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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi just a silly question realy, was goin to ask all the ladys of they think is better in the bedroom as me personaly like older women, so younger being 18-30 older being 31+. thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh look this kind of topic.

Well, older. More experience. In my opinion most men don't become considerate lovers until their 30s.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"hi just a silly question realy, was goin to ask all the ladys of they think is better in the bedroom as me personaly like older women, so younger being 18-30 older being 31+. thanks "
men from 40 to 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

older 31+ jesus....

pass me half a dozen planks and a bag o' nails....... i'm finished.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give us a kiss fem.

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

Need a hammer?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

olders are winning at the moment then...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Give us a kiss fem. "
tongues?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Definetly over 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi just a silly question realy, was goin to ask all the ladys of they think is better in the bedroom as me personaly like older women, so younger being 18-30 older being 31+. thanks "

I'm better at sleeping now I'm an old fooker Can sleep for fookin hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need a hammer?"

No ! at my age i can knock em home with me zimmer ...... but ta your heart illuminates the darkest of skies. .................................................................................biatch!

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"Need a hammer?

No ! at my age i can knock em home with me zimmer ...... but ta your heart illuminates the darkest of skies. .................................................................................biatch!"

I see you are going to nail Femme LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

shall i just delete my profile now lol.. no one wonts the younger guys

!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi just a silly question realy, was goin to ask all the ladys of they think is better in the bedroom as me personaly like older women, so younger being 18-30 older being 31+. thanks men from 40 to 50 "

can you make that 53?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give us a kiss fem. tongues? "

course.........as long as it's not in my mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you lot ever consider not derailing a thread?

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"Do you lot ever consider not derailing a thread? "

nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the OP did preface this nonsense with "...just a silly question".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

shame

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Do you lot ever consider not derailing a thread? "

Do you ever consider having something nice to say for once

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if i had put serious questions i still would of got the same response lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"shall i just delete my profile now lol.. no one wonts the younger guys

!!!"

We need younger guys to post this question on the forum periodically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need a hammer?

No ! at my age i can knock em home with me zimmer ...... but ta your heart illuminates the darkest of skies. .................................................................................biatch!

I see you are going to nail Femme LOL"

Better pass me two bags then ....... and i'll take the hammer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when the young girls get back from school, there will be a little support for the younger guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

u lot are crazyy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't think it's either...some folk are selfish lovers, some folk aren't, soem folk are naturally sensual, some arent, some folk can screw for a week, some for minutes...but do you want sensual for a week or hard for a minute.

it depends what you want, what they're capable and age is nothing to do with it.

and if it comes down to experience, a 40yr old virgin is not going to be more experienced than a 21 yr old stallion.

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"u lot are crazyy"

senile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

think ill steer clear of the older crazy women from now on an go with the more sane younger girls my age, thanks now no what i needed to know

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Give us a kiss fem. tongues?

course.........as long as it's not in my mouth. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, I'm going to give a serious comment to the OP, given his profile and his other thread that I commented on.

Get yourself to fetish clubs.

Google London Fetish Scene and join their forums (not giving a link incase I get a slap).

Join the Antichrist forums.

You'll find the fetish scene, in all it's colours is less ageist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

POSH BIT YOUR PROFILE SAYS 23. 35 SO ?????

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"think ill steer clear of the older crazy women from now on an go with the more sane younger girls my age, thanks now no what i needed to know"

at least you know where crazy its the young ones that pretend to be normal that you got to worry about, plus we have to be back in the hospital before nightfall

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"POSH BIT YOUR PROFILE SAYS 23. 35 SO ?????"

a needle pulling thread?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"POSH BIT YOUR PROFILE SAYS 23. 35 SO ?????

a needle pulling thread?"

BUT U DO LOOK SEXY

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"POSH BIT YOUR PROFILE SAYS 23. 35 SO ?????

a needle pulling thread?

BUT U DO LOOK SEXY"

she does doesnt she, i took that photo

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

STOP SHOUTING I HAVE A HEADACHE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Tina Turner once sang...

"Women of a certain age, they learn to relax and judge his responses..."

Guess where my vote goes...

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"POSH BIT YOUR PROFILE SAYS 23. 35 SO ?????

a needle pulling thread?

BUT U DO LOOK SEXY

she does doesnt she, i took that photo"

She did xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"POSH BIT YOUR PROFILE SAYS 23. 35 SO ?????

a needle pulling thread?

BUT U DO LOOK SEXY

she does doesnt she, i took that photo"

OKKK THINK THE HOSPITAL WARDS CALLING EARLY FOR U LOL

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"POSH BIT YOUR PROFILE SAYS 23. 35 SO ?????

a needle pulling thread?

BUT U DO LOOK SEXY

she does doesnt she, i took that photo

OKKK THINK THE HOSPITAL WARDS CALLING EARLY FOR U LOL"

The bloody morgue will be calling for you if you dont stop shouting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think ill steer clear of the older crazy women from now on an go with the more sane younger girls my age, thanks now no what i needed to know"

See ! This pisses me off. Young men bleat.....Oh but im very mature ... Please I want an older lady.

They should stop watching porn. Older women come with character, personality, savvy , needs , know how and Bloody Great Vaginas!!... We are not crazy ... we are fucking interesting.

Be nice or shove off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh no this is really bad even both my children are classed as older does that mean in a "great older" ??? .......mind u ive got more energy than the pair of them put together

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"POSH BIT YOUR PROFILE SAYS 23. 35 SO ?????

a needle pulling thread?

BUT U DO LOOK SEXY

she does doesnt she, i took that photo

OKKK THINK THE HOSPITAL WARDS CALLING EARLY FOR U LOL

The bloody morgue will be calling for you if you dont stop shouting"

lmfao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"think ill steer clear of the older crazy women from now on an go with the more sane younger girls my age, thanks now no what i needed to know

See ! This pisses me off. Young men bleat.....Oh but im very mature ... Please I want an older lady.

They should stop watching porn. Older women come with character, personality, savvy , needs , know how and Bloody Great Vaginas!!... We are not crazy ... we are fucking interesting.

Be nice or shove off "

chil your bean..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

any way thanks for answering the question lol,,, i get the picture women prefer older men.. thanks dont argue to much now.

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

At58 my wife says I am great in bed.I just go to sleep.

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

LMAO chill your bean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"any way thanks for answering the question lol,,, i get the picture women prefer older men.. thanks dont argue to much now."

I prefer young women (they`re not as feckin touchy).

Gander btw. xx

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"any way thanks for answering the question lol,,, i get the picture women prefer older men.. thanks dont argue to much now.

I prefer young women (they`re not as feckin touchy).

Gander btw. xx"

You are so plucked

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville

Definitely 30 + I'm afraid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id say older xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"any way thanks for answering the question lol,,, i get the picture women prefer older men.. thanks dont argue to much now.

I prefer young women (they`re not as feckin touchy).

Gander btw. xx

Not to mention demanding.

You are so plucked "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it doesnt matter. im better than all of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant leave the age range groups that big, i have to narrow it down. I would say it is best when women is in her 30's

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville


"any way thanks for answering the question lol,,, i get the picture women prefer older men.. thanks dont argue to much now.

I prefer young women (they`re not as feckin touchy).

I think you'll find that younger are generally the touchy ones in reality as they don't have the experience or maturity to deal with certain situation that generally comes with experience.

Gander btw. xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think ill steer clear of the older crazy women from now on an go with the more sane younger girls my age, thanks now no what i needed to know

See ! This pisses me off. Young men bleat.....Oh but im very mature ... Please I want an older lady.

They should stop watching porn. Older women come with character, personality, savvy , needs , know how and Bloody Great Vaginas!!... We are not crazy ... we are fucking interesting.

Be nice or shove off

chil your bean.."

I am chilled. You chill yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"any way thanks for answering the question lol,,, i get the picture women prefer older men.. thanks dont argue to much now.

I prefer young women (they`re not as feckin touchy).

Gander btw. xx"

I prefer older in either gender as they are more than likely able to take fun without giving it any other label.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me too .....especially one who knows what shouting is on t'internet !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, I have no choice in prefering younger women as 99% of women on here happen to be younger than me........ I`m just playing the averages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hey, I have no choice in prefering younger women as 99% of women on here happen to be younger than me........ I`m just playing the averages. "

Well im gonna look up your age crusty bum ..... Stay there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmph ....... a sprightly 49.

Be respectful !

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Older guys are more considerate, they know there way around a womans body. There comfortable in there own skin and are quietly confident. Young guys go at it hammer and tong do things they think women will like and are usually in it for just their own enjoyment. I know this is a sweeping generalization but this is what ive mostly found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are the young one's on here anyway? Shouldn't they be pulling in clubs with their beer goggles on? Leave the swinging to the one's who have failed sexless marriages behind them! Bloody young people get everywhere.....humph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are the young one's on here anyway? Shouldn't they be pulling in clubs with their beer goggles on? Leave the swinging to the one's who have failed sexless marriages behind them! Bloody young people get everywhere.....humph"

ACTION: Granny makes a mental note NOT to meet with olders with failed sexless marriages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion definitely older. I dont go for younger guys at all. Yes you are gorgeous, yes you have staying power, but I like technique over stamina and im sure lots of you have this in abundance but in my experience in clubs, I have found that older men are better. I find younger men thrust hard in and out of my ladybits, I dont like that, I like a bit of tenderness around my nether regions and increasing pressure when i want it, and you will be able to tell by my breathing and movements im sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are the young one's on here anyway? Shouldn't they be pulling in clubs with their beer goggles on? Leave the swinging to the one's who have failed sexless marriages behind them! Bloody young people get everywhere.....humph

ACTION: Granny makes a mental note NOT to meet with olders with failed sexless marriages. "

think about tho granny ... it may mean they are hardly used and in good condition ...????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many a good tune played on an old fiddle.

Starts the car...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Many a good tune played on an old fiddle.

Starts the car... "
yeah but some are best left in the knackers yard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer the 30+ feller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hey, I have no choice in prefering younger women as 99% of women on here happen to be younger than me........ I`m just playing the averages.

Well im gonna look up your age crusty bum ..... Stay there. "

you can tell someones age by looking up their butt?

that's real impressive...though I dont think I want to know the technique...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so many things I want to say here but I'll just stick with the simple. I find its more about the person than the age. I mean I'm only young but I would class myself as experienced and not clingy or naive about sexual matters and swinging matters, but then I've dated much older men who have not known what to do at all. It's just a matter of who not how old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i prefer the 30+ feller "

30+ ? and I thought 3 was a crowd,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't it really come down to the individual? Otherwise your going to have to work it out on stamina, ability to maintain an erection and sexual prowess and on that the man will on average be mid 20's in most cases. After all a man hits his sexual peak late teens early 20's.

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By *undebigaryMan
over a year ago

dundee


"hi just a silly question realy, was goin to ask all the ladys of they think is better in the bedroom as me personaly like older women, so younger being 18-30 older being 31+. thanks "
Older women are better.more sensual an less wham bam thank u man.saying that i do know a 26 year old girl that is amazing too.so fuck knows really.just forget i spoke.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i prefer the 30+ feller

30+ ? and I thought 3 was a crowd, "

no 3 + is a party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've had mixed of all ages - one of my faves was 47 - fanbloodytastic! another being 28 who is simply WOW!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are so many things I want to say here but I'll just stick with the simple. I find its more about the person than the age. I mean I'm only young but I would class myself as experienced and not clingy or naive about sexual matters and swinging matters, but then I've dated much older men who have not known what to do at all. It's just a matter of who not how old."

precisely, I've had great sex with younger guys and bad sex with older...and vice versa.

the one thing i did notice (in the majority, not right across the board) is that older gents can be cynical, either through bad divorces or relationships, and they can be slightly bitter...sometimes their tone can seem a lot more aggressive because of this.

younger men, on the flip side, are usually courteous and adore the attention of an older woman and have shown me the greater degree of respect.

in fact, I cant think of one that I havent stayed in touch with as opposed to the older gent who seems to assume that if i'm friendly, i'm going to try catch them...after all, i'm going to want to be getting married at my age....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi just a silly question realy, was goin to ask all the ladys of they think is better in the bedroom as me personaly like older women, so younger being 18-30 older being 31+. thanks

I'm better at sleeping now I'm an old fooker Can sleep for fookin hours "

lucky you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are the young one's on here anyway? Shouldn't they be pulling in clubs with their beer goggles on? Leave the swinging to the one's who have failed sexless marriages behind them! Bloody young people get everywhere.....humph"

My sentiments exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are so many things I want to say here but I'll just stick with the simple. I find its more about the person than the age. I mean I'm only young but I would class myself as experienced and not clingy or naive about sexual matters and swinging matters, but then I've dated much older men who have not known what to do at all. It's just a matter of who not how old.

precisely, I've had great sex with younger guys and bad sex with older...and vice versa.

the one thing i did notice (in the majority, not right across the board) is that older gents can be cynical, either through bad divorces or relationships, and they can be slightly bitter...sometimes their tone can seem a lot more aggressive because of this.

younger men, on the flip side, are usually courteous and adore the attention of an older woman and have shown me the greater degree of respect.

in fact, I cant think of one that I havent stayed in touch with as opposed to the older gent who seems to assume that if i'm friendly, i'm going to try catch them...after all, i'm going to want to be getting married at my age.... "

Except surely us older ladies have the same ie failed relationships etc. Personally nothing would convince me to sleep with some little boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion definitely older. I dont go for younger guys at all. Yes you are gorgeous, yes you have staying power, but I like technique over stamina and im sure lots of you have this in abundance but in my experience in clubs, I have found that older men are better. I find younger men thrust hard in and out of my ladybits, I dont like that, I like a bit of tenderness around my nether regions and increasing pressure when i want it, and you will be able to tell by my breathing and movements im sure. "

Though ive a 60 yr old that came 10 times at our last meet so beat that for stamina little boys

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

At my last visit to Chams, one guy in the little group I was with managed to give one woman TEN orgasms, one after the other! And this was after he`d shagged his regular partner in the hotel before hand. His age? 64.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo whats his name Bumpkin - just a passing enquiry thats all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion definitely older. I dont go for younger guys at all. Yes you are gorgeous, yes you have staying power, but I like technique over stamina and im sure lots of you have this in abundance but in my experience in clubs, I have found that older men are better. I find younger men thrust hard in and out of my ladybits, I dont like that, I like a bit of tenderness around my nether regions and increasing pressure when i want it, and you will be able to tell by my breathing and movements im sure.

Though ive a 60 yr old that came 10 times at our last meet so beat that for stamina little boys "

I certainly do have failed relationships, i just dont wear them. I'm not at all cynical as I'm not looking for a relationship, I am totally happy being single so I dont have to be cynical.

...its also not about amazing stamina for me, i dont go for younger guys with some expectancy that they are all like duracell bunnies as that would be ridiculous, as you say, your chap was 60, but they are just more light-hearted and up for fun in my experience and i've tried both sides and they just work for me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"In my opinion definitely older. I dont go for younger guys at all. Yes you are gorgeous, yes you have staying power, but I like technique over stamina and im sure lots of you have this in abundance but in my experience in clubs, I have found that older men are better. I find younger men thrust hard in and out of my ladybits, I dont like that, I like a bit of tenderness around my nether regions and increasing pressure when i want it, and you will be able to tell by my breathing and movements im sure.

Though ive a 60 yr old that came 10 times at our last meet so beat that for stamina little boys "

Ive had my beloved cum 8 times in an evening and hes 67, i can quite easily make him come twice in less than ten minutes when i want. Funny thing was when he came 8 times next morning he was strutting around like a peacock saying i hope your going to tell all your young studs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My guy does only tend to cum once, he has been known to cum twice in one evening, but there has to be a few hours in between. That said he maintains an erection, he just doesnt keep cuming so its not a problem - hes still satisfying me lol. Im not a girl who demands a guys cums, as long as a fun time is had then that is all that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion definitely older. I dont go for younger guys at all. Yes you are gorgeous, yes you have staying power, but I like technique over stamina and im sure lots of you have this in abundance but in my experience in clubs, I have found that older men are better. I find younger men thrust hard in and out of my ladybits, I dont like that, I like a bit of tenderness around my nether regions and increasing pressure when i want it, and you will be able to tell by my breathing and movements im sure.

Though ive a 60 yr old that came 10 times at our last meet so beat that for stamina little boys

I certainly do have failed relationships, i just dont wear them. I'm not at all cynical as I'm not looking for a relationship, I am totally happy being single so I dont have to be cynical.

...its also not about amazing stamina for me, i dont go for younger guys with some expectancy that they are all like duracell bunnies as that would be ridiculous, as you say, your chap was 60, but they are just more light-hearted and up for fun in my experience and i've tried both sides and they just work for me

"

sorry i wasnt having a pop at you, just commenting on your bit about technique over stamina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry i wasnt having a pop at you, just commenting on your bit about technique over stamina "

noooo, in no way offended, as I hope neither were you! i'm happy every one is against the younger guys, leaves more for me...joking asides, it will always come down to personality with me and the age range is just my comfort zone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is irrelevent, experience count!

One can be young and very knowing, while one can be old and clueless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is irrelevent, experience count!

One can be young and very knowing, while one can be old and clueless! "

Can i just be knowing and old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is irrelevent, experience count!

One can be young and very knowing, while one can be old and clueless!

Can i just be knowing and old "

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I would like to believe I am old and knowing too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe for a guy then he hits his peak around 38.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

suppose to make a subject judgement of this question and answer knowledgably I will need to try women of all ages from 18 to errrrrrrr 99? ....................... any offers?

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"I believe for a guy then he hits his peak around 38. "

Its actually just over 40 so you have a couple of years to go yet *nods wisely*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys around 40 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think since I've hit my 30s I am in my prime I love sex I know what pushes my buttons and Im more relaxed in my own body. And have only been gushing since I hit 30 and dont know how to turn the tap off. As for guys you cant beat quality, stamina and good oral skills and this comes wit experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

all ages have the qualities

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

Ooooooh give me the young guys any day. I have had better connection, mental and physical, with guys under 30 than with most of the older guys I have met - not all, I hasten to add.

I love the feel of young men, and I prefer their openness and efforts to please. Some older men I have met seemed to have one technique to fit all, and sadly it didn't fit me.

So Kingking, look me up if you are up this way some time.

Hugs

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some older guys and women are crap, some younger guys and girls are crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger of course. After all you only get a bucket and a half and if you wank/fuck a lot its all gone by 60

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, cat among the pigeons, I'm 47 and I say younger, Older guys may have experience but they are also set in their ways, many believing they are fantastic lovers because they have never been told that some things their not getting quite right, younger guys you can teach and show before it gets too late, well thats my story and I'm sticking to it

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!

depends.. you get some that are so dam full of themselves but crap in bed lol...then you meet them that are awesome and realise what you missed .. but deffinately over 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole point of gaining experience is learning, some say that a good day is when you learn something new, I learn something new each day and hope to go on doing so for many years to come.

There is no doubt that since I turned 45 (old to many) I have learnt more about what women and myself, enjoy than I did in the previous 45 years.

Swinging for the last 10 years has helped, just talking to open minded men and women, reading the forums and watching it take place at clubs is an education that normal life could not hope to compete with.

The essence of what I have learned is that what is good for one is not always good for the other.

Armed with this information I approach each occasion with one aim, to find out what the partner I am with at the time likes best.

Swingers are great for this, they are open minded when it comes to sex, they will talk about it where others won't, ask a woman in the scene if she enjoys something in particular and she will generally tell you yay or nay.

Yes it's great to explore, caress, touch, lick, probe and see if what the reaction is, a murmour, shrinking away, a shudder, a slap (ok maybe not a slap) is a sure sign that you are doing something right or something wrong.

I am one of those lucky guys who gets turned on by turning on the person I am with, if I am failing to please her I am failing to please myself, the more I can turn her on the more I am turning myself on, with that in mind exploration be it verbal or otherwise is paramount to the fun for both of us.

So, yes some older guys are stuck in their ways, but truth be told, I don't think that label can be attached to many swingers young or old, the very act of swinging is started by a yearning to explore (yea and shag) and as swingers the pool of education is deep and easy to access.

How much have you learned from the forums boys and girls, how many times does someone ask a question that you don't know the answer to or learned the answer in the scene and in the forums.

What is snowballing ? what is OTK, what is DP or BB, what does BDSM stand for etc etc.

Every day a new thread opens with a question, why do women like ...... do men prefer ....... what is squirting/gushing, why can't ......

How often do you ask your partner a question like that before you started swinging, how often would you ask your mates at work "what is CFM"

In the swinging lifestyle older guys and younger guys (and women) have a unique opportunity to learn all these things, which in the end leads me to believe that young or old, in the swinging scene we can all be good in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeeze Jed. One thing I learnt along time ago is when to stop lol

talk about not being able to sleep at 3:30 in the morning haha

mind you I can waffle to

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

difficult one tho firstly i would have to say i dont counts older as 30+ but saying that older and younger both have their good points, younger guys tend not be so giving or good in the oral department but can fuck like a rabbit with a battery up their arse all night lol where as older tend to be more giving and because of experience better at oral but dont seem to be able to last so long during the sex, thats not to say they are all 2 min wonders or can only manage it once, im just saying younger guys seem to manage to go longer

So what you need is ladies is a 3sum with one older to fluff and one younger to shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"difficult one tho firstly i would have to say i dont counts older as 30+ but saying that older and younger both have their good points, younger guys tend not be so giving or good in the oral department but can fuck like a rabbit with a battery up their arse all night lol where as older tend to be more giving and because of experience better at oral but dont seem to be able to last so long during the sex, thats not to say they are all 2 min wonders or can only manage it once, im just saying younger guys seem to manage to go longer

So what you need is ladies is a 3sum with one older to fluff and one younger to shag "

hmm what's longer? Just had an all nighter on Tuesday lol very very intimate moments with lots of deep see diving too! At 40 how much longer do I need to be??

Fuck! Duracell I need 3phase to go any longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"difficult one tho firstly i would have to say i dont counts older as 30+ but saying that older and younger both have their good points, younger guys tend not be so giving or good in the oral department but can fuck like a rabbit with a battery up their arse all night lol where as older tend to be more giving and because of experience better at oral but dont seem to be able to last so long during the sex, thats not to say they are all 2 min wonders or can only manage it once, im just saying younger guys seem to manage to go longer

So what you need is ladies is a 3sum with one older to fluff and one younger to shag

hmm what's longer? Just had an all nighter on Tuesday lol very very intimate moments with lots of deep see diving too! At 40 how much longer do I need to be??

Fuck! Duracell I need 3phase to go any longer "

all right no need to get all defensive just cause you cant sleep lol

obviously its not written in black and white, ive met younger guys who have cum as soon as they have seen a naked woman and older that can go all night, i was just talking over all and in my experience younger guys can go for long

P.S you tried counting sheep?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"suppose to make a subject judgement of this question and answer knowledgably I will need to try women of all ages from 18 to errrrrrrr 99? ....................... any offers? "

Only if you are 31+ and can travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, cat among the pigeons, I'm 47 and I say younger, Older guys may have experience but they are also set in their ways, many believing they are fantastic lovers because they have never been told that some things their not getting quite right, younger guys you can teach and show before it gets too late, well thats my story and I'm sticking to it"

Trouble is that its the bodies that put me off, give me an old wrinkly to match mine anyday so i'll make a deal with you, you can have all the young guys and i'll have all the golden oldies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

older for me.

albeit, I am banned from every eventide home from Watford north

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"older for me.

albeit, I am banned from every eventide home from Watford north"

Whats an eventide home?

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"suppose to make a subject judgement of this question and answer knowledgably I will need to try women of all ages from 18 to errrrrrrr 99? ....................... any offers?

Only if you are 31+ and can travel "

definately over 31 and I certainly travel, next in the west ................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Managed to get to sleep but being an 'old guy' woke up at 7 needing a pee n poo.

Just finished with home help! They only came too get me out of bed @ 8:40. Eewwww

pmsl - shit they've gone again now ooops!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well its a know fact as you get older you need less sleep thank god for fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger girls look great with nice pert tits and a cute arse but they just need to shut up, whereas older women can have a really good conversation but when they strip off it's like looking at a road map.

So I'll go for someone my own age give or take 5 years.

Or an 18y/o mute.

Or Elle Macpherson please.

(and that was tongue in cheek ok, no flaming me hehehe)

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

age for us is not all that important.young or old,if we fancy them,we fancy them.the main things are,they have made an effort,and they are up for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it not like you need the beauty sleep sexy...

You're already gorgeous...

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

both young and old ive played with 20 somethings and late 5os cpls and ive got to say ive come across some women in there 50s quiet a few actually body wise you think they were in there 30s as fit as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to find an older woman but if they are older than me they are usually dead by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to find an older woman but if they are older than me they are usually dead by now "

bless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

33 yrs old , does that mean I am old.

As much as I dont wish to admit it then lol .

My vote is for older .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

33 yrs old , does that mean I am old.

As much as I dont wish to admit it then lol .

My vote is for older .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont do the age thing the only criteria i have is legal and not dead lol

I think everyone can be a good shag xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

33 yrs old , does that mean I am old.

As much as I dont wish to admit it then lol .

My vote is for older .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which brings about the question

How old is young ?

I have seen a number of profiles where people describe themselves as Young Couple or Young guy etc, you check out the rest of thier profile and they are 37 or 38, I saw one at 42 saying young couple.

So what do you consider to be a young man or a young couple ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Young in mind and heart, I guess.

I may be 45 but I sure don't feel it. I feel pretty much the same as I did when I was 30 tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you lot ever consider not derailing a thread? "
... Some ppl carnt help themselves that's all I'm saying on that for fear off being told ya barred again

*sits on coffin*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to find an older woman but if they are older than me they are usually dead by now "

You gotta stop keep wandering round the cemetary then

btw thats a lovely photo of you on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to find an older woman but if they are older than me they are usually dead by now

You gotta stop keep wandering round the cemetary then

btw thats a lovely photo of you on your profile "

aaaawww thanks hard to get pics of me I am the opposite of photogenic and being ugly doesn't help .... but boy am I happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which brings about the question

How old is young ?

I have seen a number of profiles where people describe themselves as Young Couple or Young guy etc, you check out the rest of thier profile and they are 37 or 38, I saw one at 42 saying young couple.

So what do you consider to be a young man or a young couple ?"

Anyone below 30 is the young man/couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are profiles on here with people describing themselves as "young forties couple" or "young fifties couple".

we all have our own perception of how others will see us, sometimes, and sadly in some cases, the difference in view can be massive.

The years are kinder to some people, more than others, it all depends how the "big man in the sky" deals us our cards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im still looking to have some fun with a 40+ women tho

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By *ssexGent4UMan
over a year ago

cheltenham

Got to be older. Experience is everything. The best sex i have had has always been with the older lady!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"u lot are crazyy

senile "

oy you speak for yourself, im not senile till boxing day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im still looking to have some fun with a 40+ women tho "

A bit disturbing im afraid when you are the same age as my son

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to find an older woman but if they are older than me they are usually dead by now

You gotta stop keep wandering round the cemetary then

btw thats a lovely photo of you on your profile

aaaawww thanks hard to get pics of me I am the opposite of photogenic and being ugly doesn't help .... but boy am I happy "

you aint seen me yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i had put serious questions i still would of got the same response lol"

Problem is judging by the fact that ive already commented on this post, its an old post and since then, the question has been asked twice, so rather boring now

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