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By *andsomechappy OP   Man
over a year ago

london. herts. easex beds

how many people on here tell there friends about there life on here ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've told some. But not others. You kind of gauge the reaction to it so we work on that basis.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Not at all, I keep this part of my life completely separate. The only people who know I am on here are those who I chat to on here or have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope this is my secret life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cousin did- but only because we happened to look at each others profiles and recognised the rooms.

That was years ago though, she thinks I gave it up a few years ago

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

My friend mark (who is a ninja) knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best mate does, and my sister who is like a best mate. Nobody else knows, unless they told anybody but they probably haven't.

I don't talk about meets. Unless something funny happened or something interesting or i think they will fancy them and they'll enjoy talking about their looks, all the sex stuff stays with me coz i don't feel a need to tell them (or anyone else) that.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

No they dont I havent told either of them

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Best friends know I am on a swingers site, and if I have to turn down a meet with my friends they will get 'sorry I've got arrangements with a guy, catch up with ya later!'. Jobs a good'un.

No-one has been freaked out.. and I dont care if friends chat about it behind my back - but I am doing my bit to 'normalise' the image in their eyes, plus I can never be held to blackmail about what I choose to do in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good friend of mine knows and a few workmates know what I've been getting up to in the swinging world.

Have to be very selective who I spill the beans to.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

My best mate introduced me to fab, she has since moved on and settled into a monogamous relationship, but she still knows about me on here, and is a back up buddy for meets.

My ex also knows, and again is a back up - but he did that when we were together too, as he was ok with me still meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope this is my secret life "

same here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep some loud mouth taxi driver told 1 of our mates that we had been to a club he didn't know his customer knew us and when he mentioned our tattoos she knew straight away who it was!!! Why on earth he was talking to a random customer about us still puzzles us pissed us off slightly!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell some of mine

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

I told everyone my neighbours the council the lot ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well someone messaged me Wednesday

Saying they knew my son but I've never met him or seen him

but he reckons he's met me at a social event

Freaked me out a bit as I seem to remember who I've spoke to on here

He then blocks me

So apart from him know one xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some friends know I swing and a few know I use fan. Overall we don't need to share the mundane intricacies of all of life.

I've had neighburs drive me to meets and watch out for safety. If you have the right relationships then it's fine but otherwise on a need to know basis.

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By *couser83Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

No, apart from the people I've met or talked to on here no one else knows and if they found out then they wouldn't say anything because let's face it your not going to tell someone they are on fabswingers as it means you've been on it yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an open secret. More and more of our friends from London's kink scene are good friends in real life too. So the lines are blurred. People know we go to 'specialist' clubs and use a kinky Facebook-esque site. No one knows the details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of my closest friends know.

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Its our secret life, but a good friend of mine fabbed our pics the other day. No comment, just fabbed. Totally shocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep some loud mouth taxi driver told 1 of our mates that we had been to a club he didn't know his customer knew us and when he mentioned our tattoos she knew straight away who it was!!! Why on earth he was talking to a random customer about us still puzzles us pissed us off slightly!!!!"

That's awful!

I was in a taxi once and the driver started discussing the 'guy who wears a kilt of all fucking things' - his face was a picture when he realised he was slagging me off!

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