunately it never happened!! lol"

Fuck a duck

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Kylie and Charlize Theron naked in a hot bubble bath keep calling me over when there is footy on the box..

Massive turn off girls.. just wait your fucking turn !!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Pictures of limp duck's

Dicks not ducks

Lmao I did know but was thinking of a witty come back.... Unfortunately it never happened!! lol"

Donald Duck with a stone in his shoe would get most people saying, 'th th that's all folks.'

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"Pictures of limp duck's

Dicks not ducks

Lmao I did know but was thinking of a witty come back.... Unfortunately it never happened!! lol

Fuck a duck "

You lot are fucking quackers !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little switch on the back of my neck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pictures of limp duck's

Dicks not ducks

Lmao I did know but was thinking of a witty come back.... Unfortunately it never happened!! lol

Fuck a duck

You lot are fucking quackers !!"

That would've been a good one awwww lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men with more hair on there backs then there head

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Squeaky bed

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Bed breath

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Dirty bum holes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men with more hair on there backs then there head "

A hairy back is just wrong on every level.... If we're expected to wax our bits (which is the worst) they could at least do their backs. (Sure some people like it tho ) lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Dirty teeth....long finger nails....ewww!!

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By *himaeraWoman
over a year ago

near derby.


"Bed breath"

Bed breath or bad breath??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad teeth!! The first thing I do is look at someone teeth. Sorry can't help it . I don't need to see last Tuesday's finner still in there or gaps or black spots . Eww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad manners - (not the pop group with the late Buster Bloodvessel as singer) are a real turn off for me. Politeness costs nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad manners - (not the pop group with the late Buster Bloodvessel as singer) are a real turn off for me. Politeness costs nothing."

He's not dead

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Bad manners - (not the pop group with the late Buster Bloodvessel as singer) are a real turn off for me. Politeness costs nothing.

He's not dead "

Just needs a new watch thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people having anal sex when you can see poo, men with things stuck up their arses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"people having anal sex when you can see poo, men with things stuck up their arses."

*shudders*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant turn off is a first message that details everything someones going to do to me followed by 'btw my name is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice "

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad breath and hygiene it's got to be nothing worse

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By *puk68Man
over a year ago

Morpeth

I can put up with most things being smelly is not one of them instant turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??"

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day "

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Sorry Bad... Not bed, stupid autocorrect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aggressive people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think bad hygiene and smelly is on the top of most peoples list, goes without saying.

One directly related to fab for me is cock pics. They never used to bother me but now if they come unsolicited without any other pics, its an instant block. Occasionally I do ask for one but on the whole like the surprise hehe

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

What everyone else has said - poor body and dental hygiene, people being up themselves and messages sent in text speak

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude"

I actually used the ignore tatic to stop her craving negative attention and gave her lots of praise and attention when she was good to enforce good behavior. She grown into a wonderful adult....that's another thread though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude"

what about if they are annoying people though? nothing wrong with being judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aggressive people."

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Dead People

thankfully

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Thats disgusting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who fancy themselves far more than anyone else could possibly fancy them. Xx"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dead People

thankfully "

At least they are quiet though.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Thats disgusting..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude

I actually used the ignore tatic to stop her craving negative attention and gave her lots of praise and attention when she was good to enforce good behavior. She grown into a wonderful adult....that's another thread though lol"

i completely agree. I travel on buses alot with my 3 children all under 5. The amount of comments i get because one is screaming and i ignore because its because he wants out of the pushchair and im watching the older two. My partner passed away just after baby 3 was born people judge me as a single mum struggling rather that actually being tactile and not making a rod for my own back. Im a big believer in focussing on the positive behaviour creates a much happier home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude

I actually used the ignore tatic to stop her craving negative attention and gave her lots of praise and attention when she was good to enforce good behavior. She grown into a wonderful adult....that's another thread though lol

i completely agree. I travel on buses alot with my 3 children all under 5. The amount of comments i get because one is screaming and i ignore because its because he wants out of the pushchair and im watching the older two. My partner passed away just after baby 3 was born people judge me as a single mum struggling rather that actually being tactile and not making a rod for my own back. Im a big believer in focussing on the positive behaviour creates a much happier home. "

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Kylie and Charlize Theron naked in a hot bubble bath keep calling me over when there is footy on the box..

Massive turn off girls.. just wait your fucking turn !! "

Or when you are playing CoD lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kylie and Charlize Theron naked in a hot bubble bath keep calling me over when there is footy on the box..

Massive turn off girls.. just wait your fucking turn !!

Or when you are playing CoD lol."

Grown men who play computer games pmsl

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Or Yu-gi-oh yes i admit i played it till the age of 18.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man falling asleep after sex and me wide awake. Tempted to shave his eyebrows and leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies with hairy nipples, please don't ask, my therapist says I'm not to talk about it anymore or I'll suffer a relapse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A man falling asleep after sex and me wide awake. Tempted to shave his eyebrows and leave "

Lmao.... Do it, do it, do it

When we see a thread about some guy getting his eyebrows shaved we'll know its you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man falling asleep after sex and me wide awake. Tempted to shave his eyebrows and leave

Lmao.... Do it, do it, do it

When we see a thread about some guy getting his eyebrows shaved we'll know its you lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man falling asleep after sex and me wide awake. Tempted to shave his eyebrows and leave

Lmao.... Do it, do it, do it

When we see a thread about some guy getting his eyebrows shaved we'll know its you lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man falling asleep after sex and me wide awake. Tempted to shave his eyebrows and leave

Lmao.... Do it, do it, do it

When we see a thread about some guy getting his eyebrows shaved we'll know its you lol"
. Lmao omg that b soo good to see do it an take pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man falling asleep after sex and me wide awake. Tempted to shave his eyebrows and leave

Lmao.... Do it, do it, do it

When we see a thread about some guy getting his eyebrows shaved we'll know its you lol"

I'll have changed my profile and be all sympathetic to him

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Smell or sight of poo during sex ... vile!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A man falling asleep after sex and me wide awake. Tempted to shave his eyebrows and leave

Lmao.... Do it, do it, do it

When we see a thread about some guy getting his eyebrows shaved we'll know its you lol

I'll have changed my profile and be all sympathetic to him "

Lol...BTW has banana cake had a festive makeover or different person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry.

Overly aggressive women. For Mr

And crude men for jools.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance, said it before, I know a lot of guys are happy if there's a hole and a pulse, I need a little bit more and for me, true passion requires a connection.

Single guys get slated for being abusive when declined, but I've had some fairly shitty responses from women I have declined to meet.

Whilst I know fab is a woman's world, and I'm genuinely flattered when a lady shows interest, I get really disillusioned when they assume I've got to meet them because they've offered.

Fortunately, there a far more good ones than bad ones.

Not sure I've explained myself right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A man falling asleep after sex and me wide awake. Tempted to shave his eyebrows and leave

Lmao.... Do it, do it, do it

When we see a thread about some guy getting his eyebrows shaved we'll know its you lol

I'll have changed my profile and be all sympathetic to him

Lol...BTW has banana cake had a festive makeover or different person?"

I've gone into Christmas mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calling me the wrong name during sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad smells,whether it's them or the vicinity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who attract drama/cause drama for no apparent reason.

Makes me walk with a limp cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any man using the word scrummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the first time I have heard that on here, that women think you have to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smell or sight of poo during sex ... vile!"

A scratch n sniff test is essential in this game

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

People who cant be bothered to read your profile or make an effort to understand what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trainers outside of sports

bad teeth, always the first thing I look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messy eaters. Talking while they're eating and spraying crumbs everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noisy eaters who eat with their mouths open or smack their tongues against the rooves of their mouths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noisy eaters who eat with their mouths open or smack their tongues against the rooves of their mouths "

Especially when they're eating Christmas Cake ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

front teeth like a row of condemned houses!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bollocks

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self obsessed, better than thou,high and mighty,Judgemental,Peter/Penelope perfect so called swingers

Getagrip Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad breath

Men wearing jewelry

Rubbish conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad breath

Men wearing jewelry

Rubbish conversation "

Too many close ups of a fat hairy pussy. Not one picture to show the body shape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad breath

Men wearing jewelry

Rubbish conversation

Too many close ups of a fat hairy pussy. Not one picture to show the body shape. "

No, thin shaved ones are best.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Self obsessed, better than thou,high and mighty,Judgemental,Peter/Penelope perfect so called swingers

Getagrip Gimp "
don't grip it too hard tho... Purple aint ya colour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bass ball caps, pics of men giving oral with one on is on the same level as keeping your socks on

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Bad teeth, breath, smells, attitudes oh ... and White Socks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dressing like a teenager. Saying "I'll be the best you've ever had". Grrrr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noisy eaters who eat with their mouths open or smack their tongues against the rooves of their mouths

Especially when they're eating Christmas Cake ? "

That is forgivable,but there won't be crumbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hair....lots of hair!! :-S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be bad breath for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a man says either in email or profile 'Im a heavy cummer'....*shudders*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hair....lots of hair!! :-S"

same as

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Being with someone where it seems mechanistic or scripted rather than natural, sensuous, lustful or passionate etc.

Someone who is rigid of mind rather than cock.

Is clueless instead of humorous.

Makes no connection, so may as well be a cyborg.

Carries a fusty odour

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'll add another one against those who eat with their mouths open. It's a technique only acceptable when cock is between your lips.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

The usual hygiene ones...

And failure to communicate.

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By *amesGBMan
over a year ago

Cyprus

bad breath, arrogance, sausage fingers, hairy nipples, unshaven legs, manky feet, bad dental hygiene and pictures of women's bits looking like a packed kebab....just to name a few. I am not fussy really !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad breath, body odour n hairy bits - male or female. Bleurgh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad teeth!! The first thing I do is look at someone teeth. Sorry can't help it . I don't need to see last Tuesday's finner still in there or gaps or black spots . Eww"
. agree totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad teeth!! The first thing I do is look at someone teeth. Sorry can't help it . I don't need to see last Tuesday's finner still in there or gaps or black spots . Eww"
. agree totally

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

Bad teeth.

Pubes longer than their dick.

Backs that look like rugs.

Text speak.

All cock pictures.

One face pic that's blurry - makes me think that they chose that picture because it's the one where they look most attractive.

Close up pussy pics - although I will admit some do look nice.

Skinny men who's ribs are on show.

Larger men who take unflattering pictures of themselves with their belly hanging out. I'm fat and I manage to not take vile photos so they shouldn't have any excuse.

Men pulling their arse cheeks apart.

Really hairy bum cracks - you know the ones where it looks like they've got a feather duster poking out the top.

Messages about how they will be the best I've ever had, or that they are worth the 2 hour train journey etc.

People who can't be bothered to read my profile.

People who think this is a dating site.

People who offer me money.

I'm sure there's more but I can't think of any now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad teeth.

Pubes longer than their dick.

Backs that look like rugs.

Text speak.

All cock pictures.

One face pic that's blurry - makes me think that they chose that picture because it's the one where they look most attractive.

Close up pussy pics - although I will admit some do look nice.

Skinny men who's ribs are on show.

Larger men who take unflattering pictures of themselves with their belly hanging out. I'm fat and I manage to not take vile photos so they shouldn't have any excuse.

Men pulling their arse cheeks apart.

Really hairy bum cracks - you know the ones where it looks like they've got a feather duster poking out the top.

Messages about how they will be the best I've ever had, or that they are worth the 2 hour train journey etc.

People who can't be bothered to read my profile.

People who think this is a dating site.

People who offer me money.

I'm sure there's more but I can't think of any now "

Please don't hold back or anything, tell us what you really think.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude"

I understand why it is done but the fact that people (not just mothers) do it when their child is annoying others is very selfish.

They are thinking of themselves rather than the comfort of those around them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude

I understand why it is done but the fact that people (not just mothers) do it when their child is annoying others is very selfish.

They are thinking of themselves rather than the comfort of those around them."

Ah grow up. As an adult you need to learn to with stand noise or simply not use public... i repeat PUBLIC transport.

Even before i had children i wasn't bothered by children playing up, i'd much rather the parent do their parenting than distrupt my ears for ten minutes. Jesus!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude

I understand why it is done but the fact that people (not just mothers) do it when their child is annoying others is very selfish.

They are thinking of themselves rather than the comfort of those around them.

Ah grow up. As an adult you need to learn to with stand noise or simply not use public... i repeat PUBLIC transport.

Even before i had children i wasn't bothered by children playing up, i'd much rather the parent do their parenting than distrupt my ears for ten minutes. Jesus! "

You might not be but others are.

I had the legal responsibility for a small bus firm in the 70s and can assure you that the laws regarding anti-social behaviour (Young people who are disruptive on public transport can create tensions and problematic journeys for both transport providers and other passengers.)can lead to the bus company losing their operators licence.

You might think it is only five minutes disturbance but the other passengers and the driver have a legal right to travel in peace without being assaulted by noise.

That screaming child could cause the driver to lose concentration resulting in an accident.

You might not agree with it but you have a legal duty to comply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude

I understand why it is done but the fact that people (not just mothers) do it when their child is annoying others is very selfish.

They are thinking of themselves rather than the comfort of those around them."

Selfish and lazy. Children have to be tought how to behave and have consideration for other people, they will grow up with the same bad attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the noise of crying kids on public transport. An ignore tactic might work in certain situations but its not appropriate in all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In relation to turn offs then the smell of garlic on someone actually makes me heave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude

I understand why it is done but the fact that people (not just mothers) do it when their child is annoying others is very selfish.

They are thinking of themselves rather than the comfort of those around them."
Comfort those around them?, if a child wont stop crying, nothing much you can do, proberly tired.

Her

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

The use of "u" in a sentence x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude

I understand why it is done but the fact that people (not just mothers) do it when their child is annoying others is very selfish.

They are thinking of themselves rather than the comfort of those around them.

Selfish and lazy. Children have to be tought how to behave and have consideration for other people, they will grow up with the same bad attitude.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude

I understand why it is done but the fact that people (not just mothers) do it when their child is annoying others is very selfish.

They are thinking of themselves rather than the comfort of those around them.Comfort those around them?, if a child wont stop crying, nothing much you can do, proberly tired.

Her"

When my son was little he hardly ever cried and if he did I would cuddle him or talk to him, comfort him, not just ignore him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shall I start a ' crying children on the bus' thread ? This is supposed to be about turn offs ! Quite children i assume are not a turn on ! . . Lordy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude

I understand why it is done but the fact that people (not just mothers) do it when their child is annoying others is very selfish.

They are thinking of themselves rather than the comfort of those around them.Comfort those around them?, if a child wont stop crying, nothing much you can do, proberly tired.

Her

When my son was little he hardly ever cried and if he did I would cuddle him or talk to him, comfort him, not just ignore him. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude

I understand why it is done but the fact that people (not just mothers) do it when their child is annoying others is very selfish.

They are thinking of themselves rather than the comfort of those around them.Comfort those around them?, if a child wont stop crying, nothing much you can do, proberly tired.

Her

When my son was little he hardly ever ucried and if he did I would cuddle him or talk to him, comfort him, not just ignore him. "
Thats right, you do cuddle, but sometimes they cant be consoled,,no one would ignore theyre child.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have started a thread for this . . Hopefully that'll help !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The use of "u" in a sentence x"
ha. . Very smart. . Only just noticed your direct reference. I must be losing my touch !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygiene, when they say they want to mount me , heavy cummers(I'm not trying to get pregnant so I couldn't care less how much they cum) Actually it would probably be better for me if they didn't cum much. Hairy backs, finger blasters (I could get friction burns by the way some guys try to do it), text speak (I don't know what they are saying)

I'm sure there are more but that's all I can think of just now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude

I understand why it is done but the fact that people (not just mothers) do it when their child is annoying others is very selfish.

They are thinking of themselves rather than the comfort of those around them.Comfort those around them?, if a child wont stop crying, nothing much you can do, proberly tired.

Her"

If they're misbehaving maybe, sometimes a child is upset, if a baby is crying the baby is crying. Would you like the mother to start changing the nappy or start breast feeding right there? Were adults, we walk past noises all day, traffic noise people talking loudly teenagers with music etc etc. Do you ask them all to be quiet? No of course not. If it irritates you so much then catch a different bus or even better make your own way.

And as for bus operators? I'd love to see the headlines and public reaction if a bus driver were to put a mother and child off the bus because the child was crying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pushy [desperate] men constantly messaging without even waiting for an answer to their previous messages

They have NO chance of getting to the meet stage that way as far as I'm concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude

I understand why it is done but the fact that people (not just mothers) do it when their child is annoying others is very selfish.

They are thinking of themselves rather than the comfort of those around them.Comfort those around them?, if a child wont stop crying, nothing much you can do, proberly tired.

Her

If they're misbehaving maybe, sometimes a child is upset, if a baby is crying the baby is crying. Would you like the mother to start changing the nappy or start breast feeding right there? Were adults, we walk past noises all day, traffic noise people talking loudly teenagers with music etc etc. Do you ask them all to be quiet? No of course not. If it irritates you so much then catch a different bus or even better make your own way.

And as for bus operators? I'd love to see the headlines and public reaction if a bus driver were to put a mother and child off the bus because the child was crying"
I think i have been misread here, if your child is crying, ie, teething, tired, cold hungary, no amount of cuddling can pasify at times, the comfort of the people on the bus, would not worry me, only my child.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And in reaction to the op, smelly people, ignorance and an entitled attitude

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I get immediately turned off by a certain look that comes across some men's faces. It's kind of needy and desperate and shows most in their eyes. You just know they're after a pity fuck and their idea of foreplay is to try and make you feel sorry for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get immediately turned off by a certain look that comes across some men's faces. It's kind of needy and desperate and shows most in their eyes. You just know they're after a pity fuck and their idea of foreplay is to try and make you feel sorry for them."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When a man says either in email or profile 'Im a heavy cummer'....*shudders*"

I hate this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who think that Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm in a message or thread conveys some sort of sexy meaning.

May as well put Phwoar!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who think that Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm in a message or thread conveys some sort of sexy meaning.

May as well put Phwoar!!!!! "

Why stop at Phwoar when a Phwoar Crickey goes the extra mile

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

The phrase 'to completion'. Just makes my skin crawl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rudeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm yes I enjoy that actually I wear a t shirt only and walk around the house with nothing else on .its a big turn on for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who think that Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm in a message or thread conveys some sort of sexy meaning.

May as well put Phwoar!!!!! "
mmmmm donuts !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude

I understand why it is done but the fact that people (not just mothers) do it when their child is annoying others is very selfish.

They are thinking of themselves rather than the comfort of those around them.Comfort those around them?, if a child wont stop crying, nothing much you can do, proberly tired.

Her

If they're misbehaving maybe, sometimes a child is upset, if a baby is crying the baby is crying. Would you like the mother to start changing the nappy or start breast feeding right there? Were adults, we walk past noises all day, traffic noise people talking loudly teenagers with music etc etc. Do you ask them all to be quiet? No of course not. If it irritates you so much then catch a different bus or even better make your own way.

And as for bus operators? I'd love to see the headlines and public reaction if a bus driver were to put a mother and child off the bus because the child was crying"

the noise of a screaming crying kid is worst than most other noises and is usualy preventable though, mostly caused by bad parenting.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Those who assume I'm free for sex the moment I log on.

Anyone who sends friend invites without any communication.

People who don't sustain eye gaze, though stares are unwelcome.

Most of the guys who grope me in public.

Use of "innit*

Mumble speak mixed with some gangsta that many do

People who smell like they've used the loo and not washed/showered.

People digging intrusively into my private life

Tight foreskins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mothers and fathers with kids crying on a bus and they don't even raise there heads to see if the kid is Ok they are to busy on there fones to notice

So if they did tell them off thats a turn on????

How is that a turn off??

Oppsss my bad miss read the post it's been a very longgggg day

As a mother i know my childrens cry, you'd be kindly told to fuck off. Some of us find the ignore tatic is the way to raise a child from being clung to your hip.

Biggest turn off a judgemental attitude

I understand why it is done but the fact that people (not just mothers) do it when their child is annoying others is very selfish.

They are thinking of themselves rather than the comfort of those around them.Comfort those around them?, if a child wont stop crying, nothing much you can do, proberly tired.

Her

If they're misbehaving maybe, sometimes a child is upset, if a baby is crying the baby is crying. Would you like the mother to start changing the nappy or start breast feeding right there? Were adults, we walk past noises all day, traffic noise people talking loudly teenagers with music etc etc. Do you ask them all to be quiet? No of course not. If it irritates you so much then catch a different bus or even better make your own way.

And as for bus operators? I'd love to see the headlines and public reaction if a bus driver were to put a mother and child off the bus because the child was crying

the noise of a screaming crying kid is worst than most other noises and is usualy preventable though, mostly caused by bad parenting."

Mainly because a baby's cry, like all mammals and birds, is evolutionarily designed to be annoying; so the parent will look after it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The phrase 'to completion'. Just makes my skin crawl. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pushy people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad manners and disrespectful people.

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Looking more for things that my seem draft or silly to others, but feel free to share whatever you wish.

Mine is a man in a T-shirt and no pants, reminds me of kids potty training (I wrote this on another thread and thought it'd be a funny topic)."

Naked apart from socks!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Nosy people, pushy people

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