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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah me too. If we had tit pics we'd be noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible. "

I seeeeee you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are a fickle lot

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Did someone say something???

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Nah me too. If we had tit pics we'd be noticed. "

I have tit pics and I am invisible as well. Unless I get involved in a row. I become visible fast enough then!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible. "

Nah, they ignore the sensible advice.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Nah me too. If we had tit pics we'd be noticed. "

Ive got a tit pic (until Saturday) and I'm invisible too.

OP, I see you and notice your comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did someone say something??? "

Naughty! Who is the OP anyway? Newbie? mwwwaahh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your just too short?

Or thngs go over people's heads?

There can't be any more to it than that, can there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people (Men) use the forums to find Women to chat to and potentially arrange a meet I wouldn't take it personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible.

Nah, they ignore the sensible advice. "

They ignore mine too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who cares what Steve thinks...not because he's a man,bi or intelligent...its just cos its..

STEVE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people (Men) use the forums to find Women to chat to and potentially arrange a meet I wouldn't take it personally "

So your profile says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible. "

Never.

You rock.

End of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah me too. If we had tit pics we'd be noticed. "

Miss scarlet your always noticed darling

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

People ignoring others on here???? Never.

Seriously, my advice is to just ignore being ignored, if that makes sense.

Xxx _dsindy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah me too. If we had tit pics we'd be noticed.

Miss scarlet your always noticed darling "

For the wrong reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you just pinch my bum?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah me too. If we had tit pics we'd be noticed.

Ive got a tit pic (until Saturday) and I'm invisible too.

OP, I see you and notice your comments.

"

I notice you.

I scrolled up... I notice everyone who posted so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people (Men) use the forums to find Women to chat to and potentially arrange a meet I wouldn't take it personally

So your profile says. "

It says on my profile, Not looking to meet Men/Bi Men or TV/TS,

That doesn't mean I wont chat to them in the forums

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Sometimes these forums are so fast moving posts get buried quickly. Plus there will always be good friends who look out for each others posts.

Don't worry about it, and certainly don't take it personally.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible. "

your not on your own hun i get the same feeling at times lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not invisible, thats transparent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you see me?? Haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

same happens to me. I know why but I don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible. "

Does it matter??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"same happens to me. I know why but I don't care "

Tell us why?

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Thank you all. Like Marty McFly, I've appeared again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ssssh folks he's back.

pm me all the salacious gossip and rumours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol dont let him join the clique tee hee!

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Hi Steve!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible. "

Lol........welcome to the"invisibility" club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible. "

my comments arent leapt on. welcome to the invisible club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not bi... I'm straight. 100% carry Penthouse in my briefcase.

But I do read your posts, you talk sense and you seem sound.

You should give less of a fuck dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I join the club? Do we have a fine pair of bouncers at the door?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Same thing happens to me (I am a bi girl but I don't think that's the reason!). I like your dressing gown by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I join the club? Do we have a fine pair of bouncers at the door?"

Not sure.? cant see them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pmsl ooo we have our own little thread where we can all chat shit and know it will be read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like your comments steve and sometimes answer, and our males straight but knows you cant catch the ghey from the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is invisible, certainly in a very dark room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds me of an Alyson Moyet song.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Steve, leave the light-on in Brighton, maybe thats why we cant see u

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I apologise for appearing slightly peeved. I'm usually the one to suggest keeping ones gob shut, but hey ho.

Off for a shower - see y'all tomorrow x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time I'm ignored but it's fine, if I start my own thread I'll try and @people to acknowledge their posts, the quote function on here isn't the best though. Be good if you could "like" a comment cos the majority of what is said I think hmm yeah I agree or yeah that's good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the time I'm ignored but it's fine, if I start my own thread I'll try and @people to acknowledge their posts, the quote function on here isn't the best though. Be good if you could "like" a comment cos the majority of what is said I think hmm yeah I agree or yeah that's good! "

lol i look at times at the threads i have posted on and its become kind of a game to us now to see just how many threads we can end i had 11 one day where we was the last to post entertained me for a while if nothing else

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Nah me too. If we had tit pics we'd be noticed.

Ive got a tit pic (until Saturday) and I'm invisible too.

OP, I see you and notice your comments.

"

You are not invisible. I often see you on here. I try not to look when you're talking about chocolate though.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Nah me too. If we had tit pics we'd be noticed.

Miss scarlet your always noticed darling

For the wrong reasons. "

Yeah, me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look and read most of the threads but I don't always post in them, And I don't really care if people respond to what I have said, I chat to my friends in private messages for conversations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible. "

I wouldn't worry, 99% of my posts are ignored also, I'm not bothered though they amuse me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't know if I'm ignored. I flit about forgetting what I've said where and to whom. I might get me tits out and see if I get noticed

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I look and read most of the threads but I don't always post in them, And I don't really care if people respond to what I have said, I chat to my friends in private messages for conversations "

^ yes this, except in my case substitute stick pins in voodoo dolls for the chat to friends bit.

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

I find Brightonsteve amusing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just speak to Harvey the Rabbit...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I just speak to Harvey the Rabbit..."

That's only because the penguins talk to me and not you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets turn this into a Brighton Steve tribute page.

BRIGHTON STEVE WE LOVE YOU

(disclaimer - in the platonic way)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just speak to Harvey the Rabbit...

That's only because the penguins talk to me and not you. "

PMSL

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Lets turn this into a Brighton Steve tribute page.

BRIGHTON STEVE WE LOVE YOU

(disclaimer - in the platonic way)"

Who's Brightonsteve? Don't think I've heard of him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the time I'm ignored but it's fine, if I start my own thread I'll try and @people to acknowledge their posts, the quote function on here isn't the best though. Be good if you could "like" a comment cos the majority of what is said I think hmm yeah I agree or yeah that's good! "

I think a lot of people would be surprised how many people DO like what they have to say.

There's loads of posts I'd 'like'. But it would look pretty dumb if I (or anyone else) quoted every single one with a thumbs up.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Most of the time I'm ignored but it's fine, if I start my own thread I'll try and @people to acknowledge their posts, the quote function on here isn't the best though. Be good if you could "like" a comment cos the majority of what is said I think hmm yeah I agree or yeah that's good!

I think a lot of people would be surprised how many people DO like what they have to say.

There's loads of posts I'd 'like'. But it would look pretty dumb if I (or anyone else) quoted every single one with a thumbs up. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah me too. If we had tit pics we'd be noticed.

Miss scarlet your always noticed darling

For the wrong reasons.

Yeah, me too."

You're MUCH worse than me. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weird thread, can anyone let me know who the OP was and what they said??

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Nah me too. If we had tit pics we'd be noticed.

Miss scarlet your always noticed darling

For the wrong reasons.

Yeah, me too.

You're MUCH worse than me. x"

Yep, I can't really argue with that.

Which is pretty amazing since I can argue with most things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soooo does anyone want to come to the pub?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Weird thread, can anyone let me know who the OP was and what they said?? "

No, I'd never heard of him. Never seen him before in my life! (guv)

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get ignored also and I don't just mean by people on the site lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always ignored but then I don't suffer fools, I don't suck up to people and I don't fit in to the fab formula for acceptable people. Its great being invisible as you can say what the hell you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always ignored but then I don't suffer fools, I don't suck up to people and I don't fit in to the fab formula for acceptable people. Its great being invisible as you can say what the hell you like "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always ignored but then I don't suffer fools, I don't suck up to people and I don't fit in to the fab formula for acceptable people. Its great being invisible as you can say what the hell you like "

You can be invisible, you have a derriere to die for...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've got a spot on my nose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a spot on my nose.

"

I can't see it.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I'm always ignored but then I don't suffer fools, I don't suck up to people and I don't fit in to the fab formula for acceptable people. Its great being invisible as you can say what the hell you like "
yeap true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am x in the car too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give over Steve and pucker up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look and read most of the threads but I don't always post in them, And I don't really care if people respond to what I have said, I chat to my friends in private messages for conversations "

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

No matter how relevant,insightful,witty,

intelligent,your post,

Other forum posters,

Ignore the quote option.

I'm afraid it's the age old,

unresolved,and unsolved

forum users problem.

So even though I feel your frustration,

It's going to take a mega super genius,

To offer you some kind of solution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always ignored but then I don't suffer fools, I don't suck up to people and I don't fit in to the fab formula for acceptable people. Its great being invisible as you can say what the hell you like "

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"No matter how relevant,insightful,witty,

intelligent,your post,

Other forum posters,

Ignore the quote option.

I'm afraid it's the age old,

unresolved,and unsolved

forum users problem.

So even though I feel your frustration,

It's going to take a mega super genius,

To offer you some kind of solution.

"

Lmao

Lol lol lol

Rolf ralf lmfho

Great post saucy,as usual.

Wow!wow!!wow!! Your profile is hot!hot!!hot!!!

Loving those tits.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"No matter how relevant,insightful,witty,

intelligent,your post,

Other forum posters,

Ignore the quote option.

I'm afraid it's the age old,

unresolved,and unsolved

forum users problem.

So even though I feel your frustration,

It's going to take a mega super genius,

To offer you some kind of solution.

Lmao

Lol lol lol

Rolf ralf lmfho

Great post saucy,as usual.

Wow!wow!!wow!! Your profile is hot!hot!!hot!!!

Loving those tits.

"

Lmao

Lol ralf rolf

Steve you have your solution.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"No matter how relevant,insightful,witty,

intelligent,your post,

Other forum posters,

Ignore the quote option.

I'm afraid it's the age old,

unresolved,and unsolved

forum users problem.

So even though I feel your frustration,

It's going to take a mega super genius,

To offer you some kind of solution.

Lmao

Lol lol lol

Rolf ralf lmfho

Great post saucy,as usual.

Wow!wow!!wow!! Your profile is hot!hot!!hot!!!

Loving those tits.

Lmao

Lol ralf rolf

Steve you have your solution.

"

Wow!Wow!!Wow!!!

Saucy your not only incredibly hot,and unbelievably shagtastic.

Now we must add genius,to your ever increasing list of fantasticness.

Ps I want to have your babies.

Pps I'm already moist at the very thought of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

didsumone say sumthing

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

i'm usually ignored, and tend to kill threads as well......hmm i wonder.....

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

im nearly invisible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible. "

Happens to me too especially if the op is female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible. "

Not all comments by ladies are leapt on! I'm quite often ignored too so you're not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible.

Lol........welcome to the"invisibility" club "

Ooh I'm deffo in this club too (also the thread killer club)

But the first rule of invisibility club is that nobody talks *to* members of invisibility club

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Has anyone seen Steve today?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been my experience that people rarely want good advice, even when given freely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible. "

Just like 'the ghey' 'the bi' is highly contagious. Responding to a ghey/bi persons post will only end in heartache. I was a cock loving hetro woman before I replied to a bi bashing post. There's no hope for me. Save yourselves - ignore the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone seen Steve today? "

I was never here

Who is Steve ???

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Has anyone seen Steve today?

I was never here

Who is Steve ???

"

I love it

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Happens to me all the time, I couldnt give a shit. I rarely give advice, but someone else can say the same as me, and they will be quoted and commented. Oh well.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Most of the time I'm ignored but it's fine, if I start my own thread I'll try and @people to acknowledge their posts, the quote function on here isn't the best though. Be good if you could "like" a comment cos the majority of what is said I think hmm yeah I agree or yeah that's good!

I think a lot of people would be surprised how many people DO like what they have to say.

There's loads of posts I'd 'like'. But it would look pretty dumb if I (or anyone else) quoted every single one with a thumbs up.

"

A ( )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like lots of comments that are posted or they make me laugh. You can't always convey that on the forums and require them or do a thumbs up. It's a shame there isn't a like icon you can tick on a comment.

Anyway where is Steve this morning? Do we need special glasses to see him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is Steve mcomplaining again? I can't see him but I can hear him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible.

Not all comments by ladies are leapt on! I'm quite often ignored too so you're not alone "

You are not alone, I am here with you, though your far away, I am here to stay.... Steve the two of us need look no more....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Steve

I'd rather be you! I get bloody PM'd by the OP more often than not! The grass is not always greener, trust me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible.

Just like 'the ghey' 'the bi' is highly contagious. Responding to a ghey/bi persons post will only end in heartache. I was a cock loving hetro woman before I replied to a bi bashing post. There's no hope for me. Save yourselves - ignore the OP "

Are you saying Stevie is a big poofta?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happens to me all the time, I couldnt give a shit. I rarely give advice, but someone else can say the same as me, and they will be quoted and commented. Oh well. "

Yeah, I've slowly stopped doing it - I rarely post these days and its mostly just fluff pieces when I do.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"But the first rule of invisibility club is that nobody talks *to* members of invisibility club"

Clearly.

Some people are quite transparent on here. You can see right through them. I don't like to see it, myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I join? (looks at the floor expecting to be ignored)

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Happens to me all the time, I couldnt give a shit. I rarely give advice, but someone else can say the same as me, and they will be quoted and commented. Oh well.

Yeah, I've slowly stopped doing it - I rarely post these days and its mostly just fluff pieces when I do. "

The forum would die if we all did that, just post what you want within reason, as mentioned above people dont always comment but dosent mean they didnt enjoy it.

I quite often laugh at other peoples musings but dont tell them, they have already had a thumbs up symbol and I dont feel the need to tell them I liked it too. Dont let it get to you

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Can I join? (looks at the floor expecting to be ignored) "

Yes you can.

Is that your natural hair colour?

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Can I join? (looks at the floor expecting to be ignored) "

On the plus side....if you are ignored then you must be in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone seen Steve today? "

He gave me an invisible blow job earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah me too. If we had tit pics we'd be noticed.

Ive got a tit pic (until Saturday) and I'm invisible too.

OP, I see you and notice your comments.

"

The forum would be alot nicer place if there were more ladies like yourself

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Nah me too. If we had tit pics we'd be noticed.

Ive got a tit pic (until Saturday) and I'm invisible too.

OP, I see you and notice your comments.

The forum would be alot nicer place if there were more ladies like yourself"

Rodney Polite they call him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to take all our pics down, we have joined ur club and feeling the pain

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"But the first rule of invisibility club is that nobody talks *to* members of invisibility club

Clearly.

Some people are quite transparent on here. You can see right through them. I don't like to see it, myself.

"

See? See? I'm being ignored!

Look at me, look at me, look at ME, damn you!

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By *exxifun5Couple
over a year ago

NORWICH


"But the first rule of invisibility club is that nobody talks *to* members of invisibility club

Clearly.

Some people are quite transparent on here. You can see right through them. I don't like to see it, myself.

See? See? I'm being ignored!

Look at me, look at me, look at ME, damn you!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah baby I am in! (JUMPING UP AND DOWN) B-)

Pink is my natural colour this week but am thinking of changing it to purple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the only invisible one, I enjoy commenting on the 'write something about the person above' posts...but the person below me seems to skip...common in fab-land

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Yeah baby I am in! (JUMPING UP AND DOWN) B-)

Pink is my natural colour this week but am thinking of changing it to purple "

Ahh ok just was just wondering thats all, if it was it would be a crying shame for you to shave ya ninny. Sorry to get personal, we've never chatted before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah baby I am in! (JUMPING UP AND DOWN) B-)

Pink is my natural colour this week but am thinking of changing it to purple

Ahh ok just was just wondering thats all, if it was it would be a crying shame for you to shave ya ninny. Sorry to get personal, we've never chatted before."

Lol i do find 'ninny' offensive. I don't post that often and it is only usually when I have a strong opinion on something I care about. I think this might be the first non serious thread I have posted on.

Hey all, thanks for the acknowledgement I now feel valued and complete within myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to me too

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Brighton 'Dr Griffiths' Steve could be your new name

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Thank you all so much everyone.

I've appeared again but not for long as it's Samhain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol dont let him join the clique tee hee!"
what clique?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

the invisible clique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all so much everyone.

I've appeared again but not for long as it's Samhain "

Always notice you about buddy. A personal favourite is when you post in a forum in stealth mode

Someone else posts exactly what you say then people vying for attention agree.

Or has someone already said that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible. "

Most of mine are ignored too, lost count how many times mine is the last post in a thread. Guess if your face fits.....

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

All part and parcel of the forums, I guess! I was just getting a little irritated at what appeared to me to be a blatant ruse to get chats going with some posters and simply ignoring mine. Maybe I'm paranoid. I heard someone whisper that I was but hey ho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All part and parcel of the forums, I guess! I was just getting a little irritated at what appeared to me to be a blatant ruse to get chats going with some posters and simply ignoring mine. Maybe I'm paranoid. I heard someone whisper that I was but hey ho. "

It's the platinum members They cloak popular people so no one else can see your posts

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Most of mine are ignored too, lost count how many times mine is the last post in a thread. Guess if your face fits....."

Well, I got ignored on a thread about being ignored so I wouldn't worry about it! Just post what you like whenever you like and don't read anything into it if people pay attention or not. That way madness lies.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

"

I agree, but (CENSORED BY THE FAB CLIQUE)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That way madness lies. "

Strange I thought Madness was left at the lights and right at the roundabout

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"That way madness lies.

Strange I thought Madness was left at the lights and right at the roundabout "

Yeah Insanity is left at the roundabout and Mayhem is straight ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That way madness lies.

Strange I thought Madness was left at the lights and right at the roundabout "

You will find Madness.... In the middle of our street!

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"That way madness lies.

Strange I thought Madness was left at the lights and right at the roundabout

You will find Madness.... In the middle of our street!

"
wearing baggy trousers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flying around playing a saxophone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That way madness lies.

Strange I thought Madness was left at the lights and right at the roundabout

You will find Madness.... In the middle of our street!

wearing baggy trousers "

Yes. MC Hammer style.... bonkers!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible.

Most of mine are ignored too, lost count how many times mine is the last post in a thread. Guess if your face fits....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never saw this thread until now

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"never saw this thread until now "

Have you been trick or treating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never saw this thread until now

Have you been trick or treating? "

nope -

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible. "

just make your comments and be done with it pal.... Someone will find affinity with even if they don't voice it

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I get ignored too but it doesn't stop me putting my two pennoth in when I feel like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get ( CENSORED FOR BEING TOO CONTROVERSIAL it "

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By *rightonsteve OP   Man
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Let's not add anymore now but just to say it's happened again!!! Posted and ignored....a lady posts and the guy is typing with one hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's not add anymore now but just to say it's happened again!!! Posted and ignored....a lady posts and the guy is typing with one hand "

'twas always thus, and always will be on here buddy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite often, I comment or offer suggestions on 'advice' threads. More often than not, my post gets ignored by the OP, but (no surprises) the comments by the ladies are leapt on, with grateful thanks by the OP. I can think of several cynical explanations, eg. Not wanting to be seen to be talking to a bi guy but the only possible answer that makes sense to me is that....I'm invisible. "

What the fuck are you doing wasting your time on here then, if I was invisible I'd be getting into everywhere there are naked women and perving

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have nearly a million verifications, but they mean jack shit to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's definitely an invisible night tonight lol! Hello, hello .. Is anyone there!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"It's definitely an invisible night tonight lol! Hello, hello .. Is anyone there! "

Is that a Pink Floyd lyric

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's definitely an invisible night tonight lol! Hello, hello .. Is anyone there!

Is that a Pink Floyd lyric "

;-) now we're showing our ages there! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another thread with a single male complaining...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP has a valid point and was making an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As of today, if I see anyone duplicating one of my posts I will tag it with a

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Who is the op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ignore you Steve. I knw what you mean about being ignored. I kill threads for a pastime especially the fab the above or swag the above. Type of threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As of today, if I see anyone duplicating one of my posts I will tag it with a

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol. My iPad doesn't like me saying shag!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Sensible advice tends to get ignored. You'll get used to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who cares what Steve thinks...not because he's a man,bi or intelligent...its just cos its..

STEVE! "
a bit harsh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As of today, if I see anyone duplicating one of my posts I will tag it with a

"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

im so invisible you havent seen me on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, if you're always dressed in white. How are we meant to see you. You'd seem a bloody virgin Stevie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I feel like that sometimes, but I get over it. By the way...who are you anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...sighs...invisibly :'-(

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"...sighs...invisibly :'-("
i see you .. you re tourquiose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aha! 1 down...

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"Nah me too. If we had tit pics we'd be noticed. "

Sure my tit pictures will be overlooked too, blue tits are such beautiful birds too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This week it appears I am now invisible too. Not enough boobs on my profile perhaps?

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Im also invisable today, this is why people ask if there is a 'clique' here.

Im not one of those people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im also invisable today, this is why people ask if there is a 'clique' here.

Im not one of those people."

Marmite and Dirty...you two are great craic....hush or I'll flash my panties and norks at ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This week it appears I am now invisible too. Not enough boobs on my profile perhaps?"

Would you like to borrow mine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can hear voices, but cant see anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can hear voices, but cant see anything "

It's all that flange you're eating. ...

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

This thread keeps getting bumped to the top of the forum but when I enter it and look. No one has posted. It's like they don't exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can hear voices, but cant see anything

It's all that flange you're eating. ... "

More like I forgot to put my glasses on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just put it down to no one liking Steve, because his white pants have a wee stain on it

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

FFS, still empty!

Weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did someone say something?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Huh?

Can a mod have a look at this thread please. Seems to be empty but keeps bumping to the top.

In the meantime here is an irrelevant emoticon --------}

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