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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site? "

Who is anyone to say what's unacceptable for someone to upload as a status?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site? "

So block the culprits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site? "
'Fuckbook'*

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is a social activity, therefore Fab is a form of social media.

If you don't like what you see, block. Simples....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unacceptable?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe unacceptable was the wrong word.... unnecessary

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

Unacceptable? That's a bit harsh isn't it?

If you don't like someone's status just pass by and find one you do like. What people write on here should be totally up to them.

Sorry if that's too FB and boring

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site? "

I think your profiles pretty dull but it's yours to do what you like with........ Rather like those who choose to post boring statuses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason a lot of ppl moan about bills etc on there status...is the hope that some mug on here will send them money Which happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging is a social activity, therefore Fab is a form of social media.

If you don't like what you see, block. Simples...."

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Can't say it bothers me. Not everything has to be about sex on here you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging is a social activity, therefore Fab is a form of social media.

If you don't like what you see, block. Simples...."

agree

Who is to say what's acceptable on here!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

dear god ....we have the status police now !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people want to moan about bills etc then so be it but it would put me off meeting, I wouldn't wonder what their topic of conversation will be if they are the type to put such things on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe unacceptable was the wrong word.... unnecessary"

I actually love what people have as their status,it's usually a clear indicator of whether to bother looking at their profile or not

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The moaning ranty bleating statuses are a valuable filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site? "

What is acceptable? Please furnish us with examples and we can make sure we don't deviate in future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe unacceptable was the wrong word.... unnecessary

I actually love what people have as their status,it's usually a clear indicator of whether to bother looking at their profile or not "

More not look then look going by my local status updates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason a lot of ppl moan about bills etc on there status...is the hope that some mug on here will send them money Which happens"
. Really ? Blimey !!!

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington


"Maybe unacceptable was the wrong word.... unnecessary

I actually love what people have as their status,it's usually a clear indicator of whether to bother looking at their profile or not "

this, I have often messaged people because their status intrigued me enough to check out their profile

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Where's the 'like' box to tick ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason a lot of ppl moan about bills etc on there status...is the hope that some mug on here will send them money Which happens"

Does it . Well if anyone wants to pay my bills feel bloody free

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe unacceptable was the wrong word.... unnecessary

I actually love what people have as their status,it's usually a clear indicator of whether to bother looking at their profile or not

More not look then look going by my local status updates "

My exact point.haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site? "

This is a social site, with a sex theme. They can say what they like. How is it unacceptable? It's boring to you because the only way you probably see women on this site is as a way to get your cock wet.

If you need escapism, go look at porn perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's absolutely unacceptable! bloody nerve of it!!! Really....

Anyone got any knitting patterns... Recipes going begging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look at local status updates just those on my friends & perve list...

Not much on here bothers me to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing that's acceptable round here is purehoneypots pic mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's absolutely unacceptable! bloody nerve of it!!! Really....

Anyone got any knitting patterns... Recipes going begging. "

Shamoooooonesistafocker. ..I've got a few cocktail recipes I'm trying tonight....*hic*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason a lot of ppl moan about bills etc on there status...is the hope that some mug on here will send them money Which happens"

Really? Waw. Had I realised this, I'd have put my status abut the Rygbi up a few days ago in the hope that someone would have bought me a ticket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is people will use the site how they see fit, posting a negative post is your way of using the site and I'm sure you will reap the rewards.

Swinging is not about websites the scene exists without it but more and more people use it to keep in contact with people they meet in the real world they don't need to use it to meet but to socialise so as a result use it like a social network.

If these people bug you block them, that's a no brainer but then I'm sure the same ones that bug you are the type of person you want to play with, so in effect you want them to change their behaviour.

That's not going to happen, I have experienced people who say me and my partner shouldn't be here because we socialise and don't fuck often but we have played and been verified by the right people for us.

Just concentrate on those that are right for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messaging bothers me on here I have five friends and getting them to answer messages nightmare

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well.... A very powerful response for merely just a question.haha. Many thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging is a social activity, therefore Fab is a form of social media.

If you don't like what you see, block. Simples....

agree

Who is to say what's acceptable on here! "

Well I can't accept that comment

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I wouldn't say your current status is ground breaking.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Well.... A very powerful response for merely just a question.haha. Many thanks. "

Well, you did suggest that talking about people's everyday lives was 'unacceptable', which is pretty silly.

There's a social side to sex, and we all have normal lives. You can't seriously expect people to talk about what they're doing with their bits 24/7.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"The reason a lot of ppl moan about bills etc on there status...is the hope that some mug on here will send them money Which happens. Really ? Blimey !!! "

yea, not just money. " my ironing board just broken grrrr" cue the offers of a spanking new one in return for favours, and so on and so forth.....our block list is full of such grabby mo fos, constantly whining indirectly for stuff and typing their inane foolishness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never look at local status updates just those on my friends & perve list...

Not much on here bothers me to be honest."

One chilled out Laydee that's for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's absolutely unacceptable! bloody nerve of it!!! Really....

Anyone got any knitting patterns... Recipes going begging.

Shamoooooonesistafocker. ..I've got a few cocktail recipes I'm trying tonight....*hic* "

Oh brother dearest ltns!! sharing is caring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say your current status is ground breaking. "

Advantage xSweetVioletx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say your current status is ground breaking. "

Well fancy seeing you here beautiful... Our knitting date is growing closer

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

' hmmmmmmm ...what to get up to this evening '

truly earth shattering !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason a lot of ppl moan about bills etc on there status...is the hope that some mug on here will send them money Which happens

Really? Waw. Had I realised this, I'd have put my status abut the Rygbi up a few days ago in the hope that someone would have bought me a ticket "

Legs you owe me a £36.59 coffee bill and an enormous amount taxidermy fee!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" ' hmmmmmmm ...what to get up to this evening '

truly earth shattering !! "

Haha, I have no come

Back to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's absolutely unacceptable! bloody nerve of it!!! Really....

Anyone got any knitting patterns... Recipes going begging.

Shamoooooonesistafocker. ..I've got a few cocktail recipes I'm trying tonight....*hic*

Oh brother dearest ltns!! sharing is caring "

Fancy sharing a long slow comfortable screw against the wall and a screaming orgasm then

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site? "

Almost as unacceptable / unnecessary as forum threads berating how others choose to use the site

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

To be fair, 103% of my status updates are daft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason a lot of ppl moan about bills etc on there status...is the hope that some mug on here will send them money Which happens

Really? Waw. Had I realised this, I'd have put my status abut the Rygbi up a few days ago in the hope that someone would have bought me a ticket

Legs you owe me a £36.59 coffee bill and an enormous amount taxidermy fee! "

I might have known you'd pipe up misses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site?

Almost as unacceptable / unnecessary as forum threads berating how others choose to use the site "

Says it all really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair, 103% of my status updates are daft. "

Only 103%??

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum

[Removed by poster at 22/11/14 17:58:45]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason a lot of ppl moan about bills etc on there status...is the hope that some mug on here will send them money Which happens

Really? Waw. Had I realised this, I'd have put my status abut the Rygbi up a few days ago in the hope that someone would have bought me a ticket

Legs you owe me a £36.59 coffee bill and an enormous amount taxidermy fee!

I might have known you'd pipe up misses "

Pipe me? I can't believe you are saying I pipe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's absolutely unacceptable! bloody nerve of it!!! Really....

Anyone got any knitting patterns... Recipes going begging.

Shamoooooonesistafocker. ..I've got a few cocktail recipes I'm trying tonight....*hic*

Oh brother dearest ltns!! sharing is caring

Fancy sharing a long slow comfortable screw against the wall and a screaming orgasm then "

Corr blimey! Bro you are d*unk!

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum

People take this site far to seriously sex ain't got to be the only subject to talk about you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People take this site far to seriously sex ain't got to be the only subject to talk about you know "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As boring as the male profiles with I'm soooo horny or who wants to suck my big fat cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People take this site far to seriously sex ain't got to be the only subject to talk about you know "

It's not? shurrup n get your Alan wickers off!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site? "

i dont like your status! Its boring, needy and unacceptable for a swinging site.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I wouldn't say your current status is ground breaking.

Well fancy seeing you here beautiful... Our knitting date is growing closer "

Well hello.

Shall I bring some socks to darn?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site? "

we all consider different things boring really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just women anyway - men do it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People take this site far to seriously sex ain't got to be the only subject to talk about you know "

Some of the threads, Comments and status updates make my day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As boring as the male profiles with I'm soooo horny or who wants to suck my big fat cock?"

So true, I've stopped reading my 'local' updates because of comments like that!

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Can I check what would be an acceptable status in case I want to change mine? I don't want to get into trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say your current status is ground breaking.

Well fancy seeing you here beautiful... Our knitting date is growing closer

Well hello.

Shall I bring some socks to darn?"

Er now your pushing it?! Although if you have some cupcake recipes? ill don a pinny... Whilst refuelling.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site? "

From the guy wondering what to do this evening in his? Seriously?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site?

From the guy wondering what to do this evening in his? Seriously? "

yep, seriously hence my post further up.

I need no iron pills this week I get my RDA of irony on here

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site?

From the guy wondering what to do this evening in his? Seriously? "

Ha!

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum


"I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site?

From the guy wondering what to do this evening in his? Seriously? "

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Take them off your friends list/ hotlist then you wont see the status..

In my opinion people can write what they like or what is important to them at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's absolutely unacceptable! bloody nerve of it!!! Really....

Anyone got any knitting patterns... Recipes going begging.

Shamoooooonesistafocker. ..I've got a few cocktail recipes I'm trying tonight....*hic*

Oh brother dearest ltns!! sharing is caring

Fancy sharing a long slow comfortable screw against the wall and a screaming orgasm then

Corr blimey! Bro you are d*unk! "

Noo just messing about...haven't touched a drop....yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's absolutely unacceptable! bloody nerve of it!!! Really....

Anyone got any knitting patterns... Recipes going begging.

Shamoooooonesistafocker. ..I've got a few cocktail recipes I'm trying tonight....*hic*

Oh brother dearest ltns!! sharing is caring

Fancy sharing a long slow comfortable screw against the wall and a screaming orgasm then

Corr blimey! Bro you are d*unk!

Noo just messing about...haven't touched a drop....yet "

Of course you haven't me either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh I think its time for the status shuffle game again, Maybe that will entertain the op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's absolutely unacceptable! bloody nerve of it!!! Really....

Anyone got any knitting patterns... Recipes going begging.

Shamoooooonesistafocker. ..I've got a few cocktail recipes I'm trying tonight....*hic*

Oh brother dearest ltns!! sharing is caring

Fancy sharing a long slow comfortable screw against the wall and a screaming orgasm then

Corr blimey! Bro you are d*unk!

Noo just messing about...haven't touched a drop....yet

Of course you haven't me either. "

But will be after my dinner .... just as soon as I've had a good moan on my status about the price of Tequila

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooh I think its time for the status shuffle game again, Maybe that will entertain the op "

I was thinking about that earlier. ...where's Femme when you need her?

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Ooh I think its time for the status shuffle game again, Maybe that will entertain the op "

I love that game

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Can I check what would be an acceptable status in case I want to change mine? I don't want to get into trouble "

Try posting one about getting contents insurance that covers against Viking raiders. It improves your unusual message quotient a bit. Mind you, these are my kind of people

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Can I check what would be an acceptable status in case I want to change mine? I don't want to get into trouble

Try posting one about getting contents insurance that covers against Viking raiders. It improves your unusual message quotient a bit. Mind you, these are my kind of people "

I am not sure I could be convincing with a status like that I might try 'anyone want sex?' as it's a swinger site and I don't want to let the side down

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

It is a bt like the wording in profiles really..

** Not settling for a honking creature who has knobbed half the site**

is pretty spectacular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site? "

I never understand peoples need to use websites like a billboard, airing all their personal, and day to day issues. Its all very "look at me". I (Rick) don't use Facebook, and personally I just don't get it ?

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"I see so many women's status on here moaning about day to day life things, bills, family etc. Is it just me who finds this not only boring but unacceptable for a swinging site? "
. Most of the day to day comments are interesting . Just because it is a swingers site it does not mean you have to talk about sex. Swingers have lots of other interests apart from sex.

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