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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Help.

Arranged a meet. Bloke was nothing like pics so didn't invite him in.

Last three days having messages telling me what lights are on in my house.

who my mortgage is with

what time train I been catching

even to last message of why is there no father listed on your birth certificate.

im not concerned for my saftey as hes a desperate old perv but how would you approach this situation realistically

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'd report him to the site and to the police.

This is stalking and even if it doesn't upset you too much I doubt you're the first or will be the last.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Def get the police involved, he sounds like a right fruitcake! Like TD says above, you might not fear for your safety but you never know and speaking up could help others

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

And how on earth does he know who your mortgage is with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd report him to the site and to the police.

This is stalking and even if it doesn't upset you too much I doubt you're the first or will be the last."

Take this advice as you don't know what level of stalking he might escalate to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely the police. He can be charged with malicious/threatening communications and possibly even stalking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to go to the police

What a spiteful excuse for a man,hope you get it sorted

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Definitely the police. He can be charged with malicious/threatening communications and possibly even stalking."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its hideous as other messages are if you want me to stop make suggestions, you over my knee naughty boy.

so he knows he's wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its hideous as other messages are if you want me to stop make suggestions, you over my knee naughty boy.

so he knows he's wrong. "

Remember to keep all your messages as evidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its hideous as other messages are if you want me to stop make suggestions, you over my knee naughty boy.

so he knows he's wrong. "

Tell him you're getting advice from the police,then cut off all contact and ignore any further messages but save them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to the police. Being stalked and harassed is not funny, I know from experience!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I'd report him to the site and to the police.

This is stalking and even if it doesn't upset you too much I doubt you're the first or will be the last."

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