FabSwingers.com forum: Off putting phrases or noises in messages

By *SweetVioletx OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Does anyone find certain phrases or words in a message immediately off putting?

I get so many messages which consist mainly of "mmmmmm", "hmmmmm" or "ahhhh" None of which translate well in text form and I have this comical image of the sender sat somewhere making a variety of odd noises at their screen as they type.

I can no longer take these messages seriously due to the imagery in my head.

Along with the "awwwwww" messages that often follow a polite decline it's all getting a bit noisey over here. x

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

arggghhhh !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hee hee or tee hee makes me cringe. Any mmmms from someone I don't know in a first message don't come across well for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooooh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hehe and teehee annoy the fuck out of me and "mmmmm" I just fin that creepy

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

At least they don't put burps and farts into text.

Well, not often!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I hate it when they say 'fuck off you freak and leave me alone' so get's on my nerves. Tut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmmmm is code for i wanna bang the ass of you

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I hate it when they say 'fuck off you freak and leave me alone' so get's on my nerves. Tut."

Or no, I'm not going to rub in the lotion.

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By *one IdolMan
over a year ago

your imagination

Wellllllllllll ...... Naaaaaaahhhhh

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By *SweetVioletx OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Oh and when people use "ha ha" or "lol" instead of full stops. It comes across a little manic.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I hate haha, it sounds a lot more like they're laughing at you than with you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I know someone then I can take all of the awwws the mmmms the hahahas,its all a matter of context and expression

I'm not too keen when I don't know someone

Tee hee and hee hee are not acceptable at anytime from anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any message that contains:

babes

bbe

sweetie

fuck u

Im in the area now

Hotel now

fck me

Fuck ur mrs

Bored

Horny

Is a nono

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By *SweetVioletx OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Any message that contains:

babes

bbe

sweetie

fuck u

Im in the area now

Hotel now

fck me

Fuck ur mrs

Bored

Horny

Is a nono"

Having a stranger calling me sister was a little disturbing too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Er?

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

nom nom nom

that gets on my nerves, dont know why, it just does

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I hate it when they say 'fuck off you freak and leave me alone' so get's on my nerves. Tut.

Or no, I'm not going to rub in the lotion.

That would result in a very cross Funky. There are punishments for not applying the lotion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmmmmmmmmm is meant to indicate some sort of sexual alluring tone???

For us it indicates this message must be deleted.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

With Platinum Membership you can actually send sounds and smells in PM's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any text speak in a message is an instant delete. Embrace our great lexicon people!

Oh and the word princess in a profile or username is also extremely offputting to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With Platinum Membership you can actually send sounds and smells in PM's. "

Judging from the dirtiest verifications thread yesterday I hope this is never brought in for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my regular men calls me dear in messages. He's 19 years younger than me and sounds like an old man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With Platinum Membership you can actually send sounds and smells in PM's.

Judging from the dirtiest verifications thread yesterday I hope this is never brought in for them

Hell yeah

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

When people put 'Lol' on end of every sentence or phrase.

"I like your profile lol" - what? so much it made you laugh out loud, geez thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's play! Hate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PMSL when they have said something not in the slightest way funny annoys the hell out of us. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol let's play...

I always ask what chess? Poker?

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Does anyone find certain phrases or words in a message immediately off putting?

I can no longer take these messages seriously due to the imagery in my head.

Along with the "awwwwww" messages that often follow a polite decline it's all getting a bit noisey over here. x"

I've found in the past that the more a guy talks about what he'd like to do to me, the more hopelessly ineffective he has actually been at doing it!

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By *SweetVioletx OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Does anyone find certain phrases or words in a message immediately off putting?

I can no longer take these messages seriously due to the imagery in my head.

Along with the "awwwwww" messages that often follow a polite decline it's all getting a bit noisey over here. x

I've found in the past that the more a guy talks about what he'd like to do to me, the more hopelessly ineffective he has actually been at doing it!

Often it never even gets that far - if I'm lucky

it'll be "Mmmmmm babe - so wnna fck u lol ha ha - yum yum - msg me ha ha"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

Bleeuurrrggghhhhhh

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I hate mmmmmmmmmmmmmm as well. I just don't reply to anyone who uses it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone find certain phrases or words in a message immediately off putting?

I can no longer take these messages seriously due to the imagery in my head.

Along with the "awwwwww" messages that often follow a polite decline it's all getting a bit noisey over here. x

I've found in the past that the more a guy talks about what he'd like to do to me, the more hopelessly ineffective he has actually been at doing it!

Thats very true....All mouth no action springs to mind.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I can't think of any sounds/noises that are immediately off putting in a message.

There are a couple that I would never use myself, nom nom nom being the first one that springs to mind.

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By *SweetVioletx OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I can't think of any sounds/noises that are immediately off putting in a message.

There are a couple that I would never use myself, nom nom nom being the first one that springs to mind.

Oh nom nom nom makes me feel sick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate hee hee's especially from a man! I am guilty of using Awww's and ahhh's and even Grrrr's! My biggest thing which I try and rein in when conversing on the forums, I use mun and like a lot!

Think I used it lastnight when a guy was messaging me on kik constantly and I was trying to watch wentworth prison, I messaged back saying "I'm trying to watch my programme mun!"

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By *SweetVioletx OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"mun"? Not heard that one before x

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

No I won't shag you !!! That one really grinds my gears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we mmmmmmm sometimes - not in a first message tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy day's!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmmm i mean come on, it sounds like a kid, and Nom nom, pleasssse

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exclamation marks at the end of every sentence! So annoying! Are they shouting?! Or excited! Or weird!

And

mmmmmm nom nom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With Platinum Membership you can actually send sounds and smells in PM's.

Judging from the dirtiest verifications thread yesterday I hope this is never brought in for them

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

Guilty as charged , Doh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""mun"? Not heard that one before x"

Think it might be a welsh thing then? Some examples of how I'd use it in a sentence...

C'mon mun, fucking hell mun, what you doing mun!

Any sound familiar? Actually think it may be a welsh thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my regular men calls me dear in messages. He's 19 years younger than me and sounds like an old man "

I can't abide being called dear, especially on here. The only person who ever got away with calling me dear without rebuke was my grandmother!!

Nom nom nom - can't stand it!!!

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By *SweetVioletx OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Guilty as charged , Doh!

Forgiven

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By *SweetVioletx OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

""mun"? Not heard that one before x

Think it might be a welsh thing then? Some examples of how I'd use it in a sentence...

C'mon mun, fucking hell mun, what you doing mun!

Any sound familiar? Actually think it may be a welsh thing! "

Makes total sense now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmmmm definitely puts me off!

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

"Guilty as charged , Doh!

Forgiven

Pheweeee.. forgiven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol and when they say "baby girl" especially from a young guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

us being called mummy and daddy wasnt too brill

and what that child wanted - well we put her on the naughty step hoping she will learn better ways

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