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"Id prefer it if he just stood still for a bit and didnt speak or jump around." So you won't miss him ? | |||
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"At least Louis is genuine" Is he? I think sometimes his craziness is a bit forced but he is funny. | |||
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"Irritates me to the core He's up there with Keith Lemmon " No one is as bad as Keith Lemmon! | |||
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"He promotes the gay stereotype The fact people are amused by it is worrying In my experience the majority of gay men are normal everyday guys not over the top, effeminate, attention seeking drama queens. There are exceptions but popularising this kind of persona doesn't sit easy with me. Then again, 'normal' doesn't sell does it ?" i don't think he cares about people's opinions on gay men. Nor should he. If you have a problem with a camp person. .maybe that's something you should consider . Oh and does anyone who posted up about keith lemmon really think he's real ? I was asking someone about that the other day. There will be kids who have only ever seen him in that character who will think it's his actual personality . . Heh . . Makes me chuckle | |||
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"He promotes the gay stereotype The fact people are amused by it is worrying In my experience the majority of gay men are normal everyday guys not over the top, effeminate, attention seeking drama queens. There are exceptions but popularising this kind of persona doesn't sit easy with me. Then again, 'normal' doesn't sell does it ?" Is he gay then? I had no idea  | |||
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"He promotes the gay stereotype The fact people are amused by it is worrying In my experience the majority of gay men are normal everyday guys not over the top, effeminate, attention seeking drama queens. There are exceptions but popularising this kind of persona doesn't sit easy with me. Then again, 'normal' doesn't sell does it ? i don't think he cares about people's opinions on gay men. Nor should he. If you have a problem with a camp person. .maybe that's something you should consider . Oh and does anyone who posted up about keith lemmon really think he's real ? I was asking someone about that the other day. There will be kids who have only ever seen him in that character who will think it's his actual personality . . Heh . . Makes me chuckle " I just don't get the persona of Keith lemon, would love to meet the guy out of character though and see what he's truly like | |||
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"He promotes the gay stereotype The fact people are amused by it is worrying In my experience the majority of gay men are normal everyday guys not over the top, effeminate, attention seeking drama queens. There are exceptions but popularising this kind of persona doesn't sit easy with me. Then again, 'normal' doesn't sell does it ?" As a gay man he can behave in any way he chooses. That's his personality and he chose the entertainment business as a career probably capitalising on his personality. so what! He represents himself. I am predominantly a straight mother by day and everyday life. Yet I am a bi-sexual swinger when I choose to be. Does that mean I am giving non swinging bi women a bad name. Jesus, I really do think that fab swinging members need to remember that this ain't no place to stand on the moral high ground and judge others. You always get one looking for a PC agenda! | |||
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" not over the top, effeminate, attention seeking drama queens. " thank god I am bi, I get away with it | |||
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"He promotes the gay stereotype The fact people are amused by it is worrying In my experience the majority of gay men are normal everyday guys not over the top, effeminate, attention seeking drama queens. There are exceptions but popularising this kind of persona doesn't sit easy with me. Then again, 'normal' doesn't sell does it ? As a gay man he can behave in any way he chooses. That's his personality and he chose the entertainment business as a career probably capitalising on his personality. so what! He represents himself. I am predominantly a straight mother by day and everyday life. Yet I am a bi-sexual swinger when I choose to be. Does that mean I am giving non swinging bi women a bad name. Jesus, I really do think that fab swinging members need to remember that this ain't no place to stand on the moral high ground and judge others. You always get one looking for a PC agenda! " Why can't we have morals as swingers??? This is the second time today I've read that we should be more tolerant or that we can't have morals etc. Just cos we like doing the hokey lting down doesn't make us less or even super human does it?! As for Louis and his persona, surely the fact that so many like him being over the top and outrageous shows a more tolerant society. Years ago he would not have gotten anywhere acting like that. | |||
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" As for Louis and his persona, surely the fact that so many like him being over the top and outrageous shows a more tolerant society. Years ago he would not have gotten anywhere acting like that. " It worked for Larry Grayson
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" As for Louis and his persona, surely the fact that so many like him being over the top and outrageous shows a more tolerant society. Years ago he would not have gotten anywhere acting like that. It worked for Larry Grayson
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I just think sometimes people fight so hard against stereotypes that they fail to see that things have moved on and people are more accepting and celebrate the stereotypes rather than berate them.
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"Id prefer it if he just stood still for a bit and didnt speak or jump around. So you won't miss him ?" Lol ready aim........ Bugger !!!!! | |||
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"He promotes the gay stereotype The fact people are amused by it is worrying In my experience the majority of gay men are normal everyday guys not over the top, effeminate, attention seeking drama queens. There are exceptions but popularising this kind of persona doesn't sit easy with me. Then again, 'normal' doesn't sell does it ? As a gay man he can behave in any way he chooses. That's his personality and he chose the entertainment business as a career probably capitalising on his personality. so what! He represents himself. I am predominantly a straight mother by day and everyday life. Yet I am a bi-sexual swinger when I choose to be. Does that mean I am giving non swinging bi women a bad name. Jesus, I really do think that fab swinging members need to remember that this ain't no place to stand on the moral high ground and judge others. You always get one looking for a PC agenda! Why can't we have morals as swingers??? This is the second time today I've read that we should be more tolerant or that we can't have morals etc. Just cos we like doing the hokey lting down doesn't make us less or even super human does it?! As for Louis and his persona, surely the fact that so many like him being over the top and outrageous shows a more tolerant society. Years ago he would not have gotten anywhere acting like that. " I have more than morals than most and live by them every minute of my waking day! I have also had to stand up in front of 24 councillors in our local civic centre and fight for swingers rights and defend our choices with regards to the planning of my club. My name has gone in papers and I have to admit to my whole family what I do so do not judge me. My point was, that as swingers, being judged for our lifestyle choices surely we are the last people that should stand in judgement of others! I usually think your posts are diplomatic and fair evie and enjoy your point of _iew but that was a very naïve response. | |||
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"He promotes the gay stereotype The fact people are amused by it is worrying In my experience the majority of gay men are normal everyday guys not over the top, effeminate, attention seeking drama queens. There are exceptions but popularising this kind of persona doesn't sit easy with me. Then again, 'normal' doesn't sell does it ? As a gay man he can behave in any way he chooses. That's his personality and he chose the entertainment business as a career probably capitalising on his personality. so what! He represents himself. I am predominantly a straight mother by day and everyday life. Yet I am a bi-sexual swinger when I choose to be. Does that mean I am giving non swinging bi women a bad name. Jesus, I really do think that fab swinging members need to remember that this ain't no place to stand on the moral high ground and judge others. You always get one looking for a PC agenda! Why can't we have morals as swingers??? This is the second time today I've read that we should be more tolerant or that we can't have morals etc. Just cos we like doing the hokey lting down doesn't make us less or even super human does it?! As for Louis and his persona, surely the fact that so many like him being over the top and outrageous shows a more tolerant society. Years ago he would not have gotten anywhere acting like that. I have more than morals than most and live by them every minute of my waking day! I have also had to stand up in front of 24 councillors in our local civic centre and fight for swingers rights and defend our choices with regards to the planning of my club. My name has gone in papers and I have to admit to my whole family what I do so do not judge me. My point was, that as swingers, being judged for our lifestyle choices surely we are the last people that should stand in judgement of others! I usually think your posts are diplomatic and fair evie and enjoy your point of _iew but that was a very naïve response. " I wasn't judging you,I was questioning a comment that you made. I accept that this lifestyle has its nay sayers which is part of the reason my famliy think I'm just going to birmingham rather than chams lol Perhaps it is naive of me,but i never said I was perfect. A lot of my opinions and beliefs have changed since I joined here, maybe in time this one will. | |||
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"He promotes the gay stereotype The fact people are amused by it is worrying In my experience the majority of gay men are normal everyday guys not over the top, effeminate, attention seeking drama queens. There are exceptions but popularising this kind of persona doesn't sit easy with me. Then again, 'normal' doesn't sell does it ? As a gay man he can behave in any way he chooses. That's his personality and he chose the entertainment business as a career probably capitalising on his personality. so what! He represents himself. I am predominantly a straight mother by day and everyday life. Yet I am a bi-sexual swinger when I choose to be. Does that mean I am giving non swinging bi women a bad name. Jesus, I really do think that fab swinging members need to remember that this ain't no place to stand on the moral high ground and judge others. You always get one looking for a PC agenda! Why can't we have morals as swingers??? This is the second time today I've read that we should be more tolerant or that we can't have morals etc. Just cos we like doing the hokey lting down doesn't make us less or even super human does it?! As for Louis and his persona, surely the fact that so many like him being over the top and outrageous shows a more tolerant society. Years ago he would not have gotten anywhere acting like that. I have more than morals than most and live by them every minute of my waking day! I have also had to stand up in front of 24 councillors in our local civic centre and fight for swingers rights and defend our choices with regards to the planning of my club. My name has gone in papers and I have to admit to my whole family what I do so do not judge me. My point was, that as swingers, being judged for our lifestyle choices surely we are the last people that should stand in judgement of others! I usually think your posts are diplomatic and fair evie and enjoy your point of _iew but that was a very naïve response. I wasn't judging you,I was questioning a comment that you made. I accept that this lifestyle has its nay sayers which is part of the reason my famliy think I'm just going to birmingham rather than chams lol Perhaps it is naive of me,but i never said I was perfect. A lot of my opinions and beliefs have changed since I joined here, maybe in time this one will. " almost 6 years on here for us and I'm still changing too and learning, and none of us are perfect but I do defend every single swinger to the hilt when it comes to narrow minded bigoted councils and its kangaroo court. I'm a swinger myself (obviously lol), so why would I demoralise myself? Which is why I made the point I did about one of the comments. No-one has the right to judge anyone, whatever walk of life, I apologise if it came across in the wrong way Evie | |||
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"No-one has the right to judge anyone, whatever walk of life. An interesting if impossible Ideal. Gimp "Its human nature I guess!! | |||
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"He promotes the gay stereotype The fact people are amused by it is worrying In my experience the majority of gay men are normal everyday guys not over the top, effeminate, attention seeking drama queens. There are exceptions but popularising this kind of persona doesn't sit easy with me. Then again, 'normal' doesn't sell does it ? As a gay man he can behave in any way he chooses. That's his personality and he chose the entertainment business as a career probably capitalising on his personality. so what! He represents himself. I am predominantly a straight mother by day and everyday life. Yet I am a bi-sexual swinger when I choose to be. Does that mean I am giving non swinging bi women a bad name. Jesus, I really do think that fab swinging members need to remember that this ain't no place to stand on the moral high ground and judge others. You always get one looking for a PC agenda! Why can't we have morals as swingers??? This is the second time today I've read that we should be more tolerant or that we can't have morals etc. Just cos we like doing the hokey lting down doesn't make us less or even super human does it?! As for Louis and his persona, surely the fact that so many like him being over the top and outrageous shows a more tolerant society. Years ago he would not have gotten anywhere acting like that. I have more than morals than most and live by them every minute of my waking day! I have also had to stand up in front of 24 councillors in our local civic centre and fight for swingers rights and defend our choices with regards to the planning of my club. My name has gone in papers and I have to admit to my whole family what I do so do not judge me. My point was, that as swingers, being judged for our lifestyle choices surely we are the last people that should stand in judgement of others! I usually think your posts are diplomatic and fair evie and enjoy your point of _iew but that was a very naïve response. I wasn't judging you,I was questioning a comment that you made. I accept that this lifestyle has its nay sayers which is part of the reason my famliy think I'm just going to birmingham rather than chams lol Perhaps it is naive of me,but i never said I was perfect. A lot of my opinions and beliefs have changed since I joined here, maybe in time this one will. almost 6 years on here for us and I'm still changing too and learning, and none of us are perfect but I do defend every single swinger to the hilt when it comes to narrow minded bigoted councils and its kangaroo court. I'm a swinger myself (obviously lol), so why would I demoralise myself? Which is why I made the point I did about one of the comments. No-one has the right to judge anyone, whatever walk of life, I apologise if it came across in the wrong way Evie " So if someone stood up in front of the council and promoted an image that, in your opinion, made a mockery of swinging, you wouldn't be annoyed ? All the prancing and clowning about that man does in the name of entertainment just leaves a bad taste in my mouth. When I compare him with guys I meet in everyday life I see little similarity and zero commonality but, to me, he assists in the propagation that gays are 'nancy boys' and can be used as clowns for the amusement of others. For that reason, I dislike him. Now Gareth Thomas last night on Jonathon Ross is a whole different ball game. Same media, but used far more effectively to promote what is, I believe, a more accurate representation of gay men in 2014. That is my only beef with Mr Walsh. That his persona is damaging as opposed to strengthening to how gay men are _iewed in society. If that is seen as judgemental, so be it. | |||
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"He promotes the gay stereotype The fact people are amused by it is worrying In my experience the majority of gay men are normal everyday guys not over the top, effeminate, attention seeking drama queens. There are exceptions but popularising this kind of persona doesn't sit easy with me. Then again, 'normal' doesn't sell does it ? As a gay man he can behave in any way he chooses. That's his personality and he chose the entertainment business as a career probably capitalising on his personality. so what! He represents himself. I am predominantly a straight mother by day and everyday life. Yet I am a bi-sexual swinger when I choose to be. Does that mean I am giving non swinging bi women a bad name. Jesus, I really do think that fab swinging members need to remember that this ain't no place to stand on the moral high ground and judge others. You always get one looking for a PC agenda! Why can't we have morals as swingers??? This is the second time today I've read that we should be more tolerant or that we can't have morals etc. Just cos we like doing the hokey lting down doesn't make us less or even super human does it?! As for Louis and his persona, surely the fact that so many like him being over the top and outrageous shows a more tolerant society. Years ago he would not have gotten anywhere acting like that. I have more than morals than most and live by them every minute of my waking day! I have also had to stand up in front of 24 councillors in our local civic centre and fight for swingers rights and defend our choices with regards to the planning of my club. My name has gone in papers and I have to admit to my whole family what I do so do not judge me. My point was, that as swingers, being judged for our lifestyle choices surely we are the last people that should stand in judgement of others! I usually think your posts are diplomatic and fair evie and enjoy your point of _iew but that was a very naïve response. I wasn't judging you,I was questioning a comment that you made. I accept that this lifestyle has its nay sayers which is part of the reason my famliy think I'm just going to birmingham rather than chams lol Perhaps it is naive of me,but i never said I was perfect. A lot of my opinions and beliefs have changed since I joined here, maybe in time this one will. almost 6 years on here for us and I'm still changing too and learning, and none of us are perfect but I do defend every single swinger to the hilt when it comes to narrow minded bigoted councils and its kangaroo court. I'm a swinger myself (obviously lol), so why would I demoralise myself? Which is why I made the point I did about one of the comments. No-one has the right to judge anyone, whatever walk of life, I apologise if it came across in the wrong way Evie So if someone stood up in front of the council and promoted an image that, in your opinion, made a mockery of swinging, you wouldn't be annoyed ? All the prancing and clowning about that man does in the name of entertainment just leaves a bad taste in my mouth. When I compare him with guys I meet in everyday life I see little similarity and zero commonality but, to me, he assists in the propagation that gays are 'nancy boys' and can be used as clowns for the amusement of others. For that reason, I dislike him. Now Gareth Thomas last night on Jonathon Ross is a whole different ball game. Same media, but used far more effectively to promote what is, I believe, a more accurate representation of gay men in 2014. That is my only beef with Mr Walsh. That his persona is damaging as opposed to strengthening to how gay men are _iewed in society. If that is seen as judgemental, so be it. " Don't watch him, simple as. Who are you to judge him on who he is? Gay or not, he's a flamboyant character! And the phrase 'nancy boys' leaves a bad taste in my mouth, whether your using it to highlight a point or not, its not right and in the eyes of the law its not legal either! | |||
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"You know - normally I can't stand Louie Spence - waaaay too camp. But I just warmed to him a bit watching him on The Chase (didn't he do well?!)" He's a bit hyper and over the top and he can be irritating at times but in general I think he's fabulous. And he was in Cats so that's bonus points from me | |||
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"He promotes the gay stereotype The fact people are amused by it is worrying In my experience the majority of gay men are normal everyday guys not over the top, effeminate, attention seeking drama queens. There are exceptions but popularising this kind of persona doesn't sit easy with me. Then again, 'normal' doesn't sell does it ? As a gay man he can behave in any way he chooses. That's his personality and he chose the entertainment business as a career probably capitalising on his personality. so what! He represents himself. I am predominantly a straight mother by day and everyday life. Yet I am a bi-sexual swinger when I choose to be. Does that mean I am giving non swinging bi women a bad name. Jesus, I really do think that fab swinging members need to remember that this ain't no place to stand on the moral high ground and judge others. You always get one looking for a PC agenda! Why can't we have morals as swingers??? This is the second time today I've read that we should be more tolerant or that we can't have morals etc. Just cos we like doing the hokey lting down doesn't make us less or even super human does it?! As for Louis and his persona, surely the fact that so many like him being over the top and outrageous shows a more tolerant society. Years ago he would not have gotten anywhere acting like that. I have more than morals than most and live by them every minute of my waking day! I have also had to stand up in front of 24 councillors in our local civic centre and fight for swingers rights and defend our choices with regards to the planning of my club. My name has gone in papers and I have to admit to my whole family what I do so do not judge me. My point was, that as swingers, being judged for our lifestyle choices surely we are the last people that should stand in judgement of others! I usually think your posts are diplomatic and fair evie and enjoy your point of _iew but that was a very naïve response. I wasn't judging you,I was questioning a comment that you made. I accept that this lifestyle has its nay sayers which is part of the reason my famliy think I'm just going to birmingham rather than chams lol Perhaps it is naive of me,but i never said I was perfect. A lot of my opinions and beliefs have changed since I joined here, maybe in time this one will. almost 6 years on here for us and I'm still changing too and learning, and none of us are perfect but I do defend every single swinger to the hilt when it comes to narrow minded bigoted councils and its kangaroo court. I'm a swinger myself (obviously lol), so why would I demoralise myself? Which is why I made the point I did about one of the comments. No-one has the right to judge anyone, whatever walk of life, I apologise if it came across in the wrong way Evie So if someone stood up in front of the council and promoted an image that, in your opinion, made a mockery of swinging, you wouldn't be annoyed ? All the prancing and clowning about that man does in the name of entertainment just leaves a bad taste in my mouth. When I compare him with guys I meet in everyday life I see little similarity and zero commonality but, to me, he assists in the propagation that gays are 'nancy boys' and can be used as clowns for the amusement of others. For that reason, I dislike him. Now Gareth Thomas last night on Jonathon Ross is a whole different ball game. Same media, but used far more effectively to promote what is, I believe, a more accurate representation of gay men in 2014. That is my only beef with Mr Walsh. That his persona is damaging as opposed to strengthening to how gay men are _iewed in society. If that is seen as judgemental, so be it. Don't watch him, simple as. Who are you to judge him on who he is? Gay or not, he's a flamboyant character! And the phrase 'nancy boys' leaves a bad taste in my mouth, whether your using it to highlight a point or not, its not right and in the eyes of the law its not legal either! " Oh here we go ... 'in the eyes of the law'
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"ah I get it...because your a mm couple that means your qualified to comment on all things homosexual and how dare any gay male act camp! imagine if all heterosexuals sat on the same pedestal, there would be no such thing as individuals i'm going for a carvery, I cant be bothered "Enjoy your beef  | |||
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"Actually, people like you really disgust me, the gay community have fought for years for rights and equality, now you have it, you have the audacity to sit at your keyboard and vilify an individual for being different because he doesn't fit your ideal criteria of a gay man. how dare you. " As I said, enjoy your beef | |||
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"Actually, people like you really disgust me, the gay community have fought for years for rights and equality, now you have it, you have the audacity to sit at your keyboard and vilify an individual for being different because he doesn't fit your ideal criteria of a gay man. how dare you. As I said, enjoy your beef" aw, thank you, I certainly will and I shall also enjoy knowing I don't struggle with my identity, sexual or otherwise and know I'm comfortable with who I am and not looking down my nose at others. Good luck with coming to terms with yourself | |||
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"Actually, people like you really disgust me, the gay community have fought for years for rights and equality, now you have it, you have the audacity to sit at your keyboard and vilify an individual for being different because he doesn't fit your ideal criteria of a gay man. how dare you. As I said, enjoy your beef aw, thank you, I certainly will and I shall also enjoy knowing I don't struggle with my identity, sexual or otherwise and know I'm comfortable with who I am and not looking down my nose at others. Good luck with coming to terms with yourself "Chop, chop your beefs getting cold | |||
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" That is my only beef with Mr Walsh. " Pssssst Mr Walsh is the one on X Factor | |||
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" That is my only beef with Mr Walsh. Pssssst Mr Walsh is the one on X Factor "
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