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How do you meet your playmates?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you send "prospecting" emails, and hope they reply?

Do you meet via the forums?

Do you meet at socials?

Do you meet at parties or clubs?

We have made many friends and playmates by using all of the above, but find that the most fruitfull encounters have been via parties and clubs.

So, how do you do it

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

dont send prospecting emails but do find most of my meets via mails received

have not met any playmates via the forums (yet) lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Do you send "prospecting" emails, and hope they reply?

Do you meet via the forums?

Do you meet at socials?

Do you meet at parties or clubs?

We have made many friends and playmates by using all of the above, but find that the most fruitfull encounters have been via parties and clubs.

So, how do you do it "

all of the above....

the longest standing ones have always come from socials and the forums for me... but good things can be said for all of them..... and it really depends if you want instant gratification or longer deeper friendships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you send "prospecting" emails, and hope they reply?

Do you meet via the forums?

Do you meet at socials?

Do you meet at parties or clubs?

We have made many friends and playmates by using all of the above, but find that the most fruitfull encounters have been via parties and clubs.

So, how do you do it "

Messages and party's are the best i mind.

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area

most of mine at first were from 'who looked at me' now more are through word of mouth from people that have been to parties and meets at mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seem to have some morbid fear of socials and parties and clubs, so we meet them on here, usually after find their profile and seeing that little hook that also gets us.

Or fetish clubs, but thats another story.

I don't think we'd meet anyone from the forum (or they, us!). Nothing against most of you, but the day to day interaction makes it all a bit "familiar", which isn't something we'd like before ever having a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sit in my ivory tower and wait for them to come to me.

Its lonely up here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sit in my ivory tower and wait for them to come to me.

Its lonely up here..... "

Rapunzel, Rapunzel let down your hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it depends. We tend to use sites quite a lot now as we get little chance with our hectic lives to chance meet like minded people.

Also for us we want something specific ( some lads really dont get this ) and its easier for us to have it all laid out in a profile and wait for people to approach us.

We are looking forward to an evening at Chams soon though.. :D

Guess it depends.

Katie.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Front doors are good too.

Everyone i've played with, i've met them at a front door.

There's or mine, doesnt matter, 100% success rate with front doors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you send "prospecting" emails, and hope they reply?

Do you meet via the forums?

Do you meet at socials?

Do you meet at parties or clubs?

We have made many friends and playmates by using all of the above, but find that the most fruitfull encounters have been via parties and clubs.

So, how do you do it "

I never send out emails - the type of playmate I'm looking for seldom says what they like on sites like this, on "specialist" sites I just place an ad or a diary re what I'm looking for.

I tend to do that about every three months or so or I'd get inundated if I kept refreshing.

I don't like clubs or parties and socials don't hold much appeal either.

My way works for me, so, if it ain't broke...

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton

just send out a few emails to see whos free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Front doors are good too.

Everyone i've played with, i've met them at a front door.

There's or mine, doesnt matter, 100% success rate with front doors.

"

really? i heard you received them round the back...oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Front doors are good too.

Everyone i've played with, i've met them at a front door.

There's or mine, doesnt matter, 100% success rate with front doors.

really? i heard you received them round the back...oh well"

Thanks for that...Evian everywhere!!

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"Do you send "prospecting" emails, and hope they reply?

Do you meet via the forums?

Do you meet at socials?

Do you meet at parties or clubs?

We have made many friends and playmates by using all of the above, but find that the most fruitfull encounters have been via parties and clubs.

So, how do you do it "

I would have to say all of the above although I have not had the chance to go to that many socials as of yet. and I do on occasion send out a couple of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What playmates

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Via socials

emails recieved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love the chat room so many from there or from emails and a quite chat on phone but very select who give out number too as dont do phone sex. have found msn works to have a better chat and to get to know people better.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Clubs and Parties for us

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

More through parties lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dont send prospecting emails but do find most of my meets via mails received

have not met any playmates via the forums (yet) lol"

Ditto - but have met a playmate through the forums lol!!

Also made some good friends through the forums ..............

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

About a third of our meets off of this site were initiated through Chat, almost all of the rest were though prospective messages (sent or received) - though most of those due to activating Meet Today or Events - and one probably started in these forums

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By *undebigaryMan
over a year ago

dundee


"Do you send "prospecting" emails, and hope they reply?

Do you meet via the forums?

Do you meet at socials?

Do you meet at parties or clubs?

We have made many friends and playmates by using all of the above, but find that the most fruitfull encounters have been via parties and clubs.

So, how do you do it "
Ive met all my meets by sending a message on here.i just read profiles an if i like it.an think they might like me,i respond.im going through bit of a dry patch just now.but people have been really nice in letting me know.an been genuine in there reasons for the call offs

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

You people meet each other????

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

All of the mentioned, I guess we were really lucky because, literally within a week or so of joining the site we got invited to a party, purely through chatting to people in the Welsh chat room, and from the friends we made there, and the verifications we got, it kinda snowballed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Martini meets lol

Any time any place anywhere xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You people meet each other????"

this is the first we've heard of it too, wondered why we where hear :D

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"You people meet each other????

this is the first we've heard of it too, wondered why we where hear :D"

We should get together and discuss it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I select looking "for a man" in my profile, with a tagline to say I am meeting single gents again, sit tight and wait for messages to appear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly use clubs, i just find them so much easier to meet people than off here, no hassle, no bull shit, go to a club, find someone you like, talk and play, couldnt be easier lol

Saying that i have had some good meets from guys ive met via the site as well

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