FabSwingers.com forum: oh dear

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So l am at Adam and Eve's last night with my slave and a female playing pool asks, is she my wife. No she is my slave, l replied. The female laughs, with l detect a slight doubt in her eyes...hmmm

I call to my slave, come here please..my slave obeys.

Kneel, l instruct her. She does, no hesitation. Now lay flat on the floor, she does..l stand on her.

I think l answered the lady's question quite well. Apologies if anyone was shocked. It is all consensual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't there so no need to apologise

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Fascinating...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So l am at Adam and Eve's last night with my slave and a female playing pool asks, is she my wife. No she is my slave, l replied. The female laughs, with l detect a slight doubt in her eyes...hmmm

I call to my slave, come here please..my slave obeys.

Kneel, l instruct her. She does, no hesitation. Now lay flat on the floor, she does..l stand on her.

I think l answered the lady's question quite well. Apologies if anyone was shocked. It is all consensual."

Ouch....I'd lamp ya one.

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

Would you Adam and Eve it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So l am at Adam and Eve's last night with my slave and a female playing pool asks, is she my wife. No she is my slave, l replied. The female laughs, with l detect a slight doubt in her eyes...hmmm

I call to my slave, come here please..my slave obeys.

Kneel, l instruct her. She does, no hesitation. Now lay flat on the floor, she does..l stand on her.

I think l answered the lady's question quite well. Apologies if anyone was shocked. It is all consensual.

Ouch....I'd lamp ya one.

You and me too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, we're not married" would've worked just as well, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find the whole master n slave thing kind of creepy but each to there own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not shocked,if you chopped her head off I would of been surprised though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I had a sexual slave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not shocked,if you chopped her head off I would of been surprised though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So l am at Adam and Eve's last night with my slave and a female playing pool asks, is she my wife. No she is my slave, l replied. The female laughs, with l detect a slight doubt in her eyes...hmmm

I call to my slave, come here please..my slave obeys.

Kneel, l instruct her. She does, no hesitation. Now lay flat on the floor, she does..l stand on her.

I think l answered the lady's question quite well. Apologies if anyone was shocked. It is all consensual.

Ouch....I'd lamp ya one.

You and me too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't even get Mrs P to go to the bar for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""No, we're not married" would've worked just as well, I think. "

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

""No, we're not married" would've worked just as well, I think.

Me too and I wouldn't like to be asked if I was married to my playmate in a club too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i find the whole master n slave thing kind of creepy but each to there own

What it is, is very hard work. Most people in the swing scene have your opinion. What l will say is, it's all based on submissive need, limits boundaries, power control, consensual agreement and absolute trust.

I respect her limits but push her boundaries. Swing scene is based on limits etc..soft play can lead to gangbangs.

You live London have a look at the LAM of LFF it's a good venue for education on a different kink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So l am at Adam and Eve's last night with my slave and a female playing pool asks, is she my wife. No she is my slave, l replied. The female laughs, with l detect a slight doubt in her eyes...hmmm

I call to my slave, come here please..my slave obeys.

Kneel, l instruct her. She does, no hesitation. Now lay flat on the floor, she does..l stand on her.

I think l answered the lady's question quite well. Apologies if anyone was shocked. It is all consensual."

Not my thing but if that's your dynamic and it's consensual then cool.

There would have been less obnoxious ways of explaining though...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"i find the whole master n slave thing kind of creepy but each to there own

I respect her limits but push her boundaries. Swing scene is based on limits etc..soft play can lead to gangbangs.

You live London have a look at the LAM of LFF it's a good venue for education on a different kink"

You say you respect your slave's limits and boundaries but you apparently don't accept anyone else's.

Some people just aren't into D/s or BDSM and their choice is equally valid as yours and deserves your acceptance.

Pushing people with no interest in your lifestyle to attend events in order to get educated is rude. The writer of the post you responded to clearly has no interest in learning more about D/s and BDSM.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

You say you respect your slave's limits and boundaries but you apparently don't accept anyone else's.

Some people just aren't into D/s or BDSM and their choice is equally valid as yours and deserves your acceptance.

Was this a bdsm club? Perhaps being a little more respectful and understanding of other peoples boundaries and limits would have been preferable. No wonder people think D/S is fucked up.

I am very sub, but its not a part of my life I choose to open on fab. My dominant would never behave like that in a public environment. Its very respectful in public - of me and of others, and what happens behind closed doors is between him and me, as is rightly so.

A simple, no we are not married would have sufficed, not sure what you hoped to prove by that display of "dominance" other that disrespecting a good number of people, not least of all your slave - who you are supposed to care for and regard above everyone - not use to show off.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Yes, you really proved something by that little display.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Oh dear'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See to me the whole d/s thing is very personal. I came across a very strange set up this summer, altho ive been told since shes being abused and its not bdsm.

I was dating a girl, going nice and slow, hadn't dont anything with her except a snog, only after our 3rd date I was really liking this girl. Now I knew there was an ex about but being bi and a single mum myself it didn't bother me. But a week after date no3 I get a random text for my email addy as this guy wanted to send me something. I was like oh ok. Turns out she was in a d/s "relationship" (I say that loosly as he refused to acknowledge he wa with her)

And he had sent her out to find someone for a 3some. Not only was that said in this email. - remember I hadn't had anything with her yet - was a step by step guide what he does to her and 36 picks of the most intimate bdsm pics making sure his cock was in a few.

I was mortified. To me that should not be posted about. They are every private and a complete break of the trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't even get Mrs P to go to the bar for me. "

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Couldn't you have just asked her to build a small pyramid?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You stood on her!

I can understand the slave thing just about but not the need to prove it to other people by standing on someone.

But the fab mantra covers it.....each to their own

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Couldn't you have just asked her to build a small pyramid?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So l am at Adam and Eve's last night with my slave and a female playing pool asks, is she my wife. No she is my slave, l replied. The female laughs, with l detect a slight doubt in her eyes...hmmm

I call to my slave, come here please..my slave obeys.

Kneel, l instruct her. She does, no hesitation. Now lay flat on the floor, she does..l stand on her.

I think l answered the lady's question quite well. Apologies if anyone was shocked. It is all consensual.

Ouch....I'd lamp ya one.

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couldn't you have just asked her to build a small pyramid?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"So l am at Adam and Eve's last night with my slave and a female playing pool asks, is she my wife. No she is my slave, l replied. The female laughs, with l detect a slight doubt in her eyes...hmmm

I call to my slave, come here please..my slave obeys.

Kneel, l instruct her. She does, no hesitation. Now lay flat on the floor, she does..l stand on her.

I think l answered the lady's question quite well. Apologies if anyone was shocked. It is all consensual.

Ouch....I'd lamp ya one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much do you weigh ,ouch indeed

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'd be a shit slave I never do as I'm told and especially wouldn't on demand but horses for courses or whatever the saying is

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Now kneel, remove your clothing, bend over and ask for my forgiveness

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If I had a sex slave they'd be cleaning the car.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"You stood on her!

I can understand the slave thing just about but not the need to prove it to other people by standing on someone.

But the fab mantra covers it.....each to their own"

ETTO

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So l am at Adam and Eve's last night with my slave and a female playing pool asks, is she my wife. No she is my slave, l replied. The female laughs, with l detect a slight doubt in her eyes...hmmm

I call to my slave, come here please..my slave obeys.

Kneel, l instruct her. She does, no hesitation. Now lay flat on the floor, she does..l stand on her.

I think l answered the lady's question quite well. Apologies if anyone was shocked. It is all consensual."

I think that you should show the respect you ask for to other people.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Couldn't have said it better myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have walked away in embarrassment if I'd seen that.

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I would have walked away in embarrassment if I'd seen that. "

I think people often forget that consensual also means those who witness what you're doing.

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester

Ooh my hero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i find the whole master n slave thing kind of creepy but each to there own

Snap

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

"i find the whole master n slave thing kind of creepy but each to there own

Snap"

Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one - Rather apt right now I think..

Just because you don't agree with or understand something doesn't mean you have to be so rude about it, does it?

I personally would never dream of doing so.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"i find the whole master n slave thing kind of creepy but each to there own

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Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one - Rather apt right now I think..

Just because you don't agree with or understand something doesn't mean you have to be so rude about it, does it?

I personally would never dream of doing so."

Whereas the OP feels it's ok to shove his lifestyle in the faces of people at a venue with people not into it and clearly not comfortable with it.

I, personally, wouldn't do that. Nor would I tell people not interested in D/s and BDSM to go to fetish events and get educated.

There are times and places to exhibit ones Dominance in an overt, flashy manner. The situation described in the OP wasn't one.

Some people find it creepy. They're entitled to feel uncomfortable with it. They're not insulting anyone, just saying they don't want it around them.

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

"i find the whole master n slave thing kind of creepy but each to there own

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Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one - Rather apt right now I think..

Just because you don't agree with or understand something doesn't mean you have to be so rude about it, does it?

I personally would never dream of doing so.

Whereas the OP feels it's ok to shove his lifestyle in the faces of people at a venue with people not into it and clearly not comfortable with it.

I, personally, wouldn't do that. Nor would I tell people not interested in D/s and BDSM to go to fetish events and get educated.

There are times and places to exhibit ones Dominance in an overt, flashy manner. The situation described in the OP wasn't one.

Some people find it creepy. They're entitled to feel uncomfortable with it. They're not insulting anyone, just saying they don't want it around them."

Did you actually read my previous post?? Nope... It's also nice to see you tar every D/s relationship with the same brush.

I was commenting on how it had been seen as "Creepy" and as a submissive I totally and utterly disagree with how he treated her but still, I find it offense that I and others are called "weird" and "creepy" for the lifestyle I enjoy and just as you are entitled to your "opinion" i am entitled to mine.

But yeah go ahead and rant at me for something I didn't agree with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i find the whole master n slave thing kind of creepy but each to there own

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Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one - Rather apt right now I think..

Just because you don't agree with or understand something doesn't mean you have to be so rude about it, does it?

I personally would never dream of doing so.

Whereas the OP feels it's ok to shove his lifestyle in the faces of people at a venue with people not into it and clearly not comfortable with it.

I, personally, wouldn't do that. Nor would I tell people not interested in D/s and BDSM to go to fetish events and get educated.

There are times and places to exhibit ones Dominance in an overt, flashy manner. The situation described in the OP wasn't one.

Some people find it creepy. They're entitled to feel uncomfortable with it. They're not insulting anyone, just saying they don't want it around them."

You are of course absolutely right, which is why l apologised..as mentioned in the post..you did read that bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i find the whole master n slave thing kind of creepy but each to there own

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Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one - Rather apt right now I think..

Just because you don't agree with or understand something doesn't mean you have to be so rude about it, does it?

I personally would never dream of doing so.

Whereas the OP feels it's ok to shove his lifestyle in the faces of people at a venue with people not into it and clearly not comfortable with it.

I, personally, wouldn't do that. Nor would I tell people not interested in D/s and BDSM to go to fetish events and get educated.

There are times and places to exhibit ones Dominance in an overt, flashy manner. The situation described in the OP wasn't one.

Some people find it creepy. They're entitled to feel uncomfortable with it. They're not insulting anyone, just saying they don't want it around them.

Did you actually read my previous post?? Nope... It's also nice to see you tar every D/s relationship with the same brush.

But yeah go ahead and rant at me for something I didn't agree with

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The OP is creepy.

Some d/s stuff is creepy.

Your post is creepy.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"i find the whole master n slave thing kind of creepy but each to there own

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

"i find the whole master n slave thing kind of creepy but each to there own

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Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one - Rather apt right now I think..

Just because you don't agree with or understand something doesn't mean you have to be so rude about it, does it?

I personally would never dream of doing so.

Whereas the OP feels it's ok to shove his lifestyle in the faces of people at a venue with people not into it and clearly not comfortable with it.

I, personally, wouldn't do that. Nor would I tell people not interested in D/s and BDSM to go to fetish events and get educated.

There are times and places to exhibit ones Dominance in an overt, flashy manner. The situation described in the OP wasn't one.

Some people find it creepy. They're entitled to feel uncomfortable with it. They're not insulting anyone, just saying they don't want it around them.

Did you actually read my previous post?? Nope... It's also nice to see you tar every D/s relationship with the same brush.

But yeah go ahead and rant at me for something I didn't agree with

The OP is creepy.

Some d/s stuff is creepy.

Your post is creepy. "

And I am so damn interested in the opinion of a faceless profile I must say...

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

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Lmao sorry but this thread has got me in stitches

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Oh dear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i find the whole master n slave thing kind of creepy but each to there own

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Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one - Rather apt right now I think..

Just because you don't agree with or understand something doesn't mean you have to be so rude about it, does it?

I personally would never dream of doing so."

Sharing an.opion with someone isnt rude..

And you infer that doi g so.makes me an asshole.Now that IS rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So l am at Adam and Eve's last night with my slave and a female playing pool asks, is she my wife. No she is my slave, l replied. The female laughs, with l detect a slight doubt in her eyes...hmmm

I call to my slave, come here please..my slave obeys.

Kneel, l instruct her. She does, no hesitation. Now lay flat on the floor, she does..l stand on her.

I think l answered the lady's question quite well. Apologies if anyone was shocked. It is all consensual."

i dont actually get the point of this post to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bitch fight......handbags at the ready

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

"i find the whole master n slave thing kind of creepy but each to there own

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Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one - Rather apt right now I think..

Just because you don't agree with or understand something doesn't mean you have to be so rude about it, does it?

I personally would never dream of doing so.

Sharing an.opion with someone isnt rude..

And you infer that doi g so.makes me an asshole.Now that IS rude.

Nope.. You totally and utterly misread the quote there.. I suggest you read it again.

Also calling someones sexual interests "creepy", I think you'll find that is rude..

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum

Feels like a episode of jezza

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feels like a episode of jezza

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lmao sorry but this thread has got me in stitches

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Not my thing but if that's your dynamic and it's consensual then cool.

There would have been less obnoxious ways of explaining though..."

this I guess..

OP your actions appear lacking in respect for her but I guess you've impressed some and not others..

hey ho..

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"i find the whole master n slave thing kind of creepy but each to there own

Snap

Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one - Rather apt right now I think..

Just because you don't agree with or understand something doesn't mean you have to be so rude about it, does it?

I personally would never dream of doing so.

Whereas the OP feels it's ok to shove his lifestyle in the faces of people at a venue with people not into it and clearly not comfortable with it.

I, personally, wouldn't do that. Nor would I tell people not interested in D/s and BDSM to go to fetish events and get educated.

There are times and places to exhibit ones Dominance in an overt, flashy manner. The situation described in the OP wasn't one.

Some people find it creepy. They're entitled to feel uncomfortable with it. They're not insulting anyone, just saying they don't want it around them.

Did you actually read my previous post?? Nope... It's also nice to see you tar every D/s relationship with the same brush.

But yeah go ahead and rant at me for something I didn't agree with

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You have no idea how I feel about D/s relationships because I haven't said. My comment is about it being ok for other people to feel uncomfortable with D/s and to find it creepy.

That's not being rude, they feel creeped out by it. They can't help that. People not into that kind of dynamic shouldn't have to encounter it in their regular life. If they stay away from kink events, they shouldn't have to deal with D/s or BDSM.

My issue is with you suggesting people are arseholes for saying these relationships make them uncomfortable. I expect if it's kept away from them, they're happy to live and let live. Here, it's not been kept away from them so it's entirely fair to comment.

Whether you support what the OP did or not, implying people are arseholes for not being comfortable with D/s shoved in their faces, is not nice.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"So l am at Adam and Eve's last night with my slave and a female playing pool asks, is she my wife. No she is my slave, l replied. The female laughs, with l detect a slight doubt in her eyes...hmmm

I call to my slave, come here please..my slave obeys.

Kneel, l instruct her. She does, no hesitation. Now lay flat on the floor, she does..l stand on her.

I think l answered the lady's question quite well. Apologies if anyone was shocked. It is all consensual.

i dont actually get the point of this post to be honest

I do. Dom males probably need quite a lot of validation for their actions so posting it here completely unwarranted after abusing a women in front of another one totally unwarranted probably helps him out a bit.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Not my thing but if that's your dynamic and it's consensual then cool.

There would have been less obnoxious ways of explaining though...

this I guess..

OP your actions appear lacking in respect for her but I guess you've impressed some and not others..

hey ho.."

they certainly lack resect for the woman who asked the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

VV.. Perfectly written.

I agree!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I've never met a proper dom who needed justification or validation for his actions from anyone other than his sub. The times I have subbed it has been an immensely private undertaking between me and him, and our rules have been discussed at great length - never needed outside acceptance, validation or permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a slave.

Slave to the system, I work for the man.

I am one of the oppressed masses kept in check by the ruling classes.

Come the day of the revolution....... Oh wait I have got totally the wrong end of the stick, not that kind of slave.

Oh well, peace and love to you all.

( all to be said in a Neil, hippy voice of course)

Love love xxxx

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

"i find the whole master n slave thing kind of creepy but each to there own

Snap

Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one - Rather apt right now I think..

Just because you don't agree with or understand something doesn't mean you have to be so rude about it, does it?

I personally would never dream of doing so.

Whereas the OP feels it's ok to shove his lifestyle in the faces of people at a venue with people not into it and clearly not comfortable with it.

I, personally, wouldn't do that. Nor would I tell people not interested in D/s and BDSM to go to fetish events and get educated.

There are times and places to exhibit ones Dominance in an overt, flashy manner. The situation described in the OP wasn't one.

Some people find it creepy. They're entitled to feel uncomfortable with it. They're not insulting anyone, just saying they don't want it around them.

Did you actually read my previous post?? Nope... It's also nice to see you tar every D/s relationship with the same brush.

But yeah go ahead and rant at me for something I didn't agree with

You have no idea how I feel about D/s relationships because I haven't said. My comment is about it being ok for other people to feel uncomfortable with D/s and to find it creepy.

Whether you support what the OP did or not, implying people are arseholes for not being comfortable with D/s shoved in their faces, is not nice."

Haha really now? Ok to dumb this down.. I said opinions are like arseholes, in the sense that everyone has one? Has an arsehole.. has an opinion..

That is in no way calling anyone an arsehole? It's a quote from the move The Dead Pool?

Fair enough, I can also still find it rude then? because I do.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I may have over generalised somewhat, but at least one dom around here seems to need validation.

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over a year ago

A true Dom has a lot of respect for his slave. I wouldn't dream of treating my sub like dirt, unless she had utterly disrespected me. And even then it would be with the mind and to do it at a club just to show off... well, I have my opinion on that, it sounds cheap and unimaginative. Whilst you may have a reason for it, if all your doing is showing off, then I think it's poor form.

Sub/Dom is based on a connection, and it is sensual, for me at least. I want my sub to feel amazing. And if she takes liberties, then I will take that moment to enjoy exercising some of my more creative skills. There is nothing bad or unnatural about that at all.

A lot of relationships have a dominant partner and submissive partner.

How many times have I seen a Wife dressing down her husband in public and he stands there looking forlorn! It's in the fabric of so many relationships in one way or another that one person is more dominant than the other. Sometimes through respect, adoration or fear!

Some choose to take it, apply rules and make sure they do it with care and respect.

There is nothing wrong with that at all.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"So l am at Adam and Eve's last night with my slave and a female playing pool asks, is she my wife. No she is my slave, l replied. The female laughs, with l detect a slight doubt in her eyes...hmmm

I call to my slave, come here please..my slave obeys.

Kneel, l instruct her. She does, no hesitation. Now lay flat on the floor, she does..l stand on her.

I think l answered the lady's question quite well. Apologies if anyone was shocked. It is all consensual.

i dont actually get the point of this post to be honest

Some do, others know who they are and are comfortable with themselves without having to show off and brag about it.

The ones who need constant attention and validation tend to be quite boring and annoying. They also, quite often, wax lyrical about everything being consensual and how others should respect their lifestyle, whilst, at the same time, forcing their lifestyle in the faces of people who aren't interested and don't want to see it.

When it's suggested to them that this is not acceptable behaviour they claim that it's simply that they are misunderstood and those that don't like it need to educate themselves about it.

I'll stick with the comfortable non-show-offs with a concept of the right place and time and a true understanding of respect and consent.