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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

..or do you prefer to be messaged first? I've both, started conversation, and had women start it with me, but more often than not, I make the first move. Just looking for people's opinions on the matter

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes its my opinion that Ladies do message first and its not always to have a go at you either, I quite enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do if I like the look of someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Always getting a 'fancy a fuck?' message from hot nubile women. Fecks me right off!

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By *ittykate84Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

If i see someone I like then yes I do

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

nubile whats that mean please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do if I like the look of someone "

Which reminds me, can you cut down the begging messages to me please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of women message first.

Single men don't send enough messages, it's always on the forums that they often send overly individual or long messages to women or couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nubile whats that mean please?"

Sexually attractive... also known as boneable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do if I like the look of someone

Which reminds me, can you cut down the begging messages to me please? "

I was going to wait until I got the restraining order through but if its pissing you off that much I'll think about cutting down

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"nubile whats that mean please?

Sexually attractive... also known as boneable "

Thank you Ben, I will try and use todays new word in a thread by 4.45 pm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the female half of a couple. I have no qualms in messaging first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message first as I am making a choice on whether I want to meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done yes

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Very rarely. I occasionally fab pics though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes women do message first, don't think there's an etiquette as such, if you see someone you fancy, tell them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had one lady message me first so I usually do the messaging

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'm sure a lot of ladies do if they see someone that appeals..

Explains why my inbox is empty then..

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I've only had one lady message me first so I usually do the messaging "

Was that admin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only had one lady message me first so I usually do the messaging

Was that admin?"

Cheeky git!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I've only had one lady message me first so I usually do the messaging

Was that admin?

Cheeky git!"

Haha I cant help it, everytime I see I have a message my first thoughts are naturally 'Admin'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been known to send the 1st message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very rarely. I occasionally fab pics though.

"
snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only had one lady message me first so I usually do the messaging

Was that admin?

Cheeky git!

Haha I cant help it, everytime I see I have a message my first thoughts are naturally 'Admin'"

Do you speak from experience then?

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I've only had one lady message me first so I usually do the messaging

Was that admin?

Cheeky git!

Haha I cant help it, everytime I see I have a message my first thoughts are naturally 'Admin'

Do you speak from experience then? "

Yes, I'm afraid so.

Most people get excited by the envelope icon but I get nervous and do a small dry fart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only had one lady message me first so I usually do the messaging

Was that admin?

Cheeky git!

Haha I cant help it, everytime I see I have a message my first thoughts are naturally 'Admin'

Do you speak from experience then?

Yes, I'm afraid so.

Most people get excited by the envelope icon but I get nervous and do a small dry fart"

Thank goodness it's not a shart then!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I often message first

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

If I spot someone I like the sound of, or look of, I'll send a message introducing myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there it is sent! As easy as that! Hmmm waiting for my slap in the kipper!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No .. Not in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message first quite often....I'm not shy about being forward

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By *horshiperMan
over a year ago

London

A woman messaged me first today. I almost fainted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my conversations have been started by the woman, And when I have started one its usually just a compliment on their pictures or commenting on their status update

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