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Hey Arsholes!! Your fucking it up for The Decent Guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ohh I'm Sean from Durham by the way forgive the forthright Intro, lol

I hear alot of My Female Friends on this and other dating Sites getting creepy messages from Guys, yes it's nice that someone wants to offer You a Night of Wild Sex and finds You attractive but some of the messages are just wrong, not all Men are like this and Some Men who just wanna send a harmless "Hi wanna meet sometime?" Message are tied with the Same Brush, I know it sucks not Every Guy on here has bad intentions but The Creeps have made Woman Wary which is understandable

Let's be honest

asking Someone Who You have never met before in Your Life to meet up straight away and have Sex with You is asking alot, if Your gonna be even worse by Messaging "I wanna do You up This" or "I want You to suck My That" without even making an effort to get to know Them isn't gonna get a response

Just think about what You say in a message for God's Sakes

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The good ones outweigh the bad ones.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I get this a lot, but I find it easy to ignore, I doubt, they have much success but for some reason beyond my comprehension they must think it works, otherwise why do it? No idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a sex site after all, if I'm looking for a gang bang, I message things like that if I want people to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This really made me laugh....... Btw. You get tarred with the same brush...not tied!

Oh...and it isn't a dating site...it's a site for swingers. People do actually meet for sex.

Otherwise what you say is fair point. But there are plenty of us on here who ARE decent and do enjoy a good level of verified success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a sex site after all, if I'm looking for a gang bang, I message things like that if I want people to come "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

@Nicecouple561 It's good You can see that

@foxy_minnx I promised Myself coz I want to go to Events right that I won't do it coz imagine having to show You Face at an Event They're at and too You'd be too embaressed well You would if You had any common sense?

Ohh I dunno, lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

my new pet peeve...

"people saying they fuck it up for others... being tarred with the same brush!!!!"

well.... get ready for the backlash... I've been wanting to say this for weeks!!!!

nope nope nope nope nope.... excuses excuses excuses!!!!

you don't determine my fate..... I don't determine yours!!!! I don't determine anyone elses and they dont determine mine.....

its all too much of a kop out.... putting failings elsewhere!!! them other nasty pasties!!!! leaving you all innocent and blameless...

take ownership!!!!

sometimes the hardest thing to do is to look in the mirror and say "what can I do to make MYSELF better!!"

too easy to blame everyone else!!!!

see... I quite like it as it is now.. because it is easy to pick out an arse... and it is easy to move on to the next person!!!

you can make yourself out for the better if you decide to....

you don't have to be a white knight to do it either!!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"The good ones outweigh the bad ones. "

It's because of all the cakes they eat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, you shouldn't complain. It's making it easier for you to stand out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"The good ones outweigh the bad ones.

It's because of all the cakes they eat "

Was it one of them that ate my second cup cake this morning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a swinging site not a dating site although I'm seriously beginning to question it myself

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I think some people may genuinely get a kick from vile messages. It's the same anywhere. They can do it via a screen safely.

In another era they would be writing poison pen letters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was on here as a single male I never once felt that I struggled to get a meet becuase of the actions of others. And it's a theory that is totally flawed

And I also never used to try and stand out by slagging off the opposition.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"This really made me laugh....... Btw. You get tarred with the same brush...not tied!

Oh...and it isn't a dating site...it's a site for swingers. People do actually meet for sex.

Otherwise what you say is fair point.

But there are plenty of us on here who

ARE decent and do enjoy a good level

of verified success."

So sayeth the '100 club' VIP member (avec le carte membershippe

embossed)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"@Nicecouple561 It's good You can see that

@foxy_minnx I promised Myself coz I want to go to Events right that I won't do it coz imagine having to show You Face at an Event They're at and too You'd be too embaressed well You would if You had any common sense?

Ohh I dunno, lol"

Hello

Welcome to the forum. If you click reply+quote we will see who you're responding to without you having to type out names etc.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"The good ones outweigh the bad ones.

It's because of all the cakes they eat

Was it one of them that ate my second cup cake this morning?"

Serves you right. Ya snooze, ya looze

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was on here as a single male I never once felt that I struggled to get a meet becuase of the actions of others. And it's a theory that is totally flawed

And I also never used to try and stand out by slagging off the opposition. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmm im confused to why you joined pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and OP, if your opening messages really are as uninspiring as "Hi want to meet sometime" then it's probably not the other guys ruining things for you

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By *ngel_38Woman
over a year ago

Staffs


"ohh I'm Sean from Durham by the way forgive the forthright Intro, lol

I hear alot of My Female Friends on this and other dating Sites getting creepy messages from Guys, yes it's nice that someone wants to offer You a Night of Wild Sex and finds You attractive but some of the messages are just wrong, not all Men are like this and Some Men who just wanna send a harmless "Hi wanna meet sometime?" Message are tied with the Same Brush, I know it sucks not Every Guy on here has bad intentions but The Creeps have made Woman Wary which is understandable

Let's be honest

asking Someone Who You have never met before in Your Life to meet up straight away and have Sex with You is asking alot, if Your gonna be even worse by Messaging "I wanna do You up This" or "I want You to suck My That" without even making an effort to get to know Them isn't gonna get a response

Just think about what You say in a message for God's Sakes"

U will find women are the worst on here not the men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums op. Nice 3 word profile btw

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

@steve "shut the fuck up!"

From steves Id

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ohh I'm Sean from Durham by the way forgive the forthright Intro, lol

I hear alot of My Female Friends on this and other dating Sites getting creepy messages from Guys, yes it's nice that someone wants to offer You a Night of Wild Sex and finds You attractive but some of the messages are just wrong, not all Men are like this and Some Men who just wanna send a harmless "Hi wanna meet sometime?" Message are tied with the Same Brush, I know it sucks not Every Guy on here has bad intentions but The Creeps have made Woman Wary which is understandable

Let's be honest

asking Someone Who You have never met before in Your Life to meet up straight away and have Sex with You is asking alot, if Your gonna be even worse by Messaging "I wanna do You up This" or "I want You to suck My That" without even making an effort to get to know Them isn't gonna get a response

Just think about what You say in a message for God's Sakes

U will find women are the worst on here not the men "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the site and the forums OP!

Not sure why you felt the need to start a thread about other single guys? Perhaps it's a game plan.

Oh and not everyone tars others with the same brushes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The good ones outweigh the bad ones.

It's because of all the cakes they eat

Was it one of them that ate my second cup cake this morning?

Serves you right. Ya snooze, ya looze "

I was alone in the house but I can only remember eating one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@steve "shut the fuck up!"

From steves Id "

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are as many rude and ignorant women and couples as there are men. Those few male arseholes are just a drop in the ocean. The women and couples can take their pick of the bunch and they know it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, do you think that you being apparently saintly gives you extra points? I personally find that cringeworthy. I am sure ladies are perfectly able to find suitable partners and have enough taste to distinguish between potential meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the site and the forums OP!

Not sure why you felt the need to start a thread about other single guys? Perhaps it's a game plan.

Oh and not everyone tars others with the same brushes

"

There's a trend recently for 'I'm not like other single guys' threads. I agree with the above and Fabios post earlier - let the other guys do their thing and concentrate on proving you're different in the way that you engage with your target market!

Good luck OP I hope you have fun on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP....are you saying that us ladies are complete idiots that think all men are the same?? I think you'll find that those worth meeting are perfectly able to gauge which ones are "arseholes" and creeps and most of us are perfectly able to ignore those that send messages we don't like without making a song and dance about it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP....are you saying that us ladies are complete idiots that think all men are the same?? I think you'll find that those worth meeting are perfectly able to gauge which ones are "arseholes" and creeps and most of us are perfectly able to ignore those that send messages we don't like without making a song and dance about it....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

U will find women are the worst on here not the men "

Yes. SOME women are capable of being completely vile...especially towards other women

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Every bloody guy on here is an arsehole really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every bloody guy on here is an arsehole really"

I havn't met them all so can't comment on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every bloody guy on here is an arsehole really

I havn't met them all so can't comment on that "

I'm working on it....but as I only meet about once a month it's gonna take a while

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I'd like to give credit and credence to those who get messaged to figure if out for themselves, the good 'uns from the bit so good 'uns.

I'm sure those that can't I don't particularly want and those that can I do

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER


"Every bloody guy on here is an arsehole really

I havn't met them all so can't comment on that "

neither have i! Call it intuition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying others fuck it up is an easy way to blame no one wanna meet lol seem someone is fuming lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The good ones outweigh the bad ones.

It's because of all the cakes they eat

Was it one of them that ate my second cup cake this morning?

Serves you right. Ya snooze, ya looze

I was alone in the house but I can only remember eating one "
Come On your a secret cup cake eater..

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By *now white1000Woman
over a year ago

York


"ohh I'm Sean from Durham by the way forgive the forthright Intro, lol

I hear alot of My Female Friends on this and other dating Sites getting creepy messages from Guys, yes it's nice that someone wants to offer You a Night of Wild Sex and finds You attractive but some of the messages are just wrong, not all Men are like this and Some Men who just wanna send a harmless "Hi wanna meet sometime?" Message are tied with the Same Brush, I know it sucks not Every Guy on here has bad intentions but The Creeps have made Woman Wary which is understandable

Let's be honest

asking Someone Who You have never met before in Your Life to meet up straight away and have Sex with You is asking alot, if Your gonna be even worse by Messaging "I wanna do You up This" or "I want You to suck My That" without even making an effort to get to know Them isn't gonna get a response

Just think about what You say in a message for God's Sakes"

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Calling one section of the site arseholes to get your point across is not really in the spirit of the forum.

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