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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Often i,ve heard of women stating that either there success or interlect is intimidating to men, thus harder to get dates....

Can it also be equal in reverse??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I doubt it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you mean that the less intelligent or successful a woman is the more approachable men will find her? Or women find successful and intelligent men unapproachable?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No idea, but I think I scare some off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find successful, intelligent men very sexy. I'm no dunce either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my randomness (miaow) warns some girls (wibble!) Off, but I just don't (kaaaaapowwwwww!) Why that might be (beep beep!) Twinkle twinkle! Sparkle!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I find successful, intelligent men very sexy. I'm no dunce either."

Ditto. And the guys I meet often comment about liking to meet intelligent women (though it doesn't necessarily mean that they have to have a certain level of education).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my randomness (miaow) warns some girls (wibble!) Off, but I just don't (kaaaaapowwwwww!) Why that might be (beep beep!) Twinkle twinkle! Sparkle! "

Oh I love a man who can speak Muppet....lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"No idea, but I think I scare some off "

I know I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They make no difference to me actually they're like ants

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"No idea, but I think I scare some off

I know I do "

You as well? I'm a pussy cat really, I just don't want those facts to come out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's be honest there are some very low IQ's in the world for both sexes and, whilst I'm more interested in someone's soul than their IQ, it's nice to know you can have a conversation, if you get time between fucking that is

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Often i,ve heard of women stating that either there success or interlect is intimidating to men, thus harder to get dates....

Can it also be equal in reverse??

"

It tends to work the opposite way in reverse I think - women are more drawn to intelligent successful men. But many of us despise the ones who brag about it, only the goldiggers go there!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Why am I thinking mfff?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Often i,ve heard of women stating that either there success or interlect is intimidating to men, thus harder to get dates....

Can it also be equal in reverse??

It tends to work the opposite way in reverse I think - women are more drawn to intelligent successful men. But many of us despise the ones who brag about it, only the goldiggers go there!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand the question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or they could, in fact, be up their own arse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman is genuinely intellectual that's cool..I'm not..opposites attract and all that shit.

BUT...

if a woman uses long words and tries to be intellectual just for the sheer point of MAKING A POINT about being intellectual than that's annoying as fuck and puts me right off.

$0.02

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dated a wealthy and successful woman once. She liked younger guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find intelligence attractive in its own right. I don't feel intimidated by it either. A good heart with an attractive smile will win for me over other attributes

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By *myandRoryCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

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By *myandRoryCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

Poor grammar and spelling are definite turn offs. Intelligence and humour are definite positives. From either sex.

(Fem's post)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me "

Good. Girl

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me "

me too. It sort of comes across in both our posts I feel

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Disapointing once more the ugly oga of " poor grammar" bashing shows up....... AGAIN..!!!

So some people have bad grammar, who gives a shit....

" the world will still continue to spin on it,s axis "

Let them have there say regardless.......

Omg the snobery!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Disapointing once more the ugly oga of " poor grammar" bashing shows up....... AGAIN..!!!

So some people have bad grammar, who gives a shit....

" the world will still continue to spin on it,s axis "

Let them have there say regardless.......

Omg the snobery!!! "

Lots of us have contributed to your thread why have you chosen only to reply to the negative responses?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

me too. It sort of comes across in both our posts I feel "

We have womanly wiles

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I think people of both sexes find success and/or intelligence attractive.

The problem is that a lot of men's egos cannot accept a partner who is more so. I personally am happy to be with a woman who beats me hands down. I have no need to be better, as long as we form a balanced whole.

I do get a little intimidated by beauty, but that is my insecurities coming through.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

me too. It sort of comes across in both our posts I feel

We have womanly wiles "

Just as long as we don't have womanly willies we're fine. I'm just off to practice fawning, simpering and looking at properties in Stepford.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

me too. It sort of comes across in both our posts I feel

We have womanly wiles

Just as long as we don't have womanly willies we're fine. I'm just off to practice fawning, simpering and looking at properties in Stepford. "

Save me the one next door,I'll bake us a nice cake

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think people of both sexes find success and/or intelligence attractive.

The problem is that a lot of men's egos cannot accept a partner who is more so. I personally am happy to be with a woman who beats me hands down. I have no need to be better, as long as we form a balanced whole.

I do get a little intimidated by beauty, but that is my insecurities coming through. "

That bit about a balanced whole us so true. Do you think it's required in nsa sex though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find intelligence attractive in its own right. I don't feel intimidated by it either. A good heart with an attractive smile will win for me over other attributes "

Where have you been?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find successful, intelligent men very sexy. I'm no dunce either."

I totally agree with this ^^

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

me too. It sort of comes across in both our posts I feel

We have womanly wiles

Just as long as we don't have womanly willies we're fine. I'm just off to practice fawning, simpering and looking at properties in Stepford.

Save me the one next door,I'll bake us a nice cake "

Not too much for me I need to stay purdy for my mayun.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I scare people without make up on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

me too. It sort of comes across in both our posts I feel

We have womanly wiles

Just as long as we don't have womanly willies we're fine. I'm just off to practice fawning, simpering and looking at properties in Stepford.

Save me the one next door,I'll bake us a nice cake

Not too much for me I need to stay purdy for my mayun."

Just a sliver for us,the rest is for the masters of the house

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I scare people without make up on "

Poor un made up people. What did they do to deserve that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

me too. It sort of comes across in both our posts I feel

We have womanly wiles

Just as long as we don't have womanly willies we're fine. I'm just off to practice fawning, simpering and looking at properties in Stepford.

Save me the one next door,I'll bake us a nice cake

Not too much for me I need to stay purdy for my mayun."

If we share it out with tea ladies it won't go so fast to the hips

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

me too. It sort of comes across in both our posts I feel

We have womanly wiles

Just as long as we don't have womanly willies we're fine. I'm just off to practice fawning, simpering and looking at properties in Stepford.

Save me the one next door,I'll bake us a nice cake

Not too much for me I need to stay purdy for my mayun.

Just a sliver for us,the rest is for the masters of the house "

Natch!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Yes I do. Some men can be intimidated and have (performance) issues that can affect the interactions.

Men often need to feel an equal in some aspects or they can feel 'unmanned'.

Fortunately I am too smugbto suffer from this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

me too. It sort of comes across in both our posts I feel

We have womanly wiles

Just as long as we don't have womanly willies we're fine. I'm just off to practice fawning, simpering and looking at properties in Stepford.

Save me the one next door,I'll bake us a nice cake

Not too much for me I need to stay purdy for my mayun.

If we share it out with tea ladies it won't go so fast to the hips "

No sugar,we're sweet enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

me too. It sort of comes across in both our posts I feel

We have womanly wiles

Just as long as we don't have womanly willies we're fine. I'm just off to practice fawning, simpering and looking at properties in Stepford.

Save me the one next door,I'll bake us a nice cake "

I'm in! I'm not terribly good at fawning - but I can make sure all our sex toys are sparkling clean - and i'll try to pout prettily whilst I do it!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes I do. Some men can be intimidated and have (performance) issues that can affect the interactions.

Men often need to feel an equal in some aspects or they can feel 'unmanned'.

Fortunately I am too smugbto suffer from this

"

I find I need to feel that my intellect such as it is, needs to be respected or I lose interest sexually.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

sapiosexual

but here? I don't think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

me too. It sort of comes across in both our posts I feel

We have womanly wiles

Just as long as we don't have womanly willies we're fine. I'm just off to practice fawning, simpering and looking at properties in Stepford.

Save me the one next door,I'll bake us a nice cake

I'm in! I'm not terribly good at fawning - but I can make sure all our sex toys are sparkling clean - and i'll try to pout prettily whilst I do it! "

Can you bun hair? We need a hair bunner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

me too. It sort of comes across in both our posts I feel

We have womanly wiles

Just as long as we don't have womanly willies we're fine. I'm just off to practice fawning, simpering and looking at properties in Stepford.

Save me the one next door,I'll bake us a nice cake

I'm in! I'm not terribly good at fawning - but I can make sure all our sex toys are sparkling clean - and i'll try to pout prettily whilst I do it!

Can you bun hair? We need a hair bunner "

you called.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

me too. It sort of comes across in both our posts I feel

We have womanly wiles

Just as long as we don't have womanly willies we're fine. I'm just off to practice fawning, simpering and looking at properties in Stepford.

Save me the one next door,I'll bake us a nice cake

I'm in! I'm not terribly good at fawning - but I can make sure all our sex toys are sparkling clean - and i'll try to pout prettily whilst I do it!

Can you bun hair? We need a hair bunner

you called..... "

Oh great classy - i'm rubbish with hair! We'll need a bigger cake though - and i'll bring starbucks! ! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

me too. It sort of comes across in both our posts I feel

We have womanly wiles

Just as long as we don't have womanly willies we're fine. I'm just off to practice fawning, simpering and looking at properties in Stepford.

Save me the one next door,I'll bake us a nice cake

I'm in! I'm not terribly good at fawning - but I can make sure all our sex toys are sparkling clean - and i'll try to pout prettily whilst I do it!

Can you bun hair? We need a hair bunner

you called..... "

Quite a little team we are forming here ladies....the men won't have a chance

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

A Barbie might look good and even be fun for a while but a woman with brains and of course isn't up her own arse is so much more and more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

me too. It sort of comes across in both our posts I feel

We have womanly wiles

Just as long as we don't have womanly willies we're fine. I'm just off to practice fawning, simpering and looking at properties in Stepford.

Save me the one next door,I'll bake us a nice cake

I'm in! I'm not terribly good at fawning - but I can make sure all our sex toys are sparkling clean - and i'll try to pout prettily whilst I do it!

Can you bun hair? We need a hair bunner

you called.....

Quite a little team we are forming here ladies....the men won't have a chance "

I've been waiting all evening for a pretty, pouting, wily, willyless, fawning, Stepfordian with a nice cake and bunned hair to peel me a grape. Where's the hold up?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me "

Found one like that and married him. Didn't work out too well for me.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

Found one like that and married him. Didn't work out too well for me.

"

Wouldn't work for me ether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should clever women not use big words or intelligent conversation for fear of appearing up themselves to someone who's not so clever

Do women with good body's have to wear baggy clothes while around the not so fit?

Should the pretty faced ones put a bad on their head while hanging around with the facially challenged.

It is what it is, I quite like a woman with a bit of ostentation. It's more of a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The trick is to be in awe of everything a man says and does. Works well for me

me too. It sort of comes across in both our posts I feel

We have womanly wiles

Just as long as we don't have womanly willies we're fine. I'm just off to practice fawning, simpering and looking at properties in Stepford.

Save me the one next door,I'll bake us a nice cake

I'm in! I'm not terribly good at fawning - but I can make sure all our sex toys are sparkling clean - and i'll try to pout prettily whilst I do it!

Can you bun hair? We need a hair bunner

you called.....

Quite a little team we are forming here ladies....the men won't have a chance

I've been waiting all evening for a pretty, pouting, wily, willyless, fawning, Stepfordian with a nice cake and bunned hair to peel me a grape. Where's the hold up? "

Ah well. Grapes are overrated anyway

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Yes your right perhaps I over reacted to this negative response which I apologise for......

I,m not blessed with good grammar skills.

Whether on this, mobile or social websites constantley being pulled up on it.

To begin with I embraced it in a fun way and it did' nt bug me.

Now I see it as a form of belittling and bullying......

Petty on my part I know.... But just the way I see it.....

I can see how oustrasiced people with dyslexia and similar conditions feel..... The constant fear of strangers preying on the weakness not being aware of the distress it may cause.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes your right perhaps I over reacted to this negative response which I apologise for......

I,m not blessed with good grammar skills.

Whether on this, mobile or social websites constantley being pulled up on it.

To begin with I embraced it in a fun way and it did' nt bug me.

Now I see it as a form of belittling and bullying......

Petty on my part I know.... But just the way I see it.....

I can see how oustrasiced people with dyslexia and similar conditions feel..... The constant fear of strangers preying on the weakness not being aware of the distress it may cause."

so what did you make of the other comments?

I think that as long as someone can be understood and they are making sensible points their grammar and spelling should be of secondary importance.

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor grammar and spelling are definite turn offs. Intelligence and humour are definite positives. From either sex.

(Fem's post) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes your right perhaps I over reacted to this negative response which I apologise for......

I,m not blessed with good grammar skills.

Whether on this, mobile or social websites constantley being pulled up on it.

To begin with I embraced it in a fun way and it did' nt bug me.

Now I see it as a form of belittling and bullying......

Petty on my part I know.... But just the way I see it.....

I can see how oustrasiced people with dyslexia and similar conditions feel..... The constant fear of strangers preying on the weakness not being aware of the distress it may cause."

Why let it bother you? Would you want to meet someone that you had nothing in common with, or who made you feel crap? I know I wouldn't. Keep smiling.

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Thanks Scarlet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'I think people of both sexes find success and/or intelligence attractive.'

Honestly, I really couldn't care either way.

If I spot someone across a crowded room, their intelligence, or undisclosed successfulness, is meaningless. Which means, that ultimately, it's them that you find attractive. Personality might seal the deal, when it comes to the difference between a one nighter or the beginnings of a new relationship.

One of my long term partners had a PHD in chemistry and is now a cancer research scientist. She was extremely intelligent in the area's that she had an interest in, but lacked common sense or even a wider general knowledge of most other things. But hell, she was gorgeous and we clicked where it mattered. But I can tell you now that her intelligence or even success, didn't mean a god-damn thing.

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By *r and mrs willingCouple
over a year ago

SOUTH WEST & WALES


"I find successful, intelligent men very sexy. I'm no dunce either.

I totally agree with this ^^"

I'm with you both on this. I think the kind of men we like are usually confident and not easily intimidated by either men or women. I couldn't respect a man who found me intimidating. But a one off romp with a young hottie who is totally in awe of me now and again wouldn't go amiss !

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