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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What should we start with soft swap or full swap ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you feel comfortable with. Maybe just a social and see what happens?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no rush. Take tour time, there's always going to be offers and better ones to come.

Take it at your own pace.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's a social ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever you feel comfortable with. Maybe just a social and see what happens?"
this

You shouldn't leave it to others to decide what's right for you. It's down to you and your fella and only you two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a social ?? "

meet for a drink with no pressure to do anything else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But wouldn't the couple we are meeting expect more than a drink it's wasting there time if we meet up and do nothing we do want to try but where not sure about full swapping. Where both willing to try stuff that's the hole point off being on this

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"But wouldn't the couple we are meeting expect more than a drink it's wasting there time if we meet up and do nothing we do want to try but where not sure about full swapping. Where both willing to try stuff that's the hole point off being on this "

you discuss with the people you're meeting before you meet them. We always meet for a social first and never ever play first time.

You need to do what's right for you not what you imagine other people expect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But wouldn't the couple we are meeting expect more than a drink it's wasting there time if we meet up and do nothing we do want to try but where not sure about full swapping. Where both willing to try stuff that's the hole point off being on this

you discuss with the people you're meeting before you meet them. We always meet for a social first and never ever play first time.

You need to do what's right for you not what you imagine other people expect."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea I suppose it would be weird to meet someone and go straight back to a hotel and fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea I suppose it would be weird to meet someone and go straight back to a hotel and fuck lol "

Like most have said, it's your choice. You may feel comfortable to go that way. Not everyone's choice though.

Enjoy.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"But wouldn't the couple we are meeting expect more than a drink it's wasting there time if we meet up and do nothing we do want to try but where not sure about full swapping. Where both willing to try stuff that's the hole point off being on this "

Doing something you don't want to do is worse than wasting a bit of time. It's not a waste of time to get to know people.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yea I suppose it would be weird to meet someone and go straight back to a hotel and fuck lol "

it happens .

Seriously though, get sorted in your own minds how you want to do things, take it slowly and never, ever feel obliged to have sex with anyone just because you've agreed to meet them. Always make your limits clear before you meet and no means no whoever says it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea I suppose it would be weird to meet someone and go straight back to a hotel and fuck lol "

........ It's not that weird. ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea we can go from a drink I'd say we will stick with soft swapping for our first time and see how we feel after that

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yea we can go from a drink I'd say we will stick with soft swapping for our first time and see how we feel after that "

just make sure you're absolutely honest about your intent .

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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