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Why do the majority of ladies seem to dislike the idea of meeting younger men??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it cause they could be immature?

Is it cause the lady worries about the reason why the younger male would want her?

I know this Thread has been done occasionally before but im just curious is all lol

Cause as long as I like the person and find them interesting in some way age does not come into it for me personally xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes been done last week

btw im coming to the beach party now but cant stay over night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be because of the Panda effect...Eats,shots and leaves...lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yes been done last week

btw im coming to the beach party now but cant stay over night "

Good see ya there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind the younger male infact some of them are more mature than the "older" male lol.. after all it is only a number.. as long as they respectful and friendly then i dont see an issue... but everyone has their own limits.. so they should be respected for that DM xxx

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

Sarah prefers younger than our ages but only down to a point..

otherwise would be like shaggin her eldest son

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like younger guys ....dont have much choice really most guys on here are younger than me !!! bring it on .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I know this Thread has been done occasionally before but im just curious "

Slight under exaggeration, there.

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

Its because what they may have is stamina and youth but in the main lack finnesse and experience (of the right sort)in general they also fall short in the social skills dept. Just because a woman is in a swingers club dosent mean she will forgo her dsire to be talked to and flirted with rather than the " My name is Slim Shady fancy a shag" approach. Debbs xx

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

We would meet them and most likely shag them too if ever we find one who actually turns out to be real

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By *ick and tockCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"Its because what they may have is stamina and youth but in the main lack finnesse and experience (of the right sort)in general they also fall short in the social skills dept. Just because a woman is in a swingers club dosent mean she will forgo her dsire to be talked to and flirted with rather than the " My name is Slim Shady fancy a shag" approach. Debbs xx"
stamima that y they brought out viagra for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its because what they may have is stamina and youth but in the main lack finnesse and experience (of the right sort)in general they also fall short in the social skills dept. Just because a woman is in a swingers club dosent mean she will forgo her dsire to be talked to and flirted with rather than the " My name is Slim Shady fancy a shag" approach. Debbs xx"

This just about sums up my view!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biological makeup just won't let me go there, if they are around the same age as my kids I can't meet with them I'd want to mother them!

Besides, it's a small world..... I've been contacted by school-mates of my kids before..... too bizarre!

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville

Because I don't want to play with someone who is the age of my kids or their mates. Just feels wrong to me. Also the main turn on for me is desire and can't possibly feel they would really desire me at my age. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think it's down to individual preference. Kate will play with a 30yr old, no probs at all

It's unlikely that she'd play with a guy 16yrs her senior though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like meeting young guys for many reasons, firstly because im not perfect and young guys make me feel inadequate because most of them tend to have good bodies and i dont want to be getting my stretch marks and saggy bits out next to no toned 21 year old lol

Secondly i like to meet in public first for a drink, for safty reasons and so i know i like someone before i play, and i would just look like a really sad old woman sat in a pub with someone that age

Thirdly because i feel younger guys go for women like me because they think i will be easier and less picky that a young slim woman, because i will be grateful of their attention and soooooo flattered a young guy has messaged me, the reason i came to that conclusion is because the younger guys are usually the ones who get abusive and nasty when i reply with a no, telling me how they can do better than me anyway etc, so i just stay clear of then now

Plus i tend to have nothing in common with young guys and i find them very none stimulating to talk to and to me thats a put off, in order for me to get interested and turned on they need more than looks, if i cant sit and have a conversation with someone thats keeps me interested then its never going to happen

Oh by the way theres a difference between young and younger, i dont mind younger guys so long as they not to much younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general, I've just always fancied older men, since I was in my teens that's been the case! No particular reason, just seems to be what floats my boat lol I don't write younguns off completely, but in general, I go for around my own age or older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont like meeting young guys for many reasons, firstly because im not perfect and young guys make me feel inadequate because most of them tend to have good bodies and i dont want to be getting my stretch marks and saggy bits out next to no toned 21 year old lol

Secondly i like to meet in public first for a drink, for safty reasons and so i know i like someone before i play, and i would just look like a really sad old woman sat in a pub with someone that age

Thirdly because i feel younger guys go for women like me because they think i will be easier and less picky that a young slim woman, because i will be grateful of their attention and soooooo flattered a young guy has messaged me, the reason i came to that conclusion is because the younger guys are usually the ones who get abusive and nasty when i reply with a no, telling me how they can do better than me anyway etc, so i just stay clear of then now

Plus i tend to have nothing in common with young guys and i find them very none stimulating to talk to and to me thats a put off, in order for me to get interested and turned on they need more than looks, if i cant sit and have a conversation with someone thats keeps me interested then its never going to happen

Oh by the way theres a difference between young and younger, i dont mind younger guys so long as they not to much younger "

u are me! lol. apart from the meeting for a drink forst as i rarely do that, this is exactly my experience on here.

nothing wrong with younger guys if thye can hold a conversation and flirt, but i'm not into the panda effect myself!

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"Could be because of the Panda effect...Eats,shots and leaves...lol"

that I do agree with, as found that out last week, and put me off younger men.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Is it cause they could be immature?

Is it cause the lady worries about the reason why the younger male would want her?

I know this Thread has been done occasionally before but im just curious is all lol

Cause as long as I like the person and find them interesting in some way age does not come into it for me personally xx "
Well for me its a case of i been there n done that, no more no less

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I'm not at all keen on this Panda effect either.

Meet with a married woman last week, her hubbie came home early, i ended up with the black eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would consider meeting peeps 10y younger than and no more.

Of the few younger gents I had met and subsequently declined, they were all too immature for my liking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its because what they may have is stamina and youth but in the main lack finnesse and experience (of the right sort)in general they also fall short in the social skills dept. Just because a woman is in a swingers club dosent mean she will forgo her dsire to be talked to and flirted with rather than the " My name is Slim Shady fancy a shag" approach. Debbs xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

testicles not dropped and they can't feel them bang off their ass?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some.and i say some

can be a little too loose lipped and go bragging to mates about what they been up too.

My mate hooked up with a young un and jeez..all his mates used to hide outside her house while she had a meet so they get all the details.

she was mortified.

I like the look of some of the younger but tend now to stick with roughly same age. they seem to know what i like without bieng told how to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't accommodate and only meet men who do. The young 'uns are often living with mumsie or in flat shares. And are weird to the point of obsession about pubes, and no man tells me what to do with my own lady garden.

Although I generally find younger men more attractive than men my own age. Sigh.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Soooo...

Why is it that when a newby comes on and posts a well asked question, he/she gets flamed, but when one of the "inner sanctum" post a well asked question (another poster says last week )He doesn't get so much as a "why not use the search?"

Been noticing a lot of double standards on here lately!

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