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By *aywalton1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

Why is it that so many people who comment on the forums are so hell bent on starting arguments and jumping down the throats of OPs and other forum users? A lot of threads seem to turn into an argument within 10 comments. Make love not war people. I assume we all joined here for fun not for dramas and grief!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you fucking kidding? I've never heard anything so ridiculous.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

oh no we re not

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Wanna make something of it???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that so many people who comment on the forums are so hell bent on starting arguments and jumping down the throats of OPs and other forum users? A lot of threads seem to turn into an argument within 10 comments. Make love not war people. I assume we all joined here for fun not for dramas and grief!"

I feel ya bruv... Peace and love

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

takes two to argue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums are for arguing surely

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By *aywalton1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

Well done you lot, new record. I'm in awe!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

10 posts?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"takes two to argue "

But only one to.walk away.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"takes two to argue "

Nah, I can do it all by myself - I even spilt my own drink last night so I could get all up in my face and nasty about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

War is good.

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By *aywalton1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill


"10 posts? "

I was being generous!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

it takes two to agree as well

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

What's wrong with an argument?

I enjoy a love in every once in a while but a good, well reasoned argument is a grand thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The tone of an opening post often dictates how a thread will go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that so many people who comment on the forums are so hell bent on starting arguments and jumping down the throats of OPs and other forum users? A lot of threads seem to turn into an argument within 10 comments. Make love not war people. I assume we all joined here for fun not for dramas and grief!"

As some Roman general once said or some Roman dude anyway "if you wish for peace, one must be prepared for war" or something along those lines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with an argument?

I enjoy a love in every once in a while but a good, well reasoned argument is a grand thing.

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Totally agree. There are plenty of sycophantic, fluffy love-in threads for those that like them. A decent debate is no bad thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always remember the line 'never argue with a fool, people may not be able to tell the difference'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont take it to heart is the secret. Its just words on a screen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah, go Jerry, go Jerry, go Jerry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A heated debate is fine by me. It's when a lighthearted thread gets dragged down by someone thinking they are doing everyone a favour by patronising or stating obvious crap

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Forums are for arguing surely"

Well, they're really for debate but even during the Roman Republic they tended to devolve into a good old fistfight

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By *aywalton1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill


"Hell yeah, go Jerry, go Jerry, go Jerry!

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I don't get this comment. Please explain xxx

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Hell yeah, go Jerry, go Jerry, go Jerry!

I don't get this comment. Please explain xxx"

jerry springer? I like a good ol debate as long as they all agree with me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"takes two to argue "

No 10

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By *aywalton1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill


"Hell yeah, go Jerry, go Jerry, go Jerry!

I don't get this comment. Please explain xxx

jerry springer? I like a good ol debate as long as they all agree with me lol"

Thank you. All clear now. Haven't switched my brain to on mode yet, still in standby mode! xxx

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By *aywalton1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill


"takes two to argue

No 10 "

I think you'll find some people could start an argument in an empty room or with their own shadow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Brian Clough once said about a team talk - we will sit around and discuss/debate things for a while then decide that I am right

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By *aywalton1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill


"As Brian Clough once said about a team talk - we will sit around and discuss/debate things for a while then decide that I am right "

There's way too many reincarnated Brian Cloughs in here then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with an argument?

I enjoy a love in every once in a while but a good, well reasoned argument is a grand thing.

"

I couldn't agree with you more.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"What's wrong with an argument?

I enjoy a love in every once in a while but a good, well reasoned argument is a grand thing.

"

I agree regarding a well reasoned argument, but I know what the OP means - there sometimes seems a good few members just want to put the OP down for some perceived wrong in the opening post, even when it's been further explained later in the thread and others jump on the bandwagon (most often pulled by extremely high horses!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone for a trampling by high horses?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Debates are fine but anyone causing needless disruption can be a pain. There is some behavior that is virtually trolling. Aggressive arguments are also unwelcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree with the poster below

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with an argument?

I enjoy a love in every once in a while but a good, well reasoned argument is a grand thing.

I agree regarding a well reasoned argument, but I know what the OP means - there sometimes seems a good few members just want to put the OP down for some perceived wrong in the opening post, even when it's been further explained later in the thread and others jump on the bandwagon (most often pulled by extremely high horses!) "

not just put them down but ridicule them and sometimes preach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree with the poster above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that so many people who comment on the forums are so hell bent on starting arguments and jumping down the throats of OPs and other forum users? A lot of threads seem to turn into an argument within 10 comments. Make love not war people. I assume we all joined here for fun not for dramas and grief!

As some Roman general once said or some Roman dude anyway "if you wish for peace, one must be prepared for war" or something along those lines "

was probably Russell Crowe from Gladiator... Hes Aussie not Roman and def not a General

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

arguments are for people who are angry they have no intention of listening to your point of view, debates are just reasoned comment where your/their point of view is often changed.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

one persons debate is another persons argument is another persons discussion..

or is that a 3 some..

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

always been of the opinion that if you post something (remembering that no one is holding a gun to your head making you type) and you aren't prepared to at least defend it or listen to others who may not agree with it..... then don't post it in the first place..

I think it does speak to the fragility of some people that they run straight away for the "victim mentality" stance....

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"The tone of an opening post often dictates how a thread will go

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Not always. Sometimes people can write the most innocuous post and it is decided on the second post as to how it will go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you fucking kidding? I've never heard anything so ridiculous.

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hahah

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"arguments are for people who are angry they have no intention of listening to your point of view, debates are just reasoned comment where your/their point of view is often changed."

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with an argument?

I enjoy a love in every once in a while but a good, well reasoned argument is a grand thing.

I couldn't agree with you more. "

I only argue in the hope of some really great make up sex afterwards

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Maybe lets put this unrest lately to bed.

After reading the few threads going about cliques etc, it seems to me that people disagreeing isnt an issue for most people , it is HOW people disagree.

Disagree by all means, a good debate is always good but please do it while respecting that persons view as trying to put people down or humiliate them is not in the spirit of the forum plus is obviously unfriendly.

As always, if any threads are too repetitive for you, ignore.

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