FabSwingers.com forum: what the point of a social meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex "

Fort wash here for sex?

Huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex "
because its hard to turn up at a strangers house and perform cold

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex "

Are you fucking serious?

By the way, it's thought. And were.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't always arrange socials. If I'm not sure about them or feel that they would be a good meet but their profile is short and they're not good at messaging I will go for a social first. Most of the time they end successfully, but I've been thankful a couple of times as, on meeting, I've realised they are definitely not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex "

ever had the fort that sex will follow from the social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be physicaly and mentally attracted to someone before I have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point. It is much easir to use others for your self-gratification if you know nothing about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To meet new people, to talk to them. Very simple. Thats what a Social is for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather have very good sex, not just sex. So I like a social to build up the intensity. Mind blowing sex is fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tommy, Tommy, Tommy....thought you had reformed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think its not important to you don't have them...some of us find them a great way to meet people to see if you would want to play...just because this is a swingers site doesn't mean we would all fuck just anyone after a couple of messages ...or are they not needed either??? Good luck if you can get fun without either...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

Are you fucking serious?

By the way, it's thought. And were. "

yes im serious lol my spellling is shocking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex because its hard to turn up at a strangers house and perform cold

thanks

makes sence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmmmm

To be social perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tommy, Tommy, Tommy....thought you had reformed?

i have ) just wanted to know why lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ermmmmm

To be social perhaps."

what if u have a shit personality

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines

Ah, the lesser known Fort Wewash.

Built in 186i to defend the Thames Estuary with two x five tiers of 9 inch rifled muzzle-loading guns.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Seriously? You expect people to have sex with someone they dont fancy and dont feel a connection with? Not happening for me

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I always arrange an initial social to see if I fancy him/her/them...of course, it goes without saying that he/she/they will fancy me seeing as I'm pretty fecking awesome

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Ermmmmm

To be social perhaps.

what if u have a shit personality

You're doomed.

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By *wbbabeWoman
over a year ago

clacton

I always meet socially first I find it works for me get to know someone first.see if we click.and if we don't then that's it or sometimes just remain freinds.I know some don't understand but that's me.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Ermmmmm

To be social perhaps.

what if u have a shit personality

I wouldnt want sex with someone with a shit personality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For numerous reasons. Safety being a big one, I'd never go to a complete strangers house. I like to get to know people a little before possibly performing the most intimate act 2 (or 3!) people can do together and if there is no attraction or we don't click then to me, its a pointless shag. There's also the issue of people not looking anything like their pics, 10 years older, 10 stone heavier etc!! I'm sure many meet for sex on a first meet, I have done it in the past and have regretted it. I'd never now agree to have sex with someone I hadn't met as I don't know I'd be comfortable with them. Also, even if it is just a social and nothing further happens then its a night out, better than sitting in on your own watching telly and I've made some good friends along the way.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I always meet socially first I find it works for me get to know someone first.see if we click.and if we don't then that's it or sometimes just remain freinds.I know some don't understand but that's me."

agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know if you like someone physically and actually the dynamics work, if you don't meet them? I'm genuinely curious?

There's no hard and fast rule, people have their own meeting styles - or some group socials are a great way to meet new people too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials can be great..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be physicaly and mentally attracted to someone before I have sex "

Couldn't have put it better ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because human sexuality is more complex than animal sexuality?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex "

i look at social meets as very much "try before you buy".... in that I get a much better feel for them and if i want to take it further.....

I am here to meet people.... I'll take it at the speed I like

if that speed is too slow for you.... you can always move on to the next profile.....

and if you are here for the "#fortwewashereforsex" attitude straight away with 100% guarentees... I can always point you in the direction of numerous ads in telephone boxes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why either, cos I don't need to be attracted to fuck the other "party" lol

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By *aymackCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Ah, the lesser known Fort Wewash.

Built in 186i to defend the Thames Estuary with two x five tiers of 9 inch rifled muzzle-loading guns."

Ha ha ha funniest answer yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ah, the lesser known Fort Wewash.

Built in 186i to defend the Thames Estuary with two x five tiers of 9 inch rifled muzzle-loading guns.

Ha ha ha funniest answer yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know why either, cos I don't need to be attracted to fuck the other "party" lol

Hence why after over a year no meets !!

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

meet socially then you know if you want to have sex or not with the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah, the lesser known Fort Wewash.

Built in 186i to defend the Thames Estuary with two x five tiers of 9 inch rifled muzzle-loading guns."

Smart-arse!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah, the lesser known Fort Wewash.

Built in 186i to defend the Thames Estuary with two x five tiers of 9 inch rifled muzzle-loading guns.

Ha ha ha funniest answer yet

x"
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ermmmmm

To be social perhaps.

what if u have a shit personality

Then a swift hello,no thanks,goodbye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ermmmmm

To be social perhaps.

what if u have a shit personality

I wouldnt want sex with someone with a shit personality!

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And therein lies the reason you have had no meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know why either, cos I don't need to be attracted to fuck the other "party" lol

Hence why after over a year no meets !!"
I do have a sex life outside fab, you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah, the lesser known Fort Wewash.

Built in 186i to defend the Thames Estuary with two x five tiers of 9 inch rifled muzzle-loading guns."

and lavender laden maidens?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many presume just cos ur on fab and don't got veris you don't have any sex looooooool.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"Ermmmmm

To be social perhaps.

what if u have a shit personality

Or look like Peter Sutcliffe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many presume just cos ur on fab and don't got veris you don't have any sex looooooool."

I know yet it doesn't matter, does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many presume just cos ur on fab and don't got veris you don't have any sex looooooool.

I know yet it doesn't matter, does it?"
I know it don't, but usually couples brings it up you know x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many presume just cos ur on fab and don't got veris you don't have any sex looooooool."

But your constantly crying you need your cock milked. Also sex with your hand ain't counted as full sex sweetie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many presume just cos ur on fab and don't got veris you don't have any sex looooooool.

But your constantly crying you need your cock milked. Also sex with your hand ain't counted as full sex sweetie"
I just say it for fun lol.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I don't know why either, cos I don't need to be attracted to fuck the other "party" lol

so few words... and yet explains so so much......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know why either, cos I don't need to be attracted to fuck the other "party" lol

so few words... and yet explains so so much......

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I know doesn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex "

it sorts the twerps who think they are gods gift from the decent guys who know that sex is about connecting x

This thread has lowered your odds big time.

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By *carlett444Woman
over a year ago

Dirty Town

Social meet ups first are a must.

You could be chatting to someone for ages and then meet them and there is no attraction.

But it also depends on how horny you feel haha

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex "

I want to meet the person before I have sex. Can't just hop on someones dick without getting to know them better. Messaging is fine BUT in person they might just grate on your nerves, smell or have a seriously old photo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

it sorts the twerps who think they are gods gift from the decent guys who know that sex is about connecting x

This thread has lowered your odds big time.

Its not his first thread that has done that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For numerous reasons. Safety being a big one, I'd never go to a complete strangers house. I like to get to know people a little before possibly performing the most intimate act 2 (or 3!) people can do together and if there is no attraction or we don't click then to me, its a pointless shag. There's also the issue of people not looking anything like their pics, 10 years older, 10 stone heavier etc!! I'm sure many meet for sex on a first meet, I have done it in the past and have regretted it. I'd never now agree to have sex with someone I hadn't met as I don't know I'd be comfortable with them. Also, even if it is just a social and nothing further happens then its a night out, better than sitting in on your own watching telly and I've made some good friends along the way."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

it sorts the twerps who think they are gods gift from the decent guys who know that sex is about connecting x

This thread has lowered your odds big time.

rele ? and do u care to venture why ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't always do socials, but more often than not we do as we aren't happy inviting strangers in to our home. A lot of socials lead on to do something more later in the evening.

Even though we do on occassion not bother with a social meet, we would NEVER meet someone who doesn't do them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

it sorts the twerps who think they are gods gift from the decent guys who know that sex is about connecting x

This thread has lowered your odds big time.

Its not his first thread that has done that!!!"

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*gets the popcorn, nothing beats some sunday banter lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread has lowered your odds big time.

In fairness it probably hasn't. Given how few people use the forums and how few of those would have wanted to meet him anyway it's probably not made a jot of difference.

That said the underlying attitude shown in this and other threads will show in other ways not just the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if the thread is a genuine 'what is a social for' then fair doos, its been explained and the op has learned something

if it was more of a 'why no sex in the first meet' post then everyone has learned something about the op

so either way, someone has learned from this thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yeah why wouldnt anyone want to meet me ? im a catch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if the thread is a genuine 'what is a social for' then fair doos, its been explained and the op has learned something

if it was more of a 'why no sex in the first meet' post then everyone has learned something about the op

so either way, someone has learned from this thread

This place is one big learning curve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny how a single line of my post is reposted.

Cos its my opinion doh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if the thread is a genuine 'what is a social for' then fair doos, its been explained and the op has learned something

if it was more of a 'why no sex in the first meet' post then everyone has learned something about the op

so either way, someone has learned from this thread

people just want to have a go ,forums are to learn otherwise there pointless think it because of my past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeah why wouldnt anyone want to meet me ? im a catch

lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To make sure I'm not meeting a dribbling Lenny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if the thread is a genuine 'what is a social for' then fair doos, its been explained and the op has learned something

if it was more of a 'why no sex in the first meet' post then everyone has learned something about the op

so either way, someone has learned from this thread

people just want to have a go ,forums are to learn otherwise there pointless think it because of my past "

Ooooooh - what happened in your past??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if the thread is a genuine 'what is a social for' then fair doos, its been explained and the op has learned something

if it was more of a 'why no sex in the first meet' post then everyone has learned something about the op

so either way, someone has learned from this thread

haha been naughty

people just want to have a go ,forums are to learn otherwise there pointless think it because of my past

Ooooooh - what happened in your past??

xx"

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Feels like I need to catch some back episodes here

We're all social animals, some like to have that connection more than others but otherwise it just feels a bit empty I'd say.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

some do meet socially and it clicks and they play on that occasion..

some prefer to meet to see if there is a mutual attraction, assess the dynamic etc then think about it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See if theres a spark or if you wanna run for the hills

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm a social butterfly

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Well it's one way of getting veris that actually mean something

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Because most don't want to be treated as a step up from a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because people are lonely and are secretly looking for "Mr right". So I've been told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many people look at swinging as somewhere to get instant gratification, going back to the start/urban myths of swinging its always been a social scene with couples swapping parties and the like or groups of friends who get together for regular meets. Over time partner swapping and stranger sex have come together to create they type of scene that we have today. My girlfriend and I go to clubs as a rule to meet but if we meet outside of a club it will always be a social first, why? We are not desperate for just sex we have each other for that, we want fun sexual experiences that engage out minds, we are looking for people who can turn us on by their company. Sex for sexes sake does not do anything for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex "

Because it's pleasant to enjoy another person's mind as well as body.

If the mind clicks the rest often follows..

Fort this was common sense?

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By *now white1000Woman
over a year ago

York

socials.....

meet lots of people, get to know quite a few, really get on with a few and maybe take things further...

social between 2/3 4 people, a chance to see how you all click before any potential embarrassing moments in the bedroom (if you don't click no time is wasted as at least you will gain friends)

straight down to 'knock on door' meets, well you could find the person knocking (or answering the door) is nothing like their profile, risky potential for disaster, but also a chance you may both click and have a fantastic time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because most don't want to be treated as a step up from a wank"

Two steps up, it goes wank, posh wank then person.....no?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Because most don't want to be treated as a step up from a wank

Two steps up, it goes wank, posh wank then person.....no?

Lmao! Damn of course !! I will bow to your superior knowledge. .hehe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most people meet in person before they shag. its the logical way to d things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because people are lonely and are secretly looking for "Mr right". So I've been told."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like socials because I am sociable, like Costa Coffee, like to see the person I might have sex with and give both of us (or both of them

) the chance to make a decision if she/they want sex with me, in a neutral environment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never agree to have sex with anyone based on a pic, meeting socially gives both parties the chance to check each other out before deciding to play, to be honest i think the OPs questions a little odd as i though the reason for meeting socially first was obvious

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex "
. There is a lot more to life than sex and you can only have so much of it . Social meets give the opportunity to talk to like minded people. If compatible things can progress.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I like a social. I prefer to chat chilling out with someone that is staying as a social so there is no pressure.

I once had a social that we soon changed to more than a social which was lovely but a coffee meet is very important to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me sex starts way before my clothes come off, I see a social meet as the build up to sex, getting dressed up and having a laugh and a drink with a potential sex partner all add to it, the laughing and flirting is all part of the foreplay, stimulate my mind and my body will follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unless hes taking them out for a slap up meal before they tell him to do one

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By *y2funMan
over a year ago

DUDLEY

"I have to be physicaly and mentally attracted to someone before I have sex "

as to be something going on....

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By *y2funMan
over a year ago

DUDLEY

" stimulate my mind and my body will follow

wine and chocolates my dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had shit sex for the first time ever, socials only for me now. Has put me off sex for life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex "

#notsureifjokingornot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought swinging was as much a social thig as the sexual side of it

Parties clubs ect

Everyone is sociable before hand

Plus if I wasn't attracted to the person then sex would be a no go !!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have met without a social first. The people I still see, all met before Lickety was born, started this way and remain firm friends.

These days I prefer to meet socially first as I have had some less than optimal meets with some. As I don't meet at home it's also easier to meet socially.

Do what feels right for you but remember that not everyone does the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

Are you fucking serious?

By the way, it's thought. And were. "

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

Same here... There had to be that attraction both ways. .. Sorry but not here to just simply fuck anyone

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Lmfao @ someone not being able to work out the purpose of a social meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social meet for me except for two occasions. Then it's because we had been talking for ages and ages x

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"For me sex starts way before my clothes come off, I see a social meet as the build up to sex, getting dressed up and having a laugh and a drink with a potential sex partner all add to it, the laughing and flirting is all part of the foreplay, stimulate my mind and my body will follow

well put!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex "

because a lot of us just dont meet and shag - the social element may be a coffee and a chat before saying yes and going ahead and playing on a first meet

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over a year ago

"So many presume just cos ur on fab and don't got veris you don't have any sex looooooool."

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over a year ago

OP, despite all the huffing puffing from some forumites saying they only meet socially first, not everyone does it that way. Many people meet in a club or at a party, a quick "hello" then off to a room for a fuck.

I think your question has been answered all ways. Good thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of people just meet socially - some question why some just use the chatroom or forums and dont meet at all - does it really matter - we have met and played at clubs but have chatted on here beforehand and arranged to meet up at a club - had a drink or two and then found a room and played but needed the build up beforehand - some people dont and happy to say hi im horny lets fuck - but that aint us

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over a year ago

I don't always do the while social in a public place thing, but I keep the option there for those I'm perhaps a bit undecided about. Most of the time I'll just have a drink at mine/his before play, but that's usually after a free days chatting in some way so I know we get on and are looking for the same things. Both ways I meet have the option of play the same day, but also give me and them the option to say no if the reality doesn't match the fantasy/profile. Yes I'm here for sex, but I'm here for good sex, not just whatever is on offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's not about finding the shortest path to getting your dick wet.

#Wearehumanbeings.

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By *auraxxWoman
over a year ago

east

SO you are not having sex with a complete stranger......

Sometimes a meet and straight to sex can be hot but some form of connection always leads to better sex.....in my opinion xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex "

#WeAreAllHereForOurOwnReasons

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"I'd rather have very good sex, not just sex. So I like a social to build up the intensity. Mind blowing sex is fun.

This.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

A social meet is a good way to ensure you are meeting who you think you are.

I prefer a social first so I can judge if there is a chemistry there in person...

Its also a safety thing for me - and yes I know some nuts axe murderer is not likely to take an axe on the first meet, and that many women are harmed by the men they live with, so there is no guarantee... but it sets my mind at rest a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like social meets, we sometimes meet with people we don't end up swinging with but still have a good laugh chatting about meets and watching the locals ( in a pub) pretending not to be listening in.

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over a year ago

I usually meet at partys/clubs the social side is there already

however local has to be a social to see if we click personality and attraction.i couldnt turn up round someones house without it first.as have had socials that there too quiet and hard to make conversation, thankfully rare, mind you local meets are rare anyway for me

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

For a single male they are a god send, you can have a chat with some one, you never know you might get a very from someone. People can see what you look like, also get a feel for you.

If nothing else you have had a chat with a few people and gotten your face noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont meet without one first , and rightly so in our experiences so far . Several guys looked nothing like their profile pics and a few couldnt hold a decent conversation for us there has to be a connection mentally as well as sexualy .

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

"OP, despite all the huffing puffing from some forumites saying they only meet socially first, not everyone does it that way. Many people meet in a club or at a party, a quick "hello" then off to a room for a fuck.

I think your question has been answered all ways. Good thread.

Surely if you meet in a club, there is some social interaction before a decision to play or not is made...

You don't need a persons life history but neither is it " Hello, you - me fuck now."

You can often tell within the first couple of minutes if you are going to click. If you don't, game over. If you do it may lead to something in a few minutes or a few days or never at all...

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By *ussex guy 2Man
over a year ago

Chichester

I think a lot depends on the type of meet. I have been to a couple of GBs which have been arranged on Fab and phone, then knock on door and go in, but any action was preceeded by drinks and chat. If the person organising the meet wants that thrill of an anonymous stranger playing with them, then a social would be unnecessary, but if you're looking to set up a regular session with people who will become friends (and lovers) then as has been stated previously, there would need to be a spark or an attraction, which could be discovered, or not, over a drink in a social context. To me, it's horses for courses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials meets are great if you live within reasonable distance of each other and want to cut to the chase instead of chatting loads in here.

I wouldn't travel to the other side of the country for a social meet but would spend extra time chatting on here or by phone before going straight into a play meet

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over a year ago

"Socials meets are great if you live within reasonable distance of each other and want to cut to the chase instead of chatting loads in here.

I wouldn't travel to the other side of the country for a social meet but would spend extra time chatting on here or by phone before going straight into a play meet

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex "

Why stop at no social meet,

Just Cut out the middle man,and have a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex "

Your honour, I submit the above comment as Exhibit A in the case of Others vs Majority of Single Men on Fab.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People have a range of social meet types. Sometimes it's easier to talk face to face, getting your questions and uncertainties out of the way, in the flesh. Some people lie, and it can be easier to spot this in the flesh.

You can't always be sure if others are your type from pics. If booking hotels then it's wise to know it will work.

Safer to meet in public with a stranger and they don't know your address.

Other group socials may be similar.

If you've been to swinging clubs you'll also find a great social side there.

Others may have asked the op to make certain you were ok, or if someone is unverified.

Unlike singles.shag, swinging has more depth and layers to it and it won't suit everyone's taste, even though swinging comes with many flavors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah, the lesser known Fort Wewash.

Built in 186i to defend the Thames Estuary with two x five tiers of 9 inch rifled muzzle-loading guns.

Smart-arse!!

xx"

Funny smart arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

Why stop at no social meet,

Just Cut out the middle man,and have a wank.

Don't even have a wank.

Just think about it.....

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over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

Why stop at no social meet,

Just Cut out the middle man,and have a wank.

Don't even have a wank.

Just think about it....."

Fuck it just have a raffle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

Why stop at no social meet,

Just Cut out the middle man,and have a wank.

Don't even have a wank.

Just think about it.....

Fuck it just have a raffle "

Or a waffle

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

Why stop at no social meet,

Just Cut out the middle man,and have a wank.

Don't even have a wank.

Just think about it.....

Fuck it just have a raffle "

I'll have some tickets. A quid a go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

Why stop at no social meet,

Just Cut out the middle man,and have a wank.

Don't even have a wank.

Just think about it.....

Fuck it just have a raffle

I'll have some tickets. A quid a go?"

That's a bit steep.

Im saving for lipstick...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex because its hard to turn up at a strangers house and perform cold

lol,,yeap that's just too sleazy n creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is so many reasons why we do socials

1) someone could be sexy as hell but as dense as a brick wall - I could sleep with someone that had nothing about them or spent the whole meet looking scared

2) photos lie

3)if I'm inviting people in my home I like to feel I know something about the people coming around

4) as a couple we can meet the person/people in question and then have a chat after to make sure we are both singing off the same hymn sheet

The only time we don't meet socially first is in a club but we would do the social in the bar area.

There are some people who we may not have glanced twice at from their profile but have met at a group social and have totally clicked with so that's another positive of a social

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over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

Why stop at no social meet,

Just Cut out the middle man,and have a wank.

Don't even have a wank.

Just think about it.....

Fuck it just have a raffle

I'll have some tickets. A quid a go?

That's a bit steep.

Im saving for lipstick..."

Ok ok I have had a word with the man by 3 get 2 free and a lucky dip could be any orientation or sex it's the best I could do at short notice.

Take it or leave it ???

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Ah, the lesser known Fort Wewash.

Built in 186i to defend the Thames Estuary with two x five tiers of 9 inch rifled muzzle-loading guns."

Tut, doncha know nuffink?

You don't muzzle load rifled barrels mun!

I dunno, what's the world coming to eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

Why stop at no social meet,

Just Cut out the middle man,and have a wank.

Don't even have a wank.

Just think about it.....

Fuck it just have a raffle

I'll have some tickets. A quid a go?

That's a bit steep.

Im saving for lipstick...

Ok ok I have had a word with the man by 3 get 2 free and a lucky dip could be any orientation or sex it's the best I could do at short notice.

Take it or leave it ???"

*taps chin with finger.*

Hmmm.....alright so I'll take it!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

Why stop at no social meet,

Just Cut out the middle man,and have a wank.

Don't even have a wank.

Just think about it.....

Fuck it just have a raffle

I'll have some tickets. A quid a go?

That's a bit steep.

Im saving for lipstick..."

Do what I do, go into (insert generic chemist name) each morning and use a tester

Move on to perfume retailer and spray expensive French scent liberally.

Sorted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id wanna see a person on cam 1ST then meet in public over a drinky poo or two before I even considered anything else.

if they cant go on cam n show face their not real to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

Why stop at no social meet,

Just Cut out the middle man,and have a wank.

Don't even have a wank.

Just think about it.....

Fuck it just have a raffle

I'll have some tickets. A quid a go?

That's a bit steep.

Im saving for lipstick...

Ok ok I have had a word with the man by 3 get 2 free and a lucky dip could be any orientation or sex it's the best I could do at short notice.

Take it or leave it ???

*taps chin with finger.*

Hmmm.....alright so I'll take it!"

*scratchs fore head* where ya gonna take it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

Why stop at no social meet,

Just Cut out the middle man,and have a wank.

Don't even have a wank.

Just think about it.....

Fuck it just have a raffle

I'll have some tickets. A quid a go?

That's a bit steep.

Im saving for lipstick...

Ok ok I have had a word with the man by 3 get 2 free and a lucky dip could be any orientation or sex it's the best I could do at short notice.

Take it or leave it ???

*taps chin with finger.*

Hmmm.....alright so I'll take it!

*scratchs fore head* where ya gonna take it

Round the bend by the plank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see alot advertised and have been asked to

why ?

#fortwewashereforsex

Why stop at no social meet,

Just Cut out the middle man,and have a wank.

Don't even have a wank.

Just think about it.....

Fuck it just have a raffle

I'll have some tickets. A quid a go?

That's a bit steep.

Im saving for lipstick...

Ok ok I have had a word with the man by 3 get 2 free and a lucky dip could be any orientation or sex it's the best I could do at short notice.

Take it or leave it ???

*taps chin with finger.*

Hmmm.....alright so I'll take it!

*scratchs fore head* where ya gonna take it

Round the bend by the plank.

There is no plank there never was, it's gone ya hear me. Let it go, step away from the imaginary plank......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love everything about seducing and being seduced, from the first flutter of the eye lids onwards... why would you want to skip all that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like meeting people, also as has been said it helps to form a connection with people before sex. Same reason you dress nice and make an effort before you go on a meet, its not just about sex, if it was there is no point making an effort at all. May as well just send everyone the same message 'wanna fuck!' Cant see that going too well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeah why wouldnt anyone want to meet me ? im a catch

So is syphillis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather social meet first as often pictures look nothing like the person who stands before me

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