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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i would expect that from fellow women but it dont take 2 minutes to reply you might get to no them am just being honest women moan about men blocking them same thing ladies have a good day

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

You just said 'no them'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How to win friends and influence people...

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"i would expect that from fellow women but it dont take 2 minutes to reply you might get to no them am just being honest women moan about men blocking them same thing ladies have a good day "

Hang on, you talking about Women or Ladies?

Make your mind up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it takes two minutes to reply to a message. Invariably half of your 'thanks but no thanks' provoke at least one more message so you reply to that too.

Just thirty messages received then takes at least an hour.

My inbox is always pretty full so I can't imagine what it would be like if I really were female

Btw; I'm not really a girl for those that didn't know !

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

'Fellow women'.......but....you're not a woman...right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It also "don't take 2 minutes" to use full stops which might make your messages easier to read?

I don't reply to every message. Just to guys I might want to meet. And if you think I'm rude, that's not going to make me want to play with you?

You don't sound very nice based on your view of women, so I probably wouldn't reply to you. I think I'd be scared of the response I'd get, based on your status and your messages on here?

Sounds like clubs are you best bet for meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're last closed thread gave you the answer.

Let's look at this from a different perspective, would an inbox full of 'no thanks' or insults make your fab' experience any better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Fellow women'.......but....you're not a woman...right ?"

I looked twice too and got a bit confused

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I think the whole post needs to go in google translate!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I think the whole post needs to go in google translate! "

To be fair, I think that would probably struggle to make heads or tails of it as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

seems i have upset some people so am very sorry to most of the women and not real women just 2 got very nasty this morning for no reason hope you all have a nice day and merry christmas xxx

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Somebody needs to chill out perhaps..

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Soon be Christmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

took me 43 mins to just go through messages to find the people i wanna block and delete the rest, and that was just using the way where the next unread message appears after the last one.

most of the time i cba with my inbox any more and just chat to anyone who seems alright, and arrange meets with anyone else. i leave the mass block and delete for when i get bored. and i hardly ever reply either, says so on my profile too.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Huh?

Women complain about men blocking them? Where? When?

I've seen a lot of men moaning about women blocking them but not the other way round.

Also, if someone doesn't reply it indicates they don't want to get to know the person. That's why they don't reply, amongst other reasons.

Not replying from your perspective may well seem unreasonable but maybe it wouldn't if you saw it from other perspectives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"took me 43 mins to just go through messages to find the people i wanna block and delete the rest, and that was just using the way where the next unread message appears after the last one.

most of the time i cba with my inbox any more and just chat to anyone who seems alright, and arrange meets with anyone else. i leave the mass block and delete for when i get bored. and i hardly ever reply either, says so on my profile too."
hey what an idyllic life you lead

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"seems i have upset some people so am very sorry to most of the women and not real women just 2 got very nasty this morning for no reason hope you all have a nice day and merry christmas xxx"

Don't think you've upset anyone to be honest. Maybe the good people of the campaign for plain English but who cares about then hey ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" hey what an idyllic life you lead "

You should have seen my profile at the weekend, i went on a big rant coz messages were pissing me off...

Anyway, tip for the ladies here, just mention the word block (or blocked) on your profile and watch the amount of messages you get go right down and the few you do get don't go on about bloody meets every minute of the day. I've always had a fairly polite inbox but quality has gone right up and i'm not constantly feeling demanded of, is a lot less stressful on here this week.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

No reply = not interested. It's not that hard to understand. No point keep starting threads about it as it won't change the answers.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"No reply = not interested. It's not that hard to understand. No point keep starting threads about it as it won't change the answers. "

I just realised this is a new thread because his other one was closed.

I understand what the fellow women comment means now.

OP, if a mod closes your thread it's a good idea not to start another one trying to continue the discussion and argue with them.

Women have reasons for not replying. It's unfortunate if that doesn't suit you but you're going to have to accept it on here. You won't change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be a bit slow. I couldn't make any sense of that post. I understood that it was a rant but I am not sure about what.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

A sense of entitlement? No one is obliged to answer. And based on your profile, I doubt many would.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I must be a bit slow. I couldn't make any sense of that post. I understood that it was a rant but I am not sure about what."

If you use the green arrow and read the first one, which Jez closed, it makes more sense.

He's whining about women being rude and not replying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be a bit slow. I couldn't make any sense of that post. I understood that it was a rant but I am not sure about what.

If you use the green arrow and read the first one, which Jez closed, it makes more sense.

He's whining about women being rude and not replying."

Ah, that old chestnut. See, we reply to nice messages when we have the time. Bad ones are usually ignored. Folks that we know we would never want to meet are blocked. Fabs is not facebook.

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