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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any ladies had this....I put a status up yesterday saying im going to buy some new undies and an outfit....had a message off a man wanting my paypal details to transfer cash into it because he wanted to buy them for me??..obviously I declined..but whats that all about??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess some guys are just seeing it as a way in...ultimately?

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

No.

I did however receive a mail with the topic 'Breed' and asking 'Are you fertile'?

What the f is that all about??

Another one to the block list!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He never mentioned meeting me..just wanted to pay for the undies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess some guys are just seeing it as a way in...ultimately? "

Yeah - what he said. Though it's not something I would do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No.

I did however receive a mail with the topic 'Breed' and asking 'Are you fertile'?

What the f is that all about??

Another one to the block list!! "

So did I!!...said he wanted to get me pregnant and then we could be together!!! Deluded!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave you feeling indebted to him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He never mentioned meeting me..just wanted to pay for the undies lol"

I guess doing that is a turn on for him! Takes all sorts. Can you pass him my way, I'll get my list ready !

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Its the internet everything written must be taken very seriously

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He never mentioned meeting me..just wanted to pay for the undies lol

I guess doing that is a turn on for him! Takes all sorts. Can you pass him my way, I'll get my list ready ! "

Lmao!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Any ladies had this....I put a status up yesterday saying im going to buy some new undies and an outfit....had a message off a man wanting my paypal details to transfer cash into it because he wanted to buy them for me??..obviously I declined..but whats that all about??"

It's possible he interpreted your status.as a hint. Some women do request lingerie so do some couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow really well you learn something new everyday. There is nowt queer as folk as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give him my pay pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had this before he wouldnt take no for an answer,i had been talking to him agaes before this and he seemed a lovely bloke but had to block him ...he has since left thankfully

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any ladies had this....I put a status up yesterday saying im going to buy some new undies and an outfit....had a message off a man wanting my paypal details to transfer cash into it because he wanted to buy them for me??..obviously I declined..but whats that all about??

It's possible he interpreted your status.as a hint. Some women do request lingerie so do some couples."

Ive seen a woman hinting at booze lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm updating mine to ~ 'I'm off to buy some Manalo Blahnik's"....

back to your question ~ it's another way in the door so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeap had guys offer to pay for clothes ,shoe,s , dinner etc oh and sex,,ive plenty of my own money and im no whore so NO THANKS,fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

I did however receive a mail with the topic 'Breed' and asking 'Are you fertile'?

What the f is that all about??

Another one to the block list!! "

We had an email from someone asking identical to that last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy is willing to pay for undies let him

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"No.

I did however receive a mail with the topic 'Breed' and asking 'Are you fertile'?

What the f is that all about??

Another one to the block list!! "
I get them about once a month. I find discussing child support, medical history and if bis parents would baby sit with my wannabe breeders takes the sexual thrill out the situation

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

john needs some string vests and a few socks if anyone whats to help, ohh and some white paint for the front door..connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"john needs some string vests and a few socks if anyone whats to help, ohh and some white paint for the front door..connie x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy message me a few days ago sugar daddy or cash controller

I replied with Wtf are you on about and it turns out he was offering me his money to use as I please in return for regular sex

I politely explained that there was not enough money in the world, reported and blocked him, he was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm updating mine to ~ 'I'm off to buy some Manalo Blahnik's"....

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I'm going for Jimmy Choos and a holiday in Mauritius.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

I did however receive a mail with the topic 'Breed' and asking 'Are you fertile'?

What the f is that all about??

Another one to the block list!!

We had an email from someone asking identical to that last week "

I replied before with....I'm 47, I bloody hope not!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm updating mine to ~ 'I'm off to buy some Manalo Blahnik's"....

I'm going for Jimmy Choos and a holiday in Mauritius. "

Louboutins, Mulberry Handbag and a weekend in New York

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy message me a few days ago sugar daddy or cash controller

I replied with Wtf are you on about and it turns out he was offering me his money to use as I please in return for regular sex

I politely explained that there was not enough money in the world, reported and blocked him, he was "

Implying that had he been better looking you would have allowed this ??

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral


"He never mentioned meeting me..just wanted to pay for the undies lol

I guess doing that is a turn on for him! Takes all sorts. Can you pass him my way, I'll get my list ready ! "

And me.....I'm after a kindle fire thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ve an escort style fantasy we ve discussed in another thread but chickened it tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He wants to fuck you so he thinks if you allow him to buy your underwear he's in with more of a chance

Its not unusual in here to offer gifts and money to get a leg over,the same as its not unusual for women to ask for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give him my pay pal"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn. Just bought new boxers and socks, missed the opportunity to put it on my status and get them paid for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see many statuses / profiles asking for tradesmen, transportation, gifts etc. Plus there's the 'you will take us out for a meal' or 'turn up with vodka, wine, booze' for a meet.

It is what it is, it's all part of what the scene has become.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been offered money for a night with me alone a couple of times but always been cheapstakes so said no x

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

As others have said he may have thought you were hinting as a lot of women do ask for presents.

Always report anything like this though

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