FabSwingers.com forum: thoughts on young professionals paying for sex

By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

There was a head line news on in the papers this week about young professionals paying for sex and that 9 out of 10 people had paid a prostitute or escort or sex.

Is this begining to be acceptable or something that shouldn't be happening.

Would be interesting to hear the men and women's thoughts

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

While I can't comment on what people spend their own money on, I do believe that supporting prostitution is wrong. An escort at least has a choice who they meet and have sex with, but a lot of prostitution is supported by the sex slave industry.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

People of all ages have always paid for sex. It's just more openly discussed now.

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By *inglecuckoldMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

ive thought about it but my interest in a long term relationship really takes over.

If id to comment on it...I think life is getting hardly and harder, and seeking a NSA bang without a lot of dating/chatting blah blah certainly has its uses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its time brothels were legalized so they can monitored and regulated.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Maybe its time brothels were legalized so they can monitored and regulated. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I think its always been acceptable isn't it _iewed as the oldest profession ,I myself would never pay directly but indirectly we all pay for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 out of ten! Lol did they do the survey inside a brothel?!

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By *inglecuckoldMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

yeah think its been around long enough

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

"Maybe its time brothels were legalized so they can monitored and regulated.

no wonder they cant afford to leave their parents

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hey I think its always been acceptable isn't it _iewed as the oldest profession ,I myself would never pay directly but indirectly we all pay for sex

Lots of people say that and it seems to me it's mostly men. I genuinely don't understand why though, can you enlighten me?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

their money, their choices...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Maybe its time brothels were legalized so they can monitored and regulated. "

Agreed it wouldn't stop trafficking all together but it would help and it would offer sex workers a degree of protection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe its time brothels were legalized so they can monitored and regulated. "

I agree with that..they have been doing it in the rest of Europe for years..its about time the UK grew out of its Victorian values and gets with the programme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's very high, 9 out of 10!

Prostitution is a terrible industry, largely supporting drug habits and other people, rather than escorts who often just use it as a primary income.

I don't think it's acceptable in society's eyes, but if it was legalised or even just controlled nationally it would help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prostitution will always be around so it should be made as safe as possible for everyone involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey I think its always been acceptable isn't it _iewed as the oldest profession ,I myself would never pay directly but indirectly we all pay for sex

I don't get the saying we all indirectly pay for sex.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

Should be legalised and at least this would ensure that HMRC get their share of the taxes due. Would hopefully also eliminate pimping. How you spend your money is no one else's Businness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its about time it was legalised.

Regulate it as an industry, in particular areas, self employed income, tax, NI etc.

Takes the 'pimp' element out of it, makes it safer for those involved etc etc

I really don't see why we are so prudish about it, perhaps its just inherent to the English psyche.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should be legalised and at least this would ensure that HMRC get their share of the taxes due. Would hopefully also eliminate pimping. How you spend your money is no one else's Businness. "

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

Has any one payed for sex?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I don't get all these people saying it should be legalised.

Newsflash: It IS legal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who really gives a fuck

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"Who really gives a fuck

Society and the law mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's 1 in 9, not 9/10. About half of the men on my team at work have paid for sex, but that's just because we have clients in certain European cities where it's more socially acceptable. None have paid for an escort in London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes would be good if they ligalized escorts and brothels, cos then you can custom made your fuck date to do what you want

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"It's 1 in 9, not 9/10. About half of the men on my team at work have paid for sex, but that's just because we have clients in certain European cities where it's more socially acceptable. None have paid for an escort in London. "

How do u feel about them paying for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do u feel about them paying for sex"

I couldn't care less, it's none of my business. Though they do tell some funny stories afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And no I am not bothered if anyone payes for sex

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"There was a head line news on in the papers this week about young professionals paying for sex and that 9 out of 10 people had paid a prostitute or escort or sex.

Is this begining to be acceptable or something that shouldn't be happening.

Would be interesting to hear the men and women's thoughts "

Why shouldn't it be happening ?

It's not illegal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure, send me a cheque!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Prostitution and drugs are not going away so our legal framework should be set to protect the population.

Everyone's income and body is their property to with as they wish. Trafficking is a red herring that's thrown in to distract us.

I think it's somewhat more accepted now to use escorts etc. It would have been very commonplace some years ago when men were more dominant in society.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

imagine brothels with a deadline of the ladies having to do said amount of men within a given time or period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe its time brothels were legalized so they can monitored and regulated.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

There was a thread along the same line but the survey was 1 out of 10. Either way it's morally wrong.

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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

Who's paid for sex??

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"There was a head line news on in the papers this week about young professionals paying for sex and that 9 out of 10 people had paid a prostitute or escort or sex.

Is this begining to be acceptable or something that shouldn't be happening.

Would be interesting to hear the men and women's thoughts "

9 out of 10 people have paid for sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" we have clients in certain European cities where it's more socially acceptable. None have paid for an escort in London. "

No it is not and never has been socially acceptable in Europe.

No idea what you base this on. Russia I guess, but a whore is a whore- and Russia is a Christian country.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"There was a thread along the same line but the survey was 1 out of 10. Either way it's morally wrong."

is it? if the person selling it is doing it of their own free will then why is it morally wrong? I know people that have been on both sides of the coin and cannot see anything wrong with either of their morals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should be legalised and at least this would ensure that HMRC get their share of the taxes due. Would hopefully also eliminate pimping. How you spend your money is no one else's Businness. "

Most escorts do pay tax. They have it as a professional role and it's their sole income. It's legal as you are paying for the escorts time, not to have sex with them, any sexual acts are at the escorts discression

Prostitutes work on the street and that is illegal, that's where taxes are usually not paid, the girls often work for a pimps and are often part of the sex slave industry

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

i certainly think the industry should face an overhaul and some kind of standardization. It is illegal to run a brothel or solicit sex in this country. But with the proper framework and protections put in place then why shouldn't an man or woman sell sex for themselves if that's what they want. We as a nation tend towards a prudish and conservative culture towards sex.

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

We have to accept that you'll never eliminate demand and thus there will always be a market.

By criminalising the market, you put it in the hands of criminals.

By de-criminalising, it can be regulated and monitored for the safety of all concerned, though of course there will always be risk.

The same is true for illegal drugs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" we have clients in certain European cities where it's more socially acceptable. None have paid for an escort in London.

No it is not and never has been socially acceptable in Europe.

No idea what you base this on. Russia I guess, but a whore is a whore- and Russia is a Christian country."

Perhaps your point would be stronger if you'd chosen a country where prostitution is legal and didn't use the phrase "a whore is a whore". I can only assume you've never been to Prague, Amsterdam, Antwerp, Vienna or any major city in Germany.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"Yes would be good if they ligalized escorts and brothels, cos then you can custom made your fuck date to do what you want

escorts are already legal, brothels and soliciting arent.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

" we have clients in certain European cities where it's more socially acceptable. None have paid for an escort in London.

No it is not and never has been socially acceptable in Europe.

No idea what you base this on. Russia I guess, but a whore is a whore- and Russia is a Christian country."

yes it is, across most of europe prostitution is widely accepted, just go to holland, germany, belguim, etc you will see for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" we have clients in certain European cities where it's more socially acceptable. None have paid for an escort in London.

No it is not and never has been socially acceptable in Europe.

No idea what you base this on. Russia I guess, but a whore is a whore- and Russia is a Christian country.

Hey, I saw your first response. You know, the one that was so aggressive you deleted it. Naughty girl.

I started working Europe and visiting their sex clubs late 80s, prob before you were born. Germany, amsterdam etc etc-every single country. my ex lived near the rieperbahn if ya even know what that is.

Think of it as a bit like swinging. legal yes, but not socially acceptable. If it was, you would have your face pic on your public profile.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" we have clients in certain European cities where it's more socially acceptable. None have paid for an escort in London.

No it is not and never has been socially acceptable in Europe.

No idea what you base this on. Russia I guess, but a whore is a whore- and Russia is a Christian country.

Hey, I saw your first response. You know, the one that was so aggressive you deleted it. Naughty girl.

Think of it as a bit like swinging. legal yes, but not socially acceptable. If it was, you would have your face pic on your public profile.

Thanks"

Cool, if you've visited every country you must know what I mean about prostitution and brothels being more socially acceptable in certain cities than the UK then. Which is exactly what I originally said.

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