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Shelf lives on a FWB agreement

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there a shelf live on FWB agreements?

I see it all too often, people have brilliant relationships with their FWB but then they end up going from best friends to strangers/enemies due to mixed signals or falling out.

I like FWB arrangements where you go out to dinner etc as mates. My last true FWB lasted a good few months and it only ended as I met someone but 5 years later we still chat; however I see that, that isn't usually the case so I'm wondering if it really is best to keep it far more casual than that?

Tell me your FWB stories, good and bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

interesting topic, I have had a few in the recent years and they have lasted on average about 4 months, probably to do with the shifts I work and the lack of time available to commit and distance apart.

currently, I'm remaining single......

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Like any relationship some work, some don't.

Take it as it comes. Going in with any expectancy on how long it will last will have an impact on just that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My current one has been around 15 months.

We don't see each other as much as we used to due to work and home commitments but we communicate regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That last as long as both party's are happy how long that is who knows.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I've had a FWB off and on since I was 17 (now 21 years) sometimes the sexual side dies off as we have both been in various relationships over that time, but we are always friends, and talk about once a week.

Another one, off and on for over 12 years now.

I tend to do better with FWB than relationships as I have never fallen in love, and don't get the romantic stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One still going strong after 2 years, most I guess a couple of months, people's lives change so I take each day/meet as it comes so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine have lasted between 2 to 4 years and still going. They always end amicably,they get a gf or move away. There never is any arrangement,we just hang out and have sex when we're both free. When it ends it ends.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

FWB can last a life time ,

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My fb and I made an agreement that it would be NSA sex which meant just that. We chat a bit between meets, she meets other men, I meet other women, we sometimes meet up. No jealousy. It works well and the arrangement is nearly 2 years old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one many moons ago. Lasted about 7yrs. I did the dreaded and fell for him . Hence it ended... He ran off into the sunset.. As far as America!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

last 3 fwb i had a very good shelf life from them all

but communication is important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last one was 5 years and it was good while it lasted but then I just wasn't feeling it anymore after a couple of things started to chip away at what was a good thing. I can honestly look back on most of it with fondness so I got out at the right time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of mine says he will be seeing me for many years to come. I'm wondering how I'll manage when I'm 70 and he's 57

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"One of mine says he will be seeing me for many years to come. I'm wondering how I'll manage when I'm 70 and he's 57 "

A litre of lube, 13 viagras and a pulley and rope system cunningly disguised as a bsdm set up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of mine says he will be seeing me for many years to come. I'm wondering how I'll manage when I'm 70 and he's 57

A litre of lube, 13 viagras and a pulley and rope system cunningly disguised as a bsdm set up "

That could work. I'll make it 14 viagra just to be on the safe side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In between relationships I have had 2 fwb and both lasted 2 years before crashing and burning mainly because I was a typical guy and wanted sex and they wanted more. One moved to York and I don't talk to her the other Southampton and she visits from time to time but we don't play.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"One of mine says he will be seeing me for many years to come. I'm wondering how I'll manage when I'm 70 and he's 57 "

simmer frame, and a helping hand,

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"My fb and I made an agreement that it would be NSA sex which meant just that. We chat a bit between meets, she meets other men, I meet other women, we sometimes meet up. No jealousy. It works well and the arrangement is nearly 2 years old. "

I think this is when it works.

The thing is that some of these "arrangements" have bloomed into relationships and some people want that. But going down the FWB route can lead to issues if both people are not wanting the same thing. That's when people fall out.

It's never a nice thing and the last thing that anyone wants.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

One of mine I've been seeing over 8 years now, think where used to each other

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've been looking for years for a FWB, I've nearly found it, then they have all gone a bit clingy on me, so I have given up

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've had them last over 5 years, so I think it all depends on the two of you, what's going on in your lives etc.

I'd not like a fwb to be dropped because of dating but it can happen. Sometimes the sex can become less satisfying if your tastes change.

Unless there are other milestones, you can lose track of time, as you don't usually celebrate anniversaries, and it just rolls on and on.

Usually they last about 6 months or so and we realise it's run its course. Not had any issues apart from a guy who wanted fun most nights which was too intrusive into my life schedule.

I tend to do well with young guys, perhaps before they settle down, or guys between relationships. Always worth looking at as a comfortable life option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine lasted for 4 years on and off. We had weekends away together, social events, talked and text regularly between meeting.

I met someone and was in a relationship for a year and didn't see him at all but kept in touch. When I was single again we picked up where we left off.

What each of us did in our own time was up to us....he saw other women and I met other men.

When I entered a new relationship after 4 years he didn't want to remain friends as he had deeper feelings for me

I miss his friendship but understand his decision...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never had one and wouldn't want one even if I was single,any label like fb or fwb on a friendship or relationship seems to cause issues with one of the 'couple' at some stage

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