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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Happy happy lady today got my decree absolute through so I'm officially single no ties! Already changed my name at bank etc this morning!

Funny how one little piece of paper can make you so very very happy!

Time for a new start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats how I felt in august xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the best

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Happy happy lady today got my decree absolute through so I'm officially single no ties! Already changed my name at bank etc this morning!

Funny how one little piece of paper can make you so very very happy!

Time for a new start

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good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy for you x

wish i was single x

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Im literally skipping home! Like a big kid!! Sure some people are appreciating certain things bouncing! Keep smiling at everyone too

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

How long did it take?

I sent back the form to apply for my decree nisi over a week ago and am champing at the bit to get it all finalised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great news!

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Well the papers to nisi was mid feb to early april, then you have to wait six weeks from date of nisi to apply for absolute which is done on the same day!

Mine should have been done in June but my ex took this long to apply for the absolute as he paid for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just waiting on mine too..... Been told 27th.... Xx congratulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best of luck to you

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

All the best. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a meet?

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"I'm just waiting on mine too..... Been told 27th.... Xx congratulations"

Ohhhh fingers crossed sweetie x

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"Fancy a meet?"

Hahaha i was waiting for that! After the amount of 'i'll help you celebrate' messages ive had i could organise a 30man gangbang lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey kitty you are godamn gorgeous he must have been a very stupid man if you don't mind me saying x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im literally skipping home! Like a big kid!! Sure some people are appreciating certain things bouncing! Keep smiling at everyone too

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lol Aww

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fancy a meet?

Hahaha i was waiting for that! After the amount of 'i'll help you celebrate' messages ive had i could organise a 30man gangbang lol"

Congrats! Could you make that 31 please!

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"Hey kitty you are godamn gorgeous he must have been a very stupid man if you don't mind me saying x

Dont mind at all he was forrest gump level idiot! But hey his loss is fabs gain

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"Fancy a meet?

Hahaha i was waiting for that! After the amount of 'i'll help you celebrate' messages ive had i could organise a 30man gangbang lol

Congrats! Could you make that 31 please!

Lol god im gonna be knackered i may need a personal jaw massager on hand hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fancy a meet?

Hahaha i was waiting for that! After the amount of 'i'll help you celebrate' messages ive had i could organise a 30man gangbang lol

Congrats! Could you make that 31 please!

Lol god im gonna be knackered i may need a personal jaw massager on hand hehe"

Id make it 32 but my wont hold my breath lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congrats. I got my Absolute through this year after a 5 year battle! Its a great feeling

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By *r jblMan
over a year ago

from parts unknown

Congratulations xx.

. Were and when is the party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fancy a meet?

Hahaha i was waiting for that! After the amount of 'i'll help you celebrate' messages ive had i could organise a 30man gangbang lol

Congrats! Could you make that 31 please!

Lol god im gonna be knackered i may need a personal jaw massager on hand hehe"
happy days.

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"Fancy a meet?

Hahaha i was waiting for that! After the amount of 'i'll help you celebrate' messages ive had i could organise a 30man gangbang lol

Congrats! Could you make that 31 please!

Lol god im gonna be knackered i may need a personal jaw massager on hand hehe

Id make it 32 but my wont hold my breath lol

Your in haha

might have to hire a club lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations! I'm already looking forward to getting mine! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should go out tonight up town and get a few sambucas down ya Kate...

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"Congratulations! I'm already looking forward to getting mine! X"

Congrats in advance me dear x

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"You should go out tonight up town and get a few sambucas down ya Kate...

Screw sambuca its tequila all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations! We're waiting for the male halfs to come through too! Hopefully in time for Christmas

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

All the best xxx don't make the same mistake til the next time xxx

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"Congratulations! We're waiting for the male halfs to come through too! Hopefully in time for Christmas

Fingers crosser for an amazing christmas present

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Well since my housemate is home im going to celebrate the only way i can on my own... Im going shopping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine came through on my birthday earlier this year

was a double celebration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PICK ME!! PICK ME!!!!

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"PICK ME!! PICK ME!!!!

DONE!!! Screw the gangbang can I just have you alone please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy for you x

wish i was single x"

Wonder if your other half knows that or are you just anorher cheater?

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

"Fancy a meet?

Hahaha i was waiting for that! After the amount of 'i'll help you celebrate' messages ive had i could organise a 30man gangbang lol"

Sounds like a plan....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"Happy for you x

wish i was single x

Wonder if your other half knows that or are you just anorher cheater?"

Oi no negativity on here please its a happy thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey kitty glad you are happy if you intend to go through it all again hopefully you will make more informed decisions possibly not a guy or woman off here ,we are all sluts hehe

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Two pairs of boots & some sexy leather type leggings later im smiling even more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two pairs of boots & some sexy leather type leggings later im smiling even more

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"Hey kitty glad you are happy if you intend to go through it all again hopefully you will make more informed decisions possibly not a guy or woman off here ,we are all sluts hehe

Well see my ex never wanted sex so sluts most welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too....the divorce thing...not the single thing

First time I'm legally single in 25 years (August)

Going to look at a house tonight now the dosh is finally sorted...my first ever "pad"

Quite exciting really....to have a place where you can do exactly what you want

Btw I represented myself....was easy tbh

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Dammit this outfit ive bough is too sexy not to go out in it tonight

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg

Been there. Congratulations. Its a big deal and we are happy for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post a pic so we can all see just how sexy it is. Also congrats xxxxxx

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

I will, just bumped into my mare tasha so going to go drinking with her x

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Divorce party??!!

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"Divorce party??!!

Good idea! I need to speak to a club see if i could do one! Prob townhouse or Amour

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

I'm getting my gear out ready to party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i felt a kind of relief but was sad as well - even after all the shite we had all gone through i still felt a lurch of grief when i got mine through xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a good night !

I was in Chester just got home x

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

I hope mine comes through soon. They won't let us book our wedding until it's done and we plan to get married in may.....need to start planning and we can't yet

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"i felt a kind of relief but was sad as well - even after all the shite we had all gone through i still felt a lurch of grief when i got mine through xx "

Honestly not had that but theres things that happened in mine that were beyond the norm so im happy to be free now x

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"I hope mine comes through soon. They won't let us book our wedding until it's done and we plan to get married in may.....need to start planning and we can't yet "

Think its all down to how busy the courts are its gone through etc i know uncontested they are pretty fast so fingers crossed if you get the nisi in Jan you should be ok x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i felt a kind of relief but was sad as well - even after all the shite we had all gone through i still felt a lurch of grief when i got mine through xx

Honestly not had that but theres things that happened in mine that were beyond the norm so im happy to be free now x"

dont get me wrong it was what i wanted and was the best thing - so glad it was all over but seeing it in writing just made me sad - wasnt what i had hoped for us and the kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woooo hoooo! Good times on the horizon for you I hope. I've had simply the best time ever since I became single. Long may it last.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

If it's at amour can I come....( love the comicbook photos by the way)

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Drinking with early twenty year old and feeling young and silly oh dear! Work will be fun tomorrow x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy happy lady today got my decree absolute through so I'm officially single no ties! Already changed my name at bank etc this morning!

Funny how one little piece of paper can make you so very very happy!

Time for a new start

Mine came through on the 5th November, a date never to be forgot

Feels great

H xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy for you x

wish i was single x"

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Well screw the fucking universe.. Gives me my divorce with one hand then with the other i lose my job!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well screw the fucking universe.. Gives me my divorce with one hand then with the other i lose my job! "

just seen your status - wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are the tattoos new?

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"Are the tattoos new? "

Nope and its only about 2" on my wrist thats on display and not often since its face down on desk most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a no tattoos policy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the tattoos new?

Nope and its only about 2" on my wrist thats on display and not often since its face down on desk most of the time"

Sounds like a pointless reason to dismiss someone to me, couldn't you simply cover the tattoos up?

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"Is there a no tattoos policy?

They brought in after i started a policy but said not on hands or neck etc, i asked my boss if mine was on and was told yes, she is now saying she didnt say that!

There is other people with them but as they are small & past their probation they will simply be advised to cover them

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"Are the tattoos new?

Nope and its only about 2" on my wrist thats on display and not often since its face down on desk most of the time

Sounds like a pointless reason to dismiss someone to me, couldn't you simply cover the tattoos up?"

Wouldnt even give me the option! Guess my face just doesnt fit.. I knew i shouldnt have gone back to working with women again they always always backstab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a no tattoos policy?

They brought in after i started a policy but said not on hands or neck etc, i asked my boss if mine was on and was told yes, she is now saying she didnt say that!

There is other people with them but as they are small & past their probation they will simply be advised to cover them"

And you are within your probation period I take it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no legal expert but I think you have a case for unfair dismissal, especially as others have, have you spoken with a union rep or anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the tattoos new?

Nope and its only about 2" on my wrist thats on display and not often since its face down on desk most of the time

Sounds like a pointless reason to dismiss someone to me, couldn't you simply cover the tattoos up?

Wouldnt even give me the option! Guess my face just doesnt fit.. I knew i shouldnt have gone back to working with women again they always always backstab! "

I think you need to go back and challenge them about it, it sounds like a ridiculous reason sack someone over such an easily remedied matter.

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"Are the tattoos new?

Nope and its only about 2" on my wrist thats on display and not often since its face down on desk most of the time

Sounds like a pointless reason to dismiss someone to me, couldn't you simply cover the tattoos up?

Wouldnt even give me the option! Guess my face just doesnt fit.. I knew i shouldnt have gone back to working with women again they always always backstab!

I think you need to go back and challenge them about it, it sounds like a ridiculous reason sack someone over such an easily remedied matter."

I asked for that and a chance to rectify it but they were adamant.. Going to send a letter to the MD as done when she was away!

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I'm no legal expert but I think you have a case for unfair dismissal, especially as others have, have you spoken with a union rep or anyone "

Firstly Kate, congrats on the divorce coming through.

Sorry to hear about your job but as someone else said above, I'd go for the unfair dismissal claim aswel, take the bastids to court for everything you can get.

Seems like a stupid policy to have about tattoos, could easily be covered up with long sleeves if they are on your wrists. It seems to me more younger people these days have tattoos than don't have them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I missed this nugget of news yesterday - congratulations xx

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

I'd go to citizens advice bureau and get some free advice from them as where to go next about challenging your employers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long had you been in your job for? Do you have proof they brought this policy in after you started? I wonder if you could speak to a union about it?

Sorry to hear about the job x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe look at Acas as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just found this article from Thorntons solicitors about tattoos.. http://www.thorntons-law.co.uk/news/news-overview/tattoos-in-the-workplace

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

"I'm no legal expert but I think you have a case for unfair dismissal, especially as others have, have you spoken with a union rep or anyone

Firstly Kate, congrats on the divorce coming through.

Sorry to hear about your job but as someone else said above, I'd go for the unfair dismissal claim aswel, take the bastids to court for everything you can get.

not sure that you get any employment rights after dismissal if you haven't worked for the employer for a minimum of 2 years ..... it used to be 1 year before 2012

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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not sure that you get any employment rights after dismissal if you haven't worked for the employer for a minimum of 2 years ..... it used to be 1 year before 2012

This is right, another change this government brought in.. and they wonder why the Trade Union movement goes against them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First are you customer facing ?

Only if they are offensive or potentially on the face or coverering most of your could there be an issue.

Pm me for more info

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

Not customer facing and its cherry blossoms so not offensive!

The cost to take someone to a tribunal costs over a grand now which I dont have to start it off so really I have no chance of doing it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It only costs if you lose they assess cases now and send them back if they are not valid unfair dismissal is usually easy to prove always worth a no win no fee solicitor but really would need to be employment law and you can represent yourself citizens advice bureau are a good source can't give you more help without the ins and outs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations. Isn't it just the most amazing feeling ever.

I went out on a night out with the girls to celebrate when mine came through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the tattoos new?

Nope and its only about 2" on my wrist thats on display and not often since its face down on desk most of the time

Sounds like a pointless reason to dismiss someone to me, couldn't you simply cover the tattoos up?

Wouldnt even give me the option! Guess my face just doesnt fit.. I knew i shouldnt have gone back to working with women again they always always backstab!

I think you need to go back and challenge them about it, it sounds like a ridiculous reason sack someone over such an easily remedied matter.

I asked for that and a chance to rectify it but they were adamant.. Going to send a letter to the MD as done when she was away! "

Good, grab those bureaucratic asses and start kicking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations mine ( chris) came threw last year and we had a awesome piss up to celebrate

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Pleased you feel that way xxx

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By *ittykate84 OP Woman
over a year ago

CHESTER

"It only costs if you lose they assess cases now and send them back if they are not valid unfair dismissal is usually easy to prove always worth a no win no fee solicitor but really would need to be employment law and you can represent yourself citizens advice bureau are a good source can't give you more help without the ins and outs. "

Already have a legal case against a dr who nearly killed me last year dont think i can deal with anymore stuff like that!

Ive decided im going to become a pornstar it seems its the only thing i can do people dont complain about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Already have a legal case against a dr who nearly killed me last year dont think i can deal with anymore stuff like that!

Ive decided im going to become a pornstar it seems its the only thing i can do people dont complain about "

Need a co-star?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Already have a legal case against a dr who nearly killed me last year dont think i can deal with anymore stuff like that!

Ive decided im going to become a pornstar it seems its the only thing i can do people dont complain about "

fancy making a film with me then kate

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