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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

last weekend we had a party

we have been to a few over the years and really enjoyed them

on this occasion we wanted to try something a bit different

so we thought along the lines of a sexy dinner party and a tangled mess of bodies

we dont normally hold parties as we live very close to our neighbours and want to avoid gossip

we also wanted the sort of party where everyone was just a heap of bodies enjoying each other - so we had to invite cpls we would be certain would get on

anyway - to cut a long story short there were 8 of us and although i over cooked the food a little we all had a great time and the sex was seriously good fun

have to say i was shattered by 1am but really pleased with it all

that was until recently

i actually received some emails from couples we know that took offence at not being invited

and they were quite nasty emails

there were lots of reason why people got invited or didnt but never did i think we would get such silly childish notes from people because they were not on the 'A list' -their words not mine

im fuming at the moment and really seriously thinking about taking a break from this

arent we all meant to be the open minded live and let live lot??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if u could get emails from couples that

u know that took offence at not being

invited and they were quite nasty emails

well i say gd bye 2 ppl who u thought

were friends...who arent realy friends

2 send nasty emails in the first place

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

So how come we all didnt get invited

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh absolutely!!!

to be honest they werent 'friends' just people we have met at other parties and played a little with

just not called for - its not as if they missed the party of the century for gawd sake

* breathing deeply now - recovering from being annoyed *

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Suggest you take a break from the senders of these emails...and post more detail on here to rub their noses in it even further!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and if they had to invite only 8 from their list of friends.. where would you be on the list.

they sound desperate and hyper needy.

send them the leftovers and hopefully that will make amends xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So some folk were offended they didnt get an invite,so what?

what about the poor folk that had to eat overcooked food? haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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arent we all meant to be the open minded live and let live lot?????? "

Take a look at these forums.

Your words do not spring to mind when I read most threads.

The truth is that being swingers does not promote open mindedness, just a willingness to be slightly different in a sexual nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps their not so pleasant messages re-affirmed the reason(s) why you did not invite them in the first place?

Drop them I'd say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alot of it is sour grapes and all down to personal choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Suggest you take a break from the senders of these emails...and post more detail on here to rub their noses in it even further!"

lol it wasnt that exciting

8 of us - cocktails - pretty dresses - smart blokes - dinner - confessions - dares - kisses - upstairs - naked - slapping - light whips (some men only cos some were chicken!) then a free for all - safe sex - loud sex - and me running downstairs to the kitchen for a cup of tea!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

arent we all meant to be the open minded live and let live lot??????

Take a look at these forums.

Your words do not spring to mind when I read most threads.

The truth is that being swingers does not promote open mindedness, just a willingness to be slightly different in a sexual nature."

actually i think you might be right

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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The important thing is that the people who came enjoyed and you did too.

Don't let the petty narrowmindedness of a few spoil the memories of a wonderful evening.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suggest you take a break from the senders of these emails...and post more detail on here to rub their noses in it even further!

lol it wasnt that exciting

8 of us - cocktails - pretty dresses - smart blokes - dinner - confessions - dares - kisses - upstairs - naked - slapping - light whips (some men only cos some were chicken!) then a free for all - safe sex - loud sex - and me running downstairs to the kitchen for a cup of tea! "

sounds like a cracking party but can we have photographic evidence of the proceedings

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By *arlot ScarlettWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

I'm really glad that you had a great night - sounds fantastic! It's a pity that there are very nasty, petty people about tho - just ignore them - don't let them spoil your memories of a great party!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did the people that weren't invited find out about it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How did the people that weren't invited find out about it ?"

chatting in the chat rooms i think and they tried to arrange a meet with someone who was coming here who said they had a prior engagement - nothing was secret as such - but i didnt post anything here before the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always amazes me that people would consider others as friends on here. The people I chat to or indeed meet at parties or clubs are not 'friends'. All good fun but if I removed my profile tomorrow would they miss me or I them? Doubt it. Having people round to your home is a really personnal thing. They should respect that. Whatever happened to dignity? Jeeeez!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

arent we all meant to be the open minded live and let live lot??????

Take a look at these forums.

Your words do not spring to mind when I read most threads.

The truth is that being swingers does not promote open mindedness, just a willingness to be slightly different in a sexual nature.

actually i think you might be right "

Actually, I know he IS right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The important thing is that the people who came enjoyed and you did too.

Don't let the petty narrowmindedness of a few spoil the memories of a wonderful evening.

xxx"

here here!!

Like I say in my status!!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"

here here!!

Like I say in my status!!"

You nicked that from a birthday card??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wana know where my invite was also....thats it will never talk to you again.....

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"The important thing is that the people who came enjoyed and you did too.

Don't let the petty narrowmindedness of a few spoil the memories of a wonderful evening.

xxx

here here!!

Like I say in my status!!"

memories last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it does all seem silly and childish. Its your party (and you'll cry if you want to, lol sorry couldnt resist) and you can invite who you want. As youve stated, you had a fantasy of what you wanted from this party and you chose people who you thought would enjoy and be up for it - theres nothing wrong with that. Sorry your fuming, their loss not yours, keep smiling and enjoy the good memories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will never please everyone when it comes to invites to parties.

I know as i used to hold them.

Dont let it worry you, the fact they are sending emails moaning shows you picked right and were right not to have invited them in the first place.

Your home....Your choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahhh you lot are yummy thankyou x x x

Feeling much happier today

Going to play nothing but golf for the next 4 weeks though clear the cobwebs

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"a free for all - safe sex - loud sex - and me running downstairs to the kitchen for a cup of tea!"

Ah, the English and their tea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its up to you who you ask ... its your party and if people get asked thay are lucky ,,,,, I think like this are people really friends if mail you nasty stuff ? lifes to short for crap so dont let it get to you ,, move on think of nice things ... KISSES JO XXXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Ahhh you lot are yummy thankyou x x x

Feeling much happier today

Going to play nothing but golf for the next 4 weeks though clear the cobwebs "

Well Im still sulking

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Ahhh you lot are yummy thankyou x x x

Feeling much happier today

Going to play nothing but golf for the next 4 weeks though clear the cobwebs

Well Im still sulking "

Come round to mine. We can have a nice cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ahhh you lot are yummy thankyou x x x

Feeling much happier today

Going to play nothing but golf for the next 4 weeks though clear the cobwebs

Well Im still sulking "

Lol have a cup of earl grey you will much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah well sod them they are not really friends anyway are they?

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington


"It always amazes me that people would consider others as friends on here. The people I chat to or indeed meet at parties or clubs are not 'friends'. All good fun but if I removed my profile tomorrow would they miss me or I them? Doubt it. Having people round to your home is a really personnal thing. They should respect that. Whatever happened to dignity? Jeeeez!"

Well I have to say, I HAVE absolutely got friends on here. Agreed, a lot of people I chat with/meet I wouldn't describe as "real friends" ( more playmates or acquaintances), but there are a handful of people I've met through Fab whom I would indeed call my friends.....and if I or they left the site and stopped swinging altogether, we would still be friends.

(sorry for going off topic )

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"It always amazes me that people would consider others as friends on here. The people I chat to or indeed meet at parties or clubs are not 'friends'. All good fun but if I removed my profile tomorrow would they miss me or I them? Doubt it. Having people round to your home is a really personnal thing. They should respect that. Whatever happened to dignity? Jeeeez!

Well I have to say, I HAVE absolutely got friends on here. Agreed, a lot of people I chat with/meet I wouldn't describe as "real friends" ( more playmates or acquaintances), but there are a handful of people I've met through Fab whom I would indeed call my friends.....and if I or they left the site and stopped swinging altogether, we would still be friends.

Couldnt agree more chezzax

(sorry for going off topic )"

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

No matter how secure "some" people like to think they are, it's almost impossible to reason with those that suffer with insecurity, dare I say it, it's very similar to those that believe their part of a clique it gives the individual some kind of security.

Numerous posters on these forums give the impression their secure, however, the tell-tale signs are there one just has to know what they are

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Ahhh you lot are yummy thankyou x x x

Feeling much happier today

Going to play nothing but golf for the next 4 weeks though clear the cobwebs

Well Im still sulking

Come round to mine. We can have a nice cup of tea."

make it a coffee and youre on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhh you lot are yummy thankyou x x x

Feeling much happier today

Going to play nothing but golf for the next 4 weeks though clear the cobwebs

Well Im still sulking

Come round to mine. We can have a nice cup of tea.

make it a coffee and youre on "

The very fact that you chose to pick 8 out of your friends (so called)list tells me it might have been a difficult task because you clearly have a lot of friends or so you think, but it was your choice(BULLYING)thats what they are doing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ahhh you lot are yummy thankyou x x x

Feeling much happier today

Going to play nothing but golf for the next 4 weeks though clear the cobwebs

Well Im still sulking

Come round to mine. We can have a nice cup of tea.

make it a coffee and youre on

The very fact that you chose to pick 8 out of your friends (so called)list tells me it might have been a difficult task because you clearly have a lot of friends or so you think, but it was your choice(BULLYING)thats what they are doing."

well having slept on it i am now recovered and think sod em

if any one fancies tea or coffee i make great cup cakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol some people never cease to amaze me in this game

Ignore them hun and carry on with the lifestyle dont let em grind ya down

For every numpty in swinging there are at least 10 emotionally stable and secure real swingers lol

That original post reminds me of the school playground lol

Really adults throwin their dollies out the pram cause they weren't invited amazing lol amazing xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"It always amazes me that people would consider others as friends on here. The people I chat to or indeed meet at parties or clubs are not 'friends'. All good fun but if I removed my profile tomorrow would they miss me or I them? Doubt it. Having people round to your home is a really personnal thing. They should respect that. Whatever happened to dignity? Jeeeez!

Well I have to say, I HAVE absolutely got friends on here. Agreed, a lot of people I chat with/meet I wouldn't describe as "real friends" ( more playmates or acquaintances), but there are a handful of people I've met through Fab whom I would indeed call my friends.....and if I or they left the site and stopped swinging altogether, we would still be friends.

(sorry for going off topic )"

glad someone said it chezza... and I couldn't have said it better, it is the friends that keep me here......

the amount of good people that I know are looking out for me is such a boost at the best of times.....

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"last weekend we had a party

we have been to a few over the years and really enjoyed them

on this occasion we wanted to try something a bit different

so we thought along the lines of a sexy dinner party and a tangled mess of bodies

we dont normally hold parties as we live very close to our neighbours and want to avoid gossip

we also wanted the sort of party where everyone was just a heap of bodies enjoying each other - so we had to invite cpls we would be certain would get on

anyway - to cut a long story short there were 8 of us and although i over cooked the food a little we all had a great time and the sex was seriously good fun

have to say i was shattered by 1am but really pleased with it all

that was until recently

i actually received some emails from couples we know that took offence at not being invited

and they were quite nasty emails

there were lots of reason why people got invited or didnt but never did i think we would get such silly childish notes from people because they were not on the 'A list' -their words not mine

im fuming at the moment and really seriously thinking about taking a break from this

arent we all meant to be the open minded live and let live lot?????? "

Like a lot of swinging sites...certain people or certain types of people want to take ownership of others..there are always petty jealousy's and the like..no need to take a break from the site though..its decent people like yourselves that keep sites from turning into a sleaze pits..its a good job all the dent people dont leave because of the minority or others who spoil it..you dont nothing wrong..walking away would be giving in to them wouldnt it?

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