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By *penminded732 OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness

What changes would I be best making to my profile text and pics?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Check your spelling (discreet, male). And what's that on your cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Check your spelling (discreet, male). And what's that on your cock? "

Bugger. You hid the pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put a bit more meat into your text. And have a shave

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Check your spelling (discreet, male). And what's that on your cock?

Bugger. You hid the pic. "

He was too quick for me too.....wonder what it was

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By *penminded732 OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness

Back now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back now"

So what is it ?

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Would you want to meet someone with a profile like yours?

Think about what would attract your interest, what would entice you to want to meet.......then write your profile accordingly

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By *penminded732 OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness

Pre cum

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Not bad pics...woeful text.

No idea of who you are from it

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Beef up your profile, it looks like you took all of 5 minutes to write it.

The best piece of advise is, if you were your target audience, would it entice you to message?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Pre cum"

It looks weird. I mean, its your profile and your cock, but if a willy is going to have liquid on then its best if its immediately identifiable as such and doesn't look like two tiny snails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest you kill every other guy in the whole world, and then hope all the women don't turn gay.

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By *penminded732 OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness


"I suggest you kill every other guy in the whole world, and then hope all the women don't turn gay. "

Thanks Jodie....

Any better now?

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We need to know more about you, what you want and the kind of people you wish to meet

It's to draw people in and make them interested in you so they will either message you or reply to yours so the more information the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suggest you kill every other guy in the whole world, and then hope all the women don't turn gay.

Thanks Jodie....

Any better now?"

Marginal improvement. You'll only have to kill off 99% of men now

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By *penminded732 OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness


"I suggest you kill every other guy in the whole world, and then hope all the women don't turn gay.

Thanks Jodie....

Any better now?

Marginal improvement. You'll only have to kill off 99% of men now "

More advice please?

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By *penminded732 OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness

So, I may as well go and eat worms?

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I think it looks better already

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By *penminded732 OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness

Thanks. What other amendments would you recommend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at the profiles of men on the forums here who do well, and see where their profiles differ from yours, but no one here can explain how to sell yourself.

Plus the fact we live where we do will mean that you'll find it difficult, there's only a handful of women/couples and hundreds of men.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If you read it out loud, word for word, you'll work out why you still need to improve your profile text. It's very bland. Doesn't say anything about you really. What are you good at?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Thanks. What other amendments would you recommend?"

No, you're not getting this. Will you change your profile according to every single lady who makes a suggestion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, do you seriously think that if you changed your profile and pics to how others want, they would meet you, because the answer is no.

You could copy the profile word for word of guys who are succussful with meets and it probably wouldn't make a difference.

There are men on this forum who could have a meet every weekend. They have achieved this by joining in on the forum, especially with the whimsical threads. They have a sense of humour, of fun, they attend socials and they join in with banter.

Swinging is a social hobby and meeting lots of people is part and parcel of it. You do need to be able to interact with new people constantly.

Just leave your profile as it is, but join in with the banter, leaving aside any desperation for a meet.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Cant agree with this.

Change your profile to reflect your personality and say something about who you are and what you want. Dont cater for others but you do need to be less enigmatic.

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By *penminded732 OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness

Hopefully slightly better now....

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Are you sure you are only bi-curious ?

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By *penminded732 OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness

Will change lol

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By *penminded732 OP   Man
over a year ago

inverness

Thanks for all the advice.

Attitudinal change helping x

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