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does your partner censor who you can have sex with?

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By *y2fun OP   Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY

just been talking with Ang and this one has come up and just wanted to know what how others play this one...

do you ever object to who your partner chooses to have sex with? either clubs, parties etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all unless they completely ignore the fact I have a partner in which case they don't get to play with me but thats just about respect not any other reason

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By *now white1000Woman
over a year ago

York

no, but then i'm single and loving it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I meet alone and he's just concerned I'm meeting decent guys, he trusts my judgement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we meet a couple at a club, we make our own decision on if we want to fuck another couple. We both have to be in agreement. I choose if I like the fem, and Minx chooses if she likes the guy.

That said, I dont like her fucking ugly or hairy blokes as it puts me off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I meet alone and so does my other half. We let each other know beforehand but that's just something we do. If we're meeting as a couple it's entirely different since we'll both be involved and both have to agree then.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

in as far as if one of us doesn't want to go ahead neither of us do, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he doesn't care who I meet, as long as i have enjoyed it.

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By *y2fun OP   Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY


" I dont like her fucking ugly or hairy blokes as it puts me off! "

taxi for one

but if she was going to shag them they wouldn't be ugly to her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

just been talking with Ang and this one has come up and just wanted to know what how others play this one...

do you ever object to who your partner chooses to have sex with? either clubs, parties etc..

"

No we play with the same person together so both need to like the woman,we dont play alone so haven't come across this problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

just been talking with Ang and this one has come up and just wanted to know what how others play this one...

do you ever object to who your partner chooses to have sex with? either clubs, parties etc..

No we play with the same person together so both need to like the woman,we dont play alone so haven't come across this problem "

this ^^ is pretty much us aswell, we usually play togeather with the same lady so we both have to be attracted to the same person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I dont like her fucking ugly or hairy blokes as it puts me off!

taxi for one

but if she was going to shag them they wouldn't be ugly to her? "

I know. Complicated eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No partner so no ones telling me who I can sleep with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

just been talking with Ang and this one has come up and just wanted to know what how others play this one...

do you ever object to who your partner chooses to have sex with? either clubs, parties etc..

No we play with the same person together so both need to like the woman,we dont play alone so haven't come across this problem

this ^^ is pretty much us aswell, we usually play togeather with the same lady so we both have to be attracted to the same person "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if you play together then it's a mutual choice / decision. I wouldn't want my partner doing it just because I wanted to, that's a very selfish (and destructive) way to play (as a couple)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Surely if you play together then it's a mutual choice / decision. I wouldn't want my partner doing it just because I wanted to, that's a very selfish (and destructive) way to play (as a couple)"

yep! See my response above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont play only Emily does so I tend to leave it up to her, but if I see somebody I really dont like for whatever reason I tell her and she turns them down, so I guess the answer to the OP's question is yes!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

No, but he knows my taste very very well, and I his.

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford

well neither one of us would take one for the Team so too speak

it`s has to be that we are both in agreement whether that us both playing with a couple or J inviting another man to join us

its worked so far for us so no complaints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (mrs) meet alone and for it to work for us, mr needs to be excited about the thought of me with the other guy. So if he doesn't like someone for whatever reason, then it won't work. I want him to be turned on by the thought of me being with the other guy, not repulsed by it. equally though, I won't meet someone that he thinks suitable just to please him.....we are in this together so we both have to get something out of it.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (mrs) meet alone and for it to work for us, mr needs to be excited about the thought of me with the other guy. So if he doesn't like someone for whatever reason, then it won't work. I want him to be turned on by the thought of me being with the other guy, not repulsed by it. equally though, I won't meet someone that he thinks suitable just to please him.....we are in this together so we both have to get something out of it."

nice bum lol

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"No partner so no ones telling me who I can sleep with "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it's SSC, my partner is happy to let me play. She has no interest in being involved.

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By *y2fun OP   Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY


"No partner so no ones telling me who I can sleep with "

I do wonder as I'm sure this will come up again esp for me and ang....

she's ain't shagging no one who is a) good looking b) a bull c) cocks over 3" d) no scousers...........

on a serious note this must cause issues?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No partner so no ones telling me who I can sleep with

I do wonder as I'm sure this will come up again esp for me and ang....

she's ain't shagging no one who is a) good looking b) a bull c) cocks over 3" d) no scousers...........

on a serious note this must cause issues?"

that leaves us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No partner so no ones telling me who I can sleep with

I do wonder as I'm sure this will come up again esp for me and ang....

she's ain't shagging no one who is a) good looking b) a bull c) cocks over 3" d) no scousers...........

on a serious note this must cause issues?"

Hubby prefers me to meet good looking fit body intelligent and yes bigger cocks.....and so do I, so no issues there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't play with someone without the other ones okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as he goes hard then its a go go from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer playing with other couples in the same room, we find it sexier seeing each other getting pleasure x

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