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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just had a meet with someone off here and when I came back home,I go to verify him and he has deleted himself,I have his number would you contact him to see what's going on or leave it.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I'd leave it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What they said above

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'd leave it."

This. He doesn't want to keep in contact for whatever reason. If he does, he can come back onto fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No he's deleted his account, I would leave it.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"I'd leave it.

This. He doesn't want to keep in contact for whatever reason. If he does, he can come back onto fab. "

She has his number though.

OP i'd leave it, he might text or call you never know. If he doesn't, you've not lost anything as such.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Start to worry if same thing happens with the next chap you meet

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By *ornstudMan
over a year ago

alnwick

id leave it let him contact you if he wants to

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I just had a meet with someone off here and when I came back home,I go to verify him and he has deleted himself,I have his number would you contact him to see what's going on or leave it. "

If he has your number then wait for him to call you. If he doesn't call and you want to call him, then do so; afterall, he did willingly give you his number

He most probably left this site for a reason which has nothing to do with you. Or maybe, he left the site after he found you and does not want to meet anyone else but only you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errr can't see the harm of texting him saying you see he's gone, that you'll therefore assume he's not interested in meeting again, but if he does he knows where to reach you. And then leave it at that.

Obviously if it was a crap meet then don't bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Or maybe, he left the site after he found you and does not want to meet anyone else but only you "

Good point

Block his number now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on...

1.are you bothered that he's left

2.do you want to seen him again

3.did you make plans to see him again

If you answer 'yes' to any of the above ~ then send him a text!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made plans two weeks ago for a meet and he left the site three days before. There was no way on earth I was going to contact him, but he text me and the meet still went ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand where the dilemma comes into these situations. Either the guy was just a meet in which case you leave it be. Nsa should be exactly that.... or he was more than that, in which case you should know whether it is ok for you to contact him. We have no idea how things are between you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep his number just in case you start itching in the next couple of days!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I don't understand where the dilemma comes into these situations. Either the guy was just a meet in which case you leave it be. Nsa should be exactly that.... or he was more than that, in which case you should know whether it is ok for you to contact him. We have no idea how things are between you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have his number and i assume he has yours - hes left fab might not have left you - personally id leave it but id also be tempted to text - hmmmm -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just had a meet with someone off here and when I came back home,I go to verify him and he has deleted himself,I have his number would you contact him to see what's going on or leave it. "

I smell the post-coital delete of a guilty married man. Just leave the fecker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a woman ergo a nosey parker!!

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

If he was someone i got on with and wanted to see him again, Id just txt and ask outright.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I just had a meet with someone off here and when I came back home,I go to verify him and he has deleted himself,I have his number would you contact him to see what's going on or leave it. "

If you have his number no reason not to contact him if you want to, he can just tell you if he doesn't want further contact! I'm still in touch with several guys that have decided this site is not for them but still get in touch with me from time to time to ask if I'd like to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No strings fun

Why add strings ?

Why turn the fun into anything else ?

Take it for what it was

For him, seemingly a shag

Move on

Your meet obviously has

Lose the number

Find another

That one may stick round long enough for his veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say leave but if it was me I'd probably text.

But keep it casual x if you don't get any reply you know for sure he was a wanker x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just had a meet with someone off here and when I came back home,I go to verify him and he has deleted himself,I have his number would you contact him to see what's going on or leave it. "

Just drop him a thanks message you don't need to do any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets face it you were a Shit Shag

Gimp

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Leave it, he's obviously decided nothing can top meeting you and has quit at the top

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

But just because someone has left fab does not mean they won't be in touch again anyway - you are a pessimistic bunch, lol!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If you agreed to stay in touch off site then some limited contact may be ok. I'd only say one contact with them would be appropriate and then to either see their response or leave it for them to make a move.

Remember, their moves are their choice. Family. Work and personal choices influence them and assume it's not about you. It's casual fun so keep it without commitment and hassle for you and them.

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