FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

single guys and cpl's.......

Jump to newest
 

By *y2fun OP   Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY

is it worth looking for single guys on here ? most we have chatted to are either far too self obsessed and can only talk about how great they are (and puke) or otherwise they go str8 for the kill in which it leaves Ang feeling cold.

a better chat up line that "Can I f%$k you" is required ay?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plenty of us

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

weve met loads of fantastic guys ..good luck if you decide to take that route

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"plenty of us "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

is it worth looking for single guys on here ?

"

Yes

Just don't expect instant results

Also don't expect to get it right every time

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Plenty of good ones

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

We've met several single guys but we're very selective about who we meet and it takes lots of leg work and perseverance. It's been worth it though. Only one that we wouldn't meet again given the opportunity

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

is it worth looking for single guys on here ? most we have chatted to are either far too self obsessed and can only talk about how great they are (and puke) or otherwise they go str8 for the kill in which it leaves Ang feeling cold.

a better chat up line that "Can I f%$k you" is required ay?"

if you are after a specific type of single bloke... then go out there and be the hunter... as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you.....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *MaleMan
over a year ago

The kind've guys you seek will come along. The #obheads, respectless, despo's and port in a stormers spoil it for both sides of the fence.

Keep your patience and you will find unless patience runs out before then.

Most of the cpls I've known over time have left the online side behind. They've gone back to clubs, private house parties with contacts and a small circle of 'can call upon' friends

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there's plenty of us here...and some of us are even articulate and moderately intelligent too....

self obsessed...nah and definitely wouldn't go straight in for the kill...a little chat and see if there's an attraction first

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *y2fun OP   Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY


" as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you....."

thanks for that, think you just proved my point on single guys...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you.....

thanks for that, think you just proved my point on single guys... "

ouch

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you.....

thanks for that, think you just proved my point on single guys... "

What point is that ?

His advice was constructive, if bluntly put

Rather than being offended, pin your ears back

He really is being objective

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

is it worth looking for single guys on here ? most we have chatted to are either far too self obsessed and can only talk about how great they are (and puke) or otherwise they go str8 for the kill in which it leaves Ang feeling cold.

a better chat up line that "Can I f%$k you" is required ay?"
depends if you think all single guys are like that. Or just the minority ! If it all then no it's not worth it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 08/11/14 14:50:24]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you.....

thanks for that, think you just proved my point on single guys... "

1 reply that wasnt exactly a bad response and now all of US single guys get it....aye...ok lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you.....

thanks for that, think you just proved my point on single guys... "

Why? I'd say exactly the same thing. Go looking. It works best.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you.....

thanks for that, think you just proved my point on single guys...

Why? I'd say exactly the same thing. "

I wish _abio hadnt said it...he's ruining my chances of a meet.i hate him...sakes!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it worth anyone looking for anyone?

Set your filters, watch the forums, read the profiles etc. Yes, takes a lot of leg work, but it often only takes a few messages to work out if someone is for you or not.

Not everyone is a timewaster, use the tools at your disposal wisely and you will reap the rewards.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you.....

thanks for that, think you just proved my point on single guys...

Why? I'd say exactly the same thing.

I wish _abio hadnt said it...he's ruining my chances of a meet.i hate him...sakes!"

ALL single men are the same. I turned lesbian because I learned this on the forums.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Several respectful nice replies above but op picks out one to conveniently take offence from that apparently proves a point about single guys lmfao.

Op, help yourself to help yourself.

I'll say no more

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you.....

thanks for that, think you just proved my point on single guys...

Why? I'd say exactly the same thing.

I wish _abio hadnt said it...he's ruining my chances of a meet.i hate him...sakes!

ALL single men are the same. I turned lesbian because I learned this on the forums. "

thankfully I can tuck my cock in and make it look like ive a class fanny xxxx...dont get me excited tho...it pops out!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *y2fun OP   Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY


"Not everyone is a timewaster."

we know this from the poeple we have spoken with. just some guys are full frontal and not what Ang or myself want...... as for sitting on our arse's its our choice how proactive we want to be, nowt wrong with seeing who contacts your first is there?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *y2fun OP   Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY


"ALL single men are the same. I turned lesbian because I learned this on the forums. "

i think Ang is on the turn... you wnat her number :O)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some great guys on this site

I love em!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you.....

thanks for that, think you just proved my point on single guys... "

Should single guys bother contacting anyone if what they say is misconstrued to fit a pre-defined expectation?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


" as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you.....

thanks for that, think you just proved my point on single guys... "

what point is that......

you were the one that said you hated the shitty chat up lines.... so go out there and be the one doing chatting up!!!

half the problem is couples doing the complaining and waiting on the messages to be bestowed upon them.... maybe the "newsflash" is that you have to impress the good and popular single guys as much as they have to impress you!!

the good and popular guys aren't the ones doing the complaning... they are out there having a blast networking, meeting at clubs and socials, and a million other bases......

so yes... if being the hunters and going out and doing the legwork offends you.... then i dont honestly think any amount of advice is going to help you.....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you.....

thanks for that, think you just proved my point on single guys...

What point is that ?

His advice was constructive, if bluntly put

Rather than being offended, pin your ears back

He really is being objective "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

We have asked for single men before, on a previous site. Personally I like the 'Want my big cock hard inside you?' mails, they serve to very quickly thin out the chaff. Often we have only ended up with one, but every time they have proved exactly what we were looking for.

Mr ddc

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Not everyone is a timewaster.

we know this from the poeple we have spoken with. just some guys are full frontal and not what Ang or myself want...... as for sitting on our arse's its our choice how proactive we want to be, nowt wrong with seeing who contacts your first is there?"

Sorry OP I disagree.

I had a solo male profile before meeting Fox. At the start I used to send a fair few messages. Eventually, apart from friends and forum chat buddies I'd probably send out one or two messages a month.

When I deleted it when it became redundant the veri's were in treble figures. Why?

Because after putting in a lot of proactive effort initially I was then able to be more reactive and - as Fabio puts it - sit on my arse!

Input = output. Couples looking for men that sit back will have to try harder than couples that go looking.

It was good feedback and advice that you chose to take offence to.

I'd have offered the same.

A

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said this before, we came on here to meet single women and couples but since then we have met some genuinely decent guys on here (mainly through the forums) many of whom are now on our friends list and we have regular contact with them. It really is unfair to generalise because there are plenty of good people on here whatever their gender, marital status etc and they all should be treated with respect unless they are disrespectful, if you get crass, crude messages from someone then pay them no attention or delete them. If you make the effort initiate chats then maybe you will get better results (and try to keep in mind that respect goes both ways)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have asked for single men before, on a previous site. Personally I like the 'Want my big cock hard inside you?' mails, they serve to very quickly thin out the chaff. Often we have only ended up with one, but every time they have proved exactly what we were looking for.

Mr ddc"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Not everyone is a timewaster.

we know this from the poeple we have spoken with. just some guys are full frontal and not what Ang or myself want...... ?"

You could use your filters and you do the mailing....or accept that some mails you wont like.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id have said the same as Fabio

Why moan about what you're offered when you can go and look for what you want yourself

Everyone is so quick to whinge about the state of the messages they get and the rudeness of some single men when in reality they're easy to ignore

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Though in the search feature, an option to "exclude profiles with only cock-shots" would help

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Though in the search feature, an option to "exclude profiles with only cock-shots" would help

"

If we come across profiles such as that when browsing we block.

It never seems to happen twice!

A

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"as for sitting on our arse's its our choice how proactive we want to be, nowt wrong with seeing who contacts your first is there?"

... okay here is another one from the "_abio book of bluntness".....

"those who don't learn from history are doomed to repeat it".....

you were the ones who were complaining... you may not have a lot of control of what coming in, but you do have a hell of a lot more control of what you send out.... but hey, be reactive.... don't listen to a word me or anyone else says.... and let the cycle repeat... and repeat...and repeat

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

too self obsessed

maybe, just maybe they have standards and don't compromise them for a shag

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met a few singles and they've mostly been really nice people

If you put in the work there are genuine people about

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *URACELLBUNNY67Man
over a year ago

padgate, warrington

What about married guys playing with couple's

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *y2fun OP   Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY


"What about married guys playing with couple's

"

nah Ang wouldn't wanna play with anyone who was married esp if their partner dosn't know....

also we must be doing something right, 16 messages from single guys in just over an hour, Ang can now be really fussy.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"What about married guys playing with couple's

nah Ang wouldn't wanna play with anyone who was married esp if their partner dosn't know....

also we must be doing something right, 16 messages from single guys in just over an hour, Ang can now be really fussy.

"

happy days.... enjoy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *URACELLBUNNY67Man
over a year ago

padgate, warrington

Shame it might of been fun

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about married guys playing with couple's

"

Nooooo: check the schedule! the next married person thread isn't due to be restarted until 6:30 tonight.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you aren't getting what you want, change up your routine.

Expecting others to change is the wrong kind of attitude.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"What about married guys playing with couple's

Nooooo: check the schedule! the next married person thread isn't due to be restarted until 6:30 tonight. "

Is that the same one where we get to watch 'cheaters' being strung up and throw rotten fruit at them?

Or is that a different one? Sorry, we're new

Mr ddc

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

is it worth looking for single guys on here ? most we have chatted to are either far too self obsessed and can only talk about how great they are (and puke) or otherwise they go str8 for the kill in which it leaves Ang feeling cold.

a better chat up line that "Can I f%$k you" is required ay?"

while I will admit there are some knob heads on here i have met loads of really nice single guys

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is some diamonds amongst the rough

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is some diamonds amongst the rough "

That reminds me, I have not watched Aladdin for AGES

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about married guys playing with couple's

Nooooo: check the schedule! the next married person thread isn't due to be restarted until 6:30 tonight.

Is that the same one where we get to watch 'cheaters' being strung up and throw rotten fruit at them?

Or is that a different one? Sorry, we're new

Mr ddc"

The titles alternate, but the content and contributors are the same.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

is it worth looking for single guys on here ? most we have chatted to are either far too self obsessed and can only talk about how great they are (and puke) or otherwise they go str8 for the kill in which it leaves Ang feeling cold.

a better chat up line that "Can I f%$k you" is required ay?"

Yes a majority, we have met some real nice guys on this account and previous that Shaz has enjoyed there company.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not everyone is a timewaster.

we know this from the poeple we have spoken with. just some guys are full frontal and not what Ang or myself want...... as for sitting on our arse's its our choice how proactive we want to be, nowt wrong with seeing who contacts your first is there?"

Your OP said 'is it worth looking...'. People said yes...... If you already know you don't want to go looking, why ask?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about married guys playing with couple's

nah Ang wouldn't wanna play with anyone who was married esp if their partner dosn't know....

also we must be doing something right, 16 messages from single guys in just over an hour, Ang can now be really fussy.

"

See...?? Have faith...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

I am lovely...I just dont play with couples.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am lovely...I just dont play with couples. "

You do FF couples, your profile says you seek them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

is it worth looking for single guys on here ? most we have chatted to are either far too self obsessed and can only talk about how great they are (and puke) or otherwise they go str8 for the kill in which it leaves Ang feeling cold.

a better chat up line that "Can I f%$k you" is required ay?"

We've been on and off this site over the last five years or so and met a small number (cough) of single guys, and without exception they've all been very successful meets. We can say, though, that in all cases it was us who made the initial contact. We found out early on that sitting back and waiting didn't work for us, and putting a little effort in was the way to go. Maybe the proactive approach would work for you?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE


"I am lovely...I just dont play with couples.

You do FF couples, your profile says you seek them "

I have a couple of times but not for me. Thanks for pointing that out...now fixed.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh this is strange. Just chatting to someone about me possibly socialising with a couple with a friend

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've met a few singles and they've mostly been really nice people

If you put in the work there are genuine people about "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met some fantastic single guys from the site, we found them all to be respectful and great to chat to.

Maybe turn your filters on and do your own searching? But don't give up as there are some gems on here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep agree with that but too many fools as well just be chilled and you will find what you seek

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we just had a meet with a single guy, was new to the scene & site just 4 days ago, he was great fun and company.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York


" as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you.....

thanks for that, think you just proved my point on single guys... "

OP god knows what you mean with this comment, Fabio has it dead on with his remark. Seems to me you are the couple version of the single guys you are whinging about

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


" as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you.....

thanks for that, think you just proved my point on single guys...

what point is that......

you were the one that said you hated the shitty chat up lines.... so go out there and be the one doing chatting up!!!

half the problem is couples doing the complaining and waiting on the messages to be bestowed upon them.... maybe the "newsflash" is that you have to impress the good and popular single guys as much as they have to impress you!!

the good and popular guys aren't the ones doing the complaning... they are out there having a blast networking, meeting at clubs and socials, and a million other bases......

so yes... if being the hunters and going out and doing the legwork offends you.... then i dont honestly think any amount of advice is going to help you....."

Totally agree. Don't complain, ask for advice then get uppity because you get some decent advice.

Only you know what you are looking for so if what you're looking for isn't coming to you then go find it.

If you're not willing to then don't complain and blame others.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"

is it worth looking for single guys on here ? most we have chatted to are either far too self obsessed and can only talk about how great they are (and puke) or otherwise they go str8 for the kill in which it leaves Ang feeling cold.

a better chat up line that "Can I f%$k you" is required ay?"

seek and ye shall find.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Self obsessed"

Hmmmmm.....is that another way of saying that they know their own self worth and are not prepared to jump through hoops for sex?!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

can i just say thank you for all the support i have had for what i said in both this thread and in the emails I have had.....

still trying to work out just what i said to get the reaction I did from the OP's.... some people like it sugarcoated, others just tell it like it is, but just the reaction from almost everyone in the thread is to be provactive rather that sitting on "derriere"

and funny enough I am the only one who got singled out for saying it..... oh well, the plight of the single man hey!!! I took one for the team!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


" I took one for the team!!! "

keep it up

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am self obsessed as I am a regular gym goer, with a 6pack, like van dams lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"can i just say thank you for all the support i have had for what i said in both this thread and in the emails I have had.....

still trying to work out just what i said to get the reaction I did from the OP's.... some people like it sugarcoated, others just tell it like it is, but just the reaction from almost everyone in the thread is to be provactive rather that sitting on "derriere"

and funny enough I am the only one who got singled out for saying it..... oh well, the plight of the single man hey!!! I took one for the team!!! "

I think it was the "sitting on your arses" comment that made your comments different to others who shared the same _iew.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 09/11/14 19:36:30]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

is it worth looking for single guys on here ? most we have chatted to are either far too self obsessed and can only talk about how great they are

"

I'm not being funny, but couples are the fucking WORST on here for that.

SOME...NOT all. SOME.

They want EVERYTHING on their terms.

I'm not "gods gift" but seriously without me, their little fantasy in their fucking heads doesn't even happen.

I've seen messages SOME couples have sent to single fems on here..seriously, some couples shouldn't be throwing this stone.

I'm genuine and DO meet couples, but I've had some truly awful mail off couples.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Self obsessed"

Hmmmmm.....is that another way of saying that they know their own self worth and are not prepared to jump through hoops for sex?!"

EXACTLY THAT!!^^^^^^

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

is it worth looking for single guys on here ? most we have chatted to are either far too self obsessed and can only talk about how great they are

I'm not being funny, but couples are the fucking WORST on here for that.

SOME...NOT all. SOME.

They want EVERYTHING on their terms.

I'm not "gods gift" but seriously without me, their little fantasy in their fucking heads doesn't even happen.

I've seen messages SOME couples have sent to single fems on here..seriously, some couples shouldn't be throwing this stone.

I'm genuine and DO meet couples, but I've had some truly awful mail off couples."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


" as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you.....

thanks for that, think you just proved my point on single guys... "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I am self obsessed as I am a regular gym goer, with a 6pack, like van dams lol "

& very nice it is too

Mrs. X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of decent single men on here, maybe they feel like they have to sell themselves to couples, I've chatted to a few couples and I find it quite daunting sometimes which is why I'm yet to meet one. There are a number of single guys on here who are lovely, decent and respectful

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are lots of decent single men on here, maybe they feel like they have to sell themselves to couples, I've chatted to a few couples and I find it quite daunting sometimes which is why I'm yet to meet one. There are a number of single guys on here who are lovely, decent and respectful "

That certainly rings a bell - having to 'sell' or market yourself. Guess its how things are...? Its not going to change, though. The numbers dictate - the Couples are the majority.

I think I may actually be too honest & decent, for this..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. Plenty of good ones "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I mostly only meet couples so I hope they keep wanting to meet single men!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"There are lots of decent single men on here, maybe they feel like they have to sell themselves to couples, I've chatted to a few couples and I find it quite daunting sometimes which is why I'm yet to meet one. There are a number of single guys on here who are lovely, decent and respectful

That certainly rings a bell - having to 'sell' or market yourself. Guess its how things are...? Its not going to change, though. The numbers dictate - the Couples are the majority.

I think I may actually be too honest & decent, for this.. "

I think it should be about mutual respect rather than single men have to "sell" themselves to us.

That sounds like jumping through hoops from one side which isn't mutual respect

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met 3 single guys, 2 were respectful and carried on talking after the event left veris etc (much as we do after a meet) the 3rd came, left socks on, struggled to get hard, shot and we never heard of him since!! The 3rd sticks in our minds the most and we are reluctant to meet single guys again

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"the 3rd came, left socks on, struggled to get hard, shot and we never heard of him since!! The 3rd sticks in our minds the most and we are reluctant to meet single guys again"

The irony is that I bet he wanks thinking about that meet.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met plenty of single guys here although it's been after lots of chat. The ones we picked to meet are the ones that have engaged Morrigan in General conversation rather than the I've said hello can we fuck now type. The ones we have picked as a whole were slightly older and more mature although we do have some young uns that we would like to meet.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

is it worth looking for single guys on here ? most we have chatted to are either far too self obsessed and can only talk about how great they are (and puke) or otherwise they go str8 for the kill in which it leaves Ang feeling cold.

a better chat up line that "Can I f%$k you" is required ay?"
wow .... well I have meet and friends with some lovely men off here so yes they are out there ... xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are lots of decent single men on here, maybe they feel like they have to sell themselves to couples, I've chatted to a few couples and I find it quite daunting sometimes which is why I'm yet to meet one. There are a number of single guys on here who are lovely, decent and respectful

That certainly rings a bell - having to 'sell' or market yourself. Guess its how things are...? Its not going to change, though. The numbers dictate - the Couples are the majority.

I think I may actually be too honest & decent, for this..

I think it should be about mutual respect rather than single men have to "sell" themselves to us.

That sounds like jumping through hoops from one side which isn't mutual respect "

Totally agree there, we make it clear we like to talk before meeting and some guys understand and respect this and we give them the same respect back and not mess them about.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"

is it worth looking for single guys on here ? most we have chatted to are either far too self obsessed and can only talk about how great they are (and puke) or otherwise they go str8 for the kill in which it leaves Ang feeling cold.

a better chat up line that "Can I f%$k you" is required ay?"

We have met and chatted to plenty of nice single men. The good ones often stand out a mile and are not that hard to find.

Apart from a few exceptions, most of the men we have met/chatted too, we have made the first contact. Find it far easier to use the filters and go searching ourselves.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

is it worth looking for single guys on here ? most we have chatted to are either far too self obsessed and can only talk about how great they are (and puke) or otherwise they go str8 for the kill in which it leaves Ang feeling cold.

a better chat up line that "Can I f%$k you" is required ay?"

You will always get some like that trying to over sell themselves couples are just the same. If you look yourself though there are some really nice single guys out there.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you.....

thanks for that, think you just proved my point on single guys...

What point is that ?

His advice was constructive, if bluntly put

Rather than being offended, pin your ears back

He really is being objective "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've met 3 single guys, 2 were respectful and carried on talking after the event left veris etc (much as we do after a meet) the 3rd came, left socks on, struggled to get hard, shot and we never heard of him since!! The 3rd sticks in our minds the most and we are reluctant to meet single guys again"

Well, to be fair, if he struggled to get hard that must have been awkward for him. But leaving his socks on was unforgivable We have a thing about socks, too. Think it stems from the time we met a guy who turned up wearing socks and sandals, a look which funnily enough never features in our fantasies.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


" as opposed to sitting on your arses and be the hunted!

after all.. know one is going to know what you are after more then you.....

thanks for that, think you just proved my point on single guys...

What point is that ?

His advice was constructive, if bluntly put

Rather than being offended, pin your ears back

He really is being objective "

Didn't you read the memo? It's never the OP's fault EVER.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all of us are that rude ,

hope you find what your looking for x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've met 3 single guys, 2 were respectful and carried on talking after the event left veris etc (much as we do after a meet) the 3rd came, left socks on, struggled to get hard, shot and we never heard of him since!! The 3rd sticks in our minds the most and we are reluctant to meet single guys again

Well, to be fair, if he struggled to get hard that must have been awkward for him. But leaving his socks on was unforgivable We have a thing about socks, too. Think it stems from the time we met a guy who turned up wearing socks and sandals, a look which funnily enough never features in our fantasies. "
Socks lol yes unforgiveable!! Struggling to get hard can be nerves....jeeps a single guy is a person you know not just a cock!!! Give the single guys a break will ya!! Plenty of real nice, genuine guys on here. Maybe even more nice guys than girls as girls have the tendancy of getting real bitchy......just because they can. There's no need for that I think personally

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"plenty of us "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had some great meets and some bad. Some we've started the conversation and others have contacted us so yes it is worth it x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've lost count of the number of single guys we have met . And not one bad experience - from good to great to fantastic

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've lost count of the number of single guys we have met . And not one bad experience - from good to great to fantastic "

Good to such a positive and glowing report ...!!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top