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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know it's more than likely been posted a million Times but I really need to say it!!

I'm all for going down on either a man or woman and fucking and getting fucked

But kissing to me is a huge turn on and not kissing makes me feel used somehow!! It makes me feel dirtier in a bad way!

Does anyone else feel this way or am I alone??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's more than likely been posted a million Times but I really need to say it!!

I'm all for going down on either a man or woman and fucking and getting fucked

But kissing to me is a huge turn on and not kissing makes me feel used somehow!! It makes me feel dirtier in a bad way!

Does anyone else feel this way or am I alone?? "

no I'm the same, kissing turns me on sooooo much....I struggle without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If soneone doesn't kiss on a meet then I don't meet them.....simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea kissing is part of all the fun for us

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I could not have sex if kissing was prohibited...so would be a big no no here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It a must surely got to know how they taste before second coarse lol

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I could not have sex if kissing was prohibited...so would be a big no no here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had some great kissing last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its one of the best parts of the meet and without would feel forced and robotic.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

love a good kiss. It builds up the tension

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never, ever ever meet a single or couple if kissing was off the menu. It's not just desirable, it's an essential for me. It's all part of the passion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man told me he didn't kiss, I'd say no to meeting. Kissing turns me on big time Mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could not have sex if kissing was prohibited...so would be a big no no here "

ditto for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be kissing I feel , gives me a raging horn when the kissing is passionate and the hands are exploring xxxxxxxxxxx

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I know it's more than likely been posted a million Times but I really need to say it!!

I'm all for going down on either a man or woman and fucking and getting fucked

But kissing to me is a huge turn on and not kissing makes me feel used somehow!! It makes me feel dirtier in a bad way!

Does anyone else feel this way or am I alone?? "

I love kissing and caressing and the whole build up. Without kissing its just too clinical. Its one reason Im not really into gangbangs, although I have taken part in one or two I prefer the whole shebang xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we would never meet if there was no kissing ........ its part of having sex with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know from that kiss whether it's worth staying...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, kissing for me is a huge turn on and it makes me twice as hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's a guy I've met a few times and really enjoy his company amongst other things he has recently decided if won't kiss anymore . I really don't know what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has to be kissing I feel , gives me a raging horn when the kissing is passionate and the hands are exploring xxxxxxxxxxx"

yup...this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's more than likely been posted a million Times but I really need to say it!!

I'm all for going down on either a man or woman and fucking and getting fucked

But kissing to me is a huge turn on and not kissing makes me feel used somehow!! It makes me feel dirtier in a bad way!

Does anyone else feel this way or am I alone?? "

When I first came on the scene I never kissed when I had a meet. Kissing was too personal and sensual and I wasn't there to get close to someone I was there for a shag and that's it.

However now I love kissing but that's only because Andy Ida great kisser and I when I meet I will kiss as it turns me on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loveeeee kissing...only if its someone who knows how to kiss properly...ive had some dreadful kisses :-/....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree with every single one of you. Kissing isn't a must.

In fact, it's one of the hard limits and no go's for us.

If I'm letting you play with my wife, you have her body. That's fine.

If your kissing her, you have her emotionally and physiologically... It simply isn't going to happen. We hold that back for ourselves.

If that means that we never get a meet outside of a club. So be it. I'm happy with that.

My wife's lips and my lips are there for us to enjoy the intimacy of knowing that nobody else gets to.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Sex without kissing can feel a bit cold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. Only had one meet where kissing was off the menu and didn't really do it for me.

Kissing adds to the erotisism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissy.....no fucky.xxx

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"If soneone doesn't kiss on a meet then I don't meet them.....simple "

Me too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing it's a massive turn on for me (mrs) Mr never really kisses others though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG...kissing is one of THE most erotic things there is an absolute NECESSITY as part of foreplay and the act itself!!

if you're not kissing, you're just "bumpin' uglies".

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"It's a guy I've met a few times and really enjoy his company amongst other things he has recently decided if won't kiss anymore . I really don't know what to do "

Is this a new rule he has imposed?

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Its an essential part in the process of arousal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip, some right good old french action is a must!

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By *lackbirdtimestwoWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"I know it's more than likely been posted a million Times but I really need to say it!!

I'm all for going down on either a man or woman and fucking and getting fucked

But kissing to me is a huge turn on and not kissing makes me feel used somehow!! It makes me feel dirtier in a bad way!

Yep I'm the same kissing is a must xx

Does anyone else feel this way or am I alone??

no I'm the same, kissing turns me on sooooo much....I struggle without it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's reassuring to read that so many believe kissing is a big part of any meet. I wasn't sure if it was on the menu so to speak as a newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its an essential part in the process of arousal "

I love kissing and meets without it are never as satisfying. It's the best feeling when you meet an amazing kisser.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a guy I've met a few times and really enjoy his company amongst other things he has recently decided if won't kiss anymore . I really don't know what to do

Is this a new rule he has imposed?"

Yes . We've been meeting months and never an issue now he has changed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a guy I've met a few times and really enjoy his company amongst other things he has recently decided if won't kiss anymore . I really don't know what to do

Is this a new rule he has imposed?

Yes . We've been meeting months and never an issue now he has changed"

well more fool him, there's many a fella on here would love kissing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were the same not good enoff to kiss not good enoff to fuck xx

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"I disagree with every single one of you. Kissing isn't a must.

In fact, it's one of the hard limits and no go's for us.

If I'm letting you play with my wife, you have her body. That's fine.

If your kissing her, you have her emotionally and physiologically... It simply isn't going to happen. We hold that back for ourselves.

If that means that we never get a meet outside of a club. So be it. I'm happy with that.

My wife's lips and my lips are there for us to enjoy the intimacy of knowing that nobody else gets to.

"

Yet those same lips can be wrapped around a cock...or your tongue can be buried in a pussy?

I kiss my mother with the same lips that I kiss a meet with. I attach meaning in my head. I know who I am with and what the meeting of lips mean...in that context.

I worry that some people ascribe too much emotional baggage to the meeting of lips. It is a form of communication, as immediate and intense as any on God's green earth. But that is all it is.

Having said that...could not get hard without it and would take a long snog over a bj any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing however on some meets that I have been on the kissing hasn't been good.

So much so much so that I would rather not meet than kiss men when we meet.

So I am happy to have just sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If soneone doesn't kiss on a meet then I don't meet them.....simple "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree with every single one of you. Kissing isn't a must.

In fact, it's one of the hard limits and no go's for us.

If I'm letting you play with my wife, you have her body. That's fine.

If your kissing her, you have her emotionally and physiologically... It simply isn't going to happen. We hold that back for ourselves.

If that means that we never get a meet outside of a club. So be it. I'm happy with that.

My wife's lips and my lips are there for us to enjoy the intimacy of knowing that nobody else gets to.

"

well, I will say each to their own, I personally love it, but good luck to you both and happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my first questions is do you kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could not have sex if kissing was prohibited...so would be a big no no here "

Same here...it's all part of the whole experience.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"It's a guy I've met a few times and really enjoy his company amongst other things he has recently decided if won't kiss anymore . I really don't know what to do

Is this a new rule he has imposed?

Yes . We've been meeting months and never an issue now he has changed"

Oh difficult one then, I know it is easy for me to say, but I don't think I could meet him again if he has changed the game plan/rules! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree with every single one of you. Kissing isn't a must.

In fact, it's one of the hard limits and no go's for us.

If I'm letting you play with my wife, you have her body. That's fine.

If your kissing her, you have her emotionally and physiologically... It simply isn't going to happen. We hold that back for ourselves.

If that means that we never get a meet outside of a club. So be it. I'm happy with that.

My wife's lips and my lips are there for us to enjoy the intimacy of knowing that nobody else gets to.

"

This exactly!! It's nice to see we're not alone with this view!

We don't and won't ever kiss that's for us as a couple to enjoy romantically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree with every single one of you. Kissing isn't a must.

In fact, it's one of the hard limits and no go's for us.

If I'm letting you play with my wife, you have her body. That's fine.

If your kissing her, you have her emotionally and physiologically... It simply isn't going to happen. We hold that back for ourselves.

If that means that we never get a meet outside of a club. So be it. I'm happy with that.

My wife's lips and my lips are there for us to enjoy the intimacy of knowing that nobody else gets to.

Yet those same lips can be wrapped around a cock...or your tongue can be buried in a pussy?

I kiss my mother with the same lips that I kiss a meet with. I attach meaning in my head. I know who I am with and what the meeting of lips mean...in that context.

I worry that some people ascribe too much emotional baggage to the meeting of lips. It is a form of communication, as immediate and intense as any on God's green earth. But that is all it is.

Having said that...could not get hard without it and would take a long snog over a bj any day."

As the man said above. Each to their own. But for newbies potentially reading this and seeing nothing but 'must' 'have to' 'necessity' it isn't always the case.

As it happens, I've had no problem with the ladies and the wife certainly hasn't had an issue with the men...

I just can't wrap my head around it. If I had to choose between being able to kiss my wife or have sex for the rest of our lives together. A kiss will win in a heartbeat. It's just too much emotional for us.

It may well be something to do with us only being soft swap though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree with every single one of you. Kissing isn't a must.

In fact, it's one of the hard limits and no go's for us.

If I'm letting you play with my wife, you have her body. That's fine.

If your kissing her, you have her emotionally and physiologically... It simply isn't going to happen. We hold that back for ourselves.

If that means that we never get a meet outside of a club. So be it. I'm happy with that.

My wife's lips and my lips are there for us to enjoy the intimacy of knowing that nobody else gets to.

This exactly!! It's nice to see we're not alone with this view!

We don't and won't ever kiss that's for us as a couple to enjoy romantically "

Phew. Thank God.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's more than likely been posted a million Times but I really need to say it!!

I'm all for going down on either a man or woman and fucking and getting fucked

But kissing to me is a huge turn on and not kissing makes me feel used somehow!! It makes me feel dirtier in a bad way!

Does anyone else feel this way or am I alone?? "

No kissy kissy...no fucky fucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's more than likely been posted a million Times but I really need to say it!!

I'm all for going down on either a man or woman and fucking and getting fucked

But kissing to me is a huge turn on and not kissing makes me feel used somehow!! It makes me feel dirtier in a bad way!

Does anyone else feel this way or am I alone?? "

No I would say you have a valid point you get lots of silly reasons people don't but never one thats really viable.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I disagree with every single one of you. Kissing isn't a must.

In fact, it's one of the hard limits and no go's for us.

If I'm letting you play with my wife, you have her body. That's fine.

If your kissing her, you have her emotionally and physiologically... It simply isn't going to happen. We hold that back for ourselves.

If that means that we never get a meet outside of a club. So be it. I'm happy with that.

My wife's lips and my lips are there for us to enjoy the intimacy of knowing that nobody else gets to.

Yet those same lips can be wrapped around a cock...or your tongue can be buried in a pussy?

I kiss my mother with the same lips that I kiss a meet with. I attach meaning in my head. I know who I am with and what the meeting of lips mean...in that context.

I worry that some people ascribe too much emotional baggage to the meeting of lips. It is a form of communication, as immediate and intense as any on God's green earth. But that is all it is.

Having said that...could not get hard without it and would take a long snog over a bj any day."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't imagine having a meet without kissing.

For me it is fundamentally the most important bit of sex....any sex.

I do like to meet socially first though and test said kissing skills because potentially it could ruin the experience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't imagine having a meet without kissing.

For me it is fundamentally the most important bit of sex....any sex.

I do like to meet socially first though and test said kissing skills because potentially it could ruin the experience x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of my first questions is do you kiss "

and me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a guy I've met a few times and really enjoy his company amongst other things he has recently decided if won't kiss anymore . I really don't know what to do

Is this a new rule he has imposed?

Yes . We've been meeting months and never an issue now he has changed"

Did he give you a reason for no longer kissing ? Seems odd to me, to kiss you to start with and then stop. What's changed ? I guess, only you can decide if you want to continue meeting if he won't compromise and consider what you'd like too.

To answer your question, kissing is one of my big turns on, so I wouldn't want a one to one meet with anyone who did not kiss. I'd find it too cold.

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By *uperGuy68Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"One of my first questions is do you kiss "

Has anyone ever said no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree with every single one of you. Kissing isn't a must.

In fact, it's one of the hard limits and no go's for us.

If I'm letting you play with my wife, you have her body. That's fine.

If your kissing her, you have her emotionally and physiologically... It simply isn't going to happen. We hold that back for ourselves.

If that means that we never get a meet outside of a club. So be it. I'm happy with that.

My wife's lips and my lips are there for us to enjoy the intimacy of knowing that nobody else gets to.

This exactly!! It's nice to see we're not alone with this view!

We don't and won't ever kiss that's for us as a couple to enjoy romantically

Phew. Thank God. "

I'm on your side too. I do kiss meets if they want to, but if they don't want to I respect that. I've had no kissing, soft swap meets that were great fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's more than likely been posted a million Times but I really need to say it!!

I'm all for going down on either a man or woman and fucking and getting fucked

But kissing to me is a huge turn on and not kissing makes me feel used somehow!! It makes me feel dirtier in a bad way!

Does anyone else feel this way or am I alone??

No I would say you have a valid point you get lots of silly reasons people don't but never one thats really viable."

Because they don't want to. Perfectly valid. Why should anyone ever have to explain or justify what they do to anyone else?

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By *ay_yes_to_pinkyWoman
over a year ago

manchester

I love a good make out session does it for me if it's a really good one too

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I loveeeee kissing...only if its someone who knows how to kiss properly...ive had some dreadful kisses :-/...."

Same so now I can take it or leave it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to have a goooood kiss makes or breaks it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to respect other people's boundaries but without kissing it feels a little bit mechanical (can't think of a better word lol), we both love kissing and struggle not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing and couldn't imagine not doing it on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's more than likely been posted a million Times but I really need to say it!!

I'm all for going down on either a man or woman and fucking and getting fucked

But kissing to me is a huge turn on and not kissing makes me feel used somehow!! It makes me feel dirtier in a bad way!

Does anyone else feel this way or am I alone?? "

No kissing is a huge turn on for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, your right, it's been done to death. No kissy kissy, no fucky fucky from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't kiss me you definitely don't fuck me. I've turned down meets with couples because of this. Their boundaries not mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wanted to add another thumbs up for kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is definetly a great turn on and makes the sex so much more enjoyable . I used to meet a guy regulary for sex and he would never kiss as he said it was too intimate , yet was fine with my mouth round his cock lol .. The sex felt robotic and impersonal

My new playmate loves kissing and my orgasms are soooo much more intense.

As it's a new rule maybe he's falling for you and wants to distance his self as no other reason to suddenly want to stop kissing you but not fucking you ... Just a thought hun ... Hope you get it sorted

A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's more than likely been posted a million Times but I really need to say it!!

I'm all for going down on either a man or woman and fucking and getting fucked

But kissing to me is a huge turn on and not kissing makes me feel used somehow!! It makes me feel dirtier in a bad way!

Does anyone else feel this way or am I alone?? "

Definitely not alone.......incomplete without it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't meet someone who wouldn't kiss.

I also make sure I check out their kissability on a social meet because someone who can't kiss is a big nooooooo....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have initiated kisses on a first meet and have been glad I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't kiss me you definitely don't fuck me. I've turned down meets with couples because of this. Their boundaries not mine! "

Good girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's more than likely been posted a million Times but I really need to say it!!

I'm all for going down on either a man or woman and fucking and getting fucked

But kissing to me is a huge turn on and not kissing makes me feel used somehow!! It makes me feel dirtier in a bad way!

Does anyone else feel this way or am I alone?? "

It makes you feel dirty not kissing???? Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a guy I've met a few times and really enjoy his company amongst other things he has recently decided if won't kiss anymore . I really don't know what to do

Is this a new rule he has imposed?

Yes . We've been meeting months and never an issue now he has changed

Oh difficult one then, I know it is easy for me to say, but I don't think I could meet him again if he has changed the game plan/rules! x"

I agree. I think id ask him what is wrong and why he has changed his mind about kissing.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

As the song says 'it started with a kiss', I understand why some don't like to kiss on a meet. I prefer kissing when meeting.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I can lose interest if kissing is off the agenda. If I was just interested in genitals I'd select cock pic only profiles and respond to fancy a fuck messages.

I'd hope users would mark themselves as not kissers but you sometimes have to probe to find out. It can be the killer message if they don't kiss.

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By *imnher2Woman
over a year ago

watford

could not even imagine meet some1 and not kissing.. it would feel to clinical for me..

big yes to kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If soneone doesn't kiss on a meet then I don't meet them.....simple

Me too x"
Kissing seems to give me a bigger erection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good kiss. It's what gets me going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

even with my poorly exp i love kissing it turns me on much more than not . I i feel a bit dissapointed after if kissing is out. Though i can do it it tends be more mechanical without kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kiss, no meet.

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo

I always start with a social meet and if we click we will end the meet with a few kisses (sometimes a lot of kisses), as has been said previously, you have to know whether someone is a good kisser or not coz it can be the biggest turn-off if they're rubbish at it

Had a social meet last night and yes, we clicked, then had some great kisses, leaving us both wanting to arrange a sexy play meet ASAP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could never go ahead with a meet if they can't or won't kiss as it a big turn on for me,plus its One of the things I'm good at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree with every single one of you. Kissing isn't a must.

In fact, it's one of the hard limits and no go's for us.

If I'm letting you play with my wife, you have her body. That's fine.

If your kissing her, you have her emotionally and physiologically... It simply isn't going to happen. We hold that back for ourselves.

If that means that we never get a meet outside of a club. So be it. I'm happy with that.

My wife's lips and my lips are there for us to enjoy the intimacy of knowing that nobody else gets to.

"
Absolutely right. I'm pretty certain that couples okay to passionate kiss other couples/make love to another couple - aren't actually truly madly 'in love', they may love and care for each other, but don't get that special spark from each other so need it from kissing others. Couples meeting couples can use their own partners to get in the mood before having sex with the other couple surely? So much more fun that way

Sarah x

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land

It doesn't make me feel bad however i will refuse to meet. Kissing is big part of my sex life.No kissing no sex end of ).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is essential for me and the only way I get wet. A bad kisser won't get past first base with me.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We won't meet anyone who doesn't kiss......kisses make me horny so no kissing means no sex

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By *exymatcplMan
over a year ago

doncaster


"I know it's more than likely been posted a million Times but I really need to say it!!

I'm all for going down on either a man or woman and fucking and getting fucked

But kissing to me is a huge turn on and not kissing makes me feel used somehow!! It makes me feel dirtier in a bad way!

Does anyone else feel this way or am I alone?? "

I agree kissing is a major part of foreplay to me I love long passionate kissing build up, you can feel it if both people respond to the connection of lips and mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a guy I've met a few times and really enjoy his company amongst other things he has recently decided if won't kiss anymore . I really don't know what to do "

If this happened to me i would refuse to meet him.

In my veiw kissing is where it all starts. Kissing to me is the biggest turn on. No kissing or a bad kisser is a non starter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If soneone doesn't kiss on a meet then I don't meet them.....simple "

same here....whether nsa or lovemaking, kissing has got to be a major part of any type of sex.

Why would anyone NOT want to kiss?????

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

I love a nice sensual passionate kiss. I wouldn't kiss another guy though if I was in a relationship as I would keep that just for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If soneone doesn't kiss on a meet then I don't meet them.....simple

same here....whether nsa or lovemaking, kissing has got to be a major part of any type of sex.

Why would anyone NOT want to kiss????? "

Couples that don't want that kind of an intimacy with another person, scroll right up ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It appears that we are a minority.... Very surprising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is how you feel the passion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love kissing its a real turn, i can kiss for hours lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a nice sensual passionate kiss. I wouldn't kiss another guy though if I was in a relationship as I would keep that just for us."

And fantastic at it you are too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't meet anyone that didn't kiss on a meet! I adore kissing and it turns me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It appears that we are a minority.... Very surprising. "

The majority of people posting tho are not on couple profiles so it's hardly a surprise they view kissing as important....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a nice sensual passionate kiss. I wouldn't kiss another guy though if I was in a relationship as I would keep that just for us."

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kiss, no play for us

It's degrading to think that a couple would engage in playing with us and I can suck his cock but oh my god I can't kiss him, but I can go down on her and maybe I can kiss her because fem/fem is okay! Lol, grow up what's the difference, there is no difference! Everyone has a right to set there limits however I find this one the strangest! Ego, jealousy, trust issues, underlying relationship problems all spring to mind.

Helen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kiss, no play for us

It's degrading to think that a couple would engage in playing with us and I can suck his cock but oh my god I can't kiss him, but I can go down on her and maybe I can kiss her because fem/fem is okay! Lol, grow up what's the difference, there is no difference! Everyone has a right to set there limits however I find this one the strangest! Ego, jealousy, trust issues, underlying relationship problems all spring to mind.

Helen x"

That's quite a large generalisation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kiss, no play for us

It's degrading to think that a couple would engage in playing with us and I can suck his cock but oh my god I can't kiss him, but I can go down on her and maybe I can kiss her because fem/fem is okay! Lol, grow up what's the difference, there is no difference! Everyone has a right to set there limits however I find this one the strangest! Ego, jealousy, trust issues, underlying relationship problems all spring to mind.

Helen x"
My partner and I just don't kiss other couples. There is no issue. We just don't do it haha. And we have many repeat meets. The sex is always wow because we use our imaginations. We swing for something a little different to what we do to each other within our own relationship. If we kissed every tom Dick or harry as well as each other - it'd make swinging boring. For us, swing equals kink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kiss, no play for us

It's degrading to think that a couple would engage in playing with us and I can suck his cock but oh my god I can't kiss him, but I can go down on her and maybe I can kiss her because fem/fem is okay! Lol, grow up what's the difference, there is no difference! Everyone has a right to set there limits however I find this one the strangest! Ego, jealousy, trust issues, underlying relationship problems all spring to mind.

Helen x

That's quite a large generalisation? "

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kiss, no play for us

It's degrading to think that a couple would engage in playing with us and I can suck his cock but oh my god I can't kiss him, but I can go down on her and maybe I can kiss her because fem/fem is okay! Lol, grow up what's the difference, there is no difference! Everyone has a right to set there limits however I find this one the strangest! Ego, jealousy, trust issues, underlying relationship problems all spring to mind.

Helen x My partner and I just don't kiss other couples. There is no issue. We just don't do it haha. And we have many repeat meets. The sex is always wow because we use our imaginations. We swing for something a little different to what we do to each other within our own relationship. If we kissed every tom Dick or harry as well as each other - it'd make swinging boring. For us, swing equals kink

"

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not going to argue with people on here, we just find it strange and from past experiences (and this is not aimed at any poster on here please note) the relationship of the non kissers has been full of problems, that's just our experience

We love the kink of swinging and this post is now seemingly going the way of who thinks there the kinkiest lol, I find kissing fun and part of the play, both with the lady and the guy that's it

What is the difference between letting girl girl kissing but not guy girl? Come on someone explain because o can't get my head around that one

Hello by the way! Everyone calm today? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The difference (for me) is that there is no emotional attachment in fem / fem kissing.

I don't think I really need to explain it any further. I'm sure you also have your limits which people find strange. Be G told to grow up over it is harsh though... A better choice of words may have been wise.

Oh, and perfectly calm as always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally couldn't not kiss. However I'm a single women so it's okay to be so black and white. I do understand where some couples are coming from with the only kiss each other. If I was in a couple I think seeing my man kiss someone else would kill me. However for someone you've known and saw before to suddenly say no would be alarm bells for me and id have to just walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't need to explain your entitled to your opinion of course like I said not going to get into an argument

I can't see why you feel there is a greater emotional attachment with a guy kissing a girl versus a girl kissing a girl, it's interesting to me as I'm bisexual and like both sexes equally, I love kissing and both of us don't mind each other kissing other people as we don't get jealous and its part of the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally couldn't not kiss. However I'm a single women so it's okay to be so black and white. I do understand where some couples are coming from with the only kiss each other. If I was in a couple I think seeing my man kiss someone else would kill me. However for someone you've known and saw before to suddenly say no would be alarm bells for me and id have to just walk away. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not going to argue with people on here, we just find it strange and from past experiences (and this is not aimed at any poster on here please note) the relationship of the non kissers has been full of problems, that's just our experience

We love the kink of swinging and this post is now seemingly going the way of who thinks there the kinkiest lol, I find kissing fun and part of the play, both with the lady and the guy that's it

What is the difference between letting girl girl kissing but not guy girl? Come on someone explain because o can't get my head around that one

Hello by the way! Everyone calm today? Xx "
In reference to fem fem kissing, for a lot of couples with a 'bi' fem, they're only actually bi during swing play. So, again - just part of a kink to many. I've played bi on many occasions, cause it was fun during a swing and great to see the guys reactions. Then I

tell the guys how naughty they are getting turned on by two naughty fems kissing. They'd be spanked, then shagged lol. Dirty talking to strangers then maybe fucking them, is much more fun than kissing them imo

Horses for courses and all that

Sarah x

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Its what its about to different people, looking down the thread you can see that its mostly singles saying how its a must and a necessity to kiss on a meet from here, quite simply because this is one of there main sources of intimacy so they crave it and want it even if it is from a total stranger or someone elses wife, however to alot of couples swinging isnt about intimacy, they have that between themselves and want to keep it there, this side of there life is about naughty fun and exploring, they do not need nor want intimacy from strangers on a swingers site, they want nsa fun, and kissing been the most intimate act you can perform they opt to leave it out or keep it to a minimum, its easy to see both sides of this without feeling the need to tell people to grow up, which was out of order, people will always have different views/opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could not have sex if kissing was prohibited...so would be a big no no here "

This xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its what its about to different people, looking down the thread you can see that its mostly singles saying how its a must and a necessity to kiss on a meet from here, quite simply because this is one of there main sources of intimacy so they crave it and want it even if it is from a total stranger or someone elses wife, however to alot of couples swinging isnt about intimacy, they have that between themselves and want to keep it there, this side of there life is about naughty fun and exploring, they do not need nor want intimacy from strangers on a swingers site, they want nsa fun, and kissing been the most intimate act you can perform they opt to leave it out or keep it to a minimum, its easy to see both sides of this without feeling the need to tell people to grow up, which was out of order, people will always have different views/opinions."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its what its about to different people, looking down the thread you can see that its mostly singles saying how its a must and a necessity to kiss on a meet from here, quite simply because this is one of there main sources of intimacy so they crave it and want it even if it is from a total stranger or someone elses wife, however to alot of couples swinging isnt about intimacy, they have that between themselves and want to keep it there, this side of there life is about naughty fun and exploring, they do not need nor want intimacy from strangers on a swingers site, they want nsa fun, and kissing been the most intimate act you can perform they opt to leave it out or keep it to a minimum, its easy to see both sides of this without feeling the need to tell people to grow up, which was out of order, people will always have different views/opinions."
Absolutely

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't kiss anybody else.

I reach a new level of turned on when W kisses me, and has been known to make me orgasm just through kissing, it's how you feel all the passion!

That being said, we are soft swap. So those who say 'no kissy, no fucky' are right up our street anyway

But I do agree with the kissers though, it would be physically impossible to have sex without kissing, so if we were full swap it would be entirely different. But as we have no intention ever of becoming full swap, that wouldn't ever become an issue

G x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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But I do agree with the kissers though, it would be physically impossible to have sex without kissing, so if we were full swap it would be entirely different. But as we have no intention ever of becoming full swap, that wouldn't ever become an issue

G x"
lol, trust me it isn't impossible - we've numerous veris to prove it Dirty talk/dressing up/toys... so many other things you can do to build tension, anticipation and longing

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We soft swap on first meet but full swap on meets thereafter if everyone happy so no kiss no fuck we are in agreement there ?? great x

After 26 years together we enjoy our intimate time together and are happy and secure enough to allow each other to enjoy ourselves when swinging and we enjoy kissing if I'm sucking a guys cock I want to kiss him to if he is fucking me I want to kiss him too, should I tell S he can't kiss a girl after I've snogged her face off? Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my entire time of being on here both with this profile and my one from a few years back, I've never kissed guys I've met from here on the mouth (apart from the one I had a brief relationship with for just over a year) I'll kiss guys that I've got feelings for though. When it's just sex I like the guys hand over my mouth and like him to bite my neck quite hard.

I also get really turned on by guys in distress, like if they talk about anything that's bothering them in their lives, problems at work or with family for example, if I see a guy getting distressed or upset it makes me soaking so I don't need kissing to turn me on. When I meet guys on here I make sure they'll do my scenarios like pretending to have injuries and I'm their carer that has to chuck them in the bath and wash them. A guy kissing me would show that he's enjoying what's being done but I like them to protest and act scared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We soft swap on first meet but full swap on meets thereafter if everyone happy so no kiss no fuck we are in agreement there ?? great x

After 26 years together we enjoy our intimate time together and are happy and secure enough to allow each other to enjoy ourselves when swinging and we enjoy kissing if I'm sucking a guys cock I want to kiss him to if he is fucking me I want to kiss him too, should I tell S he can't kiss a girl after I've snogged her face off? Lol x"

You should do whatever is right for you. That's what this is all about

W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We soft swap on first meet but full swap on meets thereafter if everyone happy so no kiss no fuck we are in agreement there ?? great x

After 26 years together we enjoy our intimate time together and are happy and secure enough to allow each other to enjoy ourselves when swinging and we enjoy kissing if I'm sucking a guys cock I want to kiss him to if he is fucking me I want to kiss him too, should I tell S he can't kiss a girl after I've snogged her face off? Lol x"

No. Because you're secure so no need to tell him anything I think we all agree on one thing here - each to their own. And long may that continue

Sarah x

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"I know it's more than likely been posted a million Times but I really need to say it!!

I'm all for going down on either a man or woman and fucking and getting fucked

But kissing to me is a huge turn on and not kissing makes me feel used somehow!! It makes me feel dirtier in a bad way!

Does anyone else feel this way or am I alone?? "

Kissing is one of the most sensual pleasures so is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my entire time of being on here both with this profile and my one from a few years back, I've never kissed guys I've met from here on the mouth (apart from the one I had a brief relationship with for just over a year) I'll kiss guys that I've got feelings for though. When it's just sex I like the guys hand over my mouth and like him to bite my neck quite hard.

I also get really turned on by guys in distress, like if they talk about anything that's bothering them in their lives, problems at work or with family for example, if I see a guy getting distressed or upset it makes me soaking so I don't need kissing to turn me on. When I meet guys on here I make sure they'll do my scenarios like pretending to have injuries and I'm their carer that has to chuck them in the bath and wash them. A guy kissing me would show that he's enjoying what's being done but I like them to protest and act scared. "
haha turned on by guys in distress - me too!

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No. Because you're secure so no need to tell him anything I think we all agree on one thing here - each to their own. And long may that continue

Sarah x"

Amen to that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We soft swap on first meet but full swap on meets thereafter if everyone happy so no kiss no fuck we are in agreement there ?? great x

After 26 years together we enjoy our intimate time together and are happy and secure enough to allow each other to enjoy ourselves when swinging and we enjoy kissing if I'm sucking a guys cock I want to kiss him to if he is fucking me I want to kiss him too, should I tell S he can't kiss a girl after I've snogged her face off? Lol x

You should do whatever is right for you. That's what this is all about

W"

Amen to that W

However I was interested in to the reasonings behind the non kissing, only girl on girl attitude and our physical experiences so far with non kissers (again I reiterate that's not aimed at anyone here)

Helen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to say lets all kiss and make up pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When u kiss as good as i do u gotta kiss on a meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was going to say lets all kiss and make up pmsl"

I don't quite know that we can forgive you... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was going to say lets all kiss and make up pmsl

I don't quite know that we can forgive you... Lol

"

Let's not have that conversation on here normally ends with a time out on the forum, you are welcome to PM me

Helen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I agree kissing is a huge part of sex and needs to be done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was going to say lets all kiss and make up pmsl

I don't quite know that we can forgive you... Lol

Let's not have that conversation on here normally ends with a time out on the forum, you are welcome to PM me

Helen"

I was being fecitious.

Have a good day both of you

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Kissing is essential to me, it's what lights the flame of passion inside me and makes me want more, I have had some fabulous kisses in the past that have left us red lipped and with jaw ache but ohhhh so very worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You two too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is essential to me, it's what lights the flame of passion inside me and makes me want more, I have had some fabulous kisses in the past that have left us red lipped and with jaw ache but ohhhh so very worth it "

Kissing like that is essential with my very gorgeous husband

G x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was going to say lets all kiss and make up pmsl

I don't quite know that we can forgive you... Lol

Let's not have that conversation on here normally ends with a time out on the forum, you are welcome to PM me

Helen

I was being fecitious.

Have a good day both of you "
lol

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town


"

I'm pretty certain that couples okay to passionate kiss other couples/make love to another couple - aren't actually truly madly 'in love', they may love and care for each other, but don't get that special spark from each other so need it from kissing others.

Sarah x

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WOW I'm pretty certain you are completely wrong!

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

Love it .its a big turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm pretty certain that couples okay to passionate kiss other couples/make love to another couple - aren't actually truly madly 'in love', they may love and care for each other, but don't get that special spark from each other so need it from kissing others.

Sarah x

WOW I'm pretty certain you are completely wrong! "
My opinion

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm pretty certain that couples okay to passionate kiss other couples/make love to another couple - aren't actually truly madly 'in love', they may love and care for each other, but don't get that special spark from each other so need it from kissing others.

Sarah x

WOW I'm pretty certain you are completely wrong! "

Yes completely wrong we love each other very much and are secure with each other and still get that spark, just my opinion but those that don't kiss perhaps they are not madly in love anymore and are worried that intimately kissing other people could lead to them running off with them? Just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm pretty certain that couples okay to passionate kiss other couples/make love to another couple - aren't actually truly madly 'in love', they may love and care for each other, but don't get that special spark from each other so need it from kissing others.

Sarah x

WOW I'm pretty certain you are completely wrong!

Yes completely wrong we love each other very much and are secure with each other and still get that spark, just my opinion but those that don't kiss perhaps they are not madly in love anymore and are worried that intimately kissing other people could lead to them running off with them? Just a thought!"
We're all entitled to thoughts and opinions. I stick with my opinion and consider it totally right.

Sarah x

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"I disagree with every single one of you. Kissing isn't a must.

In fact, it's one of the hard limits and no go's for us.

If I'm letting you play with my wife, you have her body. That's fine.

If your kissing her, you have her emotionally and physiologically... It simply isn't going to happen. We hold that back for ourselves.

If that means that we never get a meet outside of a club. So be it. I'm happy with that.

My wife's lips and my lips are there for us to enjoy the intimacy of knowing that nobody else gets to.

Absolutely right. I'm pretty certain that couples okay to passionate kiss other couples/make love to another couple - aren't actually truly madly 'in love', they may love and care for each other, but don't get that special spark from each other so need it from kissing others. Couples meeting couples can use their own partners to get in the mood before having sex with the other couple surely? So much more fun that way

Sarah x

"

We don't kiss others, we just don't want to, we need to reason other than that, I do get slightly miffed that people assume it's down to jealousy or insecurity as its not at all, so with that being said I certainly wouldn't want to assume that people who do kiss others do so because they aren't as in love as us, I think it's an outrageous claim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree with every single one of you. Kissing isn't a must.

In fact, it's one of the hard limits and no go's for us.

If I'm letting you play with my wife, you have her body. That's fine.

If your kissing her, you have her emotionally and physiologically... It simply isn't going to happen. We hold that back for ourselves.

If that means that we never get a meet outside of a club. So be it. I'm happy with that.

My wife's lips and my lips are there for us to enjoy the intimacy of knowing that nobody else gets to.

Absolutely right. I'm pretty certain that couples okay to passionate kiss other couples/make love to another couple - aren't actually truly madly 'in love', they may love and care for each other, but don't get that special spark from each other so need it from kissing others. Couples meeting couples can use their own partners to get in the mood before having sex with the other couple surely? So much more fun that way

Sarah x

We don't kiss others, we just don't want to, we need to reason other than that, I do get slightly miffed that people assume it's down to jealousy or insecurity as its not at all, so with that being said I certainly wouldn't want to assume that people who do kiss others do so because they aren't as in love as us, I think it's an outrageous claim. "

An outrageous claim maybe... But a opinion and we're all entitled to those.

Thus thread no longer has anything to do with the OP. Apologies for that OP.

You kiss or you don't. It's personal preference and the reasons behind it are fuck all to do with anyone else

Are we moving on? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree with every single one of you. Kissing isn't a must.

In fact, it's one of the hard limits and no go's for us.

If I'm letting you play with my wife, you have her body. That's fine.

If your kissing her, you have her emotionally and physiologically... It simply isn't going to happen. We hold that back for ourselves.

If that means that we never get a meet outside of a club. So be it. I'm happy with that.

My wife's lips and my lips are there for us to enjoy the intimacy of knowing that nobody else gets to.

Absolutely right. I'm pretty certain that couples okay to passionate kiss other couples/make love to another couple - aren't actually truly madly 'in love', they may love and care for each other, but don't get that special spark from each other so need it from kissing others. Couples meeting couples can use their own partners to get in the mood before having sex with the other couple surely? So much more fun that way

Sarah x

We don't kiss others, we just don't want to, we need to reason other than that, I do get slightly miffed that people assume it's down to jealousy or insecurity as its not at all, so with that being said I certainly wouldn't want to assume that people who do kiss others do so because they aren't as in love as us, I think it's an outrageous claim. "
I say it as I've seen it

Sarah x

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town


" Just a thought!We're all entitled to thoughts and opinions. I stick with my opinion and consider it totally right.

Sarah x

"

Opinion v fact

In your opinion we may not be attractive, happy with that each to their own.

Us not being madly in love is not an opinion because it's a fact that we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Just a thought!We're all entitled to thoughts and opinions. I stick with my opinion and consider it totally right.

Sarah x

Opinion v fact

In your opinion we may not be attractive, happy with that each to their own.

Us not being madly in love is not an opinion because it's a fact that we are. "
You're taking this very personally. We've met many people through swinging. My opinions are based on experiences We've had. I don't know anyone on this thread personally, so my opinions should be looked at objectively

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems everyone has there own opinion, people will do what they want with whoever that's swinging doesn't make you a better person if you chose not to kiss or vice versa, just doesn't do it for us if there is no kissing and we have no interest at all in playing with people who don't, so putting egos aside I have no worries S kissing others and vice versa that's how we feel

Still not got round in my head that some feel it's okay for fem fem kissing but not fem male!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Just a thought!We're all entitled to thoughts and opinions. I stick with my opinion and consider it totally right.

Sarah x

Opinion v fact

In your opinion we may not be attractive, happy with that each to their own.

Us not being madly in love is not an opinion because it's a fact that we are. You're taking this very personally. We've met many people through swinging. My opinions are based on experiences We've had. I don't know anyone on this thread personally, so my opinions should be looked at objectively

Sarah x"

As a buffer to this comment Sarah we've met couples (not in this post I hasten to add) where kissing was not allowed, one couple have broken up and the other two have been nothing but trouble, another reason apart from the fact we love kissing for not meeting non kissers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Just a thought!We're all entitled to thoughts and opinions. I stick with my opinion and consider it totally right.

Sarah x

Opinion v fact

In your opinion we may not be attractive, happy with that each to their own.

Us not being madly in love is not an opinion because it's a fact that we are. You're taking this very personally. We've met many people through swinging. My opinions are based on experiences We've had. I don't know anyone on this thread personally, so my opinions should be looked at objectively

Sarah x

As a buffer to this comment Sarah we've met couples (not in this post I hasten to add) where kissing was not allowed, one couple have broken up and the other two have been nothing but trouble, another reason apart from the fact we love kissing for not meeting non kissers "
From personal experience, women intent on kissing another woman's bf/husband, (as part of a couple to couple meet) have their own agenda. I've yet to be proven wrong. Why be so crestfallen that they can't kiss another man if they're so happy with their own? We are not swinging to provide the intimacy certain swingers appear to be missing out on at home

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us kissing is part of the fun but each to their own have no problems with that . One thought though is why do people with no kissing on their profile contact those of us that state we want kissing as part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us kissing is part of the fun but each to their own have no problems with that . One thought though is why do people with no kissing on their profile contact those of us that state we want kissing as part of the fun "

Yep we get that! Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't imagine having a meet without kissing.

For me it is fundamentally the most important bit of sex....any sex.

I do like to meet socially first though and test said kissing skills because potentially it could ruin the experience x"

Agree entirely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing just seems the most natural thing to do when having sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree! Kissing IS important when having sex.. Hence why we keep penetrative sex and kissing between the two of us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing just seems the most natural thing to do when having sex. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different people will have different opinions, what works for one may not work for someone else.

There's no right and no wrong, it's down to personal preference.

If you don't want to kiss, don't, but let those that you plan to meet know.

If you like kissing! Then kiss!

Simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree! Kissing IS important when having sex.. Hence why we keep penetrative sex and kissing between the two of us!"

Us skinny old ladies as you would call us love fucking and kissing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree! Kissing IS important when having sex.. Hence why we keep penetrative sex and kissing between the two of us!

Us skinny old ladies as you would call us love fucking and kissing! "

I wouldn't go that far

And I'm sure you do!

I love fucking and kissing my husband!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree! Kissing IS important when having sex.. Hence why we keep penetrative sex and kissing between the two of us!

Us skinny old ladies as you would call us love fucking and kissing! "
mmmm id love a good ould snog wiv ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree! Kissing IS important when having sex.. Hence why we keep penetrative sex and kissing between the two of us!

Us skinny old ladies as you would call us love fucking and kissing! mmmm id love a good ould snog wiv ya "

Which one? You quoted two people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree! Kissing IS important when having sex.. Hence why we keep penetrative sex and kissing between the two of us!

Us skinny old ladies as you would call us love fucking and kissing! mmmm id love a good ould snog wiv ya

Which one? You quoted two people... "
fek lol both of ye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree! Kissing IS important when having sex.. Hence why we keep penetrative sex and kissing between the two of us!

Us skinny old ladies as you would call us love fucking and kissing!

I wouldn't go that far

And I'm sure you do!

I love fucking and kissing my husband! "

Again ego seems to have got in the way of decent debate I love fucking and kissing my husband and also enjoy others thats swinging

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"Different people will have different opinions, what works for one may not work for someone else.

There's no right and no wrong, it's down to personal preference.

If you don't want to kiss, don't, but let those that you plan to meet know.

If you like kissing! Then kiss!

Simple really

"

Ahh Sex on the Beach you are like the forums answer to Jeremy Kyle, the voice of reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Different people will have different opinions, what works for one may not work for someone else.

There's no right and no wrong, it's down to personal preference.

If you don't want to kiss, don't, but let those that you plan to meet know.

If you like kissing! Then kiss!

Simple really

Ahh Sex on the Beach you are like the forums answer to Jeremy Kyle, the voice of reason "

I do try!

I really don't understand those that get upset over others person choices

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I wouldn't meet if I couldn't kiss... its part of foreplay and sex.

Sex and playing without kissing would just feel fake and artificial to me.

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"Different people will have different opinions, what works for one may not work for someone else.

There's no right and no wrong, it's down to personal preference.

If you don't want to kiss, don't, but let those that you plan to meet know.

If you like kissing! Then kiss!

Simple really

Ahh Sex on the Beach you are like the forums answer to Jeremy Kyle, the voice of reason

I do try!

I really don't understand those that get upset over others person choices "

No nor me

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Kissing is a very important part of love making, sensual sex, passionate sex, it is not so important in nsa, threesomes, gangbangs, swinging, thats why there are so many different views, it depends on the mindset and what the person is looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a guy I've met a few times and really enjoy his company amongst other things he has recently decided if won't kiss anymore . I really don't know what to do

Is this a new rule he has imposed?

Yes . We've been meeting months and never an issue now he has changed"

Got to wonder the reason for the change. Maybe he's concerned he's getting attached and needs to put a wall up?

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"It's a guy I've met a few times and really enjoy his company amongst other things he has recently decided if won't kiss anymore . I really don't know what to do "

Why has he decided this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally love to kiss

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

What I can never understand is the assumptions of swingers about other swingers just because they don't like the same things.

We are all different, all like different things, have our own boundaries for whatever reasons.

Why feel the need to bring people down for their own choices?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good snog, if a guy won't kiss on a meet then he ain't for me..

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"What I can never understand is the assumptions of swingers about other swingers just because they don't like the same things.

We are all different, all like different things, have our own boundaries for whatever reasons.

Why feel the need to bring people down for their own choices? "

exactly this, people make there own choices and judgements, dont see why people feel the need to tell others to grow up, or impose there way of thinking as the only way or the right way, what is right for some wont be for others, what is a must for some wont be for others, what is essential for some wont be for others, we should all be able to easily accept this.

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By *UN TIME COUPLECouple
over a year ago

redditch

kissing all the way people its all part of the fun love it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own but for me I love kissing. Gets me all worked up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to there own but for me I love kissing. Gets me all worked up. "
mmmmmmm id love kissing that arse

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By *aughty grease monkeyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Kissing makes things more personal and lots better than just feeling like being used xx

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