FabSwingers.com forum: "Hun" "babe"

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does it bother you ladies when a new email arrives with names such as Hun, babe in it?

Bothers me, makes me cringe and imagine slimy men dripping bad cologne over me.

Sometimes I get England to reply to them, he says "Thanks for that, sexy, I'll be sure to ask the wife if she's interested but, if not, I like guys who call me Hun, maybe we can meet..."

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sorry about that doll.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree....and even if the rest of the profile/photo is decent...it would certainly put me off meeting with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a term of endearment, I use it all the time without even thinking if it bothers the person I'm addressing. Siren and I call each other 'babe' in text messages but rarely face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called worse.

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton

makes us cringe too

why they address an e mail to a couple like they would a single fem is beyond me

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Not bothers me as such, but they don't normally get very far, mainly as I am a hard bitch and think that they think they only have to call me what they deem as cute names to get nto my pants.

It doesn't work

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry about that doll."

Representing the absolute pinnacle of your sex, I see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not bothers me as such, but they don't normally get very far, mainly as I am a hard bitch and think that they think they only have to call me what they deem as cute names to get nto my pants.

It doesn't work

Sooooo.... as long as I don't call you 'babe' or 'hun' you'll suck me knob like a hoover going out of fashion huh?

Result!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Sorry about that doll.

Representing the absolute pinnacle of your sex, I see."

Don't get your knickers in a twist, Darlin'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not bothers me as such, but they don't normally get very far, mainly as I am a hard bitch and think that they think they only have to call me what they deem as cute names to get nto my pants.

It doesn't work

Sooooo.... as long as I don't call you 'babe' or 'hun' you'll suck me knob like a hoover going out of fashion huh?

Result!

Such a way with words chick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not bothers me as such, but they don't normally get very far, mainly as I am a hard bitch and think that they think they only have to call me what they deem as cute names to get nto my pants.

It doesn't work

Same here. It doesn't bother me but it also doesn't earn brownie points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ermmmm i do use...

But then it saves the embarrassment of forgetting their name or calling them the wrong one,

ahem !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babe,Hun,Chick,Sweet,Darling,Love etc, it doesn't bother us at all,they're just terms of endearment and all fairly common "Oop North",along with Duck around Nottingham area.

Would rather be called any of those than abusive names!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont care what you call me....as long as you call me!!!

lol

joking aside, im terrible for forgetting names...so everyone is babe, or hun...equally i will never shout out the wrong name by mistake...at...errr....'the wrong time' lmao!

vol

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I dont care what you call me....as long as you call me!!!"

Boom boom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope i find it patronising and very annoyin and delete it without even thinkin!!

hun to me is used here as an insult regarding being a rangers supporter, and babe well considerin u never seen my face and could look like grotbags on a bad face day makes me think pure desperado that would ride anythin!! x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Not bothers me as such, but they don't normally get very far, mainly as I am a hard bitch and think that they think they only have to call me what they deem as cute names to get nto my pants.

It doesn't work

Sooooo.... as long as I don't call you 'babe' or 'hun' you'll suck me knob like a hoover going out of fashion huh?

Result!

that depends, how hard does the hoover suck?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Cue all the forum watchers noting down who doesnt like what

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

It does'nt bother me in the slightest if I like the person and the context of the mail

If I don't then I let them know im not their hun,love,babe ect

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

[Removed by poster at 10/08/10 18:22:03]

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I am guilty as charged...

chick/chuck/petal/flower/poppet...

I just have always used them......

so that just leaves me to ask which tree would you like me strung up from?....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Nope, doesn't bother me in the slightest!!

Having lived in a few places, being called 'hun', 'flowerpot' or 'luv' (depending or where they are from) is just a term of endearment to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worse for me is being called treacle!! I imagine Del Boy straight away....thats all you need turning up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am guilty as charged...

chick/chuck/petal/flower/poppet...

I just have always used them......

so that just leaves me to ask which tree would you like me strung up from?....

take your pick i got a few!!

as a term of endearment from someone iv met/spoke with then its fair enough, from a random then no!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im lethal for using babe, didnt realise it wound some people up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do the women who find it patronising also feel the same if it's coming from another woman?

I'm a bugger for calling women "chick"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hun to me is used here as an insult regarding being a rangers supporter, "

I would be absolutely FUMING if anyone called me a R*ngers S*pporter. That would be enough for me to block them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hun to me is used here as an insult regarding being a rangers supporter,

I would be absolutely FUMING if anyone called me a R*ngers S*pporter. That would be enough for me to block them!"

well your arse just went out the window....hun!!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here, it is an instant bin job and add hubby, missus to the list

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Who knew that Stockport County fans took it so seriously?

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

I hate babe, but hun is not too bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's preferable to "suck my dick bitch"

(yes, really)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do the women who find it patronising also feel the same if it's coming from another woman?

I'm a bugger for calling women "chick"

Yes. I dislike this English propensity for overly familiar naming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's preferable to "suck my dick bitch"

(yes, really)"

i like suck my bitch dick better!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's preferable to "suck my dick bitch"

(yes, really)

i like suck my bitch dick better!!

xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call peeps hun and babe but only if i know them and only if i know they don't mind it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not being called a babe, as I take that as a compliment at my age!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Don't like hun, babe etc - too cosy too soon! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like it full stop, even when i have met or know men i dont like babe, hun etc, and what i really REALLY hate is 'good girl' i find it very patronizing to be honest and put men straight about it right away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call em anything you like, so long as you can say it with my willy in your mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it weird that a lot of women call me babe, it makes me feel less masculine

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Cue all the forum watchers noting down who doesnt like what

Well for anyone taking notes..

Dont mind 'hun' and Im guilty of using it myself.

Hate 'babe'

But the one guaranteed to piss me off is 'my dear'

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

People use, Hun, babe, doll etc because they wither do not know your name or cannot remember it. With a couple with no name to respond to on their profile (Or a short user name)

And then some are just lazy buggers and they can cut and paste the same message to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But the one guaranteed to piss me off is 'my dear'

I don't mind that if it is said by someone much older than me.

I only say "my dear" to people to piss them off!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

it really doesnt bother me what ppl refer to me as...why ppl make such a fuss is beyond me, each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd rather hear babe than another womans name

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

I thin ki might start sending messages as the following.

"Oi you!!! Yes you the one with the hair .... And non of your winging for the Oi bit cos i didn't use hun, babe or luv"

No pinching it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer luv, babe, and hun to darling!

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

I once got a meet after calling someone sugarpuff buttocks.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I once got a meet after calling someone sugarpuff buttocks.

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does Sharp dressed man want everyone to know that??? BB tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once got a meet after calling someone sugarpuff buttocks.

does Sharp dressed man want everyone to know that??? BB tut tut

I am sure he has been called far worse than that before!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

..or there's the scotsmans favourite...pal....ecuse me? but are you comparing me to chopped meat or directly calling me a dogs dinner?!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I once got a meet after calling someone sugarpuff buttocks.

does Sharp dressed man want everyone to know that??? BB tut tut

I am sure he has been called far worse than that before!

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whatever makes you say that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am sure he has been called far worse than that before!

whatever makes you say that?

Just a hunch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind being called Hun or Babe, in fact I use the terms myself, what pees me off is when you get called sexy or gorgeous when they havent even seen a face pic of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These names are nothing. Sensualfire just called me A fat bird from Leeds who thinks owning your own house constitutes being posh.....I'm sure it was just a term of endearment though

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By *arks38Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Babe,Hun,Chick,Sweet,Darling,Love etc, it doesn't bother us at all,they're just terms of endearment and all fairly common "Oop North",along with Duck around Nottingham area.

Would rather be called any of those than abusive names!

XXXX"
Duck is derbyshire duck darling notts but itr a compliment to be called babes up here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

interesting comments sweeties x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont hun but i hate babe or baby

so i tell them as it clearly states on my profile not to call me that not that they've obviously read it. To me its a term of endearment for couples of a young age not doddery old dears like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ALL messages starting "hi hun/babe/sexy/gorgeous" get deleted without being read...I don't even bother looking at the profile. I even have in capitals no calling me hun or babe to aide their messaging...but obviously a waste of time to some!!

I'm a Domme seeking subs...obviously clueless if they think "hiya sexy" is going to get a response!

In the vanilla world, from friends I don't mind hun, babe always reminds me of a pig, and it's just sloppy: the person calling you babe is usually someone that makes your skin crawl!

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

I call everyone hun or babe...saves me having to remember names

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