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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Of course I could,nt possibly talking about me....... But....

If on a meet with fella and the usual intimate points covered...

Like.... Fondling, teasing, kissing( only if agreed) , cunnilingus, finger playing, blow job etc...... With appropriate moans and sighs.....

Then no cock penetration....

If not discussussed prior... Is this considered..... Ok..... Odd.....An insult.. frustrating.... Or damn right rude...ignorant.....weird.....

Or omg wish more fellas were like that....

Also can the sight of a fella wanking turn you on????

Answers on a postcard please...

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Wouldn't this just be what is called "soft Swinging" ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really wouldn't be enough for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't this just be what is called "soft Swinging" ?"

That's what I thought. Some people like soft play , others don't . Like everything, it comes down to personal preference.

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Wouldn't this just be what is called "soft Swinging" ?"

I,m glad ' soft swinging' has been brought up........

Occasionally see profiles stating this....... Bit bemused really....

Surely you,ve come on this site for fun,,,, fun which involves sex to put it bluntly...

God that sounds snobish...if your going to meet, take your clothes of, and all in the mood hoe do you do soft from there????

I can only relate it to some sprint athletes line up for race, go to marks, set, then gun goes for go.............,,,, and no one moves....

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By *rysandMadsCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple


"Wouldn't this just be what is called "soft Swinging" ?

I,m glad ' soft swinging' has been brought up........

Occasionally see profiles stating this....... Bit bemused really....

Surely you,ve come on this site for fun,,,, fun which involves sex to put it bluntly...

God that sounds snobish...if your going to meet, take your clothes of, and all in the mood hoe do you do soft from there????

I can only relate it to some sprint athletes line up for race, go to marks, set, then gun goes for go.............,,,, and no one moves.... "

At present soft swing is all we'd be interested in persuing. As pretty much first timers (we dabbled a little with ffm soft swing a few years ago) it feels like the logical way we'd dip our toes in. I guess aside from newbies, some would prefer soft swing to save something special for their partner, or if sti's/pregnancy is a massive concern for them.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

a lot of my best meets are soft swing only. I can become very satisfied with foreplay, teasing and oral, with no need for penetrative sex.

Sometimes though, I need to go all the way, but this doesn't often happen.

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Thanks for the reply guys.....

Help me get an agle on this....

On cock penetration what is it your yearning???

The need for filling up??

The need for feeling of masculinity

desire??

The need to be dominated??

The need to allow yourself loose control??

Because if a stranger its not the emotional "L" word...

Or is it something that I am unable to think of??

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Wouldn't this just be what is called "soft Swinging" ?

I,m glad ' soft swinging' has been brought up........

Occasionally see profiles stating this....... Bit bemused really....

Surely you,ve come on this site for fun,,,, fun which involves sex to put it bluntly...

God that sounds snobish...if your going to meet, take your clothes of, and all in the mood hoe do you do soft from there????

I can only relate it to some sprint athletes line up for race, go to marks, set, then gun goes for go.............,,,, and no one moves....

At present soft swing is all we'd be interested in persuing. As pretty much first timers (we dabbled a little with ffm soft swing a few years ago) it feels like the logical way we'd dip our toes in. I guess aside from newbies, some would prefer soft swing to save something special for their partner, or if sti's/pregnancy is a massive concern for them."

Yep " way of preserving something very special with partner" aspect.

Had,nt contemplated that angle. Thanks for that I can now understand your point of view.

May this continue to be preserved...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Thanks for the reply guys.....

Help me get an agle on this....

On cock penetration what is it your yearning???

The need for filling up??

The need for feeling of masculinity

desire??

The need to be dominated??

The need to allow yourself loose control??

Because if a stranger its not the emotional "L" word...

Or is it something that I am unable to think of??"
Any combination of the above, its a lottery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I suck a cock and don't get it inside me I feel used,unless it's someone I know well and am expecting it

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"If I suck a cock and don't get it inside me I feel used,unless it's someone I know well and am expecting it "
USED..?? really... now that is a suprise....

I, d exspect that if role had been reversed..... This despite the fella showing obviouse sexual interest and lust in the other ways...

The penetration is the penultamate gesture of showing appreciated and fullfilling need....

Hhhhhhmmm??

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Christmas cake,

Thanks for your honesty...... Like to take it comment a bit further...

I like any self respecting guy enjoys a blow job...

Though on occassions felt this is demeaning for the lady ..

After your comment I can only gather there is a phsycolical reason for it. Either to prepare to stimulate or ha lol" gauge" for penetration.

Does this mean most ladies would prefer to give head prior to penetration??

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'm not into soft swing - if I play with a fella, I'd like full sex - unless previously agreed.

I do enjoy watching a partner wank, it can be a massive turn on, lying beside them, whispering in their ear all my naughty thoughts and what I'd like to do.

I love giving oral so its part of the fun for me - I find giving a turn on, feeling someone react to me and what I am doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If all a man wants is a blow job then ,to me it feels like a free prostitute service,unless agreed beforehand like I said before. If I'm talking to someone on here and agree to meet I wouldn't expect to just give him oral. I want the whole experience unless,like before it's agreed not to. Only speaking for myself here,I want sex from this site and not quick fucks or an in call service for men who want sucking off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is horses for courses. We prefer foreplay to penetration but I would suggest that you discuss beforehand. Everyone is different.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't mind soft swing only in Starbucks but I choose partners who deliver the full package, not just the sales information ticket.

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"I don't mind soft swing only in Starbucks but I choose partners who deliver the full package, not just the sales information ticket."
he he he like it very good..

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