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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

seems there is a lot of cpls on fab lately who have such understanding wifes that they can play out alone all the time anyone believe them xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"seems there is a lot of cpls on fab lately who have such understanding wifes that they can play out alone all the time anyone believe them xxxxx"
No

Sarah x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Play out alone? Yes

All the time? Probably not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"seems there is a lot of cpls on fab lately who have such understanding wifes that they can play out alone all the time anyone believe them xxxxx"

Nope...and we always report them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"seems there is a lot of cpls on fab lately who have such understanding wifes that they can play out alone all the time anyone believe them xxxxx

Nope...and we always report them..."

I bet 99% of them are single guys or those who were couples and have split x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

also to many time wasting guys to its so putting the fun genuine cpls of meeting genuine single guys it so pisses me off there must be a way of sorting these knobs out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"also to many time wasting guys to its so putting the fun genuine cpls of meeting genuine single guys it so pisses me off there must be a way of sorting these knobs out "

It doesn't put people off meeting single guys...it probably outs them off looking for couples...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get the female to confirm via cam or telephone. If they're a genuine couple on here that won't be an issue, if you get the 'my wife is happy but doesn't want to know or be part of it' - alarm bells! Always best to be upfront so people can make informed choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just get the female to confirm via cam or telephone. If they're a genuine couple on here that won't be an issue, if you get the 'my wife is happy but doesn't want to know or be part of it' - alarm bells! Always best to be upfront so people can make informed choices. "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Just get the female to confirm via cam or telephone. If they're a genuine couple on here that won't be an issue, if you get the 'my wife is happy but doesn't want to know or be part of it' - alarm bells! Always best to be upfront so people can make informed choices. "

Alarm bells for you maybe but as being as my wife "doesn't want to know or be part of it" it seems quite a reasonable thing to me. I don't think mine is a usual or common situation though so (says Mr Fence Sitter) if I saw it a lot, I'd also be suspicious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just get the female to confirm via cam or telephone. If they're a genuine couple on here that won't be an issue, if you get the 'my wife is happy but doesn't want to know or be part of it' - alarm bells! Always best to be upfront so people can make informed choices.

Alarm bells for you maybe but as being as my wife "doesn't want to know or be part of it" it seems quite a reasonable thing to me. I don't think mine is a usual or common situation though so (says Mr Fence Sitter) if I saw it a lot, I'd also be suspicious. "

I think the OP is referring more to couples profiles on here and the trend for 'male half only playing' - you're not on here as a 'couple'.

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By *i fem huntersCouple
over a year ago

london

Who cares????? Just shag if you wanna shag. We are all adults here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just get the female to confirm via cam or telephone. If they're a genuine couple on here that won't be an issue, if you get the 'my wife is happy but doesn't want to know or be part of it' - alarm bells! Always best to be upfront so people can make informed choices.

Alarm bells for you maybe but as being as my wife "doesn't want to know or be part of it" it seems quite a reasonable thing to me. I don't think mine is a usual or common situation though so (says Mr Fence Sitter) if I saw it a lot, I'd also be suspicious. "

It happens more than people realise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look for just male part of couples- however will always want to see the whole couple on a social before hand as many sneaky single guys out there...

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By *i fem huntersCouple
over a year ago

london


"We look for just male part of couples- however will always want to see the whole couple on a social before hand as many sneaky single guys out there..."

I often fantasise of hubby meeting a woman and then tell me all the naughty things they got up to whilst he's pounding me. Mmmmmmmm yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like the mmf aspect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"seems there is a lot of cpls on fab lately who have such understanding wifes that they can play out alone all the time anyone believe them xxxxx

Nope...and we always report them..."

This is why I have my own profile too now so it obvious when it's just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"seems there is a lot of cpls on fab lately who have such understanding wifes that they can play out alone all the time anyone believe them xxxxx"

No and report every one you find

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just ask him to get his mrs to meet you for a session first, after camming together. If this was done for a couple of months it would sort out the fake couples who are just males.

Otherwise if you don't care or wish to help purge fab, just shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just get the female to confirm via cam or telephone. If they're a genuine couple on here that won't be an issue, if you get the 'my wife is happy but doesn't want to know or be part of it' - alarm bells! Always best to be upfront so people can make informed choices. "

My wife wouldn't do cam and doesn't want to be chatting on the phone about meets.

Her attitude is 'if you want to borrow him/her (depending on my mode) and need to know if it's ok, ask me in person in a club'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just get the female to confirm via cam or telephone. If they're a genuine couple on here that won't be an issue, if you get the 'my wife is happy but doesn't want to know or be part of it' - alarm bells! Always best to be upfront so people can make informed choices.

Alarm bells for you maybe but as being as my wife "doesn't want to know or be part of it" it seems quite a reasonable thing to me. I don't think mine is a usual or common situation though so (says Mr Fence Sitter) if I saw it a lot, I'd also be suspicious.

It happens more than people realise. "

Actually it's quite common you do see this a lot, I've seen it plenty on my couples profile and unless the "wife" is willing to talk then it's a no go and can end in a report. This is an eyes wide open world where everyone should be playing with their partners knowledge and consent so the whole "my wife doesn't want to know" statement doesn't sit true with me or my partner.

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By *i fem huntersCouple
over a year ago

london

I wouldn't want to be asked permission for my hubby to play without me. It would spoil the naughtiness of the fantasy for me. Also I know it's just sex, something physical no emotions attached. I often meet other females alone and hubby doesn't have an issue with that. They don't have to call or meet him and ask for his permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get a lot of messages from the male half of couples where his wife clearly doesn't know. Had several from profiles that say they avoid bi guys too.

Makes it obvious to me that some couples aren't as aware of each other's needs as much as they think.

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

yeah does seem kinda off putting. We can play solo but prefer if its with people who we have already met as a couple usually. Both Elle and myself are happy to cross confirm for each other if the point comes up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah does seem kinda off putting. We can play solo but prefer if its with people who we have already met as a couple usually. Both Elle and myself are happy to cross confirm for each other if the point comes up."

Best to meet as a group 1st time round as u can confirm people are who they say they are

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