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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

your partner is horny, but you really have the opposite feeling?

Do you go ahead regardless?

Or do you say "not tonight dear, I can't be arsed" ?

This happens to us all at some stage, both guys and gals, but just how diplomatic are you with your excuses?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Because my other half works away five, six, or seven days a week during the football season I naturally feel frisky when he is back home......but over the summer when he was home much of the time I did have many 'can't be arsed' periods, one lasted two weeks!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i dont mind if the excuse is a good one such as working late and he is knackered etc but i once had a fella who used to say he couldnt have sex with me because he'd wanked earlier in the day - that just doesnt fly with me Mr!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell her to bugger off, leave me alone as I'm watching the football and if she can't wait to seek a meet through Fab.

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By *ixson-BallsMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

when i was in a long lasting relationship..i can honestly say i never refused her when she wanted a bit of the other...in fact, when she was horny it made me even hornier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been together so long that we can tell when the other isn't up for it so asking if one of us fancy's an early night is pointless! The bags under the eyes is one good sign along with the eyebrows drawn together indicating the banging headache!

The horny one just goes in the bathroom, locks the door and does a bit of DIY!!! Job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Point her to the drawer full of toys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point her to the drawer full of toys."

As long as they're not battery powered. Don't want to wake the kids. Every noise is amplified in the bathroom!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Point her to the drawer full of toys.

As long as they're not battery powered. Don't want to wake the kids. Every noise is amplified in the bathroom! "

Tell 'em your mening ya chainsaw

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

this hasnt happened yet,but then again weve only been married 28 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point her to the drawer full of toys.

As long as they're not battery powered. Don't want to wake the kids. Every noise is amplified in the bathroom!

Tell 'em your mening ya chainsaw "

That'd be right seeing that I do all the domestic DIY anyway!!! Hubby supervises that and the other DIY if he gets the chance!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your partner is horny, but you really have the opposite feeling?

Do you go ahead regardless?

Or do you say "not tonight dear, I can't be arsed" ?

This happens to us all at some stage, both guys and gals, but just how diplomatic are you with your excuses? "

it dont happen to me, but it does to him pmsl

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"your partner is horny, but you really have the opposite feeling?

Do you go ahead regardless?

Or do you say "not tonight dear, I can't be arsed" ?

This happens to us all at some stage, both guys and gals, but just how diplomatic are you with your excuses? "
It hasnt happened to us yet, but in the event it does, id be happy to sit n watch him wank, in fact that may even get me in the mood

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I think with me it had a lot to do with being over tired this summer, my business is relatively new so there is always something to do and that is tiring.

I just had a couple of weeks, maybe three, of feeling very flat about sex...but it's unlikely to be an ongoing trend and I'm already feeling a bit frisky over the last couple of days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Siren and I had this discussion recently as her sex drive is lower than mine so often I feel frustrated, but... when she is in the mood she feels like she's pressuring me to perform when I might not feel like it and thus she never used to instigate things, which sort of left us in no man's land so I said to her, "Listen babe, if I'm on the laptop or watching TV all you have to do is put your sexy undies on and come and stand at the door seductively and I'll know exactly what's on your mind."

Works a fookin treat and all I say now is, "just let me shut this down and I'll be there."

Communication is the key and now we've got it sorted neither of us feels frustrated anymore... it only took us 3 years to suss it out lol.

It helps that I've established just how she likes her pussy licked and now she can't get enough of it. She asked me only this morning how come I suddenly worked it out and I told her it was the good reading matter she leaves in the bathroom (ladies mags etc). She was astonished that the mags instructed how to lick a pussy, and after my laughter had died down I explained that they didn't, but what they did say was to listen to her. Often what men think a woman likes isn't the case.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Sometimes when im not well i go off sex but it doesnt bother Jay at all. In the rare event it happens any other time(and it is rare) we just say can we just cuddle tonight.

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