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By *reybear OP   Man
over a year ago

medway

So if I don't want to meet at 11pm plus a 40 min drive I'm a time waster!

what happened to building up a list of contacts?

grrrrr....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got messaged by a couple during the week and they wanted the female to talk to my wife on the phone to make sure we weren't timewasters. It was 11:15pm and I told them my wife was asleep, but said they could call her on another day. The next message we got was accusing us of being fakes and they blocked us.

I think we dodged a bullet on that couple

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By *issy NickersWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"We got messaged by a couple during the week and they wanted the female to talk to my wife on the phone to make sure we weren't timewasters. It was 11:15pm and I told them my wife was asleep, but said they could call her on another day. The next message we got was accusing us of being fakes and they blocked us.

I think we dodged a bullet on that couple "

Even after being "friends" for a while you can have disappointments as I found last weekend. But I dusted myself down and had a social and found a real swinger. Bring on real swingers I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are far too many couples in here where the guys are happy to meet and then the woman says no. If you thinks it's s competition with the other people then don't come on a swinging site. Time wasters in many shapes n forms.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"So if I don't want to meet at 11pm plus a 40 min drive I'm a time waster!

what happened to building up a list of contacts?

grrrrr...."
Some people like others to jump through hoops.....

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA


"So if I don't want to meet at 11pm plus a 40 min drive I'm a time waster!

what happened to building up a list of contacts?

grrrrr....Some people like others to jump through hoops..... "

I've just never got into that game - there are some pervs around

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By *reybear OP   Man
over a year ago

medway

so now I'm some kind of list.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they expect that of you - they not worth having on a list - except maybe the block one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met some of the nicest couples on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so now I'm some kind of list....."

Possibly, but its not an important one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive noticed over my very brief time here that fab breaks down into various schools of thinking, there's the single drooling hordes, well call them the wannafuks. Then there's the core of fab users that use the site mostly as intended, well call them the fans. Then there's the group that appear sane and engaging until you want to do something that doesn't conform to their specific timeline and usually requires the ability to travel cross country late at night in order to fulfil their needs, well call them the fantasists.

Sounds to me like you dodged a bullet, fantasists don't give a damn about your pleasure, only their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah to many selfish people that want there own way on here, it's not worth bothering with those kinda people.

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By *im1978Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

We've had it all!

'can we meet this morning?'

No we are both at work.

'tonight?'

No we've got kids and need notice to arrange baby sitter.

'So you don't want to meet me then .why don't you just say instead of wasting my time '

Jog on dickhead and have a wank!

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Lol, sounds like couples that are in the moment making want it now demands, advice would be to use your wet fanny and hard dick on eachother and get it out of your system, then arrange something properly when you can be a bit more cordial and understanding

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs


"We've had it all!

'can we meet this morning?'

No we are both at work.

'tonight?'

No we've got kids and need notice to arrange baby sitter.

'So you don't want to meet me then .why don't you just say instead of wasting my time '

Jog on dickhead and have a wank!

"
about right lol just because your online you must be looking to meet lol can't we check our mail and perv quietly ha ha

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So if I don't want to meet at 11pm plus a 40 min drive I'm a time waster!

what happened to building up a list of contacts?

grrrrr....Some people like others to jump through hoops..... "

Hoops are for whirling around your hips or playing croquet with.

Not for jumping through.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is an over riding impression by many users that if you are online you must be looking for fun there & then.

Undoubtedly some users do use the site as a yellow pages for instant gratification, whereas many others use it as part of a wider lifestyle choice.

This is where the issue arises.

Where a gap exists between need / want and expectation there will always be dischord.

In terms of a sex meet, we tend to search those that are listed as 'meet today' thus avoiding confusion.

Others contact us just because we are online.

It doesn't bother us.

No point in making a big deal of it. If you are poles apart, just ignore the message or send one back saying 'sorry we aren't looking tonight'

If they message again, ignore

If they message again, temp block

It is that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above us why we only go to a local club and if we find people there who we want to play with then so be it.

We are not about to jump through someone else's hoops, nor would we expect anyone to jump through hoops for us.

We have hoops of our own to jump through in any case! ??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I have met some of the nicest couples on here "

If they left you a veri, I'd be interested in seeing who the nicest couples are.

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Because we say no to a meet we are accused of being fakes (we only meet in clubs) even though we have a string of veri's that show otherwise.

Dave

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"We've had it all!

'can we meet this morning?'

No we are both at work.

'tonight?'

No we've got kids and need notice to arrange baby sitter.

'So you don't want to meet me then .why don't you just say instead of wasting my time '

Jog on dickhead and have a wank!

"

Or the user that suggested a while back I should let me 3 year old son occupy himself in his room with his toys while he popped round for an early morning meet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive noticed over my very brief time here that fab breaks down into various schools of thinking, there's the single drooling hordes, well call them the wannafuks. Then there's the core of fab users that use the site mostly as intended, well call them the fans. Then there's the group that appear sane and engaging until you want to do something that doesn't conform to their specific timeline and usually requires the ability to travel cross country late at night in order to fulfil their needs, well call them the fantasists.

Sounds to me like you dodged a bullet, fantasists don't give a damn about your pleasure, only their own"

Yaaaaay! I'm deffo a fan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

what happened to building up a list of contacts?

.."

Are you saying you want people you dont want to meet to add you as a friend??

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By *reybear OP   Man
over a year ago

medway


"We've had it all!

'can we meet this morning?'

No we are both at work.

'tonight?'

No we've got kids and need notice to arrange baby sitter.

'So you don't want to meet me then .why don't you just say instead of wasting my time '

Jog on dickhead and have a wank!

Or the user that suggested a while back I should let me 3 year old son occupy himself in his room with his toys while he popped round for an early morning meet!! "

Wow

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By *reybear OP   Man
over a year ago

medway


"

what happened to building up a list of contacts?

..

Are you saying you want people you dont want to meet to add you as a friend?? "

No, I'm saying I want to have a conversation with someone to find out if they and I 'click' in order to plan for a future meet at a mutually acceptable time..... And I might start that conversation at a time it would not be convenient to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aaahh ok yeah we do that. But although we chat with anyone we wont add people who only want to chat and never actually meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if I don't want to meet at 11pm plus a 40 min drive I'm a time waster!

what happened to building up a list of contacts?

grrrrr...."

Why let it get to you? Do you think the couple in question are going to read this?

Perhaps they don't want to go through the making friends and chit chatting bit.

You do things your way and let others do it theirs.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Stroppy couples ? Not sure what your on about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stroppy couples ? Not sure what your on about "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Stroppy couples ? Not sure what your on about "

I prefer sloppy couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always stroppy! endearing rarely too

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Stroppy couples ? Not sure what your on about

I prefer sloppy couples "

Or sloppy coupling. Or a couple of sloppy couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stroppy git here and....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message the other day from a couple near me, they asked if I'd be interested in fucking the lady while the guy watched. I said I'd be interested as she looked quite tasty in their pics. The second message said they had a meet arranged with another guy that evening but I'd be welcome to join in for a threesome. I replied saying I was on nights that night but could rearrange for another day. I got called a time waster for that and blocked, pair of arseholes.

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