FabSwingers.com forum: identifying swingers

By *r55 OP Man
over a year ago

southampton

wouldn't it be good if we were able to identify each other as swingers in normal society. i know some grous have a secret handshake - i wonder what ours could be...or maybe a tatoo of some kind or ring or chain...perhaps i could start up a business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would I want to make myself known as a swinger to anyone and everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine for me it would save so much time on sites like this I guess.

Plus it's a bit typically british that we're so taboo -- will enjoying sex always be seen as a sin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want our sexual choices to be highlighted to everyone. This is for us and us alone......and those we invite in

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I find identifying swingers easy!

They're ether on here or at the clubs/parties we go to.

The general public are just that - general, and public. If any of them are in fact swingers then I'm sure they wouldn't appreciate a big flashing sign above their head or any other random swinger being able to spot them.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Isn't that what pampas grass is for?

Mr ddc

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By *y2funMan
over a year ago

DUDLEY

"wouldn't it be good if we were able to identify each other as swingers in normal society. "

not for us it wouldn't ffs... some of us have to think about our lives and jobs..............

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

If they come in your house for any reason and put their car keys into your fruit bowl then BANG, you've got one

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I would imagine for me it would save so much time on sites like this I guess.

Plus it's a bit typically british that we're so taboo -- will enjoying sex always be seen as a sin"

it's not that we see it as a sin but we don't want to be choosing cushion covers in Debenhams and have an indiscreet person come up and start asking us about meeting, or waiting outside the ladies for my elderly mother and have her emerge to someone asking "would you fancy full swap?".

It's a case of discretion not shame for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wouldn't it be good if we were able to identify each other as swingers in normal society."

I cant think of anything worse

This is my private and secret life and that's how I want it to stay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wouldn't it be good if we were able to identify each other as swingers in normal society."

No not really.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Get pronto print to print you some cards to give out.

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By *asey LeeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars

LMFAO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wouldn't it be good if we were able to identify each other as swingers in normal society. i know some grous have a secret handshake - i wonder what ours could be...or maybe a tatoo of some kind or ring or chain...perhaps i could start up a business!"

Be sure to let us know what you come up with, so we can avoid it

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

no .. sounds crackers !

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Or if you don't like the pampas grass idea, how about a swing in the back garden?

(We have a big one that can fit three if anyone's interested, and a monkey-bar bit where a fourth can hang upside down)

Mr ddc

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars

It's not only doggers have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't that what pampas grass is for?

Mr ddc"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this suggestion went well

I also can't think of anything worse.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

There is the little Chameleon that you can always wear they can be easily found with a google search...

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they come in your house for any reason and put their car keys into your fruit bowl then BANG, you've got one"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I would imagine for me it would save so much time on sites like this I guess.

Plus it's a bit typically british that we're so taboo -- will enjoying sex always be seen as a sin

It's a case of discretion not shame for us."

This!

Amazes me people assume if you're discreet and don't want all and sundry privy to your sex life you're ashamed etc!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

the irony of some bloke with no head proposing being open to all n sundry about this aspect is strangely err well ironic..

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By *exxifun5Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH

"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars

could that not be confusing ... I always thought the fish symbol was for Christians ? ... maybe I am wrong xxx tabitha xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"the irony of some bloke with no head proposing being open to all n sundry about this aspect is strangely err well ironic..

yea but he has to be discreet because of his job, he won't be wearing the identifying symbol that's for the rest of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I wear the full top secret swingers identification system at all times, never seen another one so guess the secret part is working well

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars

could that not be confusing ... I always thought the fish symbol was for Christians ? ... maybe I am wrong xxx tabitha xx "

it is....telling people that its for doggers is mischievous

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Actually I wear the full top secret swingers identification system at all times, never seen another one so guess the secret part is working well

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By *exxifun5Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH

"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars

could that not be confusing ... I always thought the fish symbol was for Christians ? ... maybe I am wrong xxx tabitha xx

it is....telling people that its for doggers is mischievous

hahaha xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars

could that not be confusing ... I always thought the fish symbol was for Christians ? ... maybe I am wrong xxx tabitha xx

it is....telling people that its for doggers is mischievous

hahaha xx "

well the vicar got a massive shock when he parked up in a layby to have a cup of tea out of his thermos

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars

could that not be confusing ... I always thought the fish symbol was for Christians ? ... maybe I am wrong xxx tabitha xx

it is....telling people that its for doggers is mischievous

hahaha xx "

Sometimes the fish symbol has legs on it. That means the swingers in the car are willing to travel.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars

could that not be confusing ... I always thought the fish symbol was for Christians ? ... maybe I am wrong xxx tabitha xx

it is....telling people that its for doggers is mischievous

hahaha xx

Sometimes the fish symbol has legs on it. That means the swingers in the car are willing to travel. "

or the fish are from Sellafield..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't that what pampas grass is for?

Mr ddc"

There are loads of houses near us with pampas grass. Huge big bushes of it. Ooh I wonder if they're all swingers too?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Isn't that what pampas grass is for?

Mr ddc

There are loads of houses near us with pampas grass. Huge big bushes of it. Ooh I wonder if they're all swingers too? "

Definitely.

Blackpool's famous for their swinging hotels where if someone leaves their door ajar, you're meant to jump in, totally naked, doing jazz-hands and go "ta-daa!"

(I think that's right....)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a compulsert 5 pointed gold tar on all clothnig! No wait that's been done before to identify a group of people.

I would say though if people wanted to be identify themselves they would have the "I'm a swinger" baseball cap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about wearing a face mask of the infamous silhouette found on many a profile? Discretion and promiscuity in one package!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars

Naughty

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars

Naughty "

That's brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who gives a shiney shite if u bump into another swinger in tesco anyway. They're hardly likely to nosh you off in the check out queue are they ?

Or write their profile name on an old shopping list

Grump, grump, grump

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars

could that not be confusing ... I always thought the fish symbol was for Christians ? ... maybe I am wrong xxx tabitha xx "

Oh tabitha you sound so sweet

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By *r55 OP Man
over a year ago

southampton

"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars

LMFAO"
lol...great response...will have to look out for those...bless you my son!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I would like to see swingers all wearing outrageous hats. With feathers and stuff.

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By *r55 OP Man
over a year ago

southampton

Thanks for the replies...im glad i illicited some very witty responses and got the clear message that nope we dont broadcast for a variety of reasons...im fine with that and look forward to meeting you all in secret or indeed without even knowing i am and vice versa! Have fun

Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies...im glad i illicited some very witty responses and got the clear message that nope we dont broadcast for a variety of reasons...im fine with that and look forward to meeting you all in secret or indeed without even knowing i am and vice versa! Have fun

Paul

Can I ask the reason you haven't got a face picture? Do you not detect the irony in your post?

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