FabSwingers.com forum: Finding it hard due to my age

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are women on here not interested in younger man like myself? I had a bit of luck when I first joined on here but it just seems to be getting harder to find a decent meet. Anyone else having troubles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are women on here not interested in younger man like myself? I had a bit of luck when I first joined on here but it just seems to be getting harder to find a decent meet. Anyone else having troubles?"

Us decent woman are far way x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ohh the irony haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. Depends on the woman. I've met guys from 23 - 59. Some good some bad. Lol.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm astonished nonetheless, you're sporting the full package there, I wish you luck!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah, that's the problem though can't seem to find someone who's into a younger lad that's actually local!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay patient man, and keep at it. Sure you can have plenty of fun away from here too, at your age!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm astonished nonetheless, you're sporting the full package there, I wish you luck!!

Thanks I appreciate it, talk about yourself though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but if I message people I am respectful and polite as soon as you start being abusive people just avoid it goes around.

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

It's not instant.....

Chat for a while and try and try and get a bit of banter going.......it's not all downstairs.....women like a guy that can chat and has a sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, that's the problem though can't seem to find someone who's into a younger lad that's actually local!"

Got to be honest I'm the same, Im a tad older and there are a lot of gorgeous ladies with age ranges that start in the 40's

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm astonished nonetheless, you're sporting the full package there, I wish you luck!!

Thanks I appreciate it, talk about yourself though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd give up and leave. It's not going to happen bud. Cut your losses.......

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I'd give up and leave. It's not going to happen bud. Cut your losses......."

Haha, he'll get older.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19 is a little young for a lot of women on here,however i've seen a lot of 'cougar's' on here and I'm surprised your not getting much luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd give up and leave. It's not going to happen bud. Cut your losses......."

Love the enthusiasm haha! Naa I'll keep it at it for a bit, met quite a few decent people on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"19 is a little young for a lot of women on here,however i've seen a lot of 'cougar's' on here and I'm surprised your not getting much luck "

Wouldn't mind being introduced to a few haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wish I was your age again you lucky git..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i wish I was your age again you lucky git..lol

me too

imagine being a single 19 year old girl on here, there would be no stopping me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i wish I was your age again you lucky git..lol

me too

imagine being a single 19 year old girl on here, there would be no stopping me

That's the thing though! It's a completely different experience for a girl on here that's my age

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Wait til you hit the big 50

it's all fun & games then

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think your age is perfect but some won't. Just focus on those of us who appreciate you and possibly be flexible on your area of coverage. As well as how you're meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is like in the wild, the female lion choses her mate, there is nothing that can be done but just hope for luck.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm astonished nonetheless, you're sporting the full package there, I wish you luck!!

Me too!! Tho I'm not into guys as young as yourself OP, my jaw did drop and a little bit of drool *might* have happened when I looked (ok perved) at your pics.

Best of luck to ya fella!!!

*adds to hotlist for future perving.....*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but if I message people I am respectful and polite as soon as you start being abusive people just avoid it goes around. "

Strange comment to make

Where does it suggest that the OP has been abusive in his messages??

OP you might be a bit too young for a lot of women but don't give up.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

If I was in the NW, I would happily blow my lower age limit out the window!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was in the NW, I would happily blow my lower age limit out the window!!

I think I would too

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

"If I was in the NW, I would happily blow my lower age limit out the window!!

I think I would too

You take the left and I take the right??

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"i wish I was your age again you lucky git..lol

me too

imagine being a single 19 year old girl on here, there would be no stopping me

I was really shy at 19. I wouldn't have lasted 5 minutes on here!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe they are confused why you've hidden the two cam veris from men? Any hint of confusion or negativity or spelling mistakes can cause people not to meet.

It might not be your age unless you constantly get told it is.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Maybe they are confused why you've hidden the two cam veris from men? Any hint of confusion or negativity or spelling mistakes can cause people not to meet.

It might not be your age unless you constantly get told it is. "

My maths suggests the 2 men were meet in person meets.

The cam veris were two women and the couple.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Maybe they are confused why you've hidden the two cam veris from men? Any hint of confusion or negativity or spelling mistakes can cause people not to meet.

It might not be your age unless you constantly get told it is.

My maths suggests the 2 men were meet in person meets.

The cam veris were two women and the couple."

Dur! So they were! It's early....

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Age might be a factor, to be honest your profile isn't great fella. you say you had a bit of luck when you first joined....if that worked for you...do it again,

If it ain't broke don't fix it,...

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd only question why as a teenager you feel the need to be on a site like this? You've obviously got the goods, surely the girls are falling all over you when you're out on the town?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Quick question for the OP!

Are you expecting any different responses got those you've been given before? (Green arrow!!)

If so - what would you like to hear this time?

There was a thread earlier about responses from forum users in relation to negativity, bullying and 'pack mentality' when commenting on threads from newbies. It happens sadly. But one of the reasons I suspect it happens at times is that people continually ask the same question again and again. Doing so doesn't tend to do you any favours in terms of raising your profile.

It's your right to do so of course - but if you are expecting anyone to respond differently then you may have a bit of a wait. Just a constructive tip from someone who spends a fair bit of time on the forums.

You can't change your age. You can't change other peoples age preferences either.

It is what it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i'm not far from you hun - but I have a daughter older than you so it would be a no from me sexually - but happy to take you to a club at some point, show you around and introduce you to some people. Young guys who don't get past age restrictions on the site tend to do well in clubs if women can see they're not immature and boyish. Let me know on here if you're interested and i'll pm you! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paula you can bring me to a club anyday

if you can understand my accent of course me being Irish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I thought 'getting it hard' due to age was the biggest problem.

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By *uperGuy68Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"I was really shy at 19. I wouldn't have lasted 5 minutes on here!"

I was really eager at 19, I wouldn't have lasted 5 minutes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wait til you hit the big 50

it's all fun & games then

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By *ill1948Man
over a year ago

lincoln

Old age is not a problem but you are only as good as your last meet I been luckey lots of meets mmmmmmmmm young and old mmmmmm 60+ ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but if I message people I am respectful and polite as soon as you start being abusive people just avoid it goes around. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, but if I message people I am respectful and polite as soon as you start being abusive people just avoid it goes around. "

When did I once mention that I wasn't polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but if I message people I am respectful and polite as soon as you start being abusive people just avoid it goes around.

When did I once mention that I wasn't polite"

Checking previous threads is an eye opener.

You may be polite but you also show your immaturity by your reaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At my age, it's good to find it's still hard!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, but if I message people I am respectful and polite as soon as you start being abusive people just avoid it goes around.

When did I once mention that I wasn't polite

Checking previous threads is an eye opener.

You may be polite but you also show your immaturity by your reaction.

Yep heard that before, peoples opinions isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep x and there's me praising you in another thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahaha, the irony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but if I message people I am respectful and polite as soon as you start being abusive people just avoid it goes around.

When did I once mention that I wasn't polite"

You didn't people rarely admit to impoliteness but it doesn't mean your lack of action isn't due to it but I think you already know that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

You'll be fine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmmm. Your delicious

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By *y2funMan
over a year ago

DUDLEY

" Anyone else having troubles?"

mate whats you need to do is wait till your nearly 50, fat, bald and mising teeth.... your cock has shrunk to nothing and you can't last more than 60 seconds.... they are gagging for you then!!!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I find it quite hard at my age too

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By *y2funMan
over a year ago

DUDLEY

"Mmmmmmm. Your delicious

some women are just shallow...............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, do not home in on your age as an issue. Just like everyone else, you will attract some and not others. That really is life.

If you really wanted a tip, I would say lose the toilet shot. Very few people like seeing a bog in a photo. And perhaps less cock shots too. Some like them and some don't. Just keep them to a minimum.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"OP, do not home in on your age as an issue. Just like everyone else, you will attract some and not others. That really is life.

If you really wanted a tip, I would say lose the toilet shot. Very few people like seeing a bog in a photo. And perhaps less cock shots too. Some like them and some don't. Just keep them to a

minimum."

Some men think ladies find toilets very sexually attractive, which is why they include them in their photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, do not home in on your age as an issue. Just like everyone else, you will attract some and not others. That really is life.

If you really wanted a tip, I would say lose the toilet shot. Very few people like seeing a bog in a photo. And perhaps less cock shots too. Some like them and some don't. Just keep them to a

minimum.

Some men think ladies find toilets very sexually attractive, which is why they include them in their photos

Oh bog off steve

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"OP, do not home in on your age as an issue. Just like everyone else, you will attract some and not others. That really is life.

If you really wanted a tip, I would say lose the toilet shot. Very few people like seeing a bog in a photo. And perhaps less cock shots too. Some like them and some don't. Just keep them to a

minimum.

Some men think ladies find toilets very

sexually attractive, which is why they

include them in their photos

Oh bog off steve

Just a little gentle amusement.

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

just to add...the average age of the combat soldier in Vietnam was 19....

nineteen, nineteen, nineteen, nona, nona, nineteen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just to add...the average age of the combat soldier in Vietnam was 19....

nineteen, nineteen, nineteen, nona, nona, nineteen

Sadly TT. It still is...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"just to add...the average age of the combat soldier in Vietnam was 19....

nineteen, nineteen, nineteen, nona, nona, nineteen

Paul Hardcastle!

I bought that when it came out!

Also - the jammy fucker is married to Nell McAndrew!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, but if I message people I am respectful and polite as soon as you start being abusive people just avoid it goes around.

When did I once mention that I wasn't polite

Checking previous threads is an eye opener.

You may be polite but you also show your immaturity by your reaction.

The other thing that the previous threads show is a massive sense of entitlement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, do not home in on your age as an issue. Just like everyone else, you will attract some and not others. That really is life.

If you really wanted a tip, I would say lose the toilet shot. Very few people like seeing a bog in a photo. And perhaps less cock shots too. Some like them and some don't. Just keep them to a

minimum.

Some men think ladies find toilets very

sexually attractive, which is why they

include them in their photos

Oh bog off steve

Just a little gentle amusement.

I have to say ... I have never met anyone who finds a toilet erotic.

Call it narrow minded. I go there to dump. Not to, erm, get oopsy.

Call me mad if you will.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"OP, do not home in on your age as an issue. Just like everyone else, you will attract some and not others. That really is life.

If you really wanted a tip, I would say lose the toilet shot. Very few people like seeing a bog in a photo. And perhaps less cock shots too. Some like them and some don't. Just keep them to a

minimum.

Some men think ladies find toilets very

sexually attractive, which is why they

include them in their photos

Oh bog off steve

Just a little gentle amusement.

I have to say ... I have never met

anyone who finds a toilet erotic.

Call it narrow minded. I go there to

dump. Not to, erm, get

Call me mad if you will."

Ah.....you're so right but so many men think ladies will get wet just looking and admiring the mens toilets - it must be so, otherwise, why show them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it only us that thinks that if the op was a bit older and had a beer belly people would be shouting 'look at me!' ?

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I'd of been a bloody right nightmare on here at 19

bad enough anyway lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i am great believer in that you get one chance to make a great first impression...

do i believe you have done that... after looking at the green arrow..... not so much...

it may be your age... you may be right...however it may be a million and one other reasons.... but you have fixated on age because that then leaves you blameless....... those mean older people!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mmmmmmm. Your delicious

some women are just shallow...............

Im not..I actually prefer big/large/chubby men... but I dont discriminate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just to add...the average age of the combat soldier in Vietnam was 19....

nineteen, nineteen, nineteen, nona, nona, nineteen

"
In the second world war he was 26

I wonder what he was in the first world war..

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