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" Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent?" I think that's the main thing, the 'guy who still lives with his mum' is a common parody of the modern male. | |||
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"Some people have to live at home to be the main carer for their parents. I don't think of someone who does that as not being independent. OP: you will have to meet away from home - no one wants ya mum and dad listening in! " That's what I intend to do as with dad retired, I can't bring anyone to my house so it has to be at their house instead or not at all. | |||
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"...Some people have no choice but to live at home as everything is so expensive " This type of argument is my bugbear. I was in care so when I was 18 I was forced to move out and live independantly-despite how expensive it is! You learn to cope and do without the luxuries that are often now considered 'essentials'...in 6 years I've not owned a computer or had broadband or eaten take out and I've survived! | |||
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"...Some people have no choice but to live at home as everything is so expensive This type of argument is my bugbear. I was in care so when I was 18 I was forced to move out and live independantly-despite how expensive it is! You learn to cope and do without the luxuries that are often now considered 'essentials'...in 6 years I've not owned a computer or had broadband or eaten take out and I've survived!" the difference is having to live like that and choosing to, I'm sure you didn't choose to live alone and struggle at 18 and had your situation been different you would had stayed at home and had more money for luxuries, why would people struggle if they don't have to | |||
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"not an issue here - just means home is unavailable for play - same as us when kids are home" that's how I see it, I don't accommodate so don't expect others to, hotels are good enough so it don't matter to me who they live with | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really." man up and get your own place how can you bring a date back to your parents not a good start | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really. man up and get your own place how can you bring a date back to your parents not a good start " I'm not planning on taking a meet home to my parents that's why I want to go to their place instead and if I had the money to get a place, I would. | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really. man up and get your own place how can you bring a date back to your parents not a good start I'm not planning on taking a meet home to my parents that's why I want to go to their place instead and if I had the money to get a place, I would." What if they are also living with parents? If you had said "we'd get an hotel" then it would make me think you can take responsibility for yourself but saying "I want to go back to their place" makes you sound immature to me. That would make me question why you're still at home. | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really. man up and get your own place how can you bring a date back to your parents not a good start I'm not planning on taking a meet home to my parents that's why I want to go to their place instead and if I had the money to get a place, I would." take them to a hotel some well know ones only £29 a night | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really. man up and get your own place how can you bring a date back to your parents not a good start I'm not planning on taking a meet home to my parents that's why I want to go to their place instead and if I had the money to get a place, I would. take them to a hotel some well know ones only £29 a night " Can't do nighttime meets. That why I can only do daytime meets | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really. man up and get your own place how can you bring a date back to your parents not a good start I'm not planning on taking a meet home to my parents that's why I want to go to their place instead and if I had the money to get a place, I would. take them to a hotel some well know ones only £29 a night Can't do nighttime meets. That why I can only do daytime meets" You can get hotels during the day too. Some have day rates. | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really. man up and get your own place how can you bring a date back to your parents not a good start I'm not planning on taking a meet home to my parents that's why I want to go to their place instead and if I had the money to get a place, I would. take them to a hotel some well know ones only £29 a night Can't do nighttime meets. That why I can only do daytime meets You can get hotels during the day too. Some have day rates. " Most hotels allow check in after 2pm, you can a few hours fun for £29... | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really. man up and get your own place how can you bring a date back to your parents not a good start I'm not planning on taking a meet home to my parents that's why I want to go to their place instead and if I had the money to get a place, I would. What if they are also living with parents? If you had said "we'd get an hotel" then it would make me think you can take responsibility for yourself but saying "I want to go back to their place" makes you sound immature to me. That would make me question why you're still at home. " To answer your question, that's why I'm only looking for those who can accommodate. I cannot afford a place of my own with everything so expensive these days. Even though I'm on minimum wage working at a cinema, it is difficult to save up money to be able to afford a place. | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really. man up and get your own place how can you bring a date back to your parents not a good start I'm not planning on taking a meet home to my parents that's why I want to go to their place instead and if I had the money to get a place, I would. take them to a hotel some well know ones only £29 a night Can't do nighttime meets. That why I can only do daytime meets You can get hotels during the day too. Some have day rates. Most hotels allow check in after 2pm, you can a few hours fun for £29... " If I was to do a hotel meet, it would have to be in Blackpool and I have tried getting someone to come with me through the request forum and that didn't work. | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really. man up and get your own place how can you bring a date back to your parents not a good start I'm not planning on taking a meet home to my parents that's why I want to go to their place instead and if I had the money to get a place, I would. What if they are also living with parents? If you had said "we'd get an hotel" then it would make me think you can take responsibility for yourself but saying "I want to go back to their place" makes you sound immature to me. That would make me question why you're still at home. To answer your question, that's why I'm only looking for those who can accommodate. I cannot afford a place of my own with everything so expensive these days. Even though I'm on minimum wage working at a cinema, it is difficult to save up money to be able to afford a place." if ya work at a cinema take her or him on ya day off never heard or the back seat | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really. man up and get your own place how can you bring a date back to your parents not a good start I'm not planning on taking a meet home to my parents that's why I want to go to their place instead and if I had the money to get a place, I would. What if they are also living with parents? If you had said "we'd get an hotel" then it would make me think you can take responsibility for yourself but saying "I want to go back to their place" makes you sound immature to me. That would make me question why you're still at home. To answer your question, that's why I'm only looking for those who can accommodate. I cannot afford a place of my own with everything so expensive these days. Even though I'm on minimum wage working at a cinema, it is difficult to save up money to be able to afford a place. if ya work at a cinema take her or him on ya day off never heard or the back seat " And risk getting sacked? I don't think so | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really." good question and I would say there are many answers though a lot without substantiation. The reality is many go back to parents as its difficult to start up independently after being in a relationship. I always smile at answers on threads like this as many of the same people give guys grief for cheating too or more to the point not leaving the marital home when financially it can be crippling for people who re on a tight budget. | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really. good question and I would say there are many answers though a lot without substantiation. The reality is many go back to parents as its difficult to start up independently after being in a relationship. I always smile at answers on threads like this as many of the same people give guys grief for cheating too or more to the point not leaving the marital home when financially it can be crippling for people who re on a tight budget. " I agree with you on that. In my case with me having to pay rent and put money in my savings, I am on a tight budget most of the time depending on how much I get in wages from work. | |||
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"At least you have someone to write you a note if you call off a meet if your poorly. " Ouch! Gimp | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really. good question and I would say there are many answers though a lot without substantiation. The reality is many go back to parents as its difficult to start up independently after being in a relationship. I always smile at answers on threads like this as many of the same people give guys grief for cheating too or more to the point not leaving the marital home when financially it can be crippling for people who re on a tight budget. I agree with you on that. In my case with me having to pay rent and put money in my savings, I am on a tight budget most of the time depending on how much I get in wages from work." What are you saving for ? | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really. man up and get your own place how can you bring a date back to your parents not a good start I'm not planning on taking a meet home to my parents that's why I want to go to their place instead and if I had the money to get a place, I would. take them to a hotel some well know ones only £29 a night Can't do nighttime meets. That why I can only do daytime meets You can get hotels during the day too. Some have day rates. Most hotels allow check in after 2pm, you can a few hours fun for £29... If I was to do a hotel meet, it would have to be in Blackpool and I have tried getting someone to come with me through the request forum and that didn't work." Okay how about a daytime visit to a club, are there any in Blackpool? | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really. man up and get your own place how can you bring a date back to your parents not a good start I'm not planning on taking a meet home to my parents that's why I want to go to their place instead and if I had the money to get a place, I would. take them to a hotel some well know ones only £29 a night Can't do nighttime meets. That why I can only do daytime meets You can get hotels during the day too. Some have day rates. Most hotels allow check in after 2pm, you can a few hours fun for £29... If I was to do a hotel meet, it would have to be in Blackpool and I have tried getting someone to come with me through the request forum and that didn't work. Okay how about a daytime visit to a club, are there any in Blackpool?" I had thoughts of going to a club in Manchester last year but didn't go. Was too chicken lol | |||
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"I'm not having a moan about it or anything. I just want to ask a few questions in general that's all about living with parents. What is it that people here have against those that live with parents? Is it a major turn off? Does it make people here see the person as someone who isn't independent? That's pretty much it really. man up and get your own place how can you bring a date back to your parents not a good start I'm not planning on taking a meet home to my parents that's why I want to go to their place instead and if I had the money to get a place, I would. take them to a hotel some well know ones only £29 a night Can't do nighttime meets. That why I can only do daytime meets You can get hotels during the day too. Some have day rates. Most hotels allow check in after 2pm, you can a few hours fun for £29... " Some let you check in before 2. Costs a bit more though I think | |||
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"...Some people have no choice but to live at home as everything is so expensive This type of argument is my bugbear. I was in care so when I was 18 I was forced to move out and live independantly-despite how expensive it is! You learn to cope and do without the luxuries that are often now considered 'essentials'...in 6 years I've not owned a computer or had broadband or eaten take out and I've survived! the difference is having to live like that and choosing to, I'm sure you didn't choose to live alone and struggle at 18 and had your situation been different you would had stayed at home and had more money for luxuries, why would people struggle if they don't have to " I think that even had I not been in care I would have moved out of home, but I'd have waited a year so I'd finished my A-levels first. With that attitude people are always going to struggle financially. Living independantly taught me to budget and prioritise between essentials and luxuries, while I have collegues in the same age range as me, earning the same amount who still live at home, contribute very little to the household and are skint a week before payday every month. | |||
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"...Some people have no choice but to live at home as everything is so expensive This type of argument is my bugbear. I was in care so when I was 18 I was forced to move out and live independantly-despite how expensive it is! You learn to cope and do without the luxuries that are often now considered 'essentials'...in 6 years I've not owned a computer or had broadband or eaten take out and I've survived! the difference is having to live like that and choosing to, I'm sure you didn't choose to live alone and struggle at 18 and had your situation been different you would had stayed at home and had more money for luxuries, why would people struggle if they don't have to I think that even had I not been in care I would have moved out of home, but I'd have waited a year so I'd finished my A-levels first. With that attitude people are always going to struggle financially. Living independantly taught me to budget and prioritise between essentials and luxuries, while I have collegues in the same age range as me, earning the same amount who still live at home, contribute very little to the household and are skint a week before payday every month." My situation differs I was in a relationship for 8years engaged for 6 hate 3 children and was renting . He up and left one-day he earned the wage as I stayed at home with the kids . Once he left I had no way of getting an income and had to move out was in homeless shelter for a few months until I finally Told family my mum asked me to move home . Myself and kids would get a stable roof and I would be helping with the bills . It's 1000 Euro to rent a small 2bed apartment a month which I could never be able to afford do what I'm earning now . Plus even if I did own my own place I weakenedp invite anyone in as its my family home | |||
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"Fucking hell. The lack of empathy of some people on this site disgusts me. OP tell the ones that don't like it to sod off. Do what makes you happy." I agree. | |||
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"To be brutally honest, there are plenty of benefits available to help with living alone on a low wage. Lots of people have life issues that just makes things impossible for them. This guy is on a low wage but cant get his own place due to saving for holidays? Get a 2nd paying job and sack the holiday ideas until your more stable, sorry but your reasons for still living with your parentals all just shout "I'm lazy" Become a man and take on the world, one life and no idea how long you get to live it. Take chances, start a business ... Work harder. Everything is possible with a bit of drive and some balls in your pants. Or think of it another way, shouldn't your parents have their house for themselves now ... Not having their adult son still live with them? " Its not that simple as me and my brother are autistic and have Asperger's. | |||
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"Fucking hell. The lack of empathy of some people on this site disgusts me. OP tell the ones that don't like it to sod off. Do what makes you happy." Glad to see someone here understands | |||
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