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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

could you never forgive?

I have been thinking about this this morning and I don't know what my answer is.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I could never forgive my ex husband for not coming home from the pub when I messaged him to say I was bleeding heavily when I was 11 weeks pregnant. Took him 3 hours to bother coming back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any real harm to my loved ones? That said I'm very forgiving in nature so I'm not sure that I couldn't forgive but it would definitely be the most difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could never forgive Arry Redknapp for dropping Adel Taarabt

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Apart from murder of a loved one, I think I could probably forgive ( although not forget) most things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can see this thread having a lot of exes mentioned - i can never forgive mine for the years of mental cruelty he put me and the kids through as it affects the way i think/react to others and situations even now - think it always will- i can however forgive the final act of violence as it launched me into reality and we got out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can forgive most things but forgetting is a different story,getting wiser with age helps,as a kid i was would hold a grudge for years,since having a child i think as long as she's safe and also my wife Il let many things go onless it caused them harm

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I don't think you really know until you get there - so many dynamics involved.

It is my intention to always forgive, because I know bitterness damages us if we do not, but sometimes I cannot bring myself to.

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Someone hurting anyone in my family, I'm a very very forgiving person and always try to see all points if view, however, if a member of my family got hurt by someone, especially the kids I could turn from lovely to demonic pretty quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sure is a hard one this lol

i can think of lots of things i could get medieval on some one for, but then think of my girls and wot it would do to them seeing me put away or worse, but i think most ppl would do anything to protect family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget about forgiving , learn to accept and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forget about forgiving , learn to accept and move on"

ooooo easier said than done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being punched in the head when i was 7 months pregnant. that was the last time i ever gave a shit what my ex did or said and yeah i got out of there for my unborn childs sake.

i still have to have my ex in my life coz of our kids but i am 100% emotionally detached from him and have been for years.

i also have kids with someone else who restored my faith in relationships btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"could you never forgive?

I have been thinking about this this morning and I don't know what my answer is. "

My brother who came to me pissed one night asking for advice about the affair he was having which ultimately ended his marriage.

Maybe I should have offered more support but I was very, very young and couldn't cope with the situation I felt he put me in.....didn't know what to do or say...

I was, and still am, very close to my sister-in-law

Our relationship never recovered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well women are the wose at not forgiving, that's why there's so many that live there lives bitter and twisted,

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"well women are the wose at not forgiving, that's why there's so many that live there lives bitter and twisted, "

Wow, way to make a rash generalisation there

Incidentally, your post sounds rather bitter so perhaps you should look closer to home before casting accusations at an entire sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well women are the wose at not forgiving, that's why there's so many that live there lives bitter and twisted, "

I am not bitter but I am emotionally detached from him...by choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well women are the wose at not forgiving, that's why there's so many that live there lives bitter and twisted, "

abuse does tend to mess people up in the head and change them, longer it goes on the worse it can affect the survivor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well women are the wose at not forgiving, that's why there's so many that live there lives bitter and twisted,

Wow, way to make a rash generalisation there

Incidentally, your post sounds rather bitter so perhaps you should look closer to home before casting accusations at an entire sex. "

no I'm not bitter far from it , it you accusing me of generalising just my experience.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"well women are the wose at not forgiving, that's why there's so many that live there lives bitter and twisted,

Wow, way to make a rash generalisation there

Incidentally, your post sounds rather bitter so perhaps you should look closer to home before casting accusations at an entire sex.

no I'm not bitter far from it , it you accusing me of generalising just my experience. "

I'm not accusing you of anything. I'm stating as a fact that claiming women are worst at forgiving is a ridiculous generalisation.

Your post doesn't even answer the question in the OP. It's just a cheap shot at women, which does sound bitter.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Wearing two denim items at the same time.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Wearing two denim items at the same time."

Good God man! You had to mention the unmentionable didn't you.

What do you think this is? A Status Quo convention!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Wearing two denim items at the same time.

Good God man! You had to mention the unmentionable didn't you.

What do you think this is? A Status Quo convention!"

It's just not cricket dear chap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well women are the wose at not forgiving, that's why there's so many that live there lives bitter and twisted,

Wow, way to make a rash generalisation there

Incidentally, your post sounds rather bitter so perhaps you should look closer to home before casting accusations at an entire sex

no I'm not bitter far from it , it you accusing me of generalising just my experience.

I'm not accusing you of anything. I'm stating as a fact that claiming women are worst at forgiving is a ridiculous generalisation.

Your post doesn't even answer the question in the OP. It's just a cheap shot at women, which does sound bitter."

well I suppose your going to say you know me better than i do, I've got a large circle of friends men and women and non of them think I'm bitter just show what judgement people frequent this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I forgive everyone. But I don't forget and karma really does hurt x

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"well women are the wose at not forgiving, that's why there's so many that live there lives bitter and twisted, "

Do you know a lot of bitter and twisted women? I know a lot of bitter and twisted men too I'd say it was about even.

My question was us there anything YOU couldn't ever forgive though.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"well women are the wose at not forgiving, that's why there's so many that live there lives bitter and twisted,

Wow, way to make a rash generalisation there

Incidentally, your post sounds rather bitter so perhaps you should look closer to home before casting accusations at an entire sex

no I'm not bitter far from it , it you accusing me of generalising just my experience.

I'm not accusing you of anything. I'm stating as a fact that claiming women are worst at forgiving is a ridiculous generalisation.

Your post doesn't even answer the question in the OP. It's just a cheap shot at women, which does sound bitter.

well I suppose your going to say you know me better than i do, I've got a large circle of friends men and women and non of them think I'm bitter just show what judgement people frequent this site "

I have no wish to argue with you but you actually passed judgement on an entire sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't forgive anything, I'm terrible at holding a grudge and once you've crossed me that's it I'm done with you,

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo

Rape and/or child abuse

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've had some shit things done to me and though it took time I forgave, but someone did something to a loved one and I've never forgiven for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had some shit things done to me and though it took time I forgave, but someone did something to a loved one and I've never forgiven for that

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Love your new pics. You look fantastic!

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