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By *ogerknightly OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Is giving oral sex a submissive act. I have spoken to some people ( females ) and they said they felt it is and didn't like it because they want the male to be dominant. Dom males don't lick pussy. What do you think.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Bollocks!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get on that bed while I lick your flange......nah not submissive. Especially when you get her climbing the walls then stop

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land


"Bollocks!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bollocks!!!!"
yes like to lick and suck them too.

Op sorry but thats rubbish

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By *ogerknightly OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport

In all honesty..l agree, it's rubbish to think giving oral is a submissive act. Though I can see how perhaps being asked to lay on a bed and having a female ride your mouth/tongue may seem submissive.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

They are obviously ladies who don't particularly like doing it perhaps? On the other hand a good blow job can literally bring a man to his knees, let's see who is in charge then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are obviously ladies who don't particularly like doing it perhaps? On the other hand a good blow job can literally bring a man to his knees, let's see who is in charge then "

unless the wall stops you sliding down

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By *exine xCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"They are obviously ladies who don't particularly like doing it perhaps? On the other hand a good blow job can literally bring a man to his knees, let's see who is in charge then

unless the wall stops you sliding down "

Indeed oh sexy one, indeed

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By *exine xCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

This Sucks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bollocks!!!!"

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By *ogerknightly OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"They are obviously ladies who don't particularly like doing it perhaps? On the other hand a good blow job can literally bring a man to his knees, let's see who is in charge then "

I'm seeing a female at the moment. she hates the thought of a male licking pussy. At first l thought, damm l must be doing it wrong. Nope! she doesn't like it, says it's submissive. Doesn't want a submissive male, she enjoys being told..do this do that etc...so that's what l do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are obviously ladies who don't particularly like doing it perhaps? On the other hand a good blow job can literally bring a man to his knees, let's see who is in charge then

I'm seeing a female at the moment. she hates the thought of a male licking pussy. At first l thought, damm l must be doing it wrong. Nope! she doesn't like it, says it's submissive. Doesn't want a submissive male, she enjoys being told..do this do that etc...so that's what l do."

You could still tell her to bend over, assume the position because you're going to tongue fuck her til she screams.... doesn't sound submissive to me

Maybe she just doesn't like oral very much or has not experienced being driven to begging during it lol

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By *ndecidedMan
over a year ago

London

The irony of a blowjob

Even though she's on her knees, she's got you by the balls!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bullshit.

Her

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

its brought a bad taste to my mouth or am I muddling up this thread with the discretion thread ***shakes head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are obviously ladies who don't particularly like doing it perhaps? On the other hand a good blow job can literally bring a man to his knees, let's see who is in charge then

I'm seeing a female at the moment. she hates the thought of a male licking pussy. At first l thought, damm l must be doing it wrong. Nope! she doesn't like it, says it's submissive. Doesn't want a submissive male, she enjoys being told..do this do that etc...so that's what l do."

So you are doing as she says?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is giving oral sex a submissive act. I have spoken to some people ( females ) and they said they felt it is and didn't like it because they want the male to be dominant. Dom males don't lick pussy. What do you think."

Sounds like they have ideas about what they enjoy and what they don't enjoy.

Not everyone shares the same ideas - fortunately.

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By *omewhat_kinkyCouple
over a year ago

reigate


"They are obviously ladies who don't particularly like doing it perhaps? On the other hand a good blow job can literally bring a man to his knees, let's see who is in charge then

I'm seeing a female at the moment. she hates the thought of a male licking pussy. At first l thought, damm l must be doing it wrong. Nope! she doesn't like it, says it's submissive. Doesn't want a submissive male, she enjoys being told..do this do that etc...so that's what l do."

try tying her to the bed, ordering her not to cum.... then licking her till shes at the brink. repeat this 5 times not allowing her to orgasm. not too submissive now is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never thought of myself as submissive, but certainly enjoy licking pussy.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Is giving oral sex a submissive act. I have spoken to some people ( females ) and they said they felt it is and didn't like it because they want the male to be dominant. Dom males don't lick pussy. What do you think."

I love oral sex. Just thought I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being rude to anyone. But, lately (from what i can see on profiles and around fab), it seems to be all about this sub/dom behaviour. I just don't get it.

Seems like a sudden influx of it all to me.

But. Back to the topic at hand - that's a load of frog bollocks in my opinion. I like to lick pussy and it does not make me sub in anyway nor do i feel as though i'm being dominated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see it as a submissive act if the man enjoys doing it. A Dominant man should still want to please a woman sexually or he's not being a true male. That's my take on it anyway

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands


"I don't see it as a submissive act if the man enjoys doing it. A Dominant man should still want to please a woman sexually or he's not being a true male. That's my take on it anyway "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is giving oral sex a submissive act. I have spoken to some people ( females ) and they said they felt it is and didn't like it because they want the male to be dominant. Dom males don't lick pussy. What do you think."

more like men use the excuse of being dom to get out of giving oral cause they just selfish buggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see it as a submissive act if the man enjoys doing it. A Dominant man should still want to please a woman sexually or he's not being a true male. That's my take on it anyway "

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm now thinking of Junior Soprano and his troubles when it got out that he went down on his partner.

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By *ogerknightly OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"They are obviously ladies who don't particularly like doing it perhaps? On the other hand a good blow job can literally bring a man to his knees, let's see who is in charge then

I'm seeing a female at the moment. she hates the thought of a male licking pussy. At first l thought, damm l must be doing it wrong. Nope! she doesn't like it, says it's submissive. Doesn't want a submissive male, she enjoys being told..do this do that etc...so that's what l do.

So you are doing as she says? "

Doing as she says? You like being told what to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't care for having my pussy licked, so it's only dom men that do it to me!

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

There is nothing I like better other than having a woman wee on me,is going down on a woman I just love it!.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

When I give oral sex to a lady I am in control. I decide how what and when. She is a passenger as drive the action.

I like to tease and play brinkmanship with her orgasm. Love the feeling of her pulling my head in further and grinding her orgasm out against my face.

So OP...those ladies who said that are obv missing a trick somewhere.

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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Oral sex a submissive act? Totally up to the mouth of the giver, surely? If a guy wants face sitting, he would be a sub ? otherwise controlling the oral sex given he would be Dom and who cares as long as the receiver enjoys it!

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Thats a bit of a mouth full,

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Bollocks!!!!"

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I really cannot see how giving oral makes you a submissive man unless she is ordering you to do it of course.

I love being made to cum again and again at the tongue of my OH.

I didn't used to like oral, I much preferred to give than receive but that's because I wasn't relaxed enough while receiving...I was too worried I wasn't reacting right which sounds odd but I hope someone gets me lol as soon as I learned to just go with what was happening and enjoy the moment the orgasms came thick and fast!!

(thought i'd better expand on my original response )

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Not at all Dom or sub .. I just regard me going down as a more extreme form of kissing

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Any behaviour is what you want to make of it. Eating chocolate is a protest statement against climate change, etc.

Some sexual acts can be made to be more dominant or submissive, such as oral or fucking, but they don't implicitly have that, unless you potentially adapt it or attach your meaning to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet another strange take on the Dom/Sub relationship

My Bitch just yanked my Dick out n raped it with her Tonsils

Does that make me submissive? I dont think so

Gimp

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