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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmmm.....what to do when you know the profile of someone on Fabs as you know them locally!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I block and leave them be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing ? You're on here too. Surprise surprise other members are normal everyday folk too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block and leave them be."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing ? You're on here too. Surprise surprise other members are normal everyday folk too ! "

So...a little wink to see if they notice?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Block and ignore......they may appreciate your discretion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have to say, I was think the opposite to most but....I do welcome the comments and actually think the block may be best!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and move on is what I do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No one think a wink would be worth a try?

I should mention that we have all chatted whilst out in a local. Quote flirty at the time thinking about it now.

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By *orneyashell87Couple
over a year ago

stockotn on tees

I just leave them be and if they contact me we'll laugh about it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Block and move on is what I do"

Would be tough it it was your legs I saw!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block and leave them be."

best advice i would have to offer on the matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just leave them be and if they contact me we'll laugh about it xx "

See, I would like that. Hoping that notice it's me and let them make the choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block and move on is what I do

Would be tough it it was your legs I saw!

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Ha ha I know this might come as a shock, but I don't actually leave the house in just my heels and stockings every day so it might be a bit more difficult to identify me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to say, I was think the opposite to most but....I do welcome the comments and actually think the block may be best!

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hope you not seriously suggesting you were going to contact them. their private life nowt to do with anyone else.

if folk delved into your oersonal stufc what would you think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block and ignore......they may appreciate your discretion "

This is what I wld do

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Block, move on and make mental note to get them a better Christmas card.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block, move on and make mental note to get them a better Christmas card. "

Ha ha and address it to The Fab couple up the road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one think a wink would be worth a try?

I should mention that we have all chatted whilst out in a local. Quote flirty at the time thinking about it now. "

Go for it if you think they'd appreciate it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd leave them be.....conversely, if someone knew me...i'd be happy for them to say hi if it was the other way round....the line between my fab and everyday friends is getting pretty blurred these days anyhow.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"No one think a wink would be worth a try?

I should mention that we have all chatted whilst out in a local. Quote flirty at the time thinking about it now. "

In that case Id definitely go for the block option personally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Block and move on is what I do

Would be tough it it was your legs I saw!

Ha ha I know this might come as a shock, but I don't actually leave the house in just my heels and stockings every day so it might be a bit more difficult to identify me "

Well....you should. Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Block, move on and make mental note to get them a better Christmas card. "

Very good idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm.....what to do when you know the profile of someone on Fabs as you know them locally!

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Leave them alone and block them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No one think a wink would be worth a try?

I should mention that we have all chatted whilst out in a local. Quote flirty at the time thinking about it now.

Go for it if you think they'd appreciate it x"

They are 'friendly'. They've been here a lot longer than me so maybe I didn't see the signs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are 2 guys from my gym on here, I've blocked them, I wouldn't dream of messaging them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are 2 guys from my gym on here, I've blocked them, I wouldn't dream of messaging them."

But if the shoe were on the other foot and they winked you? What would you do then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are 2 guys from my gym on here, I've blocked them, I wouldn't dream of messaging them.

But if the shoe were on the other foot and they winked you? What would you do then? "

They couldn't because of my settings but I'd just block and ignore if they could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm.....what to do when you know the profile of someone on Fabs as you know them locally!

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your on hear so they might have recognise your take no notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how I knew them. Friends/family I'd block in a heartbeat!

People I recognised, I wouldnt make first contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing ? You're on here too. Surprise surprise other members are normal everyday folk too ! "

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Depends how I knew them. Friends/family I'd block in a heartbeat!

People I recognised, I wouldnt make first contact"

Bit similar to that...if I knew them to be single and fancied them, then I'd possibly contact...I've been contacted by a relative and when I realised who it was (and they worked out it was me) I said I wasn't interested in meeting and left it at that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are 2 guys from my gym on here, I've blocked them, I wouldn't dream of messaging them.

But if the shoe were on the other foot and they winked you? What would you do then?

They couldn't because of my settings but I'd just block and ignore if they could."

Theoretically speaking though....???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends how I knew them. Friends/family I'd block in a heartbeat!

People I recognised, I wouldnt make first contact"

Neither friends or family.

Just seen and spoken VERY briefly in the local on a Friday evening but quite flirty when I think of it now. Never thought to much of it at the time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends how I knew them. Friends/family I'd block in a heartbeat!

People I recognised, I wouldnt make first contact

Bit similar to that...if I knew them to be single and fancied them, then I'd possibly contact...I've been contacted by a relative and when I realised who it was (and they worked out it was me) I said I wasn't interested in meeting and left it at that "

WOW!!!

Now that is a an awkward one. Lol

Have you bumped into the relative yet?

How'd that go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We messaged someone on here thinking it was a 'stranger' turned out We knew her very well in the 'vanilla' world! & she instantly recognised us as I attached face pics of us both! Was quite awkward at first, but it's good now as we have someone that we can talk to about fab & swinging, who is out with fab as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are 2 guys from my gym on here, I've blocked them, I wouldn't dream of messaging them.

But if the shoe were on the other foot and they winked you? What would you do then?

They couldn't because of my settings but I'd just block and ignore if they could.

Theoretically speaking though....???"

As I said above, I'd block and ignore if they could.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We messaged someone on here thinking it was a 'stranger' turned out We knew her very well in the 'vanilla' world! & she instantly recognised us as I attached face pics of us both! Was quite awkward at first, but it's good now as we have someone that we can talk to about fab & swinging, who is out with fab as well. "

BONUS!!!

Now that's what I would hope for!

Slowly swinging back to sending a wink! Haha

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Hmmm.....what to do when you know the profile of someone on Fabs as you know them locally!

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Leave them the hell alone.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Depends how I knew them. Friends/family I'd block in a heartbeat!

People I recognised, I wouldnt make first contact

Bit similar to that...if I knew them to be single and fancied them, then I'd possibly contact...I've been contacted by a relative and when I realised who it was (and they worked out it was me) I said I wasn't interested in meeting and left it at that

WOW!!!

Now that is a an awkward one. Lol

Have you bumped into the relative yet?

How'd that go? "

Yep, occasionally bump into her around town or in Tesco...general chit chat and leave it at that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends how I knew them. Friends/family I'd block in a heartbeat!

People I recognised, I wouldnt make first contact

Bit similar to that...if I knew them to be single and fancied them, then I'd possibly contact...I've been contacted by a relative and when I realised who it was (and they worked out it was me) I said I wasn't interested in meeting and left it at that

WOW!!!

Now that is a an awkward one. Lol

Have you bumped into the relative yet?

How'd that go?

Yep, occasionally bump into her around town or in Tesco...general chit chat and leave it at that"

Sounds quite exciting!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Depends how I knew them. Friends/family I'd block in a heartbeat!

People I recognised, I wouldnt make first contact

Bit similar to that...if I knew them to be single and fancied them, then I'd possibly contact...I've been contacted by a relative and when I realised who it was (and they worked out it was me) I said I wasn't interested in meeting and left it at that

WOW!!!

Now that is a an awkward one. Lol

Have you bumped into the relative yet?

How'd that go?

Yep, occasionally bump into her around town or in Tesco...general chit chat and leave it at that

Sounds quite exciting! "

Not really, she's not a close relative (Dad's cousin), I rely on her discretion as well as my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block and leave them be."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends how I knew them. Friends/family I'd block in a heartbeat!

People I recognised, I wouldnt make first contact

Bit similar to that...if I knew them to be single and fancied them, then I'd possibly contact...I've been contacted by a relative and when I realised who it was (and they worked out it was me) I said I wasn't interested in meeting and left it at that

WOW!!!

Now that is a an awkward one. Lol

Have you bumped into the relative yet?

How'd that go?

Yep, occasionally bump into her around town or in Tesco...general chit chat and leave it at that

Sounds quite exciting!

Not really, she's not a close relative (Dad's cousin), I rely on her discretion as well as my own "

I'm more of the daring type. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We messaged someone on here thinking it was a 'stranger' turned out We knew her very well in the 'vanilla' world! & she instantly recognised us as I attached face pics of us both! Was quite awkward at first, but it's good now as we have someone that we can talk to about fab & swinging, who is out with fab as well.

BONUS!!!

Now that's what I would hope for!

Slowly swinging back to sending a wink! Haha"

Once we realised who she a

Was, (after her winding us up for days saying she knew us & called me by my name which isn't on our profile) we both instantly agreed that we'd never ask or imply that we'd play. As that would just be too awkward! But yeah it is nice to have a giggle & chat about fab with someone you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a couple who live literally 5 mins walk from me as the fem was the year below me at school. We go to the same places (ie clubs) so just talked and had fun.

I also know a couple who live locally on here and the male used to play skittles with my ex husband. That was a little more awkward when our paths crossed at a club.

I haven't blocked any of the above though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely as we're all in the wonderful world of fab does it greatly matter? If you block and go to clubs, social gatherings or house parties what do you do then if you bump into said people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know a couple who live literally 5 mins walk from me as the fem was the year below me at school. We go to the same places (ie clubs) so just talked and had fun.

I also know a couple who live locally on here and the male used to play skittles with my ex husband. That was a little more awkward when our paths crossed at a club.

I haven't blocked any of the above though "

I like this idea more and more now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely as we're all in the wonderful world of fab does it greatly matter? If you block and go to clubs, social gatherings or house parties what do you do then if you bump into said people? "

Like this idea even more! haha

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