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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know what I love about it and why I pursue it but physically and mentally, what brings you searching for sex with other people?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I've forgotten what it is so I don't know!

I vaguely remember I used to like it though.

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By *ants Horse Hung CockMan
over a year ago

co durham

"I've forgotten what it is so I don't know!

I vaguely remember I used to like it though."

Only if you were closer, I'd like to remind you what it was like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The anticipation; the thought that stop you mid-step; the messages which make your head buzz, your heart thump and your cock rise; that nervous whose-going-to-kiss-first moment; that first touch and the times which follow...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The reason I have sex outside my relationship is variety and I like to be sociable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To give pleasure to others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The anticipation; the thought that stop you mid-step; the messages which make your head buzz, your heart thump and your cock rise; that nervous whose-going-to-kiss-first moment; that first touch and the times which follow..."

Chasing those first moments?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's a totally different thing from making love with my wife, which is something very internal and private. Swinging represents a more outward form of being sexual... or, if you wanted to get all spiritual about it,... a way of radiating sexiness out into the universe around you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chasing those first moments?

I am currently very much enjoying "the times that follow"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Chasing those first moments?

I am currently very much enjoying "the times that follow"

Ah good.

I am new to this world.

I feel as though I have only entered the waiting room...the lounge before the REAL fun begins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like doing it with myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just me who thinks that sex is overrated?? I remember my first meet, I'd been after this girl for a long time, Ann was her name, and she was a cute little red head, on the night we hung out together, both feeling a little awkward, then I took a hold of her, pulled her close to me, and softly kissed her.

At that she burst into tears and ran home crying to her Mam, I thought, oh fuck!! I'm in big trouble here...but we were only about nine at the time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have stopped searching for it, porn nowadays is getting a lot better than sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like doing it with myself "

I'd do it for you...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it just me who thinks that sex is overrated?? I remember my first meet, I'd been after this girl for a long time, Ann was her name, and she was a cute little red head, on the night we hung out together, both feeling a little awkward, then I took a hold of her, pulled her close to me, and softly kissed her.

At that she burst into tears and ran home crying to her Mam, I thought, oh fuck!! I'm in big trouble here...but we were only about nine at the time...

Sounds like me at 16!!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I know what I love about it and why I pursue it but physically and mentally, what brings you searching for sex with other people?

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We enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know what I love about it and why I pursue it but physically and mentally, what brings you searching for sex with other people?

We enjoy it.

Ah so succinct!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At that she burst into tears and ran home crying to her Mam, I thought, oh fuck!! I'm in big trouble here...but we were only about nine at the time...

Sounds like me at 16!!"

That's cute...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's the unknown, the reaction of the person, their preferences, their taste etc...

I just like meeting new people...

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By *r and mrs willingCouple
over a year ago

SOUTH WEST & WALES

I know what I love about it and why I pursue it but physically and mentally, what brings you searching for sex with other people?

The thrill of sex with someone new without the lies , deceit and heartache of a sleazy affair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chasing those first moments?

I am currently very much enjoying "the times that follow"

Ah good.

I am new to this world.

I feel as though I have only entered the waiting room...the lounge before the REAL fun begins.

...well this is just me, and I don't consider myself normal!

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

I know what I love about it and why I pursue it but physically and mentally, what brings you searching for sex with other people?

Well It's quite difficult to have sex with yourself, Discounting masturbation of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what I love about it and why I pursue it but physically and mentally, what brings you searching for sex with other people?

Well It's quite difficult to have sex with yourself, Discounting masturbation of course."

As difficult as it may be it hasn't stopped countless people inviting me to try.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know what I love about it and why I pursue it but physically and mentally, what brings you searching for sex with other people?

Well It's quite difficult to have sex with yourself, Discounting masturbation of course."

You know what I meant smartass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what I love about it and why I pursue it but physically and mentally, what brings you searching for sex with other people?

Well It's quite difficult to have sex with yourself, Discounting masturbation of course.

You know what I meant smartass.

I read your question as why do you seek sex with new people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know what I love about it and why I pursue it but physically and mentally, what brings you searching for sex with other people?

Well It's quite difficult to have sex with yourself, Discounting masturbation of course.

You know what I meant smartass.

I read your question as why do you seek sex with new people."

I thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the allure of the unknown, coupled with the exhilaration, pleasure and gratification that at times satisfies premeval urges. Or the succinct version, I'm a horny fucker.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's the allure of the unknown, coupled with the exhilaration, pleasure and gratification that at times satisfies premeval urges. Or the succinct version, I'm a horny fucker."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like doing it with myself

I'd do it for you...

I don't want to go running home to my mum thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the allure of the unknown, coupled with the exhilaration, pleasure and gratification that at times satisfies premeval urges. Or the succinct version, I'm a horny fucker.

You're top of my list blue x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the feel and smell of a man. Laying with him,skin touching and kissing before anything else happens feels good. I like the feel of his hands all over me,I like his reaction to my naked body next to his. I like the taste of him when I kiss him and take him in my mouth. I like the sound of his breathing when I'm sucking on him and the look in his eyes as he enters me. I love the orgasms,mine and his

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's the allure of the unknown, coupled with the exhilaration, pleasure and gratification that at times satisfies premeval urges. Or the succinct version, I'm a horny fucker.

You're top of my list blue x"

Ha...how long is your list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the allure of the unknown, coupled with the exhilaration, pleasure and gratification that at times satisfies premeval urges. Or the succinct version, I'm a horny fucker.

You're top of my list blue x

Ha...how long is your list?"

Haha a list of one right now

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

A pleasure shared is a pleasure doubled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like doing it with myself

I'd do it for you...

I don't want to go running home to my mum thanks

I wouldn't want you to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But banana cake has just nailed why I love women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the feelings of lust before we have sex,and the wanting more as he's resting beside me. I love knowing that thinking about me wanting him makes him hard. I love having a naked body to pleasure with mine

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

Everyone you have sex with is different....and you learn all the time,,and learning is fun....oh yes !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the feelings of lust before we have sex,and the wanting more as he's resting beside me. I love knowing that thinking about me wanting him makes him hard. I love having a naked body to pleasure with mine "

Damn that was good...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But banana cake has just nailed why I love women!"

I could go on all night but what I love about sex is a man. I do it for a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn that was good...

You better not be wanking

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

Variety is the spice of life! And I'm not one to adhere to societal convention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me.

I love the smell, the taste, the pearls of sweat on each of us and the aroma of a good fuck. Going home with her smell still on my fingers, on my lips and drenched in my beard and my moustache.

I do it for the smell of sex. Nothing is sexier than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn that was good...

You better not be wanking

Just laid back and sparking up a tab as we speak...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the allure of the unknown, coupled with the exhilaration, pleasure and gratification that at times satisfies premeval urges. Or the succinct version, I'm a horny fucker."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's the allure of the unknown, coupled with the exhilaration, pleasure and gratification that at times satisfies premeval urges. Or the succinct version, I'm a horny fucker.

You're top of my list blue x

Ha...how long is your list?

Haha a list of one right now

Best get your best GANSEY on then!

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By *iuliettaWoman
over a year ago

DEVIZES

Damn that was good...

You better not be wanking

HAHA

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

These sasanachs won't know what a gansey is !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These sasanachs won't know what a gansey is !!!"

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the allure of the unknown, coupled with the exhilaration, pleasure and gratification that at times satisfies premeval urges. Or the succinct version, I'm a horny fucker.

You're top of my list blue x

Ha...how long is your list?

Haha a list of one right now

Best get your best GANSEY on then!

fully wooly jumpered...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn that was good...

You better not be wanking

Just laid back and sparking up a tab as we speak...

Wanker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the variety from here too. It's like Woolie pik'n'mix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These sasanachs won't know what a gansey is !!!"

Och you should never underestimate anyone's command of other languages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"These sasanachs won't know what a gansey is !!!

Och you should never underestimate anyone's command of other languages. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn that was good...

You better not be wanking

Just laid back and sparking up a tab as we speak...

Wanker

Wow!! thanks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it's a totally different thing from making love with my wife, which is something very internal and private. Swinging represents a more outward form of being sexual... or, if you wanted to get all spiritual about it,... a way of radiating sexiness out into the universe around you

This, but I haven't got a wife.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This, but I haven't got a wife."

From getting ready, the ablutions, the choosing of the body lotion, the scent.

The lingerie, the make up. Mmmmm.

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

You put in a lot of effort....

Lucky guys !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You put in a lot of effort....

Lucky guys !!!"

You don't?

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

I spend hours....

It's nice to be well groomed and smelli g nice....

It's the anticapation....especially if you haven't met before..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spend hours....

It's nice to be well groomed and smelli g nice....

It's the anticapation....especially if you haven't met before.."

And then get in your cab and are abusive to those that may or may not have a grasp on the Gaelic language??!

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

You got no sense of humlur !!!

If i was to get upset with all the Paddy jokes i hear...i'd probably be a sad guy like you...

Lighten up.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lads, I'm a Geordie: just vent your frustrations and weak jokes collectively in my direction

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

Geordies can take a joke....and dksh them out too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You got no sense of humlur !!!

If i was to get upset with all the Paddy jokes i hear...i'd probably be a sad guy like you...

Lighten up....."

You automatically assume I'm not Irish. Was neither amusing nor apt for a forum post. Nothing wrong with my sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, sounds familiar. Well I don't have a cock obviously, but I quite like the effect it has on the man I meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At that she burst into tears and ran home crying to her Mam, I thought, oh fuck!! I'm in big trouble here...but we were only about nine at the time...

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Reminds me of that song Somehow by errol brown In hot Chocolate, (you don,t remember me do You, you don,t remember me do you, It Started with a kiss,.. thou she did,t run away.. one of my favourite songs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the swinging world,for me it's a mostly physical act,tho you do stimulate the brain too.The messaging before a meet and the anticipation,You also have an idea of what you'll be getting!

In a relationship,it goes,or it should go much deeper than that as you have emotion involved...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I know what I love about it and why I pursue it but physically and mentally, what brings you searching for sex with other people?

Lack of sex at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh yummyxxx

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Guess I just want more if I'm totally honest x

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By *ike4362ukMan
over a year ago

Cheshunt

I know what I love about it and why I pursue it but physically and mentally, what brings you searching for sex with other people?

The thrill of sex with someone new without the lies , deceit and heartache of a sleazy affair.

Definitely the appeal, not that I have a partner at the moment.

But being able to have a sexual encounter, enjoying the physical experiences, without the additional emotional and moral implications. Perhaps it helps by not being particularly jealous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The rush of anticipation, the thrill of that touch, the look in that eye.. (amongst other things)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The rush of anticipation, the thrill of that touch, the look in that eye.. (amongst other things)"

This eye?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The rush of anticipation, the thrill of that touch, the look in that eye.. (amongst other things)

This eye?

aye, that eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's perfect, it feels magnificent, there's nothing else I can think of that gives that level of mutual pleasure, I'm programmed to need it, it's instinctive, im cursed with a cock, If I don't have sex a couple of times a week, I'm agitated, wound up, and fed up...... Oh and I'm a complete perv I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've forgotten what it is so I don't know!

I vaguely remember I used to like it though."

Well get back on that saddle miss!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The rush of anticipation, the thrill of that touch, the look in that eye.. (amongst other things)

This eye?

aye, that eye

I got something in my eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the anticipation of meeting someone new, how they will respond to me, how they kiss, what they like, what do they like from a man. There is nothing like the buzz of feeling someone new orgasm in your presence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The rush of anticipation, the thrill of that touch, the look in that eye.. (amongst other things)

This eye?

aye, that eye

I got something in my eye.

C'mere, put your head back in my lap and I'll take a look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the intimacy meeting a new partner,the excitement, the laughs, the passion,I need it as I don't wanna be a old dude and feel I missed out..

Quality not quantity though BS !!..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is fun. That's really about it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"I have stopped searching for it, porn nowadays is getting a lot better than sex lol

Should you re-name to PornTonight, Shag? We'll have to sort you out with some of the real thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lads, I'm a Geordie: just vent your frustrations and weak jokes collectively in my direction

I'm an Essex girl. Nuff said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to watch a woman's face as she moans in pleasure, with the masks removed that we wear for society's convenience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex is fun. That's really about it."

We're living in an era of conservatism and prudishness. It's also an era of strong moral judgements and dillemmas... on the environment, equality, where best to spend our taxes, etc. Our societies are so huge, fragmented, and industrialised, that we're also living through an era of alienation and loneliness for many. Meanwhile, sexual images proliferate across the web on an unprecedented scale, giving voice to an inner desire for more personal freedom and expression.

I think there's a lot more context behind what makes someone swing than just 'sex is fun'. But... of course... sex IS fun

I think a lot more people than may be willing to admit actually find the expectations placed upon them by our current 'free' society... too stifling and suffocating... too limiting... and they're looking for ways to free themselves and do something different... and perhaps a little naughty too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love to watch a woman's face as she moans in pleasure, with the masks removed that we wear for society's convenience."

this

someone always manages to say what I was trying to say in far fewer words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And women are just so horny

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The rush of anticipation, the thrill of that touch, the look in that eye.. (amongst other things)

This eye?

aye, that eye

I got something in my eye.

C'mere, put your head back in my lap and I'll take a look"

Woah! Ya nearly had my eye out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love to watch a woman's face as she moans in pleasure, with the masks removed that we wear for society's convenience.

this

someone always manages to say what I was trying to say in far fewer words

Ha ha. Happy to help

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